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Ryan Lanza, Adam's older brother, worked at My Place for about two years during high school. Nancy was enough of a regular at the bar that the Tambascios Mark, his brother John, and their mother Louise say they'll dedicate a barstool in her honor. Nancy would occasionally bring Adam to My Place for dinner.
"He was very quiet and reserved," Mark Tambascio said. "Tough to communicate with. It wasn't like he couldn't speak. He didn't have a speech impediment. He was just a highly intelligent kid." Louise Tambascio, too, described Adam as the polar opposite of his older brother. Both boys were "very, very brilliant," but that's where the similarities ended.
"Ryan is outgoing, he socialized with the customers," Louise said. "Adam wouldn't socialize. He was different. He was shy. We knew he had a problem. He didn't want to talk. You couldn't have a conversation with him."
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"She took it up as a hobby about three years ago, target shooting," Mark Tambascio said. "She didn't talk much about it to me. Just, 'Oh, I went shooting today,' you know. Nothing else." He and his brother John insist she wouldn't have left her weapons unlocked or otherwise available for the taking. They said they weren't sure whether she ever invited her sons to a firing range. Hanoman said Nancy Lanza told him she introduced guns to Adam as a way to teach him responsibility.
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Ginger Colbrun, a spokeswoman for the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms, said it's still not clear whether Nancy Lanza brought her son to the range or whether he ever fired a weapon there.
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Those who knew Nancy Lanza recall her as very generous, often giving money to those she met and doing volunteer work. Mark Tambascio recalled the time Lanza invited him and his brother to attend a Boston Red Sox game, buying them tickets atop the outfield wall known as the Green Monster, and refusing any talk of repayment.
Public records show Nancy and Peter once jointly owned the house where Nancy's body was found on Friday, but Mark says Peter never lived there. The two were "definitely" not together when the Nancy and her sons arrived in Newtown some 17 years ago, he said.
http://www.nhregister.com/articles/2012/12/17/news/doc50cf5c873ff72366313235.txt?viewmode=fullstory
gollygee
(22,336 posts)Who knows. I just wish he weren't getting so much attention.
LisaL
(44,973 posts)Duh LOL
proud2BlibKansan
(96,793 posts)Seriously. I want to know why, how, who, when, and where. The more information the better.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)is what he was after. And other depressed young men who want to go out "with a bang" are watching and hoping they'll get a lot of attention.
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whathehell
(29,067 posts)You want to demonize her because she made a mistake?
A serious one, admittedly, but there's no reason to believe she
did it in bad faith. I doubt she wanted to raise a killer or BE killed
by her own weapons, so I'd say your Hitler analogy is a tad over the top.
bongbong
(5,436 posts)> I doubt she wanted to raise a killer or BE killed
Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition, either.
Guns are what allow a personal bone-headed action to turn into a national tragedy.
Demonizing her will help put things in perspective about the danger of having guns.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)and before you expect it to "help put things in perspective"
you might want to explain the meaning of
"Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition, either,"
It's completely incomprehensible.
SoCalDem
(103,856 posts)Peter =is the father, so wouldn't he have been "there" 17 years ago?
Early in the article it says that Peter left the family home...for her to live in...in 2008
Glimmer of Hope
(5,823 posts)HangOnKids
(4,291 posts)That would make Adam 3 at the time. Interesting, as the media keeps talking about the couple being divorced since 2008. I'm sure the story will get stranger as the truth unrolls.
HooptieWagon
(17,064 posts)such as work. Or could have been separated, but didn't file for divorce until several years later.
proud2BlibKansan
(96,793 posts)That doesn't compute.
Autumn Colors
(2,379 posts)He would have been allowed to wait or bus tables or work in the kitchen, but wouldn't be allowed to serve drinks. We had the same rules for employees younger than drinking age at Howard Johnson's when I worked there ..... a REALLY long time ago.
http://www.myplacepizza.com/
KharmaTrain
(31,706 posts)...a close friend of mine's family owned a bar. He grew up in the place...starting working there when he was in high school. He bussed tables and did everything BUT pour the drinks. Now he owns the bar...and has his son (whose well over 21) also working with him. Many taverns and bars are family businesses...
slackmaster
(60,567 posts)There is no federal law prohibiting it.
cali
(114,904 posts)Am I the only one who finds that surreal?
WI_DEM
(33,497 posts)dedicated a bar stool to her. Not that they are going to.
deutsey
(20,166 posts)People's memories of them are all over the place.
We'll probably never have the clarifying "Rosebud" moment where the mystery of who they were and why this happened is revealed.
I thought this was an odd new bit of information about the shooter:
Adam Lanza also was an organic vegan with a conservative worldview, he said.
He was actually politically aware for a teenager, he said.
He was always very free-market economics and capitalism, as I think most people are in this country.
http://openchannel.nbcnews.com/_news/2012/12/17/15976160-new-details-emerge-on-private-lives-of-school-gunman-adam-lanza-and-his-mother
gollygee
(22,336 posts)Libertarians annoy the heck out of me.
deutsey
(20,166 posts)llmart
(15,540 posts)that he rarely spoke or socialized. How the hell did they know all this then? He had a conservative view. He was an organic vegan. He was politically aware. How would you even know all that if he just sat there and couldn't converse or even make eye contact?
These stories are garbage. Could even be people who just want their 15 minutes of fame.
reformist2
(9,841 posts)As to the specifics - was he a "vegan"? Was he a "libertarian"? We just don't know.