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yourout

(7,530 posts)
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:00 PM Feb 2014

Ever notice how every mean person you know is a Republican? Think about it...

Every self aggrandizing asshole I know is a proud died in the wool Republican.

I can not think of a single Democrat that I know that I would consider even remotely mean. I know a few that might be considered a bit arrogant but not a single one has a mean bone in their body.

Now not every Republican I know is mean(most of them are though) but pretty much every mean person I know is a Republican.

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Ever notice how every mean person you know is a Republican? Think about it... (Original Post) yourout Feb 2014 OP
I know one Democrat who's pretty much a sociopath. The Velveteen Ocelot Feb 2014 #1
Epic faulty over-generalization fail Seeking Serenity Feb 2014 #2
Thanks kwolf68 Feb 2014 #14
"Plenty of cool Republicans." Really? Where? Duer 157099 Feb 2014 #18
My family to start with, sked14 Feb 2014 #23
I would have to ask why nice people support a party built around violent sociopathy n/t Scootaloo Feb 2014 #27
Beats the living shit out of me, sked14 Feb 2014 #30
Me too. Seems to me there has to be ignorance involved Duer 157099 Feb 2014 #39
My husband, for one. Seeking Serenity Feb 2014 #28
Very true. 840high Feb 2014 #38
Sigh, not all get the red out Feb 2014 #3
Yes, I have noticed that. JaneyVee Feb 2014 #4
Gee, that's nice. greytdemocrat Feb 2014 #5
No, I haven't noticed that. Skip Intro Feb 2014 #6
No I haven't noticed that. sked14 Feb 2014 #7
Rahm Emmanuel and his ilk prove that Dems can be self-grandiing, mean a****les, too. nt tblue37 Feb 2014 #8
Good point...... yourout Feb 2014 #9
I'm a mean person and I'm a Democrat. el_bryanto Feb 2014 #10
I everyone that I know personally is pretty mean-spirited. But I don't travel in circles with any kelliekat44 Feb 2014 #11
Sorry, I've known some self-proclaimed "liberals" that were flaming dickwads. Throd Feb 2014 #12
i have seen plenty of mean from dems, right here on du. a lottsa good. seabeyond Feb 2014 #13
I know plenty of liberals and Democrats who are total assholes. Gravitycollapse Feb 2014 #15
98% Correct Loaded Liberal Dem Feb 2014 #16
I don't personally know many conservatives. Control-Z Feb 2014 #17
No, not at all etherealtruth Feb 2014 #19
I can be mean. (it's only the truth) Solly Mack Feb 2014 #20
One thing DU has taught me BainsBane Feb 2014 #21
Total nonsense Lurks Often Feb 2014 #22
Get out more nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #24
You should get out more... Lost_Count Feb 2014 #25
Democrat and Republican? No. RedCappedBandit Feb 2014 #26
A little backwards; every republican I know IS a mean, petty person Scootaloo Feb 2014 #29
No doubt about it madokie Feb 2014 #31
Time for the Two Minutes Hate? No thanks. woo me with science Feb 2014 #32
I know lots of people. dilby Feb 2014 #33
That is not my experience. proudretiredvet Feb 2014 #34
I cant say all but most certainly most. Notafraidtoo Feb 2014 #35
I noticed this a while back Sarah Ibarruri Feb 2014 #36
I wouldn't know the political affiliation of the people I know TorchTheWitch Feb 2014 #37
+1. I was starting to think that I was the only DUer who did not know the political affiliation Nye Bevan Feb 2014 #40
Oh bullshit pipi_k Feb 2014 #41
I've thought that for a long time. They are not only mean Auntie Bush Feb 2014 #42
I know many hostile, mean Democrats. PlanetaryOrbit Feb 2014 #43
I know a handful that aren't. JoeyT Feb 2014 #44
I know a few Republicans who are decent people, but... Shampoobra Feb 2014 #45
Shameful nonsense. N.T. Donald Ian Rankin Feb 2014 #46
Yup or they screech they are not a Republican but a Conservative or TeaHadist wocaonimabi Feb 2014 #47

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,732 posts)
1. I know one Democrat who's pretty much a sociopath.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:05 PM
Feb 2014

But off the top of my head I can't think of any other Democrat I know personally who is just plain mean (though I'm sure there are some, just as I know for a fact there are Democrats who are criminals of various stripes). Most of the true assholes with whom I am personally acquainted are Republicans and/or Teabaggers, though I try to avoid knowing them at all. The nastiest person I know, my SIL, is full-on teabagger.

kwolf68

(7,365 posts)
14. Thanks
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:56 PM
Feb 2014

There are plenty of asshole Democrats and plenty of cool Republicans. Once we start with these type of stereotypes, we become the enemy.

Duer 157099

(17,742 posts)
18. "Plenty of cool Republicans." Really? Where?
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:58 PM
Feb 2014

I may have met one or two in my whole life, but plenty? PLENTY? Where the hell are they hiding?

 

sked14

(579 posts)
23. My family to start with,
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:05 PM
Feb 2014

many of my work mates were republicans and were some of the nicest people I ever met.
Meanness is not exclusively repub. there are plenty of dems who are just as mean.

 

sked14

(579 posts)
30. Beats the living shit out of me,
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:12 PM
Feb 2014

but you can have a pleasant personality and still belong to that party just as you can be a complete assholish personality and belong to the dem party.

Duer 157099

(17,742 posts)
39. Me too. Seems to me there has to be ignorance involved
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 11:01 PM
Feb 2014

And that is being generous.

If someone is fully aware and educated about what the GOP stands for and votes for and is still considered a "nice' person, then it boggles the mind. It's like someone stabbing you to death while smiling and pretending to care about you. Just can't wrap my head around it.

Seeking Serenity

(2,840 posts)
28. My husband, for one.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:10 PM
Feb 2014

The man (who along with my sons) that I love more than anyone else on this planet.

That's enough for me.

(edited for missing word)

get the red out

(13,466 posts)
3. Sigh, not all
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:08 PM
Feb 2014

I used to work for a confirmed liberal who was one of the most sneaky, back-biting, underhanded, gossipy people I ever met. She used her liberal talk to sound all kind and accepting until she gained someone's trust then she would use whatever info she gleaned from them against them at the first opportunity.

But I agree that most really nasty people are Republicans. There's something about that angry mindset that can make people unpleasant.

Skip Intro

(19,768 posts)
6. No, I haven't noticed that.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:12 PM
Feb 2014

Some of the nicest people I've ever known have been repubs (living in SC, I encounter a lot of them), and some of the biggest assholes I've ever dealt with are Democrats.

Generalizations are faulty.

 

sked14

(579 posts)
7. No I haven't noticed that.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:16 PM
Feb 2014

I know just as many mean, low life Democrats as Republicans.
Meanness crosses party lines.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
10. I'm a mean person and I'm a Democrat.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:23 PM
Feb 2014

Got that confirmed just today at work; apparently I should be more tolerant of people not being able to do their jobs.

Bryant

 

kelliekat44

(7,759 posts)
11. I everyone that I know personally is pretty mean-spirited. But I don't travel in circles with any
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:37 PM
Feb 2014

Rethugs.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
13. i have seen plenty of mean from dems, right here on du. a lottsa good.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:54 PM
Feb 2014

i know lots of good repugs and not really any mean repugs, cause in rl i do not hang with ugly people. and we do not have repugs on du "supposedly". lol

silly statement, imo

Control-Z

(15,682 posts)
17. I don't personally know many conservatives.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:58 PM
Feb 2014

But there is a shitload of mean coming from conservative leaders. They are the party of mean. I am suspect of anyone who self identifies with that party.

For quite a while now I have thought that a good ad campaign would be to point out how mean/thoughtless/cold hearted republican leaders are, show examples of them in action (Chris Christie), and ask why anyone would want to be a member of the mean party.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
19. No, not at all
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 09:59 PM
Feb 2014

Being an ass crosses all 'lines"

I know personally wonderful Democrats and Republicans ... wonderful apolitical folk.

Sometimes ass holes are ass holes first ... they choose a political party second

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
21. One thing DU has taught me
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:03 PM
Feb 2014

Whatever assumptions one has about what it means to be a Democrat do not necessarily hold.

I don't know a lot of Republicans because I live in a very blue city, but I I know one or who are more progressive on a few issues that some who say they are Democrats. One Republican I know isn't right in the head. The rest are perfectly pleasant people.

 

Lurks Often

(5,455 posts)
22. Total nonsense
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:03 PM
Feb 2014

I know a bunch of people who are Republicans and most are nice people.

I see more nastiness and meanness here, then I ever do face to face with them.


RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
26. Democrat and Republican? No.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:09 PM
Feb 2014

But I would be hard pressed to come up with a true liberal who I consider mean.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
29. A little backwards; every republican I know IS a mean, petty person
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:10 PM
Feb 2014

Butthey don't hold the monopoly by any means

dilby

(2,273 posts)
33. I know lots of people.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:22 PM
Feb 2014

And nasty people come in all forms, wish I could agree with you but unfortunately I can't. Living in Portland Oregon I see lots of mean people and although I have no idea on everyone's political affiliation statistically saying a majority of them here are liberal and there are some real jerks here.

 

proudretiredvet

(312 posts)
34. That is not my experience.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:26 PM
Feb 2014

I have run into many political zealots who come from many different directions. They were all crazy and would say or do anything to support their position.

The lesson I learned is if you see a zealot do not expect rational thought processes from them. Play nice and get away from them.

Notafraidtoo

(402 posts)
35. I cant say all but most certainly most.
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:29 PM
Feb 2014

The nice Republicans i know have a mean streak that wasn't apparent until i knew them awhile, and i know only one Democrat in my life that's mean.There is a lot of variables, a nice person can also be stupid and just believe bullshit that makes them look a bit evil.


If i had to put a % on it and subtract the people that are mean because they are ignorant i would say 70% of republicans in my life are very cruel even though many can put on a charming appearance, they are very nasty to their loved ones and their stereotypes fill them with a lot of hatred.

Some people i think because of cognitive issues can only empathize with their own family members and themselves, this makes them nasty to people not in their circle but i also think this involves low critical thinking and mathematical skills.

Even if the only thing you care about is yourself its still the smart money to help others.

Sarah Ibarruri

(21,043 posts)
36. I noticed this a while back
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:40 PM
Feb 2014

Do they even know they're being mean, or are they just so used to it being such evil d*cks that they no longer notice?

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
37. I wouldn't know the political affiliation of the people I know
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 10:54 PM
Feb 2014

Mean people or otherwise. I doubt a lot of them are even registered to vote. I don't go around quizzing people about their politics but like them or not based on what kind of person they are. How they vote or whether or not they do is no concern of mine, and frankly, not any of my business. People that always want to talk politics with me are people I want to run away from.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
40. +1. I was starting to think that I was the only DUer who did not know the political affiliation
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 11:19 PM
Feb 2014

of everyone I know. Probably for the majority, I do not know. I also don't know how many in my extended family plus my in-laws vote. There are so many other things to talk about than politics.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
41. Oh bullshit
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 11:26 PM
Feb 2014

Like some others have pointed out, I too know, and have known, some damned nice Republicans, and some pretty assholish Democrats

Auntie Bush

(17,528 posts)
42. I've thought that for a long time. They are not only mean
Wed Feb 12, 2014, 11:29 PM
Feb 2014

but racist, predigest, selfish, crazy, liars, cheaters and many more things I think of later. Anyway, seems like Dems aren't like that. I don't think we have anyone that fits those descriptions. They just plain suck.

PlanetaryOrbit

(155 posts)
43. I know many hostile, mean Democrats.
Thu Feb 13, 2014, 12:06 AM
Feb 2014

I also know a lot of friendly Republicans.


The absurd, broad stereotyping of this thread title is unbecoming of a liberal message board.

JoeyT

(6,785 posts)
44. I know a handful that aren't.
Thu Feb 13, 2014, 01:38 AM
Feb 2014

Some are as virulent a racist or as nasty a theocrat as any Republican.

It isn't really that we don't have any, it's that they have them in far far far greater numbers.

Shampoobra

(423 posts)
45. I know a few Republicans who are decent people, but...
Thu Feb 13, 2014, 04:45 AM
Feb 2014

...when I think about how I would define "self aggrandizing asshole," I can think of a handful of specific individuals I know (or have known), and they're all Republicans.

 

wocaonimabi

(187 posts)
47. Yup or they screech they are not a Republican but a Conservative or TeaHadist
Thu Feb 13, 2014, 05:22 AM
Feb 2014

Republicans are too liberal in their book.

I have NEVER met one I liked, I cannot stand to be around them and I stopped being nice to them long ago, civil is as far as I will go with them, now if they say or do something ignorant I call them out publically on their BS and make them defend their nonsense.


Back in the day I knew a few of the old Dixicrats who were in the democratic party but they all became Republicans over the years.


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