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Are_grits_groceries

(17,111 posts)
Wed Aug 21, 2013, 09:33 AM Aug 2013

A School Clerk persuaded Gunman To Lay Down Weapons

Tuesday's terrifying incident at an elementary school near Atlanta — in which a gunman with an assault rifle and other weapons entered the building — ended with no one being hurt after a school clerk apparently spent about an hour talking to the young man. She says she persuaded him to put his gun down and surrender.

"I just started praying for him," Antoinette Tuff tells Atlanta's Channel 2 Action News. "I just started talking to him ... and let him know what was going on with me and that it would be OK. And then let him know that he could just give himself up. ... I told him to put [the guns] on the table, empty his pockets. He had me actually get on the intercom and tell everybody he was sorry too. But I told them, 'He was sorry, but do not come out of their rooms.' ... I give it all to God, I'm not the hero. I was terrified."

In an interview with ABC-TV's World News with Diane Sawyer, Tuff says

"[I saw] a young man ready to kill anybody that he could and take any lives he wanted to." According to ABC:

"The school clerk said she tried to keep the assailant calm by asking him his name but, she said, at first he wouldn't tell it to her. Then, he began listening to her tell her life story. She said she told him about how her marriage fell apart after 33 years and the 'roller coaster' of opening her own business."

Tuff says she told 20-year-old Michael Brandon Hill that "OK, we all have situations in our lives. I went through a tragedy myself."
Then, ABC writes, "Tuff made the request that she said helped end the standoff. She said she asked the suspect to put his weapons down, empty his pockets and backpack and lay on the floor. 'I told the police he was giving himself up. I just talked him through it,' she said."

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http://www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2013/08/21/214085753/school-clerk-in-georgia-persuaded-gunman-to-lay-down-weapons

I shudder to think what could have happened without her.
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NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
4. If you are ever faced with a gun, start talking, make yourself a person and not just a body
Wed Aug 21, 2013, 09:43 AM
Aug 2013

I've read several times of people who get out of hostage or shooting situations by talking to the shooter. It's harder for a gunman to kill someone who has been nice to them or has laid out their life story. Eye contact can save your life. In Atlanta several years ago, a man escaped from custody and found himself taking a hostage in a nearby apartment complex. The woman made him breakfast, gave him a couple of beers, and talked to the guy. He conversed back and forth and ultimately let her go and turned himself in.

Kber

(5,043 posts)
5. Violence feeds on dehumanizing the victims
Wed Aug 21, 2013, 09:47 AM
Aug 2013

and she succeeded in making him recognize her humanity. There's a larger lesson here.

Well done.

ecstatic

(32,707 posts)
9. Scary and infuriating
Wed Aug 21, 2013, 10:47 AM
Aug 2013

My day has officially been ruined. I'm really glad that nobody was hurt or killed, but at the same time, these incidents are emotionally devastating. It's infuriating to think that unstable, assault rifle toting individuals are now bringing elementary school kids into their sick GBCW fantasies.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
11. True, but on a positive note...
Wed Aug 21, 2013, 10:54 AM
Aug 2013

in addition to no one being hurt, the police, the school admin & staff, and the parents all followed the plans set in place for incidents like this. I think that's remarkable.

I HATE that we have to have plans for such but welcome to 2013.

 

HardTimes99

(2,049 posts)
10. Atlanta clearly knows something about non-violent conflict resolution the rest of
Wed Aug 21, 2013, 10:54 AM
Aug 2013

the country (world?) could profit from.

I'm thinking of the 2005 case of Brian Nichols-Ashley Smith story, wherein Ms. Smith talked at length with Nichols and he eventually allowed her to leave, upon which she called police.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brian_Nichols#Capture

Myself, I think it's the proximity to the King Center. But that's just a guess as to what's in the Atlanta water.

ljm2002

(10,751 posts)
12. Wow, good for her!
Wed Aug 21, 2013, 11:28 AM
Aug 2013

What an amazing display of courage and calm in the face of danger.

She deserves some kind of reward, besides the karma points she just racked up. Impressive.

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