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Eugene

(61,900 posts)
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 08:59 AM Oct 2013

'Revenge porn' outlawed in California

Source: Associated Press

'Revenge porn' outlawed in California

Associated Press in Sacramento
theguardian.com, Wednesday 2 October 2013 03.34 BST

California governor Jerry Brown has signed a bill outlawing so-called revenge porn and levying possible jail time for people who post naked photos of their former partners.

The bill, which takes effect immediately, makes it a misdemeanour to post identifiable nude pictures of someone else online without permission with the intent to cause emotional distress or humiliation. The penalty is up to six months in jail and a $1,000 (£620) fine.

"Until now, there was no tool for law enforcement to protect victims," the bill's author, senator Anthony Cannella, said in a statement. "Too many have had their lives upended because of an action of another that they trusted."

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Read more: http://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/oct/02/revenge-porn-outlawed-california
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'Revenge porn' outlawed in California (Original Post) Eugene Oct 2013 OP
Good MattBaggins Oct 2013 #1
Thumbs up! Heidi Oct 2013 #2
Good. That has nothing to do with free speech. nt bemildred Oct 2013 #3
Yes, Anthony Weiner never intended those pictures to be public jberryhill Oct 2013 #4
About time fitman Oct 2013 #5
and you as a grown man, setting an example, tell these boys it makes them a POS seabeyond Oct 2013 #6
I tell them how it was when I was growing up in the 70's and early 80's fitman Oct 2013 #7
thank you for taking the time with these boys. i raised two. my husband is right there with you seabeyond Oct 2013 #9
LOL Skittles Oct 2013 #147
NO where near as common as today. fitman Oct 2013 #161
as long as they don't outlaw Pity Sex, I'll be ok NightWatcher Oct 2013 #8
LOL lillypaddle Oct 2013 #11
I'm married..what is sex? fitman Oct 2013 #14
I'm married and the only sex I get is doggie style NightWatcher Oct 2013 #15
My wife and I have nothing... Whiskeytide Oct 2013 #17
There is the ever-popular "rimshot" graphic Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #25
You're welcome rocktivity Oct 2013 #26
We have one. dogknob Oct 2013 #94
o yuk, you must be a real pistol in bed. Whisp Oct 2013 #61
Rusty, prone to jamming, and barred from upscale establishments? Scootaloo Oct 2013 #151
Snub-nose? Fla_Democrat Oct 2013 #164
there's something about load and discharge there too Whisp Oct 2013 #168
what an explosive retort Supersedeas Oct 2013 #167
wow, a little subthread of the husbands sexist little joke at the wifes expense. really, if none seabeyond Oct 2013 #18
Keep it balanced. Both sexes are guilty of this and showing "revenge pics" inch4progress Oct 2013 #20
i see three husbands being disrespectful to their wives. and you are demanding i be balanced. seabeyond Oct 2013 #22
I see men making fun of themselves, and joking about their relationships inch4progress Oct 2013 #27
yes. the poor besotted man that doesnt get it any more cause he married is not a diss seabeyond Oct 2013 #34
Oh, good Lord... sibelian Oct 2013 #92
you want me to feel bad, pointing out sexism on du. not gonna happen. ignore is your friend. seabeyond Oct 2013 #166
No its not? He has the right to vent, Its healthy and normal as long as he isn't being abusive. inch4progress Oct 2013 #100
your profile says peter, male and does not go with your post. and i gotta ask, who are you? seabeyond Oct 2013 #103
I'm gay. inch4progress Oct 2013 #107
thank you. seabeyond Oct 2013 #108
Naturally, you deserved it considering the context. I Shudda mentioned it in early post or profile. inch4progress Oct 2013 #109
Humor is usually exaggeration built upon a foundation of truth. AtheistCrusader Oct 2013 #43
I don't see it as disrespectul. It becomes disrespectful when they quit using humor or worse inch4progress Oct 2013 #101
do you contend that racial jokes too, are "pretty harmless?"? LanternWaste Oct 2013 #118
Yes, a joke about marital sex is the exact same thing as a racist one. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #120
Would you joke about your wife's sexual practices online? BainsBane Oct 2013 #131
My wife is many things, but humor-impaired isn't one of them. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #136
I do trust you on that BainsBane Oct 2013 #138
I understood it to be a joke, and not a terribly mean-spirited one at that. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #141
Hey, I wrote an OP in support of gay marriage BainsBane Oct 2013 #142
Well, if I joked about my lousy sex life, no one would believe me. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #143
I think you are confirming the other point I made BainsBane Oct 2013 #144
Not sure which one, but if it's the point that no gender has a monopoly on sex drive or lack thereof Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #145
Pleasssee fitman Oct 2013 #24
"...just not with each other!" Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #31
Sexist? No, both those jokes are poking fun rocktivity Oct 2013 #35
yes. at the womans expense. the cultural conditioning that the man is all that sexually seabeyond Oct 2013 #36
It's not a sterotype fitman Oct 2013 #46
so, this is your reality and not really a joke, which was suggested from the being. not seeing seabeyond Oct 2013 #47
The good guys fitman Oct 2013 #49
wow. why dont we take it one step further. wtf... now lets tell the jokes about old mens ED seabeyond Oct 2013 #50
As I said fitman Oct 2013 #55
where is the joke? you told me it was true. and you are stoic sucking it up and seabeyond Oct 2013 #57
Women's sex drives are every bit as strong BainsBane Oct 2013 #58
That is true. Whisp Oct 2013 #62
Partially true but not always fitman Oct 2013 #69
why are men asexual and women are frigid? seabeyond Oct 2013 #74
In my view a asexual man is frigid fitman Oct 2013 #76
of course. that would be the societal condition we talk about and how one is a diss seabeyond Oct 2013 #77
Ok you are right on that one fitman Oct 2013 #79
sigh... seabeyond Oct 2013 #80
...so the guy says to the genie, "No, No, I didn't ask for a 12 inch PIANIST!" Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #122
LOl that too... fitman Oct 2013 #67
You chose to expose yourself BainsBane Oct 2013 #68
yep you caught me fitman Oct 2013 #70
Kinda hypocritical are you?? fitman Oct 2013 #73
Hypocritical? BainsBane Oct 2013 #75
I never said my wife has a lack of interest in sex fitman Oct 2013 #78
If you don't want comment BainsBane Oct 2013 #82
Do you really believe that was the intent... kurosagi Oct 2013 #65
almost 3 yrs on the board, 15 posts and you find me to call out. yes, i think the intent seabeyond Oct 2013 #66
Seriously? You walk in here and accuse someone of trolling? Enjoy your stay. Squinch Oct 2013 #96
No kurosagi Oct 2013 #104
Sorry about my wording kurosagi Oct 2013 #105
So delete it. Squinch Oct 2013 #106
Guess you're not really sorry at all, then. Because your wording is still there. Squinch Oct 2013 #153
I heard two wives digging at their husbands caseymoz Oct 2013 #48
or, as the poster now admits it is their reality, little digs and get to say.... seabeyond Oct 2013 #51
I know better ... Lurker Deluxe Oct 2013 #83
Clue me in here Doctor_J Oct 2013 #148
Pity sex is a sexist term. It suggests a woman giving sex to a man because she feels bad. Gravitycollapse Oct 2013 #152
Don't think so. Bohunk68 Oct 2013 #163
Wow Doctor_J Oct 2013 #165
Uh-oh. Don't mess with the humorless. Comrade Grumpy Oct 2013 #87
I know. Someone pissed off the joke police. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #121
Okay, I have a good one BainsBane Oct 2013 #133
we are not allowed to make weiner jokes. the men have already cried foul. and i have banded with seabeyond Oct 2013 #134
I thought I'd test how good their senses of humor are BainsBane Oct 2013 #135
I can't speak for anyone else, but when have I *EVER* objected to a Weiner Joke? Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #139
That's good! Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #137
I lol`d... opiate69 Oct 2013 #140
I forgot what this thread was about! cui bono Oct 2013 #125
Haha... cui bono Oct 2013 #123
While I am against 99% of internet censorship, this one is a no-brainer. A very good step. marble falls Oct 2013 #10
K&R Sissyk Oct 2013 #12
Good!!! TRoN33 Oct 2013 #13
I think the sentence is too short. caseymoz Oct 2013 #16
I guess a state cannot create a felony Tumbulu Oct 2013 #52
States can create felonies sir pball Oct 2013 #60
In think the sentence too long. morningfog Oct 2013 #72
Yes, the exes consented, but this law, like others, sets limits to legally effective consent. Jim Lane Oct 2013 #160
Although arguably, a less-harsh penalty may increase the chances of conviction. nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #156
Good! Although I might argue that 'intent' ought to be irrelevant petronius Oct 2013 #19
exactly. make it clear. the wrong is putting it on the net without permission. nt seabeyond Oct 2013 #21
I think you meant "without", right? Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #30
thank you seabeyond Oct 2013 #32
+1 redqueen Oct 2013 #44
The intent element is the only thing that makes it arguably Constitutional jberryhill Oct 2013 #64
Without "intent", it would be struck down by the first court that reviewed it. Xithras Oct 2013 #71
Exactly. The "intent" part may seem unnecessary, but without it the law would be too vague. n/t nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #157
I've always been of the opinion that showing naked photos of your partner rocktivity Oct 2013 #23
Well, typically the partners don't see it that way. Orrex Oct 2013 #28
well, it exposes what's inside of the person NewJeffCT Oct 2013 #45
Yeah, that ought to be a crime. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #29
This law is necessary, but really won't stop it inch4progress Oct 2013 #33
Fine objective but it's hard to prove intent. nt rrneck Oct 2013 #37
Not really...just don't post a picture of a naked friend. Tikki Oct 2013 #81
What if consent was given but then denied? rrneck Oct 2013 #84
Well, we learn to err on the side of 'just don't do it under any circumstances.' Tikki Oct 2013 #86
It's much better to err rrneck Oct 2013 #90
My husband took photos of semi-nudes for his art class...there had to be a release signed with terms Tikki Oct 2013 #91
There's a gigantic difference rrneck Oct 2013 #93
Lets talk interpersonal relationships...If you and someone are in a sexual relationship.. Tikki Oct 2013 #97
Pimping is a business transaction. rrneck Oct 2013 #99
Photography releases don't grant rights, they limit them. Xithras Oct 2013 #126
Correct...if you don't have prior permission for any circumstances then don't publish.. Tikki Oct 2013 #132
Is intent required? Wouldn't privacy laws cover this? Taverner Oct 2013 #115
I think some sort of culpable mental state is required for any crime. Shrike47 Oct 2013 #128
Two things: Orrex Oct 2013 #38
i would think it was also. a while ago, i was reading how texas was going after this. seabeyond Oct 2013 #39
Jerry Brown rocks! mindwalker_i Oct 2013 #40
He's my guv!! ailsagirl Oct 2013 #154
Good law Politicub Oct 2013 #41
And now for something completely different...I am so proud to be a Californian where we are moving.. Tikki Oct 2013 #42
Excellent. It's about time. Some days I am actually proud to be in California... Hekate Oct 2013 #53
excellent this should be nationwide gopiscrap Oct 2013 #54
Good for California. duffyduff Oct 2013 #56
Good! sick bastards. n/t Whisp Oct 2013 #59
"The American Civil Liberties Union had opposed the bill" n/t PoliticAverse Oct 2013 #63
Yep. Because it is unconsitutional Taverner Oct 2013 #89
Harassment maybe, but libel or defamation? I doubt it. Orrex Oct 2013 #110
Harassment would probably be the best way Taverner Oct 2013 #111
That's an interesting point Orrex Oct 2013 #116
Invasion of privacy might be a better route Taverner Oct 2013 #112
I agree that privacy might be the issue, but I'm not sure about that example Orrex Oct 2013 #117
Is it just me, or did this thread get hijacked? Doctor_J Oct 2013 #85
Because I don't think this law will stick Taverner Oct 2013 #113
Good luck Taverner Oct 2013 #88
The intent element is critical, though jberryhill Oct 2013 #127
Prosecutors will end up abusing it davidn3600 Oct 2013 #129
You still need a jury, since intent is purely a fact / totality of circumstances issue jberryhill Oct 2013 #130
I agree with your analysis. I think this bill will pass muster. nt msanthrope Oct 2013 #155
K&R nt stevenleser Oct 2013 #95
It's unconstitutional... davidn3600 Oct 2013 #98
How is it possibly unconstitutional? inch4progress Oct 2013 #102
USSC is pretty protective of the right to distribute images under the 1st amendment. Xithras Oct 2013 #124
Presumptively, one has a right to publish pictures jberryhill Oct 2013 #159
Because it's a prior restraint on free speech. eom TransitJohn Oct 2013 #162
Bravo! nt MrScorpio Oct 2013 #114
Anthony Weiner, Scott Brown and Larry Craig suggest we should think this through. lumberjack_jeff Oct 2013 #119
I totally misread the subject, when I saw the term "Revenge Porn" I thought they were talking... Humanist_Activist Oct 2013 #146
Falling Down was brilliant black comedy. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #149
Yeah, haven't seen it in years, now that I think about it, its more of a... Humanist_Activist Oct 2013 #150
I would hope the law at least makes a difference as far as saying "This isn't okay." nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #158
 

fitman

(482 posts)
5. About time
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 09:21 AM
Oct 2013

I did not realize how rampant sexting pics was with younger people. ...I'm 51 and work out at a university gym and the younger guys pass around naked pics of girls they know on their cell phones there like it's going out of style....

When will women realize when they send a naked pic it get's sent to all the guys friends?

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
6. and you as a grown man, setting an example, tell these boys it makes them a POS
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 09:24 AM
Oct 2013

to be doing this. not about the girl trusting the boy, but about a boy that gets to puff his chest at this fake machoism passing the picture to other boys.

we need our men to teach our boys. somewhere along the way, our boys have become confused what a man is. a law alone is not going to do it.

i taught my boys that it is as much their job speaking up to peers as not doing.

 

fitman

(482 posts)
7. I tell them how it was when I was growing up in the 70's and early 80's
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 09:35 AM
Oct 2013

..the dating scene, how we would ask each other out, how people would meet before the 'net...how much better it was. When men were men and women were women- as in how we respected each other is what I am referring too.

I have gotten to know many of the guys fairly well and nearly all say they wish they experienced the time period and they know the relationship breakdown between men and women is out of control and broken.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
9. thank you for taking the time with these boys. i raised two. my husband is right there with you
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 09:41 AM
Oct 2013

and we have discussed this repeatedly. our boys want it. our girls need it. we have to few adults putting in the effort. and i totally agree the kids today and not happy with what they see as their norm and wanting something different.

as all this manifested, which would be the now 20 somethings and a little older, everything went out of control. the teens today see the harm that came to the 20 somethings. something the 20 somethings did not have, being on the front line. i am seeing the teens today thinking a little clearer. knowing the do not want what the decade ahead of them has.

thanks. that is all we can do, help the young out with knowledge and reason. too many will listen for us to give up on them.

 

fitman

(482 posts)
161. NO where near as common as today.
Thu Oct 3, 2013, 04:06 AM
Oct 2013

Not even close..dating and male/female relationships were way more civil back then..

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
15. I'm married and the only sex I get is doggie style
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 10:32 AM
Oct 2013

I whine, shake, and beg. She rolls over and plays dead.

Every once in a while she takes pity on me.

Thank you, I'll be at the Ramada Inn at the airport Yuck Yucks in Newark tomorrow.

Whiskeytide

(4,461 posts)
17. My wife and I have nothing...
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 10:48 AM
Oct 2013

... but oral sex. We pass each other in the hallway, and she says "screw you", and I say "screw you too".

We need a smilie playing a drum - "bahdumbump!"


 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
168. there's something about load and discharge there too
Thu Oct 3, 2013, 11:12 AM
Oct 2013

but I'd have to pour bleach in my mind's eye.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
18. wow, a little subthread of the husbands sexist little joke at the wifes expense. really, if none
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 10:50 AM
Oct 2013

of you are getting it, you might address what youa re doing wrong. isnt this so cute. the same old, forever diss to the wife.

cute

 

inch4progress

(270 posts)
20. Keep it balanced. Both sexes are guilty of this and showing "revenge pics"
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 10:57 AM
Oct 2013

or boasting about their "hot new lover" with photo evidence.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
22. i see three husbands being disrespectful to their wives. and you are demanding i be balanced.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 10:58 AM
Oct 2013

i am addressing what is right in front of my face.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
34. yes. the poor besotted man that doesnt get it any more cause he married is not a diss
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:05 AM
Oct 2013

on the woman, but the man. right.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
92. Oh, good Lord...
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 02:20 PM
Oct 2013

WHEN are you going to get over yourself?

Never, obviously.

Well there's no need for me to see anything you write. You're a one-trick pony.

goodbye,

S
 

inch4progress

(270 posts)
100. No its not? He has the right to vent, Its healthy and normal as long as he isn't being abusive.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 03:35 PM
Oct 2013

My husband bitches about the same thing,And guess what, he is right! I'm the type of person who would rather read a book than romp in the hay. I understand his frustration partly because he has that "drive" and it's natural. I'd much rather him vocalize it than keep it inside and hidden building up waiting to burst out in the form of some tantrum over something completely trivial. It gets confusing when people are mad about one thing, but complain about something that really doesn't matter. Often it can be difficult to pick up on the real issue if he never alludes to it. Sometimes keeping stuff like this in can be dangerous for couples! Anger can come out in negative ways, and that is NEVER EVER A GOOD THING.

Now I'm not trying to be mean at all, and call me a dickhead if you like, but well.....no I won't ask you anything personal in here, but if you need to vent you can email me, about whatever. You can mail me just to curse at me, or scream, or talk something out if you like. I'm just getting the vibe.........well I know how you feel.........OK?

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
103. your profile says peter, male and does not go with your post. and i gotta ask, who are you?
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 03:41 PM
Oct 2013

you get a vibe? pm and rant?

 

inch4progress

(270 posts)
107. I'm gay.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 04:06 PM
Oct 2013

Like I said, it might be immature, but it's healthy. If you want to rant or whatever message me. I do understand your frustration, I just learned to ignore and/or sometimes appreciate this shit from my husband.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
108. thank you.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 04:08 PM
Oct 2013

i knew that was a possibility, still had to ask. with what we are talking.

appreciate the clarification.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
43. Humor is usually exaggeration built upon a foundation of truth.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:29 AM
Oct 2013

So to some degree, you can be sure they actually believe that crap they just posted.

I would also bet they would never say such a thing to a stranger in front of their wives. Why? Because it's highly disrespectful.
A thin cover of anonymity doesn't make it more respectful.

 

inch4progress

(270 posts)
101. I don't see it as disrespectul. It becomes disrespectful when they quit using humor or worse
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 03:39 PM
Oct 2013

QUIT USING WORDS. Naturally it would be more productive to sit down with their wives and talk the issue out, see if they are meant to be together, which means are they living up to their expectations of each other?

We are human, we er, but I've seen much worse, ABUSIVE stuff. Maybe it's immature, childish etc, but it's still pretty harmless.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
118. do you contend that racial jokes too, are "pretty harmless?"?
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 04:41 PM
Oct 2013

"It becomes disrespectful when they quit using humor or worse..."

What then, is the precise and relevant difference between what you stated, and racial jokes? Or do you contend that racial jokes too, are "pretty harmless?"?

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
120. Yes, a joke about marital sex is the exact same thing as a racist one.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 05:07 PM
Oct 2013

Sort of how picking your nose is totally just like serial killing.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
131. Would you joke about your wife's sexual practices online?
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 06:40 PM
Oct 2013

They weren't jokes about martial sexual practice generally, but about their own wives. I'd be pissed off if I were one of the women in question.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
138. I do trust you on that
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 07:18 PM
Oct 2013

and I also know I've only seen you speak in glowing terms about her. I don't believe you would say that sort of thing about her online, even if it were true. You are defending something I don't believe you would do in a million years.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
141. I understood it to be a joke, and not a terribly mean-spirited one at that.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 07:22 PM
Oct 2013

Like if I said "I support Gay Marriage, I think everyone should have equal rights to be miserable"... does that mean I really think being married is misery? No, I'm just making a slightly worn out joke.

Indeed, now, sometimes "it's just a joke" is used to defend or explain egregious, hateful shit, but then again sometimes it is just a joke.

Beyond that, this subthread has diverged wildly from the topic of the OP, which I think is an interesting and legitimate one, because there absolutely should be legal recourse for anyone who has this (nude pictures posted without their consent) done to them.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
142. Hey, I wrote an OP in support of gay marriage
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 07:26 PM
Oct 2013

on those very grounds. http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022573069

I certainly agree with you on revenge porn. I still haven't seen you say anything that wasn't completely flattering about your wife, and I don't expect I will.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
143. Well, if I joked about my lousy sex life, no one would believe me.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 07:33 PM
Oct 2013

I mean, clearly.



I just took it to be sort of played out Borscht belt "take my wife... please!" type stuff. Not the top of the humor food chain but I didn't take it at face value, either.

I think those marriage sex jokes are tired because I actually think -presuming, obviously, one finds the right person- that stuff just gets better. In my experience the main impediments to a vigorous and enthusiastic married sex life tend to wear footie jammies and figure out how to pick door locks at a disturbingly early age. If I've joked about married sex, it probably was saying something like how now just hearing the spongebob theme song is a turnon.

Married people with kids, will understand that one.


Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
145. Not sure which one, but if it's the point that no gender has a monopoly on sex drive or lack thereof
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 07:38 PM
Oct 2013

I agree.

I know married couples where the man is totally not interested and the woman is. There are no broad generalizations to be made in that regard.

 

fitman

(482 posts)
24. Pleasssee
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:00 AM
Oct 2013

Lighten up...it old harmless marriage banter...btw..the hallway sex joke I have heard from a woman coworker.. and I have heard plenty of these style jokes from the 12 women I work with ..heard them all..I just laugh.. Your head would spin what jokes come out of their mouths..

I'm going to show these two jokes to my wife tonight..she will laugh over them and email them to her female friends.....and yes we have regular sex...

Some people are just wound too tight.. jeesssh.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
36. yes. at the womans expense. the cultural conditioning that the man is all that sexually
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:13 AM
Oct 2013

and the woman never wants sex. stereotype that our society keeps fed for the power structure that dismisses womens sexuality out of hand.

a non reality that men do take to heart, that does damage in many ways.

but wtf, right? cause it is fun for men to be all that and make women less than that. i get it. i do.

 

fitman

(482 posts)
46. It's not a sterotype
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:41 AM
Oct 2013

Many women don't have the same sex drive when they get older especially after menopause as they did when younger..fact.

I romance my wife with emotional foreplay 24/7..tell her everyday what she means to me, leave her little notes, I keep myself very fit and neatly groomed... been married 22 years.. MY WIFE IS MY BEST FRIEND!!!

BUT...

While we still have sex it's no where the frequency when we were younger. TBH I wish for more sex but she does not. It's not a deal breaker with me..would never leave her over it or ever cheat on her.. I just accept it and make jokes about it as do most married men.

My wife admits her sex drive is not what it was-menopause hit her hard..she has tried a few things to no avail..an yes she truly loves me..it's called old age creeping in..

Most of my male friends my age are going through the same thing...the good guys accept it and make jokes about it..The cad's and dipwad's divorce their wife over it.

Don't know what your age is but if you are 50+ and still have the same sex drive you did as a 20 year old your are not the norm (I'm not saying this in a bad way ...you have a lucky hubby)

I know plenty of women who still love their husbands and desire them but admit their sex drive is not what it was. It is what it is..

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
47. so, this is your reality and not really a joke, which was suggested from the being. not seeing
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:43 AM
Oct 2013

where i am suppose to lighten up here. a joke, lighten up. not true. ok, ya true and are dissing mate but wtf, .... lighten up.

hmmmm

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
50. wow. why dont we take it one step further. wtf... now lets tell the jokes about old mens ED
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:49 AM
Oct 2013

really. lets...

and the women that can just dismiss there old hubby that cant get it up any more and the women that "suffer" silently. wont that be a hoot?

 

fitman

(482 posts)
55. As I said
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:57 AM
Oct 2013

I work with 12 women and they joke about men all the time...I don't get offended....many of the jokes are very funny..

..and where have you been under a rock? women joking about men's ED and performance issues and size of their member have been around forever and very common.

And I'll go one step further... a women get's sexually mutilated and it's a tragedy on the news(as it should be)..a man get's castrated and it's turned into a joke on every news/comedy channel..


Spare me..

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
57. where is the joke? you told me it was true. and you are stoic sucking it up and
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 12:06 PM
Oct 2013

staying married.

words matter

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
62. That is true.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 12:34 PM
Oct 2013

If the man treats the woman like a place just to masterbate, no wonder she doesn't get excited about lovemaking. Go figure! lol. some big dumb going on here.

 

fitman

(482 posts)
69. Partially true but not always
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 12:54 PM
Oct 2013

Some women are frigid and some lose their sex drive as they age. ..just as some men are asexual and some men are just plain lousy at sex..

Don't throw all men in the same box if their wives stop having sex with them.

 

fitman

(482 posts)
76. In my view a asexual man is frigid
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:10 PM
Oct 2013

Never heard of a term for a frigid male before tbh. ..so i used asexual.
But yeah I guess you could say there could be frigid men.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
77. of course. that would be the societal condition we talk about and how one is a diss
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:11 PM
Oct 2013

and one is not. how acceptable it is, that there is not much thought about it.

maybe they are both simply asexual, instead of the demeaning term we use for women.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
80. sigh...
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:19 PM
Oct 2013

it is not even the "right" part, it is the open minded i respect so much. it always makes me pause. thanks.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
122. ...so the guy says to the genie, "No, No, I didn't ask for a 12 inch PIANIST!"
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 05:11 PM
Oct 2013

oh, sorry, wrong punchline.
 

fitman

(482 posts)
73. Kinda hypocritical are you??
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:01 PM
Oct 2013

Why is it always the guys fault? A women loses interest in sex with her husband because he is lousy in bed but it's not her fault if she loses interest due to menopause and age....and yes women lose interest in sex due to those two factors no matter how good hubby is in bed...fact.

Not all women are sex machines like some of the women here.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
75. Hypocritical?
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:08 PM
Oct 2013

I didn't insist men had low sex drives. I simply made a point of observation. You broadcast your wife's lack of interest in sex and want to assume that applies to all women by nature of biology. The fact is it does not.

 

fitman

(482 posts)
78. I never said my wife has a lack of interest in sex
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:15 PM
Oct 2013

..her sex drive has diminished due to menopause and she clearly admits to it. She literally hit a brick wall. She even went to her doc to see what could be done but did not want to take hormones. ( We still have sex usually once per week and she truly enjoys it.)

And I never implied all women lose their sex drive due to menopause but a lot do.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
82. If you don't want comment
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:22 PM
Oct 2013

You should refrain about talking about intimate matters on a public message board. When you do, you get what you get.

You tried to make a sweeping point about women in general:

Many women don't have the same sex drive when they get older especially after menopause as they did when younger..fact.


What you think is a "fact" is not.

kurosagi

(26 posts)
65. Do you really believe that was the intent...
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 12:47 PM
Oct 2013

...or are you a Republican mole that is in here to make feminists look bad?

I think you're just assuming too much of those guys. Most of the jokes that come out of my mouth are at my own expense, so I don't think it is too much to think that of these guys, too.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
66. almost 3 yrs on the board, 15 posts and you find me to call out. yes, i think the intent
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 12:50 PM
Oct 2013

is clear, though i think it is possible they did not think it thru. hence, doing as skinner says, educate. so that the boys may think it thru and see the potential for hurt, in a number of ways.

and no, i do not think there is a single reasonable way you can say it is a diss on the man, and not at the expense of the woman.

kurosagi

(26 posts)
104. No
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 03:49 PM
Oct 2013

I made it clear in the bottom that there was just too much assumption going on, rather than trolling.

kurosagi

(26 posts)
105. Sorry about my wording
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 03:58 PM
Oct 2013

I am at work and my mind is distracted. I should not have implied that anyone was coming across as trolling, especially with my lack of posts.

caseymoz

(5,763 posts)
48. I heard two wives digging at their husbands
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:45 AM
Oct 2013

in the same way last night, and they were in apparently solid, happy marriages.

No, it isn't sexist. Marriage is, and males and females need a sense of humor to survive it.

Now, it can and does cross into sexism and cruelty, but as far as I'm concerned, denial-of-Sex-jokes, or married-sex-is-so-boring jokes aren't it. Especially-- and I don't know this-- when it might be exactly the problem the spouse is experiencing.
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
51. or, as the poster now admits it is their reality, little digs and get to say....
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:50 AM
Oct 2013

lighten up, for appearance sake, you know. cause they might just dump the dude and find a man that can take care of them.

Lurker Deluxe

(1,036 posts)
83. I know better ...
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:33 PM
Oct 2013

but WTH!

Men are tile .. lay them right and you can walk on them for years.

A man dies and goes to heaven and meet the maker and asks him about women, why did you make them so curvy? So that you would like them. Why did you make them so soft? So you would like them. Why did you make them so gullible? So they would like you.

How many men does it take to screw in a lightbulb? One ... men will screw anything.

Husband: "want a quickie?"
Wife: "As apposed to what?"

Sometimes jokes is just jokes. People use them to show affection, and to release tension when speaking about subject matter that makes them uncomfortable.

You may flame me now for the sexist pig that I am ...

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
152. Pity sex is a sexist term. It suggests a woman giving sex to a man because she feels bad.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 09:20 PM
Oct 2013

Which of course constructs the female's sexuality as coerced and naturally devoid of pleasure. She only does it to make him feel good, right?

Bohunk68

(1,364 posts)
163. Don't think so.
Thu Oct 3, 2013, 07:27 AM
Oct 2013

I've heard the term Pity Sex to describe sex that is had because you feel sorry for the person. That can apply to any combination of genders. That doesn't seem very sexist to me.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
133. Okay, I have a good one
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 06:47 PM
Oct 2013
A Husband comes home with a half gallon of Ice Cream. He asked his
wife if she wants some.
"How hard is it?" she asked.
"About as hard as my dick," he replies.
To which the woman replied, "OK, then. Pour me some."


 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
134. we are not allowed to make weiner jokes. the men have already cried foul. and i have banded with
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 06:52 PM
Oct 2013

my brothers not to make jokes about size, and of course hardness and functionality.

Sissyk

(12,665 posts)
12. K&R
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 10:04 AM
Oct 2013

It needs to be illegal ANYWHERE in the US for Person A to post a naked picture of Person B without their permission.

caseymoz

(5,763 posts)
16. I think the sentence is too short.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 10:46 AM
Oct 2013

and it should be a felony.

However, at least some porn advertised as ex-girlfriend actually headlines porn stars. Strange vengeance kink for people to have . . .

Tumbulu

(6,291 posts)
52. I guess a state cannot create a felony
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:52 AM
Oct 2013

Has to be initiated at the federal level, but this is a start. I 'd like to see a higher penalty, and longer jail time, though

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
60. States can create felonies
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 12:28 PM
Oct 2013

I suspect that there might be an Eighth Amendment case to be made for a felony conviction being excessive punishment; a good lawyer would probably argue while it is certainly criminal harassment, simply posting a naked picture of somebody doesn't rise to the level of gross sexual offense the law would generally consider a felony.

Not judging, just sayin'.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
72. In think the sentence too long.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:01 PM
Oct 2013

I don't think there should be any sentence. There are already civil remedies available. I think it is disgusting and wrong, but not a crime, on my opinion. Unless hidden cameras where used, the exes consented to be photographed or filmed. There is always a risk of such images making it to the internet.

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
160. Yes, the exes consented, but this law, like others, sets limits to legally effective consent.
Thu Oct 3, 2013, 02:47 AM
Oct 2013

Consenting to the taking of a naked picture would be effective as to the taking of the picture but not as to its subsequent online posting under the circumstances set forth in the law.

You say that there are civil remedies available, but my understanding is that such suits often fail. After all, as you point out, the person being photographed consented to be photographed. One main effect of this law might be, not the possibility of criminal prosecutions, but the empowering of victims to obtain civil remedies for any statutory violation.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
156. Although arguably, a less-harsh penalty may increase the chances of conviction.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 09:48 PM
Oct 2013

And I think some of these guys need to be made an example of, in the form of a criminal record - even if it's only a misdemeanor.

petronius

(26,602 posts)
19. Good! Although I might argue that 'intent' ought to be irrelevant
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 10:56 AM
Oct 2013

No one has any right to do that deliberately, without permission. So whether the intent is to "cause emotional distress or humiliation," or to boast, or to profit, or to titillate, it's all the same violation...

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
64. The intent element is the only thing that makes it arguably Constitutional
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 12:42 PM
Oct 2013

Did you oppose the publication of the Abu Ghraib prison photos? Did any of those people consent to publication of pictures of them nude?

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
71. Without "intent", it would be struck down by the first court that reviewed it.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 12:58 PM
Oct 2013

The law deals with photos that are taken voluntarily, and under federal law those are the property of the photographer. The state cannot simply prohibit people from distributing photos that they legally took and own, and that the subjects consented to at the time.

There's still a very real question as to how this will fare when it receives its inevitable court challenge, but the intent angle at least gives the state some ground to stand on. By only criminalizing the action based on the intent, they are criminalizing the "deliberate act of harming" and not simply the redistribution of legally protected speech.

rocktivity

(44,576 posts)
23. I've always been of the opinion that showing naked photos of your partner
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 10:58 AM
Oct 2013

exposes far more about you than it does about them.


rocktivity

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
45. well, it exposes what's inside of the person
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:33 AM
Oct 2013

hatred, jealousy, evil, etc.

but, it could cause egregious harm to the person who was exposed by their ex spouse/significant other, and not just mental harm.

 

inch4progress

(270 posts)
33. This law is necessary, but really won't stop it
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:04 AM
Oct 2013

Educate, Educate, educate. The problem is that people aren't "thinking" when they allow people to take nude photos of them. Even if the photo isn't posted by the person who took the picture, it is relatively simple to hack a smartphone, extract the photos and post is anywhere they want.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
81. Not really...just don't post a picture of a naked friend.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:20 PM
Oct 2013

If they want it on the internets...let the naked person post it.

Tikki

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
84. What if consent was given but then denied?
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:39 PM
Oct 2013

Should we have lovers sign a release? Maybe it was a practical joke between exhibitionits gone awry. Did the practical joker intend harm?

"Just don't do it" doesn't really address the issue at hand.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
86. Well, we learn to err on the side of 'just don't do it under any circumstances.'
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:45 PM
Oct 2013

but, if you absolutely must then write up a legal contract and pay accordingly, stating that the picture can be used
for any purpose at any time.
Then no revenge could be considered.

Tikki

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
90. It's much better to err
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:59 PM
Oct 2013

in the side of positive cultural development. The technology exists to broadcast personal images worldwide and people need to learn how to manage that within the context of their personal relationships.

Adjucating interpersonal relationships opens a gigantic can of civil liberties worms I expect.

ETA

It might be better to regulate the outlets that profit from the dissemination of imagery. So if you want to put images of your naked girlfriend on a porn site, the site would be required to keep a release on file.

Of course, that pushes it into exactly what porn is so we would know exactly when a release is required - all of which hinges on a reasonable expectation of privacy.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
91. My husband took photos of semi-nudes for his art class...there had to be a release signed with terms
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 02:11 PM
Oct 2013

and conditions. One of the terms was that the photos could not be sold
and could not be distributed.

You can come to our house and see them but that is the only place you will see them.

If his model had agreed to allow the photos to be distributed then that would be a different story.
Get it in writing..then there should be no problem.


Tikki
interpersonal means between two people...correct?

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
93. There's a gigantic difference
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 02:23 PM
Oct 2013

between photographing a model in a pre arranged setting and a snapshot with a camera phone.

When I taught figure drawing cameras of any kind were verboten.

The issue is not the existence of the images, but their distribution. The onus should be on the distributors. If some woman finds her image is making somebody else money, she deserves a cut of the profits. That's what releases are for, not for policing interpersonal integrity.

If you want to market porn, produce your own content. Don't profit off other peoples freebies.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
97. Lets talk interpersonal relationships...If you and someone are in a sexual relationship..
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 02:37 PM
Oct 2013

you can't just loan that person out for sex, just because you are in a relationship with that person
and you want at any given given moment to share that person...that is called pimping.

The person you are having a relationship can decide to have sex with whomever you wanted them
to have sex with as long as it is someone they want to have sex with...but it has to be their decision.

If you need to share a picture of the naked person you are in a relationship then get their permission
to post it now and in the future.

I have a feeling, maybe wrong, that you think people in a relationship are suddenly struck dumb
and unable to think clearly.




Tikki

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
99. Pimping is a business transaction.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 03:24 PM
Oct 2013

Business transactions can be regulated because there's a money trail. It seems to me regulating consent in personal relationships is an invasion of privacy and sets a dangerous precedent. And there is of course a big difference between someone's body and an image of same.

Actually, I think people are perfectly capable of managing relationships without a phalanx of attorneys codifying everything they do. The range of acceptable behavior between people in the privacy of their homes should be as free as possible. The issue is not the existence of the images, but how they are used.

The phenomena of reality shows from survivor to amateur sex is based on economics. The distributors are trying to avoid paying for content. If we required every revenge porn site to keep a release on file for each amateur performer the business model would collapse because each one of them could demand payment for the use of their image. As is often the case a culture war issue is really a class issue. This is actually about labor, not sex.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
126. Photography releases don't grant rights, they limit them.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 05:23 PM
Oct 2013

When I photograph someone and hand them a model release, that release serves two purposes:

1. It protects ME from later claims that the photography was nonconsensual. The law would generally be on my side anyway if the model later claimed that it wasn't consensual (they would need to prove it), but the release provides an extra layer of protection that can ward off lawsuits before they get started.

Understand that, under federal law, I own full copyright to my images the moment I take them, and am free to distribute them however, and to whomever, I choose. A model release is an additional layer of protection, but it isn't required by any federal or state law.

2. It allows the subject to inject any limitations on the use of their image at that point. In your husbands art class, the release limited the photographers otherwise unlimited distribution rights. It became a legally binding contract, exposing your husband to a lawsuit if he violated it. Without that release, your husband would have been legally permitted to do anything he wanted with that image.


When this topic came up with my daughter two years ago, my wife and I gave her three bits of advice.

1. Just don't do it. Have more self respect.
2. If you must do it, have the guy sign a paper beforehand legally agreeing not to distribute them to anyone else, and assigning ownership of the photos to YOU. It doesn't have to be fancy or notarized to be legal, just a note with a simple agreement, your signature, and his. If he distributes the images anyway, that little note will give you grounds to sue his ass off, and the ownership assignment will provide legal grounds for copyright suits against any websites that might try to publish them. It takes two minutes to write this out, and can save years of heartbreak.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
132. Correct...if you don't have prior permission for any circumstances then don't publish..
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 06:47 PM
Oct 2013

Let's hope that this new law is preventative on both sides of the camera phone.


ps I am not being a smarty pants...but is there an app for these kind of things?
Tikki

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
38. Two things:
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:16 AM
Oct 2013

1. I initially thought that this was about "revenge porn" as in "films about graphic portrayals of vengeance"

2. I'm amazed to learn that this wasn't already illegal

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
39. i would think it was also. a while ago, i was reading how texas was going after this.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:21 AM
Oct 2013

though it may have resorted to a civil suit, which is different. i just do not remember. but i agree.

mindwalker_i

(4,407 posts)
40. Jerry Brown rocks!
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:24 AM
Oct 2013

He's such an improvement over the governator, and to be honest I thought Arnold was nowhere near as bad as I expected him to be. But it's interesting to see posts on other sites claiming that Brown ruined the CA economy again, just as he did twice before (last I saw this was from some dude on slashdot). Uhm, what? Ruined the economy? How are these people measuring that?

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
42. And now for something completely different...I am so proud to be a Californian where we are moving..
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:28 AM
Oct 2013

forward with some progressive and many common sense laws.



Tikki

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
53. Excellent. It's about time. Some days I am actually proud to be in California...
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 11:53 AM
Oct 2013

... and Jerry Brown is definitely a good Governor to have.

 

duffyduff

(3,251 posts)
56. Good for California.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 12:03 PM
Oct 2013

The ACLU becomes even more and more irrelevant when it continues to back porn on some dumb First Amendment argument regardless of whether somebody knows they are being filmed.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
89. Yep. Because it is unconsitutional
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:57 PM
Oct 2013

Stronger libel, defamation or harassment laws would be a better direction to stop this

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
110. Harassment maybe, but libel or defamation? I doubt it.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 04:16 PM
Oct 2013

Showing an actual picture of someone doing something is not defamation or libel. Possibly harassment, but you would need to convince me. And I don't see how those laws, in this application, would pass constitutional muster any more than this current law.

For the record I like the current law. If it's thrown out for being unconstitutional, then it should also be legal to pick up someone's phone and email the pics on it to a recipient of your choice, thereafter distributing those pics far and wide for all to see. Absent some constitutionally tested law to the contrary, an unattended phone implies no more expectation of privacy than does a photo shared between two people.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
111. Harassment would probably be the best way
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 04:22 PM
Oct 2013

It's been ages since I've taken Media Law, but I remember either slander or libel - one of the two - does not require that the accusations be false.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
116. That's an interesting point
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 04:32 PM
Oct 2013

Attorney Wiki advises me that both slander and libel are described as defamation and refer to the communication of false statements harming the reputation (etc.) of the subject.

Under common law, to constitute defamation, a claim must generally be false and have been made to someone other than the person defamed.
From Wikipedia

But I'm not comfortable accepting this reference as authoritative.


Hmm...
 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
112. Invasion of privacy might be a better route
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 04:24 PM
Oct 2013

For example, it would be the same as if a Paparazzo snuck into Movie Starlet X's backyard, and took pictures of her sunning in the nude, would it not be the same as posting revenge pics?

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
117. I agree that privacy might be the issue, but I'm not sure about that example
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 04:35 PM
Oct 2013

Sneaking into the yard is trespassing at the very least, whereas reposting a girlfriend/boyfriend's picture is not.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
85. Is it just me, or did this thread get hijacked?
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:41 PM
Oct 2013

This is an excellent step. But I don't understand why people are sending their pics and letting themselves be video recorded in the first place. It shouldn't really surprise them when the videos make the rounds.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
113. Because I don't think this law will stick
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 04:25 PM
Oct 2013

I think a better route would be to use existing privacy laws to prosecute

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
88. Good luck
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 01:57 PM
Oct 2013

As sad as it is, this law is unconstitutional

I know, I know - it's fucked up

Now if we were to go after stronger libel or defamation laws, or hell, even harassment laws...

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
127. The intent element is critical, though
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 05:27 PM
Oct 2013

I can sit here at my desk and write a forged check for entertainment purposes, or post it online, whatever.

What I can't do is write a forged check for the purpose of passing it off as a check.

This is a "commission of an act" with an intent to cause harm to someone. While the act involves publication of something, there are plenty of circumstances where the "speech component" of an offense is deemed to be operative, in terms of advancing the offense, versus expressive. Conspiracy, forgery, and a host of other offenses hinge on a operative speech component.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
129. Prosecutors will end up abusing it
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 05:43 PM
Oct 2013

That's the problem with broad intent clauses. Prosecutors will try to stretch the law to try to nail someone for something they think the law should cover, the court shoots them down, and then that establishes the precedent that over time will make the law useless.

Perhaps if the state limits enforcement strictly to when an ex intents to cause humiliation and purposely releases the photo.

But we both know prosecutors never stay within the bounds of a law. They always try to stretch it to cast the widest net possible. They always go beyond the law's intent and purpose.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
98. It's unconstitutional...
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 03:16 PM
Oct 2013

It's going to be tossed.

A good law with good intentions, but it is not compatible with the first amendment.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
124. USSC is pretty protective of the right to distribute images under the 1st amendment.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 05:12 PM
Oct 2013

The law may stand because of its "intent" clause, but it certainly has a tough slog ahead of it (as do similar laws in other states, none of which have been challenged yet).

The courts have upheld limitations on the distribution of images that depict illegal acts as "fruit of the crime", but those apply to things like snuff porn, kiddie porn, etc. In situations where an image depicts an act that is otherwise legal in the jurisdiction it occurred in, the courts have routinely upheld the rights of the copyright holder/photographer to distribute the image as they see fit. The distribution of photos is recognized as protected speech when their production did not involve committing a crime.

Because these photos were taken legally and consensually, it may indeed be a 1st amendment violation for the government to ban someone from distributing media that is otherwise perfectly legal to possess and share.

California is hoping that the "intent to do harm" clause will allow the state to skirt this limitation, by painting the activity as a form of harassment rather than a speech issue. Of course, that limitation introduces problems of its own. If a person posts an image on a revenge porn site in order to humiliate an ex, they can be prosecuted under this law. If a person sells the same image to a porn site for profit, no crime will have occurred, even if the person in the images is humiliated by that action. Proving intent will be difficult.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
159. Presumptively, one has a right to publish pictures
Thu Oct 3, 2013, 01:14 AM
Oct 2013

What we have here is a statute against (doing something) to cause someone embarrassment etc.

The (doing something) here is publishing a photograph, which is ordinarily a First Amendment activity requiring a compelling state interest in order to limit.

So, of course there is a First Amendment question.

The issue is that there are forms of speech which are acts predicate to various crimes - fraud involves speech, as does forgery, criminal solicitation, extortion and conspiracy to commit some other crime. In those contexts, we don't view the speech as "speech" per se, but as an operative act of a crime involving other elements.
 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
119. Anthony Weiner, Scott Brown and Larry Craig suggest we should think this through.
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 05:04 PM
Oct 2013
The bill, which takes effect immediately, makes it a misdemeanour to post identifiable nude pictures of someone else online without permission with the intent to cause emotional distress or humiliation. The penalty is up to six months in jail and a $1,000 (£620) fine.


 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
146. I totally misread the subject, when I saw the term "Revenge Porn" I thought they were talking...
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 07:39 PM
Oct 2013

the trope, such as in movies like Falling Down, 9 to 5, Django Unchained, etc.

Didn't occur to me to take it literally.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
150. Yeah, haven't seen it in years, now that I think about it, its more of a...
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 08:49 PM
Oct 2013

"I don't give a flying fuck about this life anymore" type of movie, rather than revenge porn.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
158. I would hope the law at least makes a difference as far as saying "This isn't okay."
Wed Oct 2, 2013, 10:02 PM
Oct 2013

Sure, assholes will still do what assholes do, but those who are only borderline assholes - or assholes-in-training, if very young - may be dissuaded from recklessly indulging in this kind of behavior.

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