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Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
Mon Jan 12, 2015, 03:56 PM Jan 2015

I still believe, in spite of everything, that people are truly good at heart. Anne Frank

It's a generalization. All people? All of the time? No. But, generally, in my 70 years of encounters with all kinds of people, I've found them "good at heart".

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I still believe, in spite of everything, that people are truly good at heart. Anne Frank (Original Post) Tierra_y_Libertad Jan 2015 OP
Individually? Mostly. En masse? Rarely . . . Journeyman Jan 2015 #1
Most people live in a range between being kind and being an asshole el_bryanto Jan 2015 #2
Of course Anne wrote that while in hiding from the fascists who would eventually kill her. Bluenorthwest Jan 2015 #8
Ah - I didn't realize the correct answer was "She was hiding from Nazis so she was 100% correct." el_bryanto Jan 2015 #9
It depends... dixiegrrrrl Jan 2015 #3
Well...maybe if the cat was a kindred spirit. Tierra_y_Libertad Jan 2015 #7
"I had fun once" dixiegrrrrl Jan 2015 #12
I had a cat that was 100% pure Evil once. Even her purrs sounded ominous. Kber Jan 2015 #13
I'm voting 'Disagree' rock Jan 2015 #4
As I said, it's a generality. Tierra_y_Libertad Jan 2015 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author Donald Ian Rankin Jan 2015 #6
There are billions of people on this planet. Most don't cause problems. Avalux Jan 2015 #10
Not particularly, no. Adults are about as selfless and kind as children. Marr Jan 2015 #11

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
2. Most people live in a range between being kind and being an asshole
Mon Jan 12, 2015, 04:13 PM
Jan 2015

It depends on what you consider more representative of their heart - generally that is a function of empathy. If you feel a kinship towards someone, if you see yourselves in them, you believe them to be more good of heart; you over look their asshole qualities. By the same token if someone seems alien to you than what small moments of kindness they might exhibit are overshadowed by their larger assholery.

It's also a function of what you can get away with. If you can do a shitty job at work and someone else will cover for you, you will do a shitty job at work. That's why people are such assholes on the internet - there's no downside to being an asshole here.

Bryant

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
8. Of course Anne wrote that while in hiding from the fascists who would eventually kill her.
Mon Jan 12, 2015, 05:10 PM
Jan 2015

Certainly not as bad as the workplace or the internet, but fairly stressful to one's outlook nevertheless I'd say.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
9. Ah - I didn't realize the correct answer was "She was hiding from Nazis so she was 100% correct."
Mon Jan 12, 2015, 05:13 PM
Jan 2015

I'd be surprised if you agreed with her actually.

Bryant

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
3. It depends...
Mon Jan 12, 2015, 04:24 PM
Jan 2015

Most people can be kind and nice about some things, and not so nice about other things.
Human nature and all that.

But... I do think most people strive to be more their better selves.

Altho, for some reason, I can never picture Cheney with a purring cat.

Kber

(5,043 posts)
13. I had a cat that was 100% pure Evil once. Even her purrs sounded ominous.
Mon Jan 12, 2015, 05:56 PM
Jan 2015

That said, she was the prettiest and smartest cat that ever graced my home and she managed to be quite sweet and patient with my young children.

She made anything with four legs absolutely miserable, though. The terrorized the other cat that outweighed her by 5 pounds, the dog that outweighed her by 60 pounds, and any rodent that got within a acre of our back door.

I miss her.

rock

(13,218 posts)
4. I'm voting 'Disagree'
Mon Jan 12, 2015, 04:56 PM
Jan 2015

Though the statement is generally true, I do not find it reliable (certainly not highly reliable).

Response to Tierra_y_Libertad (Original post)

Avalux

(35,015 posts)
10. There are billions of people on this planet. Most don't cause problems.
Mon Jan 12, 2015, 05:13 PM
Jan 2015

People are not good OR bad, it's a combination of the two, as determined by their actions. I believe the percentage of people where the combination is defined by bad acts is relatively small.

"Bad acts", in this context, are decisions made to intentionally inflict pain and suffering on others without care, as a means to an end.

 

Marr

(20,317 posts)
11. Not particularly, no. Adults are about as selfless and kind as children.
Mon Jan 12, 2015, 05:20 PM
Jan 2015

And children are certainly not selfless or particularly kind.

If all is well, sure-- I think most people are pretty decent. Make things difficult and they get a whole lot less decent, very quickly.

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