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John Fugelsang (Original Post) babylonsister Aug 2016 OP
When your mom dies....a moment you will never forget your whole life. N/t Peregrine Took Aug 2016 #1
MAN you can say that again, my friend. calimary Aug 2016 #14
Absolutely right. nt Bobbie Jo Aug 2016 #16
I lost my mom 30 years ago to cancer and it still hurts. She was a young woman 45 years old. SummerSnow Aug 2016 #2
being with handmade34 Aug 2016 #3
John's Twitter recounting of his parents' love... 3catwoman3 Aug 2016 #4
thank you Peggy Fugelsang for giving the world John rurallib Aug 2016 #5
+100 narnian60 Aug 2016 #24
Exactly mjvpi Aug 2016 #26
No words evilhime Aug 2016 #6
When you lose your mom... 40RatRod Aug 2016 #7
I felt as if I'd lost my champion. No one is on your Saphire Aug 2016 #25
John Fugelsang! Be gentle with yourself for awhile. raging moderate Aug 2016 #8
John Fuglesang.. my heart goes out to this dear man.. mountain grammy Aug 2016 #9
Mr & Mrs Fuglesang's Twitter love story Quiet_Dem_Mom Aug 2016 #10
I am so sorry for his loss. Lifelong Protester Aug 2016 #11
.......... fantase56 Aug 2016 #12
John... Deepest sympathy... farmbo Aug 2016 #13
So sorry. kacekwl Aug 2016 #15
K&R... 8~( spanone Aug 2016 #17
Tears and heartfelt sorrow. raven mad Aug 2016 #18
Grace for your mom's transition and Peace for you with precious memories. mfcorey1 Aug 2016 #19
After 34 years since I lost Mom, it still hurts, but I have had many pleasant visitations from her. downeastdaniel Aug 2016 #20
John Steinbeck from Grapes of Wrath packman Aug 2016 #21
... cry baby Aug 2016 #22
John's mom raised a great son. zentrum Aug 2016 #23

calimary

(81,238 posts)
14. MAN you can say that again, my friend.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 12:07 AM
Aug 2016

Last edited Sat Aug 27, 2016, 12:48 AM - Edit history (1)

I wasn't there when she died, but I got to the hospital a few minutes later. However, she was pretty much gone several days before, when she took quite a radical turn for the worse. We all knew it was just a matter of time, so I can remember feeling more of a sense of relief, and release, that night, right after it happened. It had been a very long and miserable downward spiral for her.

I will say it was a jolt to walk down the long hall of the hospital ward til I reached her room, and the door was closed. Every other door all the way up and down the hall was always open so the nurses could come in and out. Hers too, at least til that night. That alone gave it a real sense of finality.

My deepest sympathy to John Fugelsang and his family.

SummerSnow

(12,608 posts)
2. I lost my mom 30 years ago to cancer and it still hurts. She was a young woman 45 years old.
Fri Aug 26, 2016, 09:36 PM
Aug 2016

Not a day goes by that I don't think about her. My condolences to the Fugelsang family

3catwoman3

(23,975 posts)
4. John's Twitter recounting of his parents' love...
Fri Aug 26, 2016, 09:42 PM
Aug 2016

...story is one of the sweetest things i have ever read. The kind of man John Fugelsang is tells you all you need to know about what kind of mom she must have been.

raging moderate

(4,305 posts)
8. John Fugelsang! Be gentle with yourself for awhile.
Fri Aug 26, 2016, 10:25 PM
Aug 2016

Your mother would want that. Be nice to yourself, and patient. I believe I was not quite sane for several months after my mother died. Eventually, you will think of her, of some wonderful moment with her, and smile.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
18. Tears and heartfelt sorrow.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 10:19 AM
Aug 2016

Moms rock - mine did and when she passed, I couldn't be there. My daughter was, and HER daughter.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
21. John Steinbeck from Grapes of Wrath
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 12:51 PM
Aug 2016

“Women can change better’n a man,” Ma said soothingly. “Woman got all her life in her arms. Man got it all in his head.”
“Man, he lives in jerks-baby born an’ a man dies, an’ that’s a jerk-gets a farm and looses his farm, an’ that’s a jerk. Woman its all one flow, like a stream, little eddies, little waterfalls, but the river, it goes right on. Woman looks at it like that. We ain’t gonna die out. People is goin’ on-changin’ a little, maybe, but goin’ right on.”


Women/mothers provide that stability and common sense and a great void is felt when either is absent. Sympathies and well-wishes

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