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abelenkpe

(9,933 posts)
Mon Dec 17, 2012, 03:00 PM Dec 2012

This 6-Year-Old Survivor's Story May Be the Most Intense from Newtown Yet

This 6-Year-Old Survivor's Story May Be the Most Intense from Newtown Yet

http://news.yahoo.com/6-old-survivors-story-may-most-intense-newtown-155540076.html

In the aftermath of Friday's Newtown school shooting, we've heard tales mostly horrifying and occasionally heroic, from surviving witnesses and mourning citizens alike, but this one lies somewhere in between, all the more unshakeable. One six-year-old Sandy Hook student played dead in her first-grade classroom, her family pastor said late Sunday, with the kind of quick thinking that ended up saving her life but now leaves her with the unshakeable memories of watching all her classmates being shot and killed. The name of the girl is not being revealed — we may have seen and heard too much from these poor kids on TV already — but ABC News's Lara Spencer reports the pastor's recounting: "Mom, I'm okay but all my friends are dead," she said.

(more at link)

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When I talked to my kids this weekend about the tragedy I asked my son what he would do if (god forbid) he was ever in such a situation. He told me without thinking he'd pretend to be dead. It shocked me. He didn't know of this girls story. How should kids react? Is there anything we can say or do to prepare them for such a thing?

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This 6-Year-Old Survivor's Story May Be the Most Intense from Newtown Yet (Original Post) abelenkpe Dec 2012 OP
Oh I think he was thinking. Schema Thing Dec 2012 #1
True I should give him more credit abelenkpe Dec 2012 #5
Have them 'play 'possum.' I spoke to my daughter this weekend about the shooting, and she msanthrope Dec 2012 #2
What a sweetheart! abelenkpe Dec 2012 #6
I hope the network newsies stay the hell away from that kid. Gidney N Cloyd Dec 2012 #3
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Dec 2012 #4
 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
2. Have them 'play 'possum.' I spoke to my daughter this weekend about the shooting, and she
Mon Dec 17, 2012, 03:07 PM
Dec 2012

mentioned playing dead, hitting the fire alarm, and jumping out the window as possible escapes.

I sat her down on Sunday and told her about the shooting. I treated it like a fire alarm....what do you do when you are in danger, and it's a bad idea to go near the source of the danger.

Thing is, she asked me what she should do to help people. I told her "stay alive" first. Help, like police and firemen would be on their way.

abelenkpe

(9,933 posts)
6. What a sweetheart!
Mon Dec 17, 2012, 04:27 PM
Dec 2012

I like your approach, treating it like a fire alarm. It is important to stay alive first. Can't help anyone if you don't do that. Thanks for your response!

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