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nolabear

(41,999 posts)
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 06:33 PM Nov 2012

A DU Challenge: Name something you really believe in. Good value, worthwhile, enhancing, etc.

I got curious when I saw the thread on Zig Zigler's death. There was an immediate "con man" theme to the postings, and I understand the concerns (though I have in all honesty known people who have benefitted from such motivational material and don't see false claims in the material, except the lack of acknowledgement that people very often can't make use of what he and his cohort have to offer).

But I can think of very few posts on DU where people tout things that actually work, or make no false claims, or that have proven to be valuable additions to your lives. I wonder if it's much harder to speak positively for fear of exposing a vulnerable spot. It's far easier to be dismissive because your heart isn't laying out there in any way. So I'm wondering. What do you all like? What makes you happy?

I'll go first:

I hesitate to call myself anything, but I truly respect the tenets of Buddhism. I don't buy reincarnation but surrender is a wonderful thing and attachment to outcomes will mess you up.

Same for AA. Sometimes the particulars get strange but the ten steps are brilliant and I use them with therapy patients often.

Sodastream has changed my life.

Weight Watchers is insanely helpful. If you do it, it works.

Yoga and tai chi are awesome ways to improve your physical awareness and ease pain.

Richard Simmons (whom I know) is exactly as he appears, a thoroughly goofy man whose fitness program works and has no strings.

Public libraries are the best social experiment in the country. Imagine, free books and movies! And people take them back!


Okay, let's see if I've generated any interest in positives. I'd love to hear what floats your collective boats.





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A DU Challenge: Name something you really believe in. Good value, worthwhile, enhancing, etc. (Original Post) nolabear Nov 2012 OP
Howard Dean Panasonic Nov 2012 #1
Contra Dancing HERVEPA Nov 2012 #2
Union, as I say in my signature line, is my religion. Brickbat Nov 2012 #3
+1000000000 Illinoischick Nov 2012 #13
I have Sodastream, too. sadbear Nov 2012 #4
Can you put V8 in a Sodastream? savebigbird Nov 2012 #28
Hmmm.... sadbear Nov 2012 #37
EDUCATION savebigbird Nov 2012 #5
Yes. Brickbat Nov 2012 #7
Acquisition of knowledge Science Geek Nov 2012 #31
Amen. Have you noticed that the word "training" is increasingly replacing the word "education" woo me with science Nov 2012 #39
I miss kids getting a well-rounded, "old school" education. savebigbird Nov 2012 #41
Meditation; self-awareness; mindful living; voluntary simplicity. Speck Tater Nov 2012 #6
a few things...first, the Arts. whether music, movies, dance, painting - NRaleighLiberal Nov 2012 #8
Music. Books. LadyHawkAZ Nov 2012 #9
Marmite. dipsydoodle Nov 2012 #10
Seconded (nt) muriel_volestrangler Nov 2012 #42
Sex, a loving pet, the library, the computer, a warm fire riderinthestorm Nov 2012 #11
Are you single? OneGrassRoot Nov 2012 #22
Do you like Pina Coladas? And getting caught in the rain? riderinthestorm Nov 2012 #32
I believe in texshelters Nov 2012 #12
Good friends and family blueamy66 Nov 2012 #14
National Socialism Systemshock212 Nov 2012 #15
I like the US Post Office. nt kelliekat44 Nov 2012 #16
Good one! n/t savebigbird Nov 2012 #17
I like the basic, human thread running through all of these. Keep 'em coming! nolabear Nov 2012 #18
Constantly questioning everything I believe in...is something I believe in. n/t Mutant Replicant Nov 2012 #19
Great point! Welcome to DU! hrmjustin Nov 2012 #23
Excellent!!! And Welcome to DU!!! RKP5637 Nov 2012 #30
Or is it......??? kalli007 Nov 2012 #40
I love volunteer firefighters and EMTs! RepublicansRZombies Nov 2012 #20
The written word Aerows Nov 2012 #21
You and me both, Kiddo. Probably the single most defining factor in my life. nolabear Nov 2012 #25
I discovered several years ago that I'm related to Zig Ziglar... OneGrassRoot Nov 2012 #24
Makes sense that Zigler would have a lot of wind at his back. And that's one amazing library. nolabear Nov 2012 #27
ahh.... AA has TWELVE steps NMDemDist2 Nov 2012 #26
I believe in the awesome potential of One Grass Roots excellent website Wishadoo RepublicansRZombies Nov 2012 #29
Wow! OneGrassRoot Nov 2012 #47
Music, cats, books, chocolate, gardens, woods, lakes, beaches, The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2012 #33
Pie taterguy Nov 2012 #34
love, striving to fully self-actualize, easing others' burdens, and the Matrix Oracle. nt JudyM Nov 2012 #35
Yoga, fairies and meditation leftofcool Nov 2012 #36
Courage, humility and honesty. sibelian Nov 2012 #38
Grits Are_grits_groceries Nov 2012 #43
Positives marions ghost Nov 2012 #44
actual democracy, rather than oligarchy with elections of preselected candidates. HiPointDem Nov 2012 #45
Being generally kind to everyone. This is borrowed from a young girl I knew who passed away this ye. PATXgirl Nov 2012 #46
TRUTH Coyotl Nov 2012 #48

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
3. Union, as I say in my signature line, is my religion.
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 06:42 PM
Nov 2012

We don't go to church. We go to labor rallies.

We are grateful and honor the names of those who died to give us the contracts we now benefit from.

We celebrate the high holy day of May 1 and the moveable feast of Labor Day. We talk about major strikes on their anniversaries.

Our hymns are Woody Guthrie songs.

We believe in the power of people working together to improve their conditions.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
4. I have Sodastream, too.
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 06:44 PM
Nov 2012

But I can't rightfully say it has changed my life.

The only thing I can think of is Rhapsody, but even still, it's very incomplete and I can't listen to the Beatles, AC/DC, Led Zeppelin, Def Leppard, etc. on it.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
37. Hmmm....
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 10:48 PM
Nov 2012

Carbonated vegetable juice? That would be awesome, but I've never used anything but water.

I don't know....something tells me I would probably regret it.

Science Geek

(161 posts)
31. Acquisition of knowledge
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 09:38 PM
Nov 2012

Yes. Definitely. All kinds of knowledge. Everything from basic auto mechanics, plumbing, to chemistry and human psychology.

Nobody can ever take it away from you!

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
39. Amen. Have you noticed that the word "training" is increasingly replacing the word "education"
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 11:02 PM
Nov 2012

when people talk about what young people will be doing after high school.

I have noticed that word more and more, and the word "education" less and less.

 

Speck Tater

(10,618 posts)
6. Meditation; self-awareness; mindful living; voluntary simplicity.
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 06:45 PM
Nov 2012

Living simply so that others may simply live.




Oh, and chocolate.

NRaleighLiberal

(60,027 posts)
8. a few things...first, the Arts. whether music, movies, dance, painting -
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 06:56 PM
Nov 2012

and it is whatever works for you (so no limiting based on any of our own perceived values) - but just diving into the beauty, depth, creativity, transporting ability of great Arts.

Making something great to eat homemade that is often just store bought, jarred, etc - home made jam, home roasting coffee, home made bread or English Muffins, or scones - whatever. Enjoying the therapy of creation (and then of course enjoying it afterward).

Getting up close and personal and deep with pets - snuggling with your dog, playing with your cats, watching them interact. The tactile joy of running your hands through the fur of your cat's belly as it snuggles up against you, feeling the purr.

Those are just a few...could name many more as well!

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
9. Music. Books.
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 06:59 PM
Nov 2012

Egalitarianism /equality, and the strides we're making toward it.

Sex. Mustn't forget that one.

The Internet, and the way it's allowed humanity to connect with each other.

DU.

Grandparenthood, which has so far been grand indeed. Here, sit next to me and I'll show you my pictures of my granddaughter. I have lots- hey wait! Where are you going?

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
11. Sex, a loving pet, the library, the computer, a warm fire
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 07:03 PM
Nov 2012

A home cooked meal shared with great company.

There's a lot more but these are the ones that come to mind right away. Great thread by the way nolabear!

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
32. Do you like Pina Coladas? And getting caught in the rain?
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 09:38 PM
Nov 2012

"If you're not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
I'm the lady you've looked for, write to me, and escape."


Dammit, nope married 25 years but some days I DO allow my mind to wander....

texshelters

(1,979 posts)
12. I believe in
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 07:06 PM
Nov 2012

science and humanity. Not all individuals (or pols or "leaders&quot , but humanity.

Peace,
Tex Shelters

 
20. I love volunteer firefighters and EMTs!
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 08:36 PM
Nov 2012

I love Catholic Nuns who drive to DC to talk to Congress and the Nurses and Doctors who stand together to demand single payer health care. I love that group of young people that follows Congress members around with video cameras and asks them questions. I love the occupiers who stand together and make sure people are not kicked out of their homes. I love Colbert kicking the politicians and corporate media asses. I love Duers who have educated me and inspired me to speak out and often.

There are so many people on this planet doing awesome work, working for people, working for God and not money...and I believe this human spirit is growing, becoming more empowered than ever, and that after going two steps backward, this country is preparing for a huge jump forward, a renaissance in creativity and technology the world has never seen before. A time when we finally put our money, effort and intelligence into working for the good of all. It's going to be a beautiful thing....we deserve it. It's out turn.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
21. The written word
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 08:38 PM
Nov 2012

If I couldn't read, and if I couldn't write, I would be a detriment to society. That said, considering that I do both, I probably am to some elements of it, too, but reading and writing define me even more than science ever has.

nolabear

(41,999 posts)
25. You and me both, Kiddo. Probably the single most defining factor in my life.
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 09:31 PM
Nov 2012

I didn't put it up top because it's so personal, in the sense that it's hard to believe anyone wouldn't feel the same wa, but I know that's not always the case. I have not a doubt in the world that without reading and writing I would literally be dead.

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
24. I discovered several years ago that I'm related to Zig Ziglar...
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 08:59 PM
Nov 2012

I'm learning of his passing with your post, nolabear.

I obviously never met him; seems when he left the little town in Alabama in his youth, he chose to leave that part of his life behind.

Still, it was interesting to discover that he's a distant relative. I discovered this after I began developing Wishadoo. We share a goal of, hopefully, inspiring and empowering others, but we have completely different worldviews.

Anyway, as to your question, what do I believe in?

Wow, GOOD question.

Like you, I wholeheartedly believe in and adore public libraries. I want to be cremated and tucked into a corner of a library, preferably this one. Trinity Library, Dublin.




I also don't follow any particular religious or spiritual path. With a few exceptions, I believe that people are innately good; unfortunately, we have become ruled by fear, so the better angels of our nature are often hidden -- even hidden from ourselves -- with horrific consequences.

I believe in all of the things people like Glenn Beck and Limbaugh loathe and demean:

The Common Good; the power of Empathy and Compassion; the need for more cooperation, less cut-throat competition, including more worker-owned co-ops; and that we desperately need to rebuild/revamp our institutions and our society to incorporate integrity.

For the most part, I love social media. I think the Internet is the best invention since toilet paper. Had the Internet been available when I was in school, I would have been friggin BRILLIANT!!! (I'm a frustrated librarian/research geek at heart)


nolabear

(41,999 posts)
27. Makes sense that Zigler would have a lot of wind at his back. And that's one amazing library.
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 09:33 PM
Nov 2012

I don't know if I'd have been brilliant had the internet been around when I was younger. It's way too gratifying. I have to tear myself away.

 
29. I believe in the awesome potential of One Grass Roots excellent website Wishadoo
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 09:35 PM
Nov 2012

and I believe enough Duers will step foward to help this family because I have seen it before, and it is this exact type of thing that gives me hope for humanity.

CAN YOU HELP A DUer(s)? Yes, you can!!!
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10021893905

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
47. Wow!
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 08:45 AM
Nov 2012

I was perusing this most awesome thread by nolabear and got all weepy when I read your reply.

Thank you for sharing the link and for keeping the OP posted.

Much, much appreciated, along with the kind words and for believing in Wishadoo.

I just posted this graphic on Facebook; will share here, too.








sibelian

(7,804 posts)
38. Courage, humility and honesty.
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 10:52 PM
Nov 2012

Whenever I've managed them, they work. Mostly I'm crap at them. Particularly humility.

Are_grits_groceries

(17,111 posts)
43. Grits
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 07:38 AM
Nov 2012

but NEVER with sugar.

A side helping of really listening to others is a good bet.

(Is marmite made from Australian termites? It has that taste about it.)

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
44. Positives
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 07:54 AM
Nov 2012

People you don't know who smile

The full moon setting in the trees, casting long shadows at 5 am

Geese honking, flying south

Sitars

People enduring long lines to vote

Butterflies at the beach

People who give you a full five minutes

Colors

A handmade scarf from a niece

Talking to the electrician who voted Obama and would vote for Hillary

Apple Butter

Uncompromising, unbought environmentalists and scientists

Brave journalists

Arts supporters

Highway samaritans

Schoolteachers

Pine needles

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That's off the top of my head...at this rate could go on for hours.... Oh yeah, and the support group for surviving these gut-wrenching times known as DU

PATXgirl

(192 posts)
46. Being generally kind to everyone. This is borrowed from a young girl I knew who passed away this ye.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 08:05 AM
Nov 2012

Being kind costs you nothing and the return on investment is generally worth it.

The act of being kind to others, especially when they least deserve it, reveals more about your character than theirs.

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