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Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 12:38 AM Feb 2013

Waiting in lines....

I have this little "thing" that I do, from time to time.....while I'm waiting in lines.

Nah, it's nothing dirty. Sorry.

What I do is watch the people around me, particularly those in front of me, who are already being serviced in whatever line I'm in. Sometimes, you get a chance to make a difference in someone's life, while waiting in line.

Today, I was waiting in line at the license plate office, where you pay for your car tags. While I was in line, there was this older lady, sitting down in a chair, at the counter. Usually there are no chairs at these counters, because they are designed so that you walk up to them and pay your fees and get your tags for your car, and walk away. But this lady had to sit down; she had a cane, and I noticed that she had a really rough time trying to stand. She rocked out of a sitting position into a standing one, when she had to get up. She used the momentum of the rocking to get out of the chair. She really should have been in a wheelchair; it must have been agony to walk down the sidewalk and into the building and into the license office, and then back to her car.

Anyway, I noticed that she was the only one sitting down at the counter, and then I watched what was going on with her and the clerk. Apparently, she needed more money, to get her plates for her car than she had available on her ATM card. She only needed another $27.75, but when the clerk said this, the lady just put her head against the counter, in resignation. I could imagine her having to go through the whole process of getting up and getting back to the licence office again, when she had more money, to pay the whole fee. So, I piped up and said, "I'll take care of that for her, honey," and walked over and gave the clerk a fifty.

The clerk came over to me, as I was paying my own fees, and gave me my change from the fifty, and the lady who I had paid the fees for tried to get my address, and when that failed, she tried to get me to name a charity to give the money to, to pay me back. Then, as I was leaving, another gentleman, in work clothes, came up to me with a ten and tried to give it to me, to "cover some of the cost." I thanked them both, and declined, of course.

I am very rich, you see. Not rich in the sense of money, but rich in another sense.

You know what I mean.

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Waiting in lines.... (Original Post) Th1onein Feb 2013 OP
You are an angel riverbendviewgal Feb 2013 #1
Pay it Forward Angry Dragon Feb 2013 #2
That was wonderful of you MotherPetrie Feb 2013 #3
Not really. Th1onein Feb 2013 #5
My mother was a lot like she sounds. Used a cane, then a wheelchair. Tasks most people don't think MotherPetrie Feb 2013 #7
That, Th1onein, just got you another heart! sheshe2 Feb 2013 #4
Sheshe2! Th1onein Feb 2013 #6
I am now. Weathered a whole load of heartache with an accident in the family. sheshe2 Feb 2013 #8
Glad to hear it, sheshe2! Th1onein Feb 2013 #9
Thank you for helping her. ohheckyeah Feb 2013 #10
You are wealthy beyond the riches of kings. Scuba Feb 2013 #11
that is the way to do it otherone Feb 2013 #12
Well done. nt. OldDem2012 Feb 2013 #13
I like the cut of your jib Fumesucker Feb 2013 #14
I am rich in the same sense you are. Delphinus Feb 2013 #15

riverbendviewgal

(4,253 posts)
1. You are an angel
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 12:45 AM
Feb 2013

and you inspired people in that license office. Many will remember you and perhaps they will also help someone else too.

You earned your halo today.

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
5. Not really.
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 01:51 AM
Feb 2013

You know, that $27 meant very little to me. I spend that on snacks. But, to that lady, it meant a lot. It was a bargain for me.

 

MotherPetrie

(3,145 posts)
7. My mother was a lot like she sounds. Used a cane, then a wheelchair. Tasks most people don't think
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 02:08 AM
Feb 2013

twice about performing were extremely frustrating (and eventually impossible) for her. Just having someone notice her situation and save her some steps was worth more than gold and I'm sure it was to that woman too.

sheshe2

(83,791 posts)
4. That, Th1onein, just got you another heart!
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 01:51 AM
Feb 2013
I am very rich, you see. Not rich in the sense of money, but rich in another sense.


I do know what you mean!

Thank you,
sheshe2

sheshe2

(83,791 posts)
8. I am now. Weathered a whole load of heartache with an accident in the family.
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 02:16 AM
Feb 2013

It is finally over. They are now doing well now.

I am such a baby here. My four month anniversary was yesterday!
After a rocky start...LOL.. things are great here.

Hope you are well.

Your compassion to the little lady in line was so very sweet.

Thank you, Th1onein!

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
9. Glad to hear it, sheshe2!
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 02:43 AM
Feb 2013

I'm doing well, too. About to pay a surprise visit to my daughter and granddaughter. That's always fun!

Delphinus

(11,831 posts)
15. I am rich in the same sense you are.
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 08:37 AM
Feb 2013

Thank you for sharing this wonderful experience! It's perfect for today, Valentine's Day.

Thank you for being you.

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