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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 08:47 PM Sep 2013

blind man drops $20. women takes it and won't give it back. WTF!


Dairy Queen Manager's Class Act Wins Praise
He stands up for blind man, forks over own money


(Newser) – A teenage Dairy Queen manager in Hopkins, Minnesota, qualifies as the new poster boy for basic human decency. Joey Prusak, 19, was serving a blind customer when the man dropped a $20 bill without knowing it, reports WCCO-TV. The woman in line behind him quickly picked it up and ... tucked it in her purse. Prusak asked her to give it back, she refused, and the teen eventually kicked her out: “I told her, ‘Ma’am, you can either return the $20 bill or you can leave the store, because I’m not going to serve someone as disrespectful as you.'" She left, and then came the kicker: Prusak went over to the table of the blind man and gave him $20 out of his own pocket.

"I was just doing what I thought was right," Prusak tells AP. "I did it without even really thinking about it." The story is getting attention only because a customer who saw what happened emailed the store to praise Prusak's actions. The owner posted it on the employee cork board, a fellow worker snapped a photo and posted it on Facebook, and it's been going viral ever since. Prusak even got a call from none other than Warren Buffett, whose Berkshire Hathaway company owns Dairy Queen. "He called and thanked me for being a role model for all the other employees and people in general," says Prusak. As for all the big tips he's been getting as a result of the publicity, that money's going to charity.


http://www.newser.com/story/174550/dairy-queen-managers-class-act-wins-praise.html?utm_source=part&utm_medium=united&utm_campaign=rss_top
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blind man drops $20. women takes it and won't give it back. WTF! (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA Sep 2013 OP
What he did was very nice but he should have called malaise Sep 2013 #1
Quite the contrast to Glen James, homeless angel who returned $40,000 he found in a backpack. NYC_SKP Sep 2013 #2
Every day we see decent people doing the right thing malaise Sep 2013 #7
Or shitbag repuliCON congress critters trying to cut food stamps madokie Sep 2013 #12
madokie I am so angry about that vote today that malaise Sep 2013 #13
If it wasn't for madokie Sep 2013 #16
What's frightening is that some of the people they fugged royally today malaise Sep 2013 #17
Exactly madokie Sep 2013 #18
and those who didn't vote cuz they're angry at PBO. BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2013 #54
Stealing from a blind person is a new low Aerows Sep 2013 #40
Yes that really is a new low malaise Sep 2013 #44
Mine, too Aerows Sep 2013 #58
$40,000.00 - not $4,000.00... n/t whopis01 Sep 2013 #25
Holy Cow! I fixed it. NYC_SKP Sep 2013 #26
thanks for posting this. going in to read it Liberal_in_LA Sep 2013 #32
Awesome story, NYC_SKP! Plus one! Enthusiast Sep 2013 #38
These days you never know what calling the police might cause. TexasProgresive Sep 2013 #19
You have a point malaise Sep 2013 #20
the young manager would maybe step out toward them when they arrived to fill them in on the trouble lunasun Sep 2013 #29
"wish they would facebook that and out her face to the town." CrispyQ Sep 2013 #60
Shudder Tigress DEM Sep 2013 #37
Yeah. The blind man might make the wrong gestures toward the cops. Enthusiast Sep 2013 #39
And if it was in Iowa, he might be armed KamaAina Sep 2013 #61
I believe you are correct. vduhr Sep 2013 #65
in cali Niceguy1 Sep 2013 #78
If this was Wal-Mart I'm sure they'd find a reason to fire the kid for doing that n/t yodermon Sep 2013 #3
I dropped a $20 bill at Wal-Mart earlier this year Art_from_Ark Sep 2013 #10
Good for him Boom Sound 416 Sep 2013 #4
Hopkins, MN, home of Mystery Science Theatre 3000 elehhhhna Sep 2013 #5
+3000 Blue_Tires Sep 2013 #51
awesome Precisely Sep 2013 #6
woman sounds like a model republican to me. rurallib Sep 2013 #8
There's the right thing to do and the Right thing to do. Barack_America Sep 2013 #15
+1 dflprincess Sep 2013 #21
+2 It's a shame mimi85 Sep 2013 #27
+1 sakabatou Sep 2013 #33
Isn't stealing from the blind consistent with Objectivism? Alkene Sep 2013 #45
Lol well played grantcart Sep 2013 #72
Yeah! And when she left, she probably said, beerandjesus Sep 2013 #49
Love to hear positive stories about young people. senseandsensibility Sep 2013 #9
That's not Minnesota nice. BainsBane Sep 2013 #11
what a wonderful guy...the woman was a shit head! gopiscrap Sep 2013 #14
I have a similar story to share... TRoN33 Sep 2013 #22
What a great story, TRoN33! calimary Sep 2013 #34
great story Liberal_in_LA Sep 2013 #35
your mom must have been SO happy and proud! renate Sep 2013 #55
Buffet should give him a reward tblue Sep 2013 #23
How did the woman who stole the man's money not end up in jail, is it only illegal to steal from ... Snake Plissken Sep 2013 #24
That was the first thing I wondered TorchTheWitch Sep 2013 #42
In most places a call to the police over the theft of $20 will not be a high priority. If they did totodeinhere Sep 2013 #48
Good point. Eric J in MN Sep 2013 #52
I wonder if Joey would have voted for defacto7 Sep 2013 #28
Very nice of him. And also of the customer who emailed about it. cui bono Sep 2013 #30
It's what you do when people aren't watching that speaks volumes rl6214 Sep 2013 #31
spy cameras are always around TorchTheWitch Sep 2013 #43
Oh, you're absolutely tight rl6214 Sep 2013 #71
... Cha Sep 2013 #36
For some reason, I can't get this mental image out of my head: Warren DeMontague Sep 2013 #41
why drag steve buscemi into this? frylock Sep 2013 #68
*** Warren DeMontague Sep 2013 #69
Now that's a great kid. HappyMe Sep 2013 #46
Aw Dorian Gray Sep 2013 #47
evil balanced by good. heaven05 Sep 2013 #50
Good guy, but that piece of garbage thief needs to be behind bars. Daniel537 Sep 2013 #53
Great kid! bigwillq Sep 2013 #56
Cheers to this kid! joeybee12 Sep 2013 #57
Thi is a great man; colorado_ufo Sep 2013 #59
USA drops 16 trillion. Banks take it and won't give it back! LOL! grahamhgreen Sep 2013 #62
In spite of my disdain of humanity in general, I know we are better than I give us credit for. Half-Century Man Sep 2013 #63
Next time call the police on the lady TeamPooka Sep 2013 #64
k&r yuiyoshida Sep 2013 #66
I love that kid! k&r polichick Sep 2013 #67
Saw the story on GMA this morning. Great kid!! sinkingfeeling Sep 2013 #70
You can be a manager of a Dairy Queen at age 19? oberliner Sep 2013 #73
Another Link With A Little More Detail DallasNE Sep 2013 #74
I dropped $80 at the grocery store and this guy picks it up. callous taoboy Sep 2013 #75
that sucks Liberal_in_LA Sep 2013 #79
A hopital I've gone to has a blind cashier in the cafeteria. David__77 Sep 2013 #76
Isn't that theft? That said kudos to the young manager. nt snagglepuss Sep 2013 #77

malaise

(269,022 posts)
1. What he did was very nice but he should have called
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 08:50 PM
Sep 2013

the police - that woman is a criminal - that was theft.

What have we become as human - good effin' grief.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
2. Quite the contrast to Glen James, homeless angel who returned $40,000 he found in a backpack.
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 08:55 PM
Sep 2013

Last edited Thu Sep 19, 2013, 10:58 PM - Edit history (1)

How nice that he was rewarded!

Donations escalate for Glen James, honest homeless man who returned backpack with cash

By Melissa Hanson, Globe Correspondent

One good deed inspires another, it appears.

After Glen James, a homeless Boston man, returned a backpack full of about $40,000 in cash and travelers checks to its owner, a fund-raiser for the good Samaritan, with a goal of raising $50,000, was set up by a Midlothian, Va., man who has never been to Boston.

In under 24 hours, the “GoFundMe” website, made by Ethan Whittington, 27, raised more than $20,000.
Glen James (Matthew J. Lee/Globe Staff)

“It started with wanting to help a someone in a small way, and now we can help them in a large way,” said Whittington, who found James’s story on the Internet yesterday. He set up the account around 3 or 4 p.m. After tweeting the link to the page a few times, Whittington said the donations started pouring in. He decided that because James returned $40,000, he deserved $50,000




- See more at: http://www.boston.com/metrodesk/2013/09/17/donations-escalate-for-glen-james-honest-homeless-man-who-returned-backpack-with-cash/Ihep71DHA7plR9t7l6RRHI/story.html#sthash.4xNg0IWU.dpuf

malaise

(269,022 posts)
7. Every day we see decent people doing the right thing
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 09:18 PM
Sep 2013

and most of the time they are people who could most use the loot they find,,and then there are heartless scumbags like that woman.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
16. If it wasn't for
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 09:39 PM
Sep 2013

the people throwing their votes away because of gays, guns and abortions we'd not have any pukes in office today. Despicable assholes, both those who vote for them and the pukes too.
I really have no use for either. At one time in my life I could look past a persons political leanings but not anymore.

malaise

(269,022 posts)
17. What's frightening is that some of the people they fugged royally today
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 09:41 PM
Sep 2013

will vote for them net year.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
54. and those who didn't vote cuz they're angry at PBO.
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 11:33 AM
Sep 2013

And dems who just "werent sure" (thank you CorporateNewsfotainment)

This culture is visibly split between ethical and animalistic.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
40. Stealing from a blind person is a new low
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 03:52 AM
Sep 2013

I can't even imagine how heartless you would have to be to do that.

TexasProgresive

(12,157 posts)
19. These days you never know what calling the police might cause.
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 09:49 PM
Sep 2013

The might arrest the woman or they might feel threatened by the blind man and pump 47 rounds of 9mm into him.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
29. the young manager would maybe step out toward them when they arrived to fill them in on the trouble
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 11:48 PM
Sep 2013

but could be perceived as a threat by the police also!
he did OK on his own and that lady is scum- did she show up on a security camera?-wish they would facebook that and out her face to the town.

CrispyQ

(36,470 posts)
60. "wish they would facebook that and out her face to the town."
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 01:03 PM
Sep 2013

Me too. Behavior like that needs to be shamed. I wonder if other customers witnessed this? I would have started chanting, "Give it back! Give it back!"

Kudos to the young man for calling her out. And a special shout out for making it up out of his own pocket.

Enthusiast

(50,983 posts)
39. Yeah. The blind man might make the wrong gestures toward the cops.
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 03:18 AM
Sep 2013

They might interpret the gestures as threatening.

vduhr

(603 posts)
65. I believe you are correct.
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 02:10 PM
Sep 2013

I think that, when you find money and you know who it belongs to and you don't return it, it IS theft, i.e. you saw the person drop it, or it's in a wallet with identification, a bag with the banks name on it, an envelop with a name or business, etc.

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
10. I dropped a $20 bill at Wal-Mart earlier this year
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 09:24 PM
Sep 2013

I was halfway to the exit when someone said "Hey, you're dropping some money!". I looked around and found 3 dollar bills, but couldn't find the $20 that I had received in change. So I went back to the cashier, and learned that a lady had found the $20 and had given it to the cashier, who then returned it to me

 

Boom Sound 416

(4,185 posts)
4. Good for him
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 09:03 PM
Sep 2013

Charity idea is great, but he's earned the right to take the first $20.

It so great when we're given the opportunity to do the right thing in an impersonal situation.

On edit:

It would be nice to see warren open the wallet and match what's raised.

Alkene

(752 posts)
45. Isn't stealing from the blind consistent with Objectivism?
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 07:16 AM
Sep 2013

I need to ask because I find myself intentionally ignorant of an amateur philosophy embracing the virtues of flinty-hearted greed and self-promotion.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
72. Lol well played
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 04:38 PM
Sep 2013

I would guess the answer depends on who lost and who found the $ 20.



"In the real world, however, Rand herself received Social Security payments and Medicare benefits under the name of Ann O'Connor (her husband was Frank O'Connor).

As Michael Ford of Xavier University's Center for the Study of the American Dream wrote, “In the end, Miss Rand was a hypocrite but she could never be faulted for failing to act in her own self-interest.”



senseandsensibility

(17,056 posts)
9. Love to hear positive stories about young people.
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 09:24 PM
Sep 2013

And, on that note, I just saw a teenager at a restaurant where I dined tonight sitting alone in a booth. As I was being seated, I walked by and saw him poring over his binder paper in a three ring notebook. He was studying meticulously handwritten Math notes. I think he was waiting for his mom (a waitress) to get off work, because he never ordered anything. He kept studying for the hour or so that we were there. The notes looked like calligraphy, and call me old fashioned, but it made me happy that kids still take notes by hand like that.

gopiscrap

(23,761 posts)
14. what a wonderful guy...the woman was a shit head!
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 09:36 PM
Sep 2013

and that's also petty theft by the way and in some courts there is an enhancement if conviction becuase the victim was a vulnerable individual.

 

TRoN33

(769 posts)
22. I have a similar story to share...
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 10:27 PM
Sep 2013

When I was around 20 years old, that night I was going on way to become dead broke yet I went on ahead to rent a movie and bought Tombstone supreme pizza along with Kemp 1% chocolate milk. After purchase the goods, I found $20 on the floor. When I picked it up, I never hesitate to give it to the store clerk. She took it and put it on the counter behind her. Here a kicker; a guy beside me told me to go ahead and keep it. I never did. Now here the real kicker, my mom later told me that store clerk said a guy came back in, very broke father of few kids, frantically asking for 20 he lost earlier. She recognized him from earlier that evening and gave it back to him. My mom know this guy and she said that he is very carefully budgeted person and couldn't survive without that $20. My mom gave me a hug and said that she is proud that she raised me right. She called me Honest Abe that night. I never looked back or having any second thought.

Wanna know the awesome part? I'm Minnesotan also, proud to uphold the reputation of Minnesotan Nice and its happened in my childhood hometown New London, MN.

calimary

(81,298 posts)
34. What a great story, TRoN33!
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 12:50 AM
Sep 2013

Thank you - and thank you for sharing it. I LOVE these things when they have happy endings! Happy endings for the deserving. Which is as it should be.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
23. Buffet should give him a reward
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 10:32 PM
Sep 2013

and give the blind man free meals for a year or two. They want him to keep coming there.

But that is a lovely story. Really makes my day!

Snake Plissken

(4,103 posts)
24. How did the woman who stole the man's money not end up in jail, is it only illegal to steal from ...
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 10:32 PM
Sep 2013

is it only illegal to steal from corporations? If you found an item worth $20 on the floor in Walmart and placed in your pocket then walk out the store, you'd see more jail time than Tom Delay did.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
42. That was the first thing I wondered
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 05:12 AM
Sep 2013

That kid should have called the police. What that woman did was outright theft, and she should have been arrested. Though the kid was certainly more than generous in giving the man $20 out of his own pocket technically what he did was not correct. Rather than throwing the woman out of the store he should have at least threatened her that he was going to call the police for her stealing the man's money (and had he done so she likely would have given it back) and if she didn't give it back then call the police. You don't let a customer steal from another one without getting police involved and allow the thief to just walk out the door.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
48. In most places a call to the police over the theft of $20 will not be a high priority. If they did
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 07:59 AM
Sep 2013

call the police by the time the police arrived the woman probably would have been long gone.

Eric J in MN

(35,619 posts)
52. Good point.
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 11:00 AM
Sep 2013

If he called the cops, would he also try to prevent the woman from leaving? If he did, it would then be his word against hers, and she could accuse him of unlawfully detaining her.

I think he did the right thing by not involving the police.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
28. I wonder if Joey would have voted for
Thu Sep 19, 2013, 11:41 PM
Sep 2013

the "Nutrition Reform and Work Opportunity Act" ?

I sincerely doubt it.

Good job Joey!

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
30. Very nice of him. And also of the customer who emailed about it.
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 12:02 AM
Sep 2013

That's why I try to make it a point to let managers/bosses know when their employees did an exceptional job. I've done it many times. I don't know the results of it, but I like to let it be known when someone does a great job and is especially helpful.

 

rl6214

(8,142 posts)
31. It's what you do when people aren't watching that speaks volumes
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 12:17 AM
Sep 2013

No one would have known if the other customer hadn't seen and told the story.

I was shopping at Kmart today and came across a wallet in a cart at he cart return area. If I wasn't raised right I would have stuck it in my pocket and been on my way. I did the right thing though even though no one was around and took it to the service desk.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
43. spy cameras are always around
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 05:17 AM
Sep 2013

Don't think it wouldn't be known that you stole the wallet (if you did) just because no one saw you do it. If the person with the missing wallet had gone back to the store security would have checked their footage including the parking lot and likely been able to peg you. Stupid thieves always seem to forget about the security cameras and get nailed by them all the time.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
46. Now that's a great kid.
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 07:28 AM
Sep 2013


Stealing from a blind guy is about the lowest thing you can do. Do a shitty thing, and shitty things come back to you.
 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
50. evil balanced by good.
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 10:26 AM
Sep 2013

great for cosmic karma. Great for Joey's karma. It helps to have good people on the case. Gives me a little, ittty bitty hope that we'll muddle through.

 

Daniel537

(1,560 posts)
53. Good guy, but that piece of garbage thief needs to be behind bars.
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 11:10 AM
Sep 2013

I hope there was a camera in there that caught that pigs mug.

Half-Century Man

(5,279 posts)
63. In spite of my disdain of humanity in general, I know we are better than I give us credit for.
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 01:33 PM
Sep 2013

I dwell on the negative too much. So, when events like this come into the light, I am delighted.
Praise the young man, ignore the morally broken woman, thank the alerting customer, and remember this as the example for correct social interaction.

callous taoboy

(4,585 posts)
75. I dropped $80 at the grocery store and this guy picks it up.
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 06:05 PM
Sep 2013

I had just gotten that $80 as a tip from driving a limo wine tour with a demanding group, was at the store picking up dinner. The money was in a shirt pocket with my phone. Phone rings, must've pulled the dough out with my phone. I answer and turn away from the guy slowly approaching with his cart to the spot where I had answered the phone. It's a 30 second phone call, put phone in pocket, money gone! Shit! The guy with the cart is out of there. I look everywhere; under the shelves, on the shelves, every pocket five times.

That stung for a bit, realizing that guy got my dough, but then I hope he really needed it. It was dishonest, but maybe the dude really needed it. Oh well. Got a decent tip the next weekend.

That is a really heart-warming story about Mr. Prusak, though. What a damned decent fellow.

David__77

(23,418 posts)
76. A hopital I've gone to has a blind cashier in the cafeteria.
Fri Sep 20, 2013, 06:29 PM
Sep 2013

And when you hand a bill to him, he simply asks when type of bill it is, and then gives you the change. Someone could easily lie, but I simply cannot imagine anyone doing it.

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