6 Ways to Replace Violence With a Culture of Caring
http://www.alternet.org/news-amp-politics/6-ways-replace-violence-culture-caring
1. Beware of Media Traumatization
After I heard the news about the Newtown school tragedy, I decided to avoid the news media's inevitable, obsessive, insight-void replays of footage. Neuropsychological science has discovered that either seeing, or imagining actions directly impacts our neurology. Repetitive viewings of violent occurrences can install trauma triggers, even inducing nightmares and flashbacks typical of post-traumatic stress. While its important to follow trustworthy news sources to serve as a well-informed citizen, repeated viewings of violent scenes without any clear purpose engraves terror into the neurology of the populace. Theres a difference between getting the information you need and getting traumatized.
2. Steer Clear of All-Knowing Cops and Detectives
Changing channels to get to a viewing of Les Miserables , I heard a snippet of commentary in which a local police officer promised, "Don't worry we'll find out why this happened."
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3. Dont Apply Psychological Stigmata
In order to assuage the sorrow, dread, terror, and outrage evoked by this tragic incident, people rush to assign a "reason why," hoping that laying on a psychological or medical diagnosis or designating someone as "just evil" will protect oneself, or help make sense of an act that transgresses the boundaries of what we wish to believe about ourselves and our society.
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4. Face Up to a Violent Culture
Wanting simple answers so they can return to normal, people fail to ask whether "normal," as this society defines it, may in fact be part of the problem. Societal norms themselves combine to contribute to a culture of violence.