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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI am so moved and honored
Quite a day. Not only was our congregation was able to have two of the first same sex weddings legally allowed in Washington State this afternoon, and I was able to preside at one of them. It was my very first time as a pastor to preside at a wedding. I don't know who was more excited and nervous, the couple or myself! But seriously was a joy and an honor. We thank both couples ofr allowing us to take part in their joy and also make history!!! As MLK Jr. once said: "the arc of the moral universe tends to bend towards justice!"
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)cbayer
(146,218 posts)Big congratulations to you and the couples. It must have been a truly joyful event for you.
rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)The Pres boldly said he wouldnt enforce DOMA. Those were just words. He might not but his bureaucracy still does. Gay federal employees still can not include their spouses on their insurances.
DOMA needs to be overturned.
Sheepshank
(12,504 posts)you could easily have started your own thread on which to grandstand rather than try to hijack this awesome thread, it's feelings and it's positive message of hope.
chillfactor
(7,576 posts)this is a joyous thread.....a great event that brought great joy to many.....good gawd......
rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)occasion for many and I am tickled to death. But the reality is that we still have a lot of work to do. I have some very close friends that still seek to overcome the burden of DOMA.
Downtown Hound
(12,618 posts)Can you now allow people to feel good for just a little bit about what has been accomplished, or is that too much to ask?
rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)made phone calls and voted for it. I celebrated when it passed and I appreciate your OP. This issue affects me very closely and that is why I am asking people to continue the push to repeal DOMA. I have close friends that are in a domestic partnership and they choose not to dissolve the partnership and get married but to let the partnership convert to marriage. Although this law is a major step it doesnt help them a lot. The IRS is restricted by DOMA as is the employer of one of the partners. We may have won a battle but the war rages on. Now is the time to contact Congress-criters to get DOMA repealed. If the SCOTUS supports DOMA it may be more difficult to over-turn.
I am sorry if anything I said gave the appearance that I wasnt happy about the passage of this bill.
CrazyOrangeCat
(6,112 posts)99Forever
(14,524 posts)You are now an important part of history. Very cool.
nolabear
(41,963 posts)As I said in another thread, we just had to drive by City Hall and see all the happy couples and families. It was a thing of joy.
Suich
(10,642 posts)I was just sitting here, teary-eyed, watching all the happy couples on the news!
calimary
(81,267 posts)And they've managed to hold that GOP jerk dino rossi at bay for years now. Wondering if he isn't like the perennial presidential nominee wannabes rand paul or harold stassen - repeatedly running for office. Never quite making it.
And on edit - congratulations on a WONDERFUL accomplishment! You're part of the forward movement, for sure!
JanT
(229 posts)you are a part of history. thank you for being there to honor the happy couple. hopefully many more to come.
LuckyLib
(6,819 posts)pastor is this wedding? What a story for your grandchildren! Congratulations!
gopiscrap
(23,761 posts)for couple of years and there is a senior pastor who usually does all the weddings. He did one today and had me do the other.
Terra Alta
(5,158 posts)It must have been a very joyous day for all.
crim son
(27,464 posts)mountain grammy
(26,621 posts)cilla4progress
(24,733 posts)1) I too live in Washington
2) My boss and her partner will be having their own "same sex wedding" coming up at our UU Fellowship later in the month
3) That MLK quote was my "avatar" (quote) here for some time!
Yay! and congrats!
gopiscrap
(23,761 posts)we were worried that there might be some protesters, but nobody bothered us..it was a great afternoon!
yardwork
(61,608 posts)BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)So impressive, too.
When I mention DU to my friends, I always mention how there are SO many great people here!
Smart, involved, compassionate, interested in issues that help--the world. Universe, even.... (thinking of n2doc's galaxy pics)
Congratulations to you on your big day and to the happy couple on theirs!!!!!!!!!!
MindandSoul
(1,817 posts)to marry couples, both same and opposite sex couples!
chillfactor
(7,576 posts)and what great an event to retell to future generations of your family....congratulations!
longship
(40,416 posts)I can imagine your feelings, your first marriage ceremony, no less. Thank you for sharing this.
DeSwiss
(27,137 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Here in NYC my Episcopal parish does gay weddings. We did them for a years before it was legal. I hope you do a ton more. God Bless!
sellitman
(11,606 posts)Hopefully one day soon what you experienced won't even be an event unless you are in the Wedding itself.
CrispyQ
(36,464 posts)tavalon
(27,985 posts)We rock! You rock! Washington state rocks! I love having been one of the people who helped that happen.
grantcart
(53,061 posts)gopiscrap
(23,761 posts)barbtries
(28,794 posts)if you've never seen 4 weddings and a funeral please watch just to see the pastor doing his first wedding. it's hysterical.
gopiscrap
(23,761 posts)Cha
(297,232 posts)gopiscrap!
99th_Monkey
(19,326 posts)Last edited Mon Dec 10, 2012, 11:58 PM - Edit history (1)
at the ceremony, and make it a 2fur.