I can't get no, DU love. I post and post and rarely get replys.

[rainy]

Is it me😬

[redwitch]

1. I feel your pain.

[uppityperson]

2. Hi

[StrictlyRockers]

3. You can't always get what you want.

But if you try, sometimes you get what you need.

[GreenPartyVoter]

4. You have to post the right shiny object at the right time.

[Ford_Prefect]

51. Timing is very important and almost impossible to predict.

[MFM008]

5. I think you have to become more known to everyone

The bigger posters can begin entire long threads.
Keep pounding away.
Post your opinion regardless.
Someone is reading it.....

[Liberal_in_LA]

6. Awwww

[surrealAmerican]

7. There are the "heavy hitters" ...

... and then, there are people like us. Popularity is a funny thing, isn't it?

[upaloopa]

8. Yes since the primary fights are over many post but few are chosen.

[cleveramerican]

9. reply to others like mad

replying has a hit n run quality all its own

[canetoad]

10. This is the best reply

Believe me, it's huuuuge. Everyone keeps asking me about replies and I make the very best replies. Many many replies.

[SammyWinstonJack]

72. Heh.

[suffragette]

11. You're not alone.

I think most of us have had posts that sink like a rock.

[longship]

12. Alas! The greatest page does not always go to the greatest.

Patience and perseverance are your buddies. That, and a whole lot of other DUers on your side.

My best to you and all other DUers in similar situation.

[rainy]

13. I thought I posted profundity today

but, alas, still no ❤️
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10028186530

[Loki Liesmith]

14. It's not you, it's me.

[IADEMO2004]

15. You are the newest post on the greatest page!!!!

[longship]

25. Beautiful response! Absolutely beautiful!

For all DUers who never get there, thanks.

[Freelancer]

16. Don't take it personally.

Since DU changed rules, I don't post or reply here much. Big loss to everyone, I know.

Please do keep posting.

[Sunny05]

88. What were the rule changes?

I'm new as a member. Thx.

[Freelancer]

93. Well, expressing how I feel about the rules fully is a problem. It would be taken down.

Welcome new member,

In answer to you, I'm guessing this will probably be deemed acceptable:

After the end of the primary, after some exasperating flame wars between Bernie and Hillary supporters, the rules were changed. It's far more likely now that anything not entirely in agreement with the "Party Line" will be deleted. Anything critical of HRC, or critical of anything any other sitting Democrat or Democratic candidate says or does is likely to be taken down immediately. That's a problem for me, but evidently not for younger Democrats who love "safe spaces."

I'm old, and am concerned about the decline of free speech and younger generations not getting tough enough through engagement with competing views. I didn't experience a "safe space" at any point of my life as a Democrat in a sea of Republicans. I learned to say what I thought and defend it. The arguments I see here now are basically about semantics and nuances between posters who almost completely agree. Faced with an opponent coming from a completely different place, the emerging impulse is to bail, to swipe left, to block, etc., instead of staying and fighting. A little battle makes you a better Democrat, IMO.

So, that's my post-middle-aged rant of the day.

[tclambert]

17. Make sure to include a picture of a cat.

Cats rule the internet. (It is known.)

[MrScorpio]

18. Clearly, you picked the wrong user name

Talkin' to myself and feelin' old
Sometimes I'd like to quit
Nothin' ever seems to fit
Hangin' around
Nothin' to do but frown
Rainy days and Mondays always get me down
What I've got they used to call the blues
Nothin' is really wrong
Feelin' like I don't belong
Walkin' around
Some kind of lonely clown
Rainy days and Mondays always get me down
Funny, but it seems I always wind up here with you
Nice to know somebody loves me
Funny, but it seems that it's the only thing to do
Run and find the one who loves me (the one who loves me)
What I feel has come and gone before
No need to talk it out (talk it out)
We know what it's all about
Hangin' around (hangin' around)
Nothin' to do but frown
Rainy days and Mondays always get me down
Funny, but it seems that it's the only thing to do (only thing to do)
Run and find the one who loves me
What I feel has come and gone before
No need to talk it out
We know what it's all about
Hangin' around (hangin' around)
Nothin' to do but frown
Rainy days and Mondays always get me down
Hangin' around (hangin' around)
Nothin' to do but frown
Rainy days and Mondays always get
Me down

[petronius]

19. I would say that a substantial proportion of DU replies fall into a couple

of categories:

1) insults, and suggestions that "you're wrong!!1!"
2) rote replies to repetitive topics we've all seen 100 times before
3) thinly-veiled troll accusations
4) agreement that yes, that is indeed the cutest kitten on the planet.

If you aren't getting these replies, it means that

1) you're not disliked, and what you said may in fact have been correct
2) you're not posting on redundant topics
3) no one thinks you're a troll (congratulations!)
4) you're not posting enough kitten pictures.

[rainy]

55. 😁 I like this reply

[Sunny05]

89. I agree. That was indeed a good reply. Also, I think the timing can indeed be an issue,

as posting when people are available to log on makes it likelier to be seen on list of latest threads, it seems ... but then that could mean the post goes out during a busy burst f posts, making it easier to be overlooked.

Anyway, I appreciate your sharing this!

[JDC]

20. Try asking a question in your post

[Chemisse]

26. That's a good suggestion.

It shows the OP is interested in the replies - wants to listen, not just talk.

[Helen Borg]

21. Have you tried saying something absurd?

That tends to attract replies.

[sheshe2]

22. Don't despair, keep posting.

Respond like crazy as well. Get your name out there, rainy.

[Funtatlaguy]

23. Maybe if you would include naked Trump statue pics

With your posts, u would get more attention.
People love that kinda stuff.

[malaise]

24. No it's not you

Many folks can't walk and chew gum and are obsessed with the elections

[greymattermom]

27. same here

but I love the discussions.

[Sunny05]

90. Hi! I felt like sending your reply

a reply.

[still_one]

28. you know you are going to get what you want with that OP, don't you?

[Greybnk48]

29. No, it's not you rainy. Not at all.

There's a pretty tight group on here and it's been like this for a while. I've been here for years and there are only a few who are generously friendly, Malaise is one of them!

I will watch for your posts.

[wncHillsupport]

53. Amen to that, as a new poster. Certain posters

get replies regardless of how many times the topic has been posted and others get none. It is also so fast moving in terms of posts that there is a new batch every 5 to 10 minutes. Not a chance of getting seen if 10 minutes go by and you are bumped to the bottom.

[Greybnk48]

92. That too, meaning the speed.

But it's not personal in most cases, so people shouldn't be hurt by it.

[rainy]

57. Very kind, thanks:)

[mountain grammy]

30. No, it's not you. Don't worry about it.

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

31. I am become Death, destroyer of threads.

I feel your pain.

[eleny]

47. i thought that dubious distinction belonged me :(

[LyndaG]

32. I'm sorry

I'm sure it's not you. Keep communicating, and I'm sure you will be acknowledged !!!

[In_The_Wind]

33. Thread killers are everywhere.

[Martin Eden]

34. DUers love sunshine.

You're rainy.

[OKDem08]

35. Try hyperbole. ;-)

[trof]

36. Well, you have a bad personality and your mother dresses you funny, for starters.

Plus your feet stink and you don't love Jesus.
Outside of that, I'm in love.

[wallyworld2]

38. jimmy is that you

My head hurts, my feet stink, and I don't love Jesus.
It's that kind of mornin',
really was that kind of night.
Tryin' to tell myself that my
condition is improvin' and if I don't
die by Thursday I'll be roarin' Friday night.

[trof]

42. No matter how bad the hangnover is...

By sundown, with a couple of Martinis under your belt, it gets better.
And now you're ready to go out and do it all over again.

"If you have a hangover so bad that two Martinis don't cure it, then you probably got polio." - trof

[wallyworld2]

37. there are those who say

that my posts are the best posts evah
and
many people say that
I don't know
But believe me, believe me
my posts are great
and it is rare that I evah get a response,
so
you're not alone
believe me
believe me

[Lochloosa]

39. No one likes you.

[rurallib]

40. Post a cat pic. Cat pics always get a few replies

I mean, how could they not?



How can you not say "pretty kitty"?

[grubbs]

45. JTFC!

That is unsettling. 😊

[lpbk2713]

41. As a general rule ...

I just say what I have to say and move on. If I'm asked a question in a reply I might
answer but otherwise I usually let it be. It is never my intention to offend anyone.
That never gets anyone anywhere.

[underpants]

43. Well, actually, *boy this is awkward* some of us have been talking and Yes, it's you

I'm kidding!

As I've said before DU - wise and otherwise. You really never know what you'll get.

[grubbs]

44. Naw it isn't you

I have to make dire threats and illegal suggestions to get a nod. And then it is usually in the form of a deleted post. I might suggest cute kitten pics in the lounge or pet threads. That will help you get some rapport going.

[Lifelong Protester]

46. I am usually

the last person to post. Let's see if it happens here, too.

[Socal31]

48. Here are some tips for maximizing a metric I just made up: RPP

Your Responses Per Post average will immediately skyrocket if you mention any of the following:

- You like to eat expensive steak well-done

- You don't tip anyone, ever

- You enjoy chain-pizza

- dogs > cats

- Olive Garden is the only place to get real Italian food

- Jesus

- Your opinion on if cheesecake is actually cake or pie



You're welcome.

[MoonchildCA]

49. I feel ya.

I don't post and post, but on the occasions that I do--when I have something extremely clever to say-- it goes unnoticed. So sad...

[jtuck004]

50. There's nothing like a good mistake to attract attention. n/t

[Polly Hennessey]

52. No, it's not you.

I read and lurk. I have been here since forever -- 2002 or 2003. Why do I not respond? Well --- first, almost everyone is almost always smarter than me; however, what I dislike most are the arguments and name calling. I just move on to the more interesting discussions. I'm always amazed at how much I learn from some on this site. I pledge to you "Rainy" that henceforth I shall read your posts and let you know that what you have to say is worthwhile and important. I may not always agree and if I do not, I will be "Sunny" to your "Rainy".

Polly Hennessey

[yuiyoshida]

54. A few times I have posted stuff, it happens once in a blue moon

That it Goes to the greatest Hits page. HOW that happens is a mystery. Most of the things I post get one or two responses. Occasionally I get a few that have more than that. Its a tricky thing. All I can say is keep plugging away. Maybe one day you will get propped up to the greatest page for a story you posted. It will happen some day... and when that happens, its kind of nice. I keep all of mine, bookmarked. SO be sure to do that too.

[Laser102]

56. Hello!

[lastlib]

58. If you start me up, I'll never stop.......

[roamer65]

59. HI!

How are you?

[rainy]

63. Fine thank you:)

Hope you are fine too😊

[roamer65]

77. Doing good here!

Better when Hillary wins.

[yortsed snacilbuper]

60. Is it me😬

Yes.

[rainy]

61. Dear DUers your posts are funny and sweet

clever and cute. Thanks for acknowledging that I am a member of this important community. You have my ❤️. I've been here for 15 years

[Renew Deal]

62. Have you ever breast fed your pit bull at Olive Garden while smoking?

[JonathanRackham]

64. How about a big hug?

[rainy]

65. Sure! Thanks

[Oneironaut]

66. Hello fellow thread assassin!

(Last Post?)

[tandem5]

81. uh please really? last post? I'm the ninja assassin of thread killing.

When the last of the direct replies came hours earlier and the sub flames are mere embers that's when I strike with a full unambiguous reply! Now watch me dispatch with this little sub thread! shiff! shooof! (those are ninja star sounds I think)

[TeamPooka]

67. Forget it jake, it's the internet. nt

[TexasProgresive]

68. You ain't the only one.

Sometimes I am guilty of not replying to every post I read, and my OPs generally sink like a stone. Why, is anyone's guess.

[Liberal_in_LA]

69. kick

[etherealtruth]

70. Heres some more DU love

[JanMichael]

71. Do not worry. I used to post threads that got massive replies. Past tense only.

That is certainly not the case anymore.

Hell the only time anyone replies now is if I am drinking and posting and get all sarcastic and mildly annoyed with my replies. Then I am the asshole which elicits replies.

Look up my user name and DU and go back to 2000 to 2009. Tons of big threads. Some bashing Racism (although I am not nearly anti-racist enough now days), many on Socialism, lots of Guy James radio show threads, some on homelessness, several on music/movies...I also don't take the time to post such detailed threads/posts anymore either.

Don't worry. The shine of new thoughts and comments wears off early or later anyway.

[colorado_ufo]

73. Here you go, Honey!

[tandem5]

74. Have you checked your breath? Now enjoy this chipmunk

[a kennedy]

80. This is adorable......thanks for sharing.

[shenmue]

75. O hai

[stonecutter357]

76. Do you even clickbait bro?

[benld74]

78. Happens

[zonkers]

79. What do you mean? You just got slammed.

[Skittles]

82. you want I should kick your ignored ass, rainy?

I WILL PAY SPECIAL ATTENTION TO YOU MY SWEET; yes INDEED

[Freddie]

83. This happened once before, when I came to your door

No reply.

(this thread needed some Beatles)

[Mr.Bill]

84. Happens to me, too.

I've been here for a few years and rarely get more than a few responses to my posts. I don't post that much because I'm on about a half dozen forums. I rarely start threads.

Once I did start a thread here that made it to the top of the Greatest Threads page. That was fun, but I didn't think that thread was nearly one of my best.

Bottom line is this is a pretty big pond with lots of fish, and I am but one of them, and a mere noob compared to others. I do look here at least several time a day.

[kevink077]

85. Mostly Troll allegations

Join the club. If you are not known or popular people just throw out troll accusations here. You must be a troll if you are new or have a different point of view.

[vinny9698]

86. I judge my posts by the number of views. 85 replies 1781 views means you have a winner with this one

So just look at your views as the quality of your post.
People take for granted or agree with you. It is when they disagree that drives the replies.
Just like tipping, people take for granted good service, they are looking for the wow service. And it is hard to get the wow service. Waitperson are to busy, as waitperson and owners do not want to hire extra people, waitpersons do not want to serve less people, less tips. Owners do it because less labor costs.

[Missn-Hitch]

87. Hi rainy. Look at all these replies! Cheers.

[deaniac21]

91. yes

[Mean Gene]

94. No. nt

[prayin4rain]

95. Hi, rainy! nt

[Pluvious]

96. Post more lolcat pics !! n/t

[lunatica]

97. You are not invisible

Although it can feel like it at times.

[bhikkhu]

98. Start a thread on circumcision

...that will keep you busy all day, guaranteed