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LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
Wed Dec 3, 2014, 11:17 PM Dec 2014

Garner Protests - They're on the bridge(s) too - This from Notify NYC

Notification issued 12/03/2014 at 9:15 PM. Due to protest activity, expect extensive traffic delays on the Manhattanbound Robert F. Kennedy Bridge. Consider alternate routes into Manhattan.



The sender provided the following contact information.
Sender's Name: Notify NYC
Sender's Email: notifynyc@oem.nyc.gov

(Notify NYC provides email and text notifications of emergencies and significant events among other things)

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Garner Protests - They're on the bridge(s) too - This from Notify NYC (Original Post) LiberalElite Dec 2014 OP
Just read a post saying they had managed to shut dow NYC misterhighwasted Dec 2014 #1
There's a number of tunnels & bridges in and around LiberalElite Dec 2014 #2
They haven't "shut down NYC", not by a long shot sir pball Dec 2014 #40
Once again, apparently "NYC" equates to "Manhattan"... brooklynite Dec 2014 #73
Yes, let's fuck with people customerserviceguy Dec 2014 #3
Oh look, another white guy who doesn't get it. morningfog Dec 2014 #4
Oh look, another "fuck everybody" guy who doesn't get it customerserviceguy Dec 2014 #6
Yep. You don't get it. It has jack shit to do with catching flies. morningfog Dec 2014 #8
Yeah, and you watch customerserviceguy Dec 2014 #11
This is not about coalition building. morningfog Dec 2014 #14
Those expressions of rage customerserviceguy Dec 2014 #16
I will join them in DC next Saturday. rbrnmw Dec 2014 #28
If the majority were actually part of the solution Kalidurga Dec 2014 #52
Rioting NOLALady Dec 2014 #33
Exactly, the Republicans actively wooed all the southern bigots Warpy Dec 2014 #48
i'm also old enough to remember. DesertFlower Dec 2014 #79
i agree. DesertFlower Dec 2014 #78
Whatever they are exercising their 1st Amendment Rights get over it rbrnmw Dec 2014 #5
Excercising 1st Amendment rights customerserviceguy Dec 2014 #7
what part of Civil Disobedience don't you get? rbrnmw Dec 2014 #10
Post removed Post removed Dec 2014 #12
What the fuck? "Turn undecided people into racists?" morningfog Dec 2014 #15
Wait, and watch for the reactions customerserviceguy Dec 2014 #20
I was on my way home today and decided to become a racist! morningfog Dec 2014 #21
You will never get it customerserviceguy Dec 2014 #23
I'll be sure to watch for those future news reports. morningfog Dec 2014 #24
No doubt rbrnmw Dec 2014 #27
Protests are about making people who are not aware, become aware, if that makes the unawared Dont call me Shirley Dec 2014 #29
Racists NOLALady Dec 2014 #35
Actually, most of us will cheerfully support as long as the protests just snarl traffic sir pball Dec 2014 #37
Someone bought all the eggnog at the store today, donated to the food bank, left none for me!!!!! uppityperson Dec 2014 #70
I don't like these arguments, but, MoonRiver Dec 2014 #65
When did you go over to the other side? nt LiberalElite Dec 2014 #60
The only thing I wasn't OK with (as a resident) was the tree. sir pball Dec 2014 #9
Good luck getting home customerserviceguy Dec 2014 #13
Do you think members of the grand jury should be targeted? morningfog Dec 2014 #18
They're more to blame customerserviceguy Dec 2014 #22
It wasn't a problem as much as an inconvenience. sir pball Dec 2014 #32
It's a symbol of the fascist state. morningfog Dec 2014 #17
No, it's a fucking Christmas tree. sir pball Dec 2014 #26
It's a Christmas tree named for a family who is promoting hatred, racism and division. Dont call me Shirley Dec 2014 #30
As I said, we realize this as adults sir pball Dec 2014 #31
Seeing a giant tree light up is magical to a child. Dont call me Shirley Dec 2014 #36
Yes. I don't even disagree with you. sir pball Dec 2014 #38
No it would be a teachable moment rbrnmw Dec 2014 #42
I think the ones who would be young enough to be really upset by missing the lighting sir pball Dec 2014 #45
Remember this is about Eric Garner's life being stolen and his family's Christmas being stolen Dont call me Shirley Dec 2014 #44
This is probably the single greatest travesty of justice I've seen in my 35 years on the planet sir pball Dec 2014 #46
There are so many lives being cut short Tsiyu Dec 2014 #54
The protests should absolutely be disruptive sir pball Dec 2014 #61
Disrupting a tree lighting to protest racism and police violence is "spreading misery"? uppityperson Dec 2014 #71
Children's lives are generally that simple, yes. sir pball Dec 2014 #75
Ah, the Sacred Tree Lighting, that most important of all ceremonies that brings joy to all the child uppityperson Dec 2014 #76
So disrupting a Christmas tree lighting is nastier than anything else, worse than the murder Dont call me Shirley Dec 2014 #62
Where did I say that? sir pball Dec 2014 #66
Here... Dont call me Shirley Dec 2014 #67
Ah, that's not what I meant. Ambiguous grammar. sir pball Dec 2014 #68
It makes us "nothing less than utterly miserable and devastated" uppityperson Dec 2014 #72
Educating children is good. Letting them know that no, everything is not peachy is fine with me. uppityperson Dec 2014 #49
Welcome to te cruel world kids. morningfog Dec 2014 #57
The US, a fascist state? Really? Albertoo Dec 2014 #53
Functioning? LuvNewcastle Dec 2014 #56
Yes, functioning. Have you lived in the developing world? Recursion Dec 2014 #74
Well maybe you should do more to help your fellow citizens Cali_Democrat Dec 2014 #25
So should we just cancel Christmas? sir pball Dec 2014 #34
If that's what it takes yes we should rbrnmw Dec 2014 #39
I hope you don't have any young children in your family. sir pball Dec 2014 #41
if approached in the right manner it would do just that rbrnmw Dec 2014 #43
Hey kids, let's donate and help people get their rights, showing the true spirit of christmas, uppityperson Dec 2014 #50
Or just...let kids be kids sir pball Dec 2014 #51
So teach them that "things" are more important than justice? Tsiyu Dec 2014 #55
I guess if you consider the tree lighting to be a "thing" sir pball Dec 2014 #64
Let them be the center of the gift giving, tis better to receive than give? uppityperson Dec 2014 #69
Too bad you didn't have that uncle. morningfog Dec 2014 #58
It's 'Garner'. The least you could do is show the respect necessary to name the KingCharlemagne Dec 2014 #19
You were directly fucked with? Please explain... Blue_Tires Dec 2014 #47
i agree. of course i'll probably be DesertFlower Dec 2014 #77
A tip for customerserviceguy if he's still reading this thread justiceischeap Dec 2014 #59
Whoops! FSogol Dec 2014 #63

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
40. They haven't "shut down NYC", not by a long shot
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:57 AM
Dec 2014

I get all the Notify NYC alerts, so far it's the West Side Highway, RFK/Triborough bridge inbound, and major snarls in the Times Square/Rockefeller Center area. Also lots of people in all the parks, look for a good showing at Union Square tomorrow (though we all know to avoid that place when things get dicey, it's ground zero for protest).

Practically, I had to take my second-choice subway home since my main train is down and the buses are subject to traffic. Took about 15 minutes longer than usual.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
3. Yes, let's fuck with people
Wed Dec 3, 2014, 11:47 PM
Dec 2014

who were not on the grand jury, had nothing to do with the case, and probably are sympathetic to Gardner's family's cause. Which may well turn them against that cause.

Protest, bitch, scream, yell, whatever. But it's counterproductive to screw with people you're trying to get on your side.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
6. Oh look, another "fuck everybody" guy who doesn't get it
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:38 AM
Dec 2014

You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
8. Yep. You don't get it. It has jack shit to do with catching flies.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:43 AM
Dec 2014

If you don't get it by now, just get out of the way and let the rest march towards justice.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
11. Yeah, and you watch
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:47 AM
Dec 2014

how the protests against this that get out of control alienate the very people we need to get on our side.

I have no idea how old you are, but I'm damned well old enough to remember how race-based rioting during the last half of the Sixties turned the electorate towards that rat bastard Richard Nixon, even with George Wallace bleeding off the worst of the racist vote, and grabbing the electoral votes from five states that would have gone with Nixon had Wallace not been a candidate in the 1968 election.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
14. This is not about coalition building.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:55 AM
Dec 2014

It is as if you don't understand the words I write. This is not about policy changes. This is pure, and warranted, expressions of rage. They are necessary. The rage is building and it is not your place to judge the the actions. It is not your place to presume you know what is best for them or that you understand their objectives. Because you clearly do not.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
16. Those expressions of rage
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:57 AM
Dec 2014

that mess with people who are potentially part of the solution, and were never part of the problem, will backfire like crazy. I've lived long enough to see numerous examples of this.

But cheer them on, and see where it gets you and them.

NOLALady

(4,003 posts)
33. Rioting
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:44 AM
Dec 2014

did not turn the election towards Nixon.

The passage of the Civil Rights Bill turned the masses towards Republican Rule.

Warpy

(111,282 posts)
48. Exactly, the Republicans actively wooed all the southern bigots
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 02:29 AM
Dec 2014

and a lot of politicians switched parties fast. It was called the Southern Strategy and it worked to get Nixon in for eight rotten years, the last two of which were occupied by Ford and his WIN buttons.

Hating hippies and war protestors paled in comparison as a motivation to abandon the Democrats.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
7. Excercising 1st Amendment rights
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:40 AM
Dec 2014

doesn't involve screwing with other peoples' rights to travel freely, especially when they had NOTHING TO DO WITH THE EVENTUAL DECISION BY THE GRAND JURY.

What part of that do you need further explanation on?

Response to rbrnmw (Reply #10)

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
15. What the fuck? "Turn undecided people into racists?"
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:56 AM
Dec 2014

What are you talking about? People don't turn into racists like they choose their outfit for the day.

"Hm, I'm still undecided. Should I be a racist or not?"

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
20. Wait, and watch for the reactions
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:00 AM
Dec 2014

I'll be surprised if you don't judge them as racist.

Bottom line, piss people off who are part of the problem, not those who are potentially part of the solution.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
21. I was on my way home today and decided to become a racist!
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:02 AM
Dec 2014

Traffic delay in NYC pales in comparison to police murders.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
23. You will never get it
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:05 AM
Dec 2014

and I'm completely done with trying to get my point across to you. However, future news coverage will make my argument. Watch for it, and sit in wonderment how NY'ers will react to the protests against things they don't support and had nothing to do with. You might learn something.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
24. I'll be sure to watch for those future news reports.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:09 AM
Dec 2014

In tonight's news, Racists have grown by 30% due to undecideds stuck in traffic.

In other news, some old ass white guys remain racist.

Dont call me Shirley

(10,998 posts)
29. Protests are about making people who are not aware, become aware, if that makes the unawared
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:21 AM
Dec 2014

uncomfortable and inconvenienced then so be it. Protesting is an act of waking sleeping people up, and sometimes being awakened is not pleasant.

I support the protestors. Honk! Honk!

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
37. Actually, most of us will cheerfully support as long as the protests just snarl traffic
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:51 AM
Dec 2014

I mean, it's not like we aren't used to random, complete FUBARs of transport around here. Hell, even if they messed with the subways it wouldn't be too bad; I can't count how many times I've gone completely homicidal "because of a broken rail/track condition/signal malfunction/equipment issue, 1 trains are suspended."

Like I said, just don't mess with the tree.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
70. Someone bought all the eggnog at the store today, donated to the food bank, left none for me!!!!!
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 02:04 PM
Dec 2014

I think I'll become a racist because someone screwed with my everyday life to make a point that even people who can't buy eggnog deserve some.



Or would that be classist? Yes, I think that is it. I will never help anyone struggling financially because of that eggnog.

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
65. I don't like these arguments, but,
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:54 PM
Dec 2014

I think the, reasonable, inconvenienced people will blame the corrupt grand jury, rather than those expressing outrage.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
9. The only thing I wasn't OK with (as a resident) was the tree.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:43 AM
Dec 2014

Commercialism, hype, whatever, it's a goddamn Christmas tree the lighting of which is a happy holiday event for a lot of families and innocent kids - fucking with that is just plain mean-spirited and, well, Grinchy.

Other than that, have at - I'm about to leave work and my commute is damn likely going to be quite a bit longer and, wjatever

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
13. Good luck getting home
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:54 AM
Dec 2014

Even though you are going to be messed with, despite not being a member of the corrupt grand jury.

Sometimes protestors don't have a clue how they hurt their own cause by screwing with people who are inclined to be sympathetic, yet get turned by being indirectly blamed for the actions of others.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
18. Do you think members of the grand jury should be targeted?
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:59 AM
Dec 2014

The problem is systemic, it isn't the grand jurors.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
22. They're more to blame
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:02 AM
Dec 2014

than ordinary citizens just trying to get home.

My point is, don't screw with people you might just be able to get on your side.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
32. It wasn't a problem as much as an inconvenience.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:43 AM
Dec 2014

The 1 train isn't running so I was going to take the bus; fat luck with that tonight. So I had to go wait for an A train. Compared to what happened to Eric Garner I have no complaints at all.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
17. It's a symbol of the fascist state.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:58 AM
Dec 2014

Consumerism, corporatism and authoritarian government wrapped into on big militarized party.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
26. No, it's a fucking Christmas tree.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:14 AM
Dec 2014

Yes, as adults we can perceive a lot of the bullshit that has quite throughly worked its way into the holiday...but I personally know at least a dozen kids, from four months to 10, who went to the lighting for the innocent joy of it. Inreitierate, a crowd of angry protesters shutting it down would just be mean.

I'm assuming you avoid the so-called "holiday" altogether; I hope you don't harangue people about it at least.

Dont call me Shirley

(10,998 posts)
30. It's a Christmas tree named for a family who is promoting hatred, racism and division.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:25 AM
Dec 2014

That was not Jesus' message. He would throw the tree over just as he did at the money tables. He would be disgusted and saddened by the horrors done in his name.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
31. As I said, we realize this as adults
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:41 AM
Dec 2014

That said, I know when I was a tyke going to see the lighting, I had no idea about the Rockefellers, or the commercialization of the holiday (thankfully I was raised in a family that made XMas more about being together, giving and sharing, than BUY BUY BUY) - it was just a happy start to the season and some of my most cherished memories. Maybe I'm special in that I can have deeply conflicting views, being aware of grave injustices and cynical manipulations, while still feeling sympathetic towards the kids who just see a GIANT TREE!

Dont call me Shirley

(10,998 posts)
36. Seeing a giant tree light up is magical to a child.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:49 AM
Dec 2014

It would be so much more magical for everyone if we could equally share in the prosperity of the earth.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
38. Yes. I don't even disagree with you.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:54 AM
Dec 2014

I just think it would have been a pretty horrid thing to do to the children, who make up a lot if not the majority of the crowd, to shut down the tree lighting. I don't disagree that the trappings of the tree are questionable at best, and there are much loftier goals we as a society should be striving for - but I don't think essentially stealing Christmas from the innocents is a terribly good way to do it. Peace?

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
45. I think the ones who would be young enough to be really upset by missing the lighting
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 02:08 AM
Dec 2014

Would be a little too young to appreciate the protests and the reasoning behind them. I mean, maybe there could be some good to be taken from it, but IMO on the whole shutting down the tree would have been more, well, cruel than helpful. Letting the protesters be visible without interfering OTOH, after the fun is done little Johnny can ask "Daddy, why are those people yelling" - equally as teachable to a tyke without being upsetting.

Dont call me Shirley

(10,998 posts)
44. Remember this is about Eric Garner's life being stolen and his family's Christmas being stolen
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 02:05 AM
Dec 2014

for many years to come.

The families and kids can come back another time to see the magical tree, they are still alive.

Peace.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
46. This is probably the single greatest travesty of justice I've seen in my 35 years on the planet
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 02:11 AM
Dec 2014

Shit, if I had been physically present Eric Garner wouldn't be the dead man. Folding knives are legal in NYC.

And I still think that forcibly interrupting the tree lighting is more a petulant nasty thing to do than anything else.

Peace.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
54. There are so many lives being cut short
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 03:46 AM
Dec 2014

for no reason other than violent thug cops.

It is heartbreaking to think of the people who won't have their family members around ever again for Christmas.

Fuck a bunch f "Waaa Waaa I didn't get to see a big fancy tree and get that symbolism ingrained in my head that everything is all well with the world."

Everything is not well with the world, and it's a selfish, fucked up, petty parent whose takeaway from all this is whining about a goddamned Christmas tree.

I would use it as an opportunity to explain why things must change. My kids understood racism and hatred and greed and all of this from a very young age.

It just floors me how narcissistic people can be. "As long as my life is not troubled in any other way, your daddy's being choked to death by NYPD just isn't going to ruin my beautiful glorious holiday. Now Shoo! And have your little protest somewhere where nobody will notice and none of us is inconvenienced."

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
61. The protests should absolutely be disruptive
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:41 PM
Dec 2014

Financial District should be such a nightmare today that the NYSE is down. City Hall should be surrounded 24/7. 1PP, where to even begin...a tend thousands strong die-in on the steps, for starters? That will get the right kind of attention. But no, let's just spread misery...please, educate me, what the hell is that supposed to accomplish?

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
71. Disrupting a tree lighting to protest racism and police violence is "spreading misery"?
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 02:07 PM
Dec 2014

May all of our lives be so simply and peaceful that not having a tree lit when you think it should have been causes misery.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
75. Children's lives are generally that simple, yes.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 09:37 PM
Dec 2014

If it were almost any other event I wouldn't have a problem with it (might still think it's counterproductive but that's a different story) - but yes, forcibly disrupting the lighting in the act would make a lot of kids miserable. I know there are other posters who actually wanted that, but to me there's no redeeming protest value to it.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
76. Ah, the Sacred Tree Lighting, that most important of all ceremonies that brings joy to all the child
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 09:41 PM
Dec 2014

children of the world.

Naw, it'd be a teaching moment that human rights are important. More important than some made up tree lighting thing.

Or maybe the little kids I know find joy in playing with their friends, sibs, parents. Having a book read to them, playing Candy Land, eating a meal together. A public tree lighting, while fun, is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy down there on the list.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
66. Where did I say that?
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:54 PM
Dec 2014

Of course it isn't, but it is a petty, nasty metaphorical pissing on the kids and the season. I honestly cannot fathom why so many people insist we all have to be nothing less than utterly miserable and devastated 24/7...I'm seriously waiting for #NoJusticeNoChristmas to take off and to see targeted protests at all the holiday celebrations around the country. No smiles!

Dont call me Shirley

(10,998 posts)
67. Here...
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:57 PM
Dec 2014

And I still think that forcibly interrupting the tree lighting is more a petulant nasty thing to do than anything else.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
68. Ah, that's not what I meant. Ambiguous grammar.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:03 PM
Dec 2014

Interrupting the tree lighting would be in itself more than anything else a petty, unpleasant thing to do, as opposed to being a constructive form of protest. Not that it would be the nastiest act possible, not at all.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
49. Educating children is good. Letting them know that no, everything is not peachy is fine with me.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 02:45 AM
Dec 2014

Use it to tell them why, and not "protesters are being stupid" but about the racism still so prevalent in this country.

 

Albertoo

(2,016 posts)
53. The US, a fascist state? Really?
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 03:25 AM
Dec 2014

It's one of the only 25 countries in the world with a functioning democracy


Recursion

(56,582 posts)
74. Yes, functioning. Have you lived in the developing world?
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 03:27 PM
Dec 2014

Have you lived somewhere that every -- and I mean literally every -- interaction you have with government requires money changing hands?

 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
25. Well maybe you should do more to help your fellow citizens
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:11 AM
Dec 2014

..who are being murdered by cops.

It's more important to actually live.

Deal with it.

At least you're still breathing.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
34. So should we just cancel Christmas?
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:45 AM
Dec 2014

So much I want to say, but shorter is better..

Should any of us be allowed any joy or pleasure at all in the season, or must we all be completely horrified, angry, and miserable until all wrongs are righted?

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
41. I hope you don't have any young children in your family.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 01:59 AM
Dec 2014

I know when I was six, a cranky uncle lecturing me on social injustice as a reason for not getting me a present would have just been miserable. Not a way to change hearts and minds.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
50. Hey kids, let's donate and help people get their rights, showing the true spirit of christmas,
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 02:47 AM
Dec 2014

altruistically giving and helping each other.

VS

Hey kids, no present for you because people are being treated like shit.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
51. Or just...let kids be kids
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 03:00 AM
Dec 2014

I mean, don't shower them with a gross overabundance, but it does take a bit of maturity to understand giving and helping even...I was doing it at nine (soup kitchen for lunch Xmas Eve and Xmas both, then home for dinner) but much younger than that and it's a lost cause. Give the tykes Santa and stockings.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
55. So teach them that "things" are more important than justice?
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 05:15 AM
Dec 2014

That's good.

We Americans do that well. We buy the kids all sorts of plastic shit made by poor slave labor in China and the Third World.

Babies must have their sparkly, no matter who suffers.

Actually, I think cancelling the material part of the holidays is a great idea. I didn't expect my uncles and aunts to buy me shit. I enjoyed their visit, playing music with my family, and eating food, singing carols, playing with the cousins. I was not warped because most relatives didn't bring me a goddamned sparkly toy.

This is a teachable moment. It's up to you to decide what to teach.

sir pball

(4,743 posts)
64. I guess if you consider the tree lighting to be a "thing"
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:49 PM
Dec 2014

It is, or at least a good parent would present it as, a symbol (yes yes Rockefellers, rampant commercialism, so forth) of the season, nothing more. I think the classiest thing would have been for one of the celebrities to dedicate it to Eric Garner, but that's neither here nor there.

I certainly wasn't a spoiled child; I got gifts, but Xmas was always about bringing the family together first, spending time and celebrating each other. Yes, it's horrific that the Garner family will never have that again but insisting that we all have a sad holiday season, that daring to smile and be happy about anything at all is some great moral failing...well, I guess I'm just a selfish, pretty guy huh.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
69. Let them be the center of the gift giving, tis better to receive than give?
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 02:01 PM
Dec 2014

Young kids are very giving and empathetic and switching the "what I want for christmas" to "what is the giving spirit about, what is this santa giving thing about, how can I join in by being a helper" works for children much younger than 9.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
19. It's 'Garner'. The least you could do is show the respect necessary to name the
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 12:59 AM
Dec 2014

victim properly, FFS. This post really takes the cake.

DesertFlower

(11,649 posts)
77. i agree. of course i'll probably be
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 09:44 PM
Dec 2014

told i'm not a real liberal as i was in another thread.

that being said i'm all for protesting.

think about it. children waiting to be picked up, people trying to get to work, people with diabetes who need insulin or need to eat, but real "liberals" don't care about that. they think everyone needs to inconvenienced to get justice.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
59. A tip for customerserviceguy if he's still reading this thread
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 07:51 AM
Dec 2014

How about using some of those customer service skills in this debate instead of being so ham-handed with your opinion. You don't seem to realize that your debating skills have the same effect you accuse the protestors of NY having by shutting down traffic.

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