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People saying "have a good holiday" for Thanksgiving? (Original Post) Nye Bevan Nov 2014 OP
I am hearing that too but I really don't care if they say either one. CTyankee Nov 2014 #1
I still say "Happy Thanksgiving". HappyMe Nov 2014 #2
Why would you think that it's not okay? Sheldon Cooper Nov 2014 #3
Is it possible that anyone is offended by "Happy Thanksgiving"? (nt) Nye Bevan Nov 2014 #5
It hardly seems likely. Sheldon Cooper Nov 2014 #6
Native Americans? GummyBearz Nov 2014 #12
Some of the ones I know consider it a day of mourning. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Nov 2014 #24
I thought they were invited as well hollysmom Nov 2014 #27
Yea GummyBearz Nov 2014 #33
Is it possible that Thanksgiving is a "holiday"? PassingFair Nov 2014 #22
OH MY GOD IT'S THE WAR ON THANKSGIVING ZOMMMDDDD AHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! Tommy_Carcetti Nov 2014 #4
^^^Was EXACTLY my first thought! tblue Nov 2014 #13
Bring it on! dawg Nov 2014 #21
Sir! pipi_k Nov 2014 #31
Have a blessed Thanksgiving! hrmjustin Nov 2014 #7
Well, that's one I hate. Placing your religiousity onto someone else. HERVEPA Nov 2014 #35
I understand how you feel. hrmjustin Nov 2014 #36
Well, maybe don't do it then you know. HERVEPA Nov 2014 #50
Obviously my point went over your head. hrmjustin Nov 2014 #51
That's correct. You don't need permission. HERVEPA Nov 2014 #52
Wow your just rude! hrmjustin Nov 2014 #53
That's "you're"/ And some folks get sick of other people's "blessings" being thrust upon them HERVEPA Nov 2014 #54
Yes I commit the sin of bad grammar. hrmjustin Nov 2014 #56
OFFS! nt ChisolmTrailDem Nov 2014 #8
happy holidays are used here on out because it is the holiday "season". three in a row. seabeyond Nov 2014 #9
My Take As Well ProfessorGAC Nov 2014 #15
"Happy Holiday" (sometimes performed as "Happy Holidays") is a popular song by Irving Berlin bananas Nov 2014 #28
ROFLMAO, did you really just ask if it is okay to say Happy Thanksgiving? snooper2 Nov 2014 #10
Toilet day - was that November 4th by chance? rurallib Nov 2014 #41
United Nations declares Nov. 19 'World Toilet Day' snooper2 Nov 2014 #44
Better than that cutesie 'Happy Turkey Day'. Demit Nov 2014 #11
As a veg, I hate that term but I ain't about to make a stink tblue Nov 2014 #14
I Use That Term ProfessorGAC Nov 2014 #17
well you better have a happy turkey day, my happy turkey will be in my BELLY snooper2 Nov 2014 #45
Boy, you're really overthinking this frazzled Nov 2014 #16
I think the obnoxiousdrunk Nov 2014 #18
Not any more. The shopping now starts on Thursday. nt LiberalEsto Nov 2014 #48
Happy Turkey Day! aikoaiko Nov 2014 #19
I say that a lot. Seems to roll better off the riversedge Nov 2014 #26
When I worked in retail tabbycat31 Nov 2014 #20
Yep, I've heard that a lot! n/t RKP5637 Nov 2014 #25
I had a lot of British and Aussie Friends and learned riversedge Nov 2014 #29
That's why I can't stand these morons who get offended by "Happy Holidays" Arugula Latte Nov 2014 #32
Faux Nooze and RW radio have to give them something Mariana Nov 2014 #59
Happy Whatever! lol n/t RKP5637 Nov 2014 #23
How do you sleep with such problems? Starry Messenger Nov 2014 #30
"Happy Holidays" dates back at least to the 1970s and was common at least back to the 1890s bananas Nov 2014 #34
Excuse me, but everyone knows THE PROPER comment is HereSince1628 Nov 2014 #37
OK, that one I can't argue against ballabosh Nov 2014 #58
I say either "happy thanksgiving" or "have a good holiday" bigwillq Nov 2014 #38
I've been mixing it up today, wishing my patients either salutation as they leave the clinic. Aristus Nov 2014 #57
I say have a happy holiday. Fuck if I know what day of the week it is any any point in time Paulie Nov 2014 #39
Say whatever you want JonLP24 Nov 2014 #40
back in the catholic schools we were told that 'holiday' is a contraction for 'holy day' rurallib Nov 2014 #42
It's all okay. Iggo Nov 2014 #43
It's because of our increasing conflation of T-giving and Christmas as one long hoilday. WinkyDink Nov 2014 #46
Korporit America wants you to say "Happy shopping" LiberalEsto Nov 2014 #47
This is an outrage! subterranean Nov 2014 #49
I've always heard that for every holiday gollygee Nov 2014 #55
I don't mean it in the sense of enjoy your thanksgiving when I say it justiceischeap Nov 2014 #60
Why is it murderous? LWolf Nov 2014 #63
I wouldn't be surprised if some of them are doing it Mariana Nov 2014 #61
Why wouldn't it be? LWolf Nov 2014 #62
no, it is now illegal to say "Happy Thanksgiving" Enrique Nov 2014 #64
You should let Cpl. Billo' Reilly know right away. We're going to war motherfuckers!! Guy Whitey Corngood Nov 2014 #65
I celebrate Thanksgiving on June 27th. nt Zorra Nov 2014 #66
Sure Derek V Nov 2014 #67

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
1. I am hearing that too but I really don't care if they say either one.
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 11:41 AM
Nov 2014

To me there is no difference when it comes to Thanksgiving.

 

GummyBearz

(2,931 posts)
33. Yea
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 12:19 PM
Nov 2014

Kind of like in The Godfather... getting that brotherly kiss on the cheek right before your murder is ordered

PassingFair

(22,434 posts)
22. Is it possible that Thanksgiving is a "holiday"?
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 12:04 PM
Nov 2014

I don't know why you would assume saying "Have a Happy Holiday" means
that they find the "holiday" offensive in any way.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,182 posts)
4. OH MY GOD IT'S THE WAR ON THANKSGIVING ZOMMMDDDD AHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 11:43 AM
Nov 2014

Sorry, what was that?

I'm sorry, I don't get the hang up on what people call whatever holidays. It's pretty much a non-issue. Just enjoy the holidays as you see fit, and not get worked up on what people call them.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
51. Obviously my point went over your head.
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 02:03 PM
Nov 2014

My point was that some don't want us posting some holiday postings.


And yes I will post it and don't need anyones permission on what to post thank you.

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
54. That's "you're"/ And some folks get sick of other people's "blessings" being thrust upon them
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 07:30 PM
Nov 2014

Maybe your religion should be personal, you know.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
56. Yes I commit the sin of bad grammar.
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 07:36 PM
Nov 2014

But you need to remember one thing. You are the one who started and inflicted your view on me. I was talking to the op who has no problem with my wishing him a blessed thanksgiving.

Maybe you should consider the way you thrust your opinion on others.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
9. happy holidays are used here on out because it is the holiday "season". three in a row.
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 11:46 AM
Nov 2014

thanksgiving
christmas
new years

many reduce it to a mere happy holidays, refraining from identifying the closest holiday. not cause of offense, or some imagined "war" on the holidays.

ooops. used holiday instead of saying the holidays individually.

ProfessorGAC

(65,054 posts)
15. My Take As Well
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 11:57 AM
Nov 2014

Seems to be the most inclusive and all-encompassing greeting or parting phrase. It covers all three holidays, and doesn't matter what religious significance the person saying it or hearing places on any of those days.

I use that all the time.

bananas

(27,509 posts)
28. "Happy Holiday" (sometimes performed as "Happy Holidays") is a popular song by Irving Berlin
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 12:11 PM
Nov 2014
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Happy_Holiday_%28song%29

The song was introduced by Bing Crosby in the film Holiday Inn (1942). While it is commonly regarded as a Christmas song, in the film it is performed on New Year's Eve, and expresses a wish for the listener to enjoy "happy holidays" throughout the entire year.

The song helped to popularize the phrase "Happy holidays" as a common greeting during the Christmas and holiday season in the United States.

Cover versions

Acoustix
The Carpenters
Perry Como
Faith Evans
Percy Faith
Jackie Gleason
Steve Lawrence and Eydie Gorme
Peggy Lee
Living Strings and Living Voices
Barry Manilow
Johnny Mathis
Nelson Riddle
Jo Stafford
Sarah Vaughan
Dionne Warwick
Andy Williams

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
10. ROFLMAO, did you really just ask if it is okay to say Happy Thanksgiving?
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 11:46 AM
Nov 2014

LOL

come on....

say whatever floats your boat, Merry Christmas, Happy Toilet Day (that was a couple weeks back)

I like Turkey Day myself-

or Happy Carnivore day! EAT ME SOME MEAT!

rurallib

(62,416 posts)
41. Toilet day - was that November 4th by chance?
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 01:04 PM
Nov 2014

sure felt like it.
We had a turd named Joni Ernst fall out of the bowl that day.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
44. United Nations declares Nov. 19 'World Toilet Day'
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 01:14 PM
Nov 2014

Singapore diplomat Mark Neo said he doesn’t care if people laugh about ‘World Toilet Day’ because it spotlights a serious problem: 2.5 billion people worldwide don’t have access to proper sanitation.

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/declares-world-toilet-day-article-1.1409180


 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
11. Better than that cutesie 'Happy Turkey Day'.
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 11:47 AM
Nov 2014

Which is like fingernails on a blackboard to me.

Edited to add: Didn't see the post above mine. Oh, well. Tomato, tomahto.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
14. As a veg, I hate that term but I ain't about to make a stink
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 11:53 AM
Nov 2014

about it.

Poor turkeys all gonna die.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
45. well you better have a happy turkey day, my happy turkey will be in my BELLY
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 01:15 PM
Nov 2014

along with my happy ham

Shit, that reminds me I need to pick up some wood for my smoker!

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
16. Boy, you're really overthinking this
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 11:57 AM
Nov 2014

Thanksgiving IS a holiday. Words really aren't that important. Throw-away lines like "have a good holiday" don't contain any nefarious subcontext or ideological import. They're just greetings. Smile and say thanks, you too.

riversedge

(70,239 posts)
26. I say that a lot. Seems to roll better off the
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 12:09 PM
Nov 2014

tongue than Happy Thanksgiving......!! for some reason the HT.G is a tongue twister for me.

tabbycat31

(6,336 posts)
20. When I worked in retail
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 12:02 PM
Nov 2014

I would say "Happy Holidays" (fuck you Faux News War on Christmas) and it would mean everything between Thanksgiving and New Year's.

riversedge

(70,239 posts)
29. I had a lot of British and Aussie Friends and learned
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 12:11 PM
Nov 2014

to say Holiday for almost any celebration including just "going on holiday" (2 or 3 day weekend etc).

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
32. That's why I can't stand these morons who get offended by "Happy Holidays"
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 12:14 PM
Nov 2014

It could mean "Merry Christmas and Happy New Year" or any combo of holidays that applies -- it's not excluding Christmas (aka Baby Jesus Fake Birthday Day Co-opted from Pagan Celebrations ... hmm, maybe I should start calling it that to really piss 'em off)

Mariana

(14,857 posts)
59. Faux Nooze and RW radio have to give them something
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 08:22 PM
Nov 2014

to get up in arms about. Some of the churches are egging them on, too. I think very few of them would pay any attention if they hadn't been told to be angry about it.

If it hasn't already happened to you, just wait till some perennially pissed-off "conservative" literally snarls "Merry Christmas" at you. It's just hilarious when they do that, it's so hard not to fall over laughing at them.

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
30. How do you sleep with such problems?
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 12:13 PM
Nov 2014

I say have a good holiday--perhaps not everyone celebrates TG but will have time for a break.

bananas

(27,509 posts)
34. "Happy Holidays" dates back at least to the 1970s and was common at least back to the 1890s
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 12:26 PM
Nov 2014
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christmas_and_holiday_season#Happy_Holidays

Happy Holidays
For other meanings of "Happy Holidays", see Happy Holidays (disambiguation).

In the United States, "Happy Holidays" (along with the similarly generalized "Season's Greetings&quot has become a common holiday greeting in the public sphere of department stores, public schools and greeting cards. Its use is generally confined to the period between United States Thanksgiving and New Year's Day. American use of the term "Happy Holidays" to replace "Merry Christmas" dates back at least to the 1970s[57] and was a common phrase relating to the Christmas season at least going back to the 1890s.[58] The term may have gained further popularity with the Irving Berlin song "Happy Holiday" (introduced in the 1942 film Holiday Inn).

In the United States, it can have several variations and meanings:[citation needed]

- As "Happy Holiday", an English translation of the Hebrew Hag Sameach greeting on Passover, Sukkot, and Shavuot.

- As "Happy Holiday", a substitution for "Merry Christmas".

- As "Happy Holidays", a collective and inclusive wish for the period encompassing Thanksgiving, Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary, the Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe, the Winter solstice, Christmas Day (The Nativity of the Lord), Boxing Day (St. Stephen's Day), the New Year and Epiphany.

- As "Happy Holidays", a shortened form of the greeting "Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year."

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
38. I say either "happy thanksgiving" or "have a good holiday"
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 12:46 PM
Nov 2014

There's really no rhyme or reason to which one I say. Sometimes "Happy Thanksgiving" comes out, and sometimes "have a good holiday". I guess it depends on whatever mood my brain is in at the time.

Aristus

(66,380 posts)
57. I've been mixing it up today, wishing my patients either salutation as they leave the clinic.
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 07:36 PM
Nov 2014

'Holiday' is a lot easier to say, especially repeatedly, like today. 'Thanksgiving' just has too many kinks, edges and sharp corners in it to say over and over.

Paulie

(8,462 posts)
39. I say have a happy holiday. Fuck if I know what day of the week it is any any point in time
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 12:48 PM
Nov 2014

I think I said it last week too. It's better than yelling at clouds...

rurallib

(62,416 posts)
42. back in the catholic schools we were told that 'holiday' is a contraction for 'holy day'
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 01:10 PM
Nov 2014

and thus it is good and ok to call any religiously oriented holy day to be called a holiday.
Since Thanksgiving would fit the criteria (giving thanks to GOD) it is a holy day or holiday.

True or not, some nun saw fit to teach us that somewhere @ 3rd grade.

And of course Christmas and New Years (actually the feast of the circumcision - yes really) are also holidays (holy days). Some of the shit I wish I didn't remember.

 

LiberalEsto

(22,845 posts)
47. Korporit America wants you to say "Happy shopping"
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 01:23 PM
Nov 2014

or "Happy Black Thursday, blue light specials in the electronics aisle at 4:15 pm."

subterranean

(3,427 posts)
49. This is an outrage!
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 01:48 PM
Nov 2014

Those people are totally out of line, and I hope you make sure to let them know it!

I feel the same way when people tell me to "have a good one" instead of the traditional "have a nice day."

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
55. I've always heard that for every holiday
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 07:31 PM
Nov 2014

Holiday is just a generic word for various holidays (obviously.) It works for lots of them.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
60. I don't mean it in the sense of enjoy your thanksgiving when I say it
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 08:32 PM
Nov 2014

because to me thanksgiving is a murderous celebration... when I say "Enjoy the holiday!" I mean, enjoy the time off work, you deserve it. You know, like Europeans go on holiday, not vacation.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
63. Why is it murderous?
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 11:08 AM
Nov 2014

It's a harvest festival. Yes, that involves the killing of some plants and animals for food, but what DO you eat that wasn't killed, or that doesn't die in the process?

Mariana

(14,857 posts)
61. I wouldn't be surprised if some of them are doing it
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 08:33 PM
Nov 2014

just to provoke the people who come unglued when they hear "Happy Holidays" around Christmas time. By all means, let's get them riled up believing there's a War on Thanksgiving in addition to the imaginary War on Christmas.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
62. Why wouldn't it be?
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 11:06 AM
Nov 2014

Personally, I think the time and energy spent obsessing over how others refer to various holidays is grossly misspent.

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