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Anyone else waiting for their kids to go to sleep before doing the Santa thing? (Original Post) Nye Bevan Dec 2013 OP
Why perpetuate a fairy tale? seattledo Dec 2013 #1
Because it's fun and yes, you don't get it. Ed Suspicious Dec 2013 #3
You still don't want to potentially spoil surprises, eve if they don't/no longer believe kcr Dec 2013 #6
It's magical and fun. I look back fondly on the time when I believed. Nye Bevan Dec 2013 #8
it's just having some fun and part of being a kid for many JI7 Dec 2013 #13
There is but a small window in life when its ok to have magic NoOneMan Dec 2013 #15
Scrooge. Vashta Nerada Dec 2013 #16
maybe because having an imagination and make believing is fun. My son and daughter no longer liberal_at_heart Dec 2013 #18
+1000. And I just got done! Nye Bevan Dec 2013 #19
But don't you think it makes them more susceptible to religion later? seattledo Dec 2013 #24
no, and religion is something they are raised with usually JI7 Dec 2013 #26
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Dec 2013 #27
No, I don't think it makes them more likely to be religious. laundry_queen Dec 2013 #28
Don't blame it on not having kids. a la izquierda Dec 2013 #25
Don't hate on Santa Claus BainsBane Dec 2013 #30
Yes, and mine is cilla4progress Dec 2013 #2
Just did it, but took me about 30 minutes CAG Dec 2013 #4
Not now but when my kids were young RGinNJ Dec 2013 #5
So, speaking as someone who loves Disney and loves Christmas, Nye Bevan Dec 2013 #7
Yep for five great years in a row. RGinNJ Dec 2013 #10
I never realized how lucky I was to live near an amusement park when I was a kid. liberal_at_heart Dec 2013 #20
"Santa" already visited. RandySF Dec 2013 #9
LOL. Yes and mine is 13. nclib Dec 2013 #11
Those are the best years, Christmas is children dem in texas Dec 2013 #12
just a dream.....or was it? :) TeamPooka Dec 2013 #21
We only have one grandchild madokie Dec 2013 #14
Oh, Yes Indeed The Roux Comes First Dec 2013 #17
So, it's called "the Santa thing" now? cthulu2016 Dec 2013 #22
I love the whole Santa 13 Niceguy1 Dec 2013 #23
Just finished laundry_queen Dec 2013 #29
I miss that! logosoco Dec 2013 #31
 

seattledo

(295 posts)
1. Why perpetuate a fairy tale?
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 01:10 AM
Dec 2013

Maybe I just don't understand because I don't have kids, but it makes no sense to me.

kcr

(15,317 posts)
6. You still don't want to potentially spoil surprises, eve if they don't/no longer believe
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 01:19 AM
Dec 2013

I waited yet again until today to wrap presents, so I had to wait till mine fell asleep.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
8. It's magical and fun. I look back fondly on the time when I believed.
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 01:27 AM
Dec 2013

And now only the youngest of my 3 kids still believes, and she won't be for much longer. But I like to keep it going as long as possible.

JI7

(89,254 posts)
13. it's just having some fun and part of being a kid for many
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 01:41 AM
Dec 2013

i didn't even grow up in a christian home but we celebrated christmas and did the whole santa thing for fun.

 

NoOneMan

(4,795 posts)
15. There is but a small window in life when its ok to have magic
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 01:52 AM
Dec 2013

And damn, that was a fuckn magical time

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
18. maybe because having an imagination and make believing is fun. My son and daughter no longer
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 02:41 AM
Dec 2013

believe but neither has come to me traumatized begging me why I lied to them. They enjoy the myth, the magic, and the make believe. Both still enjoy the season even though they no longer believe in Santa. My daughter who is an artist, had a blast decorating the tree tonight, and my son is busting a gut watching Jim Carrie's Grinch. Yesterday we made sugar cookies, and tomorrow we will make pies. And as my son put it just a few minutes ago the best part of Christmas is being together.

 

seattledo

(295 posts)
24. But don't you think it makes them more susceptible to religion later?
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 04:38 AM
Dec 2013

"enjoy the myth, the magic, and the make believe."

Ugh.

JI7

(89,254 posts)
26. no, and religion is something they are raised with usually
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 05:58 AM
Dec 2013

so it's not like most people decide later in life whether to join a religion.

i wasn't even raised in a christian home and we had santa clause as part of my childhood .

Response to seattledo (Reply #24)

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
28. No, I don't think it makes them more likely to be religious.
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 06:04 AM
Dec 2013

Once they find out the truth they are aware that there is a possibility religion is also an illusion and that even though they may 'believe', God may not actually exist. This leads them to question religion - my hardcore atheist brother told me the whole Santa thing contributed to his questioning the existence of a God. My oldest daughter, also brought up with Santa, is also an atheist (The younger ones either still believe or haven't made up their minds about God yet).

I don't think Santa makes one more likely to be religious any more than celebrating Christmas does.

a la izquierda

(11,795 posts)
25. Don't blame it on not having kids.
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 05:50 AM
Dec 2013

I don't have kids and I get it perfectly fine.

It's a time of wonder and magic. Imagination.

CAG

(1,820 posts)
4. Just did it, but took me about 30 minutes
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 01:17 AM
Dec 2013

To remember the stupid password on my daughter's new pc that santa brought her. I set it up a couple of weeks ago when i bought it and tucked it away. Thankfully the 15th try was the lucky charm

RGinNJ

(1,021 posts)
5. Not now but when my kids were young
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 01:17 AM
Dec 2013

and we lived in Long Beach, CA, we would take them to Disneyland for the day. When we returned home they would be so sleepy we'd put them straight to bed. After that we could set up for the next day and be in bed ourselves be 9:30-10:00pm. So even if they got up with the sun we would have had a great night sleep.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
7. So, speaking as someone who loves Disney and loves Christmas,
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 01:23 AM
Dec 2013

that was pretty much the most perfect day ever!

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
20. I never realized how lucky I was to live near an amusement park when I was a kid.
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 03:14 AM
Dec 2013

We would spend as much of our summer as we could afford at Six Flag or White Water water park. My kids have not had that pleasure. There are parks out here, just not as close as what I lived near.

RandySF

(58,973 posts)
9. "Santa" already visited.
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 01:27 AM
Dec 2013

We thought it would be nice to get the set-up and garbage put away so we can just chill tomorrow. BTW, "Santa" is now broke.

dem in texas

(2,674 posts)
12. Those are the best years, Christmas is children
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 01:40 AM
Dec 2013

My kids and grandkids are all grown now. I still enjoy getting together with them for Christmas dinner, but there is nothing like the excitement, secrets and surprises of Christmas when you have little children in the house.

Here is my Christmas story. My older brother who was in second grade came home from school and told us younger sisters that there was no Santa Claus. This was in 1944. My uncle, who was in the Army, came home for leave before shipping out to Europe. My parents gave him my bed to sleep in and put me on a cot in the dinning room. Our dining room had French doors that opened into the living room. My bright five year old idea was that since I was sleeping in the dinning room, I would just stay away and see for myself if there was a Santa.

Everyone went to sleep and I lay on the cot wide awake,waiting for Santa. I heard him open the front door, I tried to look though the French doors, but its was too dark, but I heard him rustling around putting the packages under the tree, then I heard him closing the front door as he left.

I knew that there was a Santa, no one could convince otherwise. It wasn't until a few years later that I figured out that I'd fallen asleep and dreamed it all.

Merry Christmas to all DU'ers

madokie

(51,076 posts)
14. We only have one grandchild
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 01:41 AM
Dec 2013

see is 6 almost 7. She knows that presents come from us, not a Santa Claus so there is no need to mislead and or confuse.

The Roux Comes First

(1,300 posts)
17. Oh, Yes Indeed
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 02:33 AM
Dec 2013

In this case it is our first grandchild, with whom we share a home. As she is still an infant, the waiting was no issue, and for that matter, the whole concept will elude her. But we happily play along with her folks, who are intent on simulating what they think they remember from their own experience and probably more accurately have absorbed from common acculturation.

The little one will be at least a bit surprised tomorrow morn to find objects under the tree she has almost come to take for granted and stockings hung by the chimney that if she noticed them at all were formerly lying in a pile on a table.

Our version of reindeer games.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
23. I love the whole Santa 13
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 03:57 AM
Dec 2013

it brings great memories and I hope I was able to make the same as for my kids

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
29. Just finished
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 06:14 AM
Dec 2013

My older 2 wanted to stay up and help, but ended up being more of a hindrance, LOL. Oh well, they enjoyed it. Then I had to wait for them to go to bed before I could do their stuff. So, I'm much later than usual. And, yet, here I am on DU instead of sleeping!

logosoco

(3,208 posts)
31. I miss that!
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 08:51 AM
Dec 2013

My youngest is 19, and my oldest is now in the Santa role. I felt kind of empty last night, or I had the feeling there was something I was supposed to be doing! I need to find a new tradition.
Someone on this thread mentioned something about the Santa myth and becoming religious. This year, at almost 50, I realize that being told the Santa story and finding out it was make believe helped me look at religion (raised Catholic until the age of 12, but my mom kept trying to convince me!) with a more thoughtful eye (I am now happily agnostic).
I almost remember feeling smart when I figured out the Santa story was impossible. With my kids, it was a way to make things suspenseful in a fun way to make the short days and long nights more bearable. And getting new things to enjoy during the cold weather days is fun for anyone (says this grandma with her new kindle).
Santa is not so much a lie as a game, and games are fun!
Merry Christmas everyone!

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