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diabeticman

(3,121 posts)
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 07:00 PM Dec 2013

Do you know the meaning of 12 days of Christmas? Does it blow your mind how we have changed?

I was in the car with my wife and a young friend of ours. The girl is 25 years old we met when she was our neighbor when we lived in the duplex that was condemned by the city.


Anyways the young friend was saying how she loves the 12 days before Christmas.

My wife asked her what she meant and the young friend explained she loved the song and how it talks about the 12 days leading up to Christmas.

My wife hung her head and explained to the friend that when she was younger and for a long time the 12 days of Christmas meant between Christmas and the Epiphany. on Jan 6th. That Christmas use to be a longer period of time.

My wife moaned that she hates the way Christmas music starts BEFORE Thanksgiving on some of the stations here BUT it ends on December 26th.

My wife was raised Catholic but consider herself Wiccan/Pagan now and she said she misses the trees and lights garland being up around New years.

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Do you know the meaning of 12 days of Christmas? Does it blow your mind how we have changed? (Original Post) diabeticman Dec 2013 OP
That song wasn't about buying anything. It was a protest song. These are metaphors BlueStreak Dec 2013 #1
That is just another Urban Legend RandiFan1290 Dec 2013 #2
Then what do you think it means? BlueStreak Dec 2013 #3
I'm not sure RandiFan1290 Dec 2013 #5
Well, when I lived in Europe... CBHagman Dec 2013 #4
in Europe DonCoquixote Dec 2013 #6
First is St. Nicholas day - Dec. 6th RainDog Dec 2013 #7
king cake DonCoquixote Dec 2013 #10
that's where the New Orleans tradition comes from RainDog Dec 2013 #12
Actually, it comes from the celebration of Yule jazzimov Dec 2013 #8
Christmas is the 1st day Epiphany is 12 day TexasProgresive Dec 2013 #9
We put our Christmas tree up On Christmas eve and leave it up til January 6th riderinthestorm Dec 2013 #11
What really blows my mind is that anyone actually likes freeplessinseattle Dec 2013 #13

CBHagman

(16,984 posts)
4. Well, when I lived in Europe...
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 07:18 PM
Dec 2013

...Advent/Christmas/Epiphany were all observed, and it was clear that it was a season of observances. Things didn't return to normal until after January 6th.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
6. in Europe
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 07:33 PM
Dec 2013

the 12 days of Xmas run from Xmas to Jan 6, the day the "wise men" arrived. In tradtional Latin American households, this is the day gifts are given.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
7. First is St. Nicholas day - Dec. 6th
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 08:02 PM
Dec 2013

Then Christmas day, then Driekoningen, at least in the Benelux countries. On Three Kings Day, children dress up as the three kings and go to people's houses to sing songs and beg coins, or if they're very young, they walk around the dining table and sing to the adults. People buy a Koningentaart (King's Cake) with a bean or ceramic baby figure inside, and share the cake in their homes. Whoever finds the baby in their slice of cake wears a paper crown, as queen or king for the day. France and Germany do something similar.

But the older origins are Saturnalia (Dec. 17th - 23rd) in the Roman world where Christianity began. The worldly order is upset and kings become slaves and vice versa. Public banquets and gift giving were part of the celebration.

The Talmud talks about an 8 day pagan festival after solstice (tonight) as well that celebrates the rebirth of the sun after the longest night of the year.

All religions eventually find their origins in pagan practices and those practices revolve around the workings of the natural world.

I don't see any reason why we can't celebrate this time as part of most of the world's celebration of some sort or another.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
12. that's where the New Orleans tradition comes from
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 11:55 PM
Dec 2013

the French version is gâteau des rois. The New Orleans cake is more like Southern France and Spain, as far as the tradition goes - a bundt sort of cake with colored fruit or icing on top.

Both Spain and France celebrate Three Kings Day - and the celebrations in the Benelux countries are very similar because both Spain and France once controlled that part of northern Europe.

But the northern French and Belgian versions are more like tarts sometimes... I've been to some homes where people get a pear or apple tart with a crown encircling it, so it's open, but the older version has a top on it - it's filled with an almond custard but not the fruits on top.

jazzimov

(1,456 posts)
8. Actually, it comes from the celebration of Yule
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 08:14 PM
Dec 2013

which traditionally lasts 12 days beginning on the Winter Solstice. The whole "epiphany" thing was made up by the Christian invaders later to incorporate existing rituals.

TexasProgresive

(12,157 posts)
9. Christmas is the 1st day Epiphany is 12 day
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 09:43 PM
Dec 2013

December 25 to January 6th an octave + 4

The Twelve Days of Christmas are the festive days beginning Christmas Day (25 December). This period is also known as Christmastide and Twelvetide. The Twelfth Day of Christmas is always on Epiphany Eve (5 January), but the Twelfth Night can either precede or follow the Twelfth Day according to which Christian tradition is followed.[1] The Twelfth Day (5 January) is followed by the Feast of the Epiphany on 6 January. In some traditions, the feast of Epiphany (6 January) and the twelfth night of Christmas overlap.[2]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twelve_days_of_Christmas

Snopes says false
http://www.snopes.com/holidays/christmas/music/12days.asp

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
11. We put our Christmas tree up On Christmas eve and leave it up til January 6th
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 10:25 PM
Dec 2013

English/Irish family.

We have a Kings Cake with a charm but since I'm an atheist and I bake it, the charm is usually more generic - a silver ring, a gold dollar coin etc.

Traditionally Christmas eve was for the Yule log and gifts, Christmas day was for church and the feast.

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