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gopiscrap

(23,761 posts)
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 09:03 PM Dec 2012

I am so moved and honored

Quite a day. Not only was our congregation was able to have two of the first same sex weddings legally allowed in Washington State this afternoon, and I was able to preside at one of them. It was my very first time as a pastor to preside at a wedding. I don't know who was more excited and nervous, the couple or myself! But seriously was a joy and an honor. We thank both couples ofr allowing us to take part in their joy and also make history!!! As MLK Jr. once said: "the arc of the moral universe tends to bend towards justice!"

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I am so moved and honored (Original Post) gopiscrap Dec 2012 OP
Congratulations, you made history today. No wonder you are so happy. sabrina 1 Dec 2012 #1
What a wonderful thing! cbayer Dec 2012 #2
For many gays marriage doesnt bring them equality. DOMA still weighs heavy on federal workers. rhett o rick Dec 2012 #3
blah blah lemons, blah whinge, blah blah blah whine, complaint, wet blanket. Sheepshank Dec 2012 #14
you always on a downer?..... chillfactor Dec 2012 #21
I couldnt be happier that WE passed this law. Yes I supported and voted for it. It is a joyous rhett o rick Dec 2012 #24
Yeah, we know that. Downtown Hound Dec 2012 #29
I think your vilification is misplaced. I absolutely support this issue and in fact rhett o rick Dec 2012 #33
Congrats! CrazyOrangeCat Dec 2012 #4
Truly awesome. 99Forever Dec 2012 #5
What a wonderful thing! I'm proud of you. nolabear Dec 2012 #6
Congratulations, gopiscrap! What a great day! Suich Dec 2012 #7
Our daughter lives in Washington State. A pretty lovely place, if you ask me! calimary Dec 2012 #8
i am very proud of washington today JanT Dec 2012 #9
In addition to the amazing event for the couples and their families, your very first wedding as a LuckyLib Dec 2012 #10
Yes I have only been in a pastoral staff position gopiscrap Dec 2012 #13
Congrats to you and the couples. Terra Alta Dec 2012 #11
I can understand your joy! n/t crim son Dec 2012 #12
Congratulations, hopefully, next year in Colorado! mountain grammy Dec 2012 #15
SYNCHRONICITY! cilla4progress Dec 2012 #16
I was going to add, gopiscrap Dec 2012 #17
Congratulations on officiating at your first wedding, and for being part of history! yardwork Dec 2012 #18
how cool! BlancheSplanchnik Dec 2012 #19
Great! What a special event for all of you! I hope you'll have many more oportunities MindandSoul Dec 2012 #20
what a marvelous memory for you.... chillfactor Dec 2012 #22
How wonderful! longship Dec 2012 #23
K&R DeSwiss Dec 2012 #25
Congrats! hrmjustin Dec 2012 #26
Thanks for sharing. sellitman Dec 2012 #27
What a great story to start off the week! CrispyQ Dec 2012 #28
Woot! tavalon Dec 2012 #30
what denomination? grantcart Dec 2012 #31
United Methodist Church gopiscrap Dec 2012 #32
how exciting. barbtries Dec 2012 #34
I saw it and that was what I was worried about! gopiscrap Dec 2012 #36
Oh, how beautiful, Cha Dec 2012 #35
I kept expecting that someone would fire up a fat doobie 99th_Monkey Dec 2012 #37

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
2. What a wonderful thing!
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 09:05 PM
Dec 2012

Big congratulations to you and the couples. It must have been a truly joyful event for you.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
3. For many gays marriage doesnt bring them equality. DOMA still weighs heavy on federal workers.
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 09:06 PM
Dec 2012

The Pres boldly said he wouldnt enforce DOMA. Those were just words. He might not but his bureaucracy still does. Gay federal employees still can not include their spouses on their insurances.

DOMA needs to be overturned.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
14. blah blah lemons, blah whinge, blah blah blah whine, complaint, wet blanket.
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 10:46 PM
Dec 2012

you could easily have started your own thread on which to grandstand rather than try to hijack this awesome thread, it's feelings and it's positive message of hope.

chillfactor

(7,576 posts)
21. you always on a downer?.....
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 11:43 PM
Dec 2012

this is a joyous thread.....a great event that brought great joy to many.....good gawd......

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
24. I couldnt be happier that WE passed this law. Yes I supported and voted for it. It is a joyous
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 12:56 AM
Dec 2012

occasion for many and I am tickled to death. But the reality is that we still have a lot of work to do. I have some very close friends that still seek to overcome the burden of DOMA.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
29. Yeah, we know that.
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 12:43 PM
Dec 2012

Can you now allow people to feel good for just a little bit about what has been accomplished, or is that too much to ask?

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
33. I think your vilification is misplaced. I absolutely support this issue and in fact
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 01:50 PM
Dec 2012

made phone calls and voted for it. I celebrated when it passed and I appreciate your OP. This issue affects me very closely and that is why I am asking people to continue the push to repeal DOMA. I have close friends that are in a domestic partnership and they choose not to dissolve the partnership and get married but to let the partnership convert to marriage. Although this law is a major step it doesnt help them a lot. The IRS is restricted by DOMA as is the employer of one of the partners. We may have won a battle but the war rages on. Now is the time to contact Congress-criters to get DOMA repealed. If the SCOTUS supports DOMA it may be more difficult to over-turn.

I am sorry if anything I said gave the appearance that I wasnt happy about the passage of this bill.

nolabear

(41,963 posts)
6. What a wonderful thing! I'm proud of you.
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 09:10 PM
Dec 2012

As I said in another thread, we just had to drive by City Hall and see all the happy couples and families. It was a thing of joy.

Suich

(10,642 posts)
7. Congratulations, gopiscrap! What a great day!
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 09:13 PM
Dec 2012

I was just sitting here, teary-eyed, watching all the happy couples on the news!

calimary

(81,267 posts)
8. Our daughter lives in Washington State. A pretty lovely place, if you ask me!
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 09:38 PM
Dec 2012

And they've managed to hold that GOP jerk dino rossi at bay for years now. Wondering if he isn't like the perennial presidential nominee wannabes rand paul or harold stassen - repeatedly running for office. Never quite making it.

And on edit - congratulations on a WONDERFUL accomplishment! You're part of the forward movement, for sure!

JanT

(229 posts)
9. i am very proud of washington today
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 09:54 PM
Dec 2012

you are a part of history. thank you for being there to honor the happy couple. hopefully many more to come.

LuckyLib

(6,819 posts)
10. In addition to the amazing event for the couples and their families, your very first wedding as a
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 10:00 PM
Dec 2012

pastor is this wedding? What a story for your grandchildren! Congratulations!

gopiscrap

(23,761 posts)
13. Yes I have only been in a pastoral staff position
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 10:15 PM
Dec 2012

for couple of years and there is a senior pastor who usually does all the weddings. He did one today and had me do the other.

cilla4progress

(24,733 posts)
16. SYNCHRONICITY!
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 11:27 PM
Dec 2012

1) I too live in Washington
2) My boss and her partner will be having their own "same sex wedding" coming up at our UU Fellowship later in the month
3) That MLK quote was my "avatar" (quote) here for some time!

Yay! and congrats!

gopiscrap

(23,761 posts)
17. I was going to add,
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 11:27 PM
Dec 2012

we were worried that there might be some protesters, but nobody bothered us..it was a great afternoon!

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
19. how cool!
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 11:33 PM
Dec 2012

So impressive, too.

When I mention DU to my friends, I always mention how there are SO many great people here!

Smart, involved, compassionate, interested in issues that help--the world. Universe, even.... (thinking of n2doc's galaxy pics)

Congratulations to you on your big day and to the happy couple on theirs!!!!!!!!!!

MindandSoul

(1,817 posts)
20. Great! What a special event for all of you! I hope you'll have many more oportunities
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 11:38 PM
Dec 2012

to marry couples, both same and opposite sex couples!

chillfactor

(7,576 posts)
22. what a marvelous memory for you....
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 11:50 PM
Dec 2012

and what great an event to retell to future generations of your family....congratulations!

longship

(40,416 posts)
23. How wonderful!
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 12:22 AM
Dec 2012

I can imagine your feelings, your first marriage ceremony, no less. Thank you for sharing this.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
26. Congrats!
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 01:46 AM
Dec 2012

Here in NYC my Episcopal parish does gay weddings. We did them for a years before it was legal. I hope you do a ton more. God Bless!

sellitman

(11,606 posts)
27. Thanks for sharing.
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 08:34 AM
Dec 2012

Hopefully one day soon what you experienced won't even be an event unless you are in the Wedding itself.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
30. Woot!
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 12:47 PM
Dec 2012

We rock! You rock! Washington state rocks! I love having been one of the people who helped that happen.

barbtries

(28,794 posts)
34. how exciting.
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 04:57 PM
Dec 2012

if you've never seen 4 weddings and a funeral please watch just to see the pastor doing his first wedding. it's hysterical.

 

99th_Monkey

(19,326 posts)
37. I kept expecting that someone would fire up a fat doobie
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 07:06 PM
Dec 2012

Last edited Mon Dec 10, 2012, 11:58 PM - Edit history (1)

at the ceremony, and make it a 2fur.

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