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Omaha Steve

(99,618 posts)
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 02:30 PM Jul 2015

Same-sex couple in Mississippi goes to court to seek divorce

Source: AP

By JACK ELLIOTT JR

JACKSON, Miss. (AP) — Mississippi Attorney General Jim Hood has asked the state Supreme Court to allow a lesbian couple to seek a divorce.

Hood sided Thursday with a similar request filed by the attorney for Lauren Czekala-Chatham (chick AH' luh-CHAT' um), who argued a U.S. Supreme Court ruling on June 26 requires all states to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples and to recognize same-sex marriages validly performed in other states.

That was key to Chatham's arguments as she seeks a divorce from Dana Ann Melancon (muh LAWN' sawn). They were married in California in 2008.

FULL short story at link covers a judge ruled they can't get divorced.

Read more: http://bigstory.ap.org/article/8b9c6136eb71470791b009c49f17c215/same-sex-couple-mississippi-goes-court-seek-divorce

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Same-sex couple in Mississippi goes to court to seek divorce (Original Post) Omaha Steve Jul 2015 OP
Shouldn't be a surprise Ex Lurker Jul 2015 #1
Well, that's it TlalocW Jul 2015 #2
Welcome to the REAL WORLD ! penndragon69 Jul 2015 #3
Had to happen..sooner than I expected tho. dixiegrrrrl Jul 2015 #5
They can finally be as miserable... awoke_in_2003 Jul 2015 #13
Can we safely say it was her fault? nt Snotcicles Jul 2015 #4
+1 Gore1FL Jul 2015 #11
Now I'm confused. briv1016 Jul 2015 #6
same way they do now. mopinko Jul 2015 #8
Sorry, forgot to add this. briv1016 Jul 2015 #9
thank you. mopinko Jul 2015 #10
Jury results. Inkfreak Jul 2015 #12
yup. a lawyer friend of mine mopinko Jul 2015 #7
Yeah, he might as well davidpdx Jul 2015 #15
Yep. Divorce-equality is the other side to marriage-equality n/t SwissTony Jul 2015 #16
Well they have the right to get married and the right to get divorced davidpdx Jul 2015 #14
Wow...I already did a same sex divorce a few years ago -- couple was wed in CA Hepburn Jul 2015 #17
Gee, seems like only yesterday packman Jul 2015 #18

Ex Lurker

(3,813 posts)
1. Shouldn't be a surprise
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 02:31 PM
Jul 2015

people are people, regardless of orientation, and sometimes they find they can't get along.

 

penndragon69

(788 posts)
3. Welcome to the REAL WORLD !
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 03:13 PM
Jul 2015

Now you get to enjoy the fun and frivolity of paying lawyers
when you can no longer stand being with your partner anymore !

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
5. Had to happen..sooner than I expected tho.
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 05:29 PM
Jul 2015

Gonna be interesting to see how the anti-gay states react to divorce.

briv1016

(1,570 posts)
6. Now I'm confused.
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 05:37 PM
Jul 2015

If it's two women, how's the judge suppose to know who gets the house, cars and alimony payments?

mopinko

(70,090 posts)
8. same way they do now.
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 05:45 PM
Jul 2015

if both are similarly situated, and able to make a living, there wont be any alimony, and the marital estate will be split 50/50.
that is how it works.
it just happens that many married women give up careers to raise kids. they are protected in divorce as they should be. same sex partners who do the same deserve the same.

Inkfreak

(1,695 posts)
12. Jury results.
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 06:22 PM
Jul 2015

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Now I'm confused.
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mopinko

(70,090 posts)
7. yup. a lawyer friend of mine
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 05:41 PM
Jul 2015

who is gay, doesnt do divorce work now, but is working on getting into it.
he is convinced gay divorce will be a fat practice.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
14. Well they have the right to get married and the right to get divorced
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 09:37 PM
Jul 2015

Why should only straight people be miserable?

Hepburn

(21,054 posts)
17. Wow...I already did a same sex divorce a few years ago -- couple was wed in CA
Sat Jul 4, 2015, 10:43 AM
Jul 2015

I hope they know that if they were married in CA, there are provisions to get a divorce in CA even if they are no longer CA residents. The residency provision is waived under CA law due to the fact that same sex marriages were not recognized in all states when this divorce was done.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
18. Gee, seems like only yesterday
Sat Jul 4, 2015, 10:59 AM
Jul 2015

we were dancing in the daisy fields and toasting with fine wine celebrating their right to marriage. And the world turns....

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