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LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 07:42 AM Oct 2014

Pregnant Iowa woman in labor forced to ground at gunpoint by cops for speeding on way to hospital

Source: NY Daily News

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A pregnant woman was held at gunpoint on her way to the hospital after she and her husband refused to pull over their speeding car Tuesday in Fort Dodge, Iowa.

Rachel and Ben Kohnen sped to the hospital at about 4 a.m. Tuesday morning...

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Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/woman-labor-held-gunpoint-cops-speeding-article-1.1975503

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Pregnant Iowa woman in labor forced to ground at gunpoint by cops for speeding on way to hospital (Original Post) LiberalElite Oct 2014 OP
*sigh* littlewolf Oct 2014 #1
85 in a 55 yeoman6987 Oct 2014 #14
Jeezus. Delphinus Oct 2014 #2
Holding them at gunpoint was ridiculous. Ilsa Oct 2014 #3
The cops were not out of order in this case. Hoppy Oct 2014 #4
Wonder why the dispatcher could not understand her? Language barriers? The police man was not jwirr Oct 2014 #16
Could also have just been bad cell reception. nt cstanleytech Oct 2014 #19
Okay. That would explain it. jwirr Oct 2014 #21
That actually is a good reason ... aggiesal Oct 2014 #68
Not just that either as some carriers have spotty to no coverage in some areas cstanleytech Oct 2014 #74
You are absolutely correct. pangaia Oct 2014 #127
No, she was in labor Stargazer09 Oct 2014 #24
If only there'd been someone else in the car with her Orrex Oct 2014 #35
I agree Stargazer09 Oct 2014 #112
oh snap. dionysus Oct 2014 #132
What was her HUSBAND doing at the time??????? George II Oct 2014 #50
My question exactly. crim son Oct 2014 #56
so now we're advocating for driving while talking on a cell phone? frylock Oct 2014 #67
What a ridiculous thing to say! George II Oct 2014 #83
The article said why she couldn't be understood. Why didn't the HUSBAND take the phone???? George II Oct 2014 #54
He was driving 85 miles per hour and that is not a good time to take the phone. However, he could jwirr Oct 2014 #63
No, It was the mother calling, husband driving, said she was screaming so much the 911 dispatcher Fla Dem Oct 2014 #70
The cop was blind? Unable to see the woman was pregnant and in labor? Matariki Oct 2014 #44
Obiously, not a female cop... Helen Borg Oct 2014 #45
When did the police acquire x-ray vision? George II Oct 2014 #51
None of those actions indicate a threat to my life Taitertots Oct 2014 #95
+1 jonno99 Oct 2014 #96
30 MPH above the speed limit and refusing to stop at 4 AM? George II Oct 2014 #98
Yeah, how about between the time the woman got out of the car and when she was ordered to the ground Matariki Oct 2014 #104
Obviously you didn't the entire article or other accounts, but.... George II Oct 2014 #105
I'm sure you'd be thinking SO much clearer than this man Matariki Oct 2014 #125
A couple of points.... George II Oct 2014 #128
I would rely on my training and experience. jonno99 Oct 2014 #114
Of course this would be more likely (if one isn't jumping to a biased anti-police conclusion): George II Oct 2014 #116
This is how authoritarianism reveals itself. Maedhros Oct 2014 #79
You really can't make this shit up, jen63 Oct 2014 #111
I have most of the howler monkeys on ignore, so I don't really see the simpering authority-worship Maedhros Oct 2014 #113
Howler monkeys! jen63 Oct 2014 #115
Are you aware that you just wrote this out... Systematic Chaos Oct 2014 #126
In the Movies ... 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2014 #5
Yes, but in the movies that would happen AFTER they pulled over - and explained the obvious reason karynnj Oct 2014 #10
That is the movies - this Steve Kings territory. jwirr Oct 2014 #17
our youngest was about that size and also showed up rather quickly dembotoz Oct 2014 #6
I hear that! Just thinking it's a good thing they didn't stop me and my husband back then.. I was Cha Oct 2014 #7
... In_The_Wind Oct 2014 #9
Hey In_The_Wind.. Cha Oct 2014 #100
Yup. My first took an hour and a half. We blew through the last stop light at the hospital. nolabear Oct 2014 #34
Cops Gone Wild Dont call me Shirley Oct 2014 #8
Forget the gunpoint, the tack strips could have kill all of them. Downwinder Oct 2014 #11
Uh, when they dragged her out of the car and made her lay face down proReality Oct 2014 #12
America really needs to get a handle on this cop situation madokie Oct 2014 #13
DHS and Blackwater style training has got them pumped-up for a Race War PeoViejo Oct 2014 #26
As a kid, I saw a wailing cop/sheriff car tearing down the Eleanors38 Oct 2014 #32
I've seen that too madokie Oct 2014 #33
Damn sight better than a funeral home hearse with oxygen. Eleanors38 Oct 2014 #38
LOL madokie Oct 2014 #42
In Texas, a lot of the small towns with their old Eleanors38 Oct 2014 #62
true madokie Oct 2014 #65
Traffic is a soul-kilker. Time, waste, tension. Eleanors38 Oct 2014 #110
Thanks for this. Makes my day, Eleanors38. elleng Oct 2014 #43
Your welcome. Some horrendous/funny tales about Eleanors38 Oct 2014 #61
"No charges have been filed against the couple at this time, Ritts said." damnedifIknow Oct 2014 #15
Endanering the welfare of a minor, too. eggplant Oct 2014 #18
The cops could not.. sendero Oct 2014 #20
then cops should stop "reading minds" and finding them full of murder and mayhem. mopinko Oct 2014 #30
Merci, Sendero. Paka Oct 2014 #31
The story makes it pretty.. sendero Oct 2014 #41
“I think I was screaming, 'Oh dear God, we can’t have the baby in the car'...” rocktivity Oct 2014 #60
Hey.. sendero Oct 2014 #64
and yet they did Man from Pickens Oct 2014 #106
Dip dong.. sendero Oct 2014 #107
and yet any sensible person knows Man from Pickens Oct 2014 #118
No sensible person.. sendero Oct 2014 #119
Forcing a pregnant woman, in labor, to the ground Maedhros Oct 2014 #117
American exceptionalism on display. whereisjustice Oct 2014 #22
Handled all wrong SmittynMo Oct 2014 #23
Post removed Post removed Oct 2014 #25
Can we NOT use the term "crotchfruit?" It's MASSIVELY offensive to me. Adrahil Oct 2014 #29
The leavings of someone's shoulder fruit. nt Eleanors38 Oct 2014 #36
But for one word... Paka Oct 2014 #39
Yeah..... no. Adrahil Oct 2014 #40
If you have to use offensive language, you aren't being thoughtful. jeff47 Oct 2014 #58
Yes, Shakespeare, Chaucer, Feral Child Oct 2014 #87
It's a good thing you can speak to the dead and know exactly what they think. jeff47 Oct 2014 #89
I don't have to speak to the dead. Feral Child Oct 2014 #92
THANK YOU GOOD SIR!!!! Adrahil Oct 2014 #109
About as harmless as scatalogical humor. Feral Child Oct 2014 #120
One last serious note... Adrahil Oct 2014 #122
I think we'll probably disagree often. Feral Child Oct 2014 #123
Then I take it you don t like the rude pundit? ncjustice80 Oct 2014 #101
Crotchfruit is hilarious to me!!! valerief Oct 2014 #55
Yeah, it's so funny to use a disgusting term to refer to children! Adrahil Oct 2014 #72
Wow, you're very racist. I think I'll put you on Ignore. nt valerief Oct 2014 #73
Sure. You didn't understand that was sarcasm. Got it. NT Adrahil Oct 2014 #75
Are we "Puritan Underground"? Feral Child Oct 2014 #69
I consider it a direct insult to my child. She isn't a "crotchfruit." Adrahil Oct 2014 #71
I did not accuse you of "alerting". Feral Child Oct 2014 #86
Yeah asking that the poster not use a disgusting term... Adrahil Oct 2014 #88
You're *so* full of yourself. Feral Child Oct 2014 #91
Oh, I agree... I being completely unreasonable. Adrahil Oct 2014 #93
This rhetoric is beginning to sound familiar. Feral Child Oct 2014 #99
Time to feed the kennel-fruit. < Now that's funny. n/t jtuck004 Oct 2014 #108
Thanks, jtuck Feral Child Oct 2014 #121
Life isn't always like the movies Renew Deal Oct 2014 #27
And the cops could have called 911 but... SoapBox Oct 2014 #52
That article is incomplete.... Adrahil Oct 2014 #28
It's the NYPost. progressoid Oct 2014 #66
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Oct 2014 #124
At least we didn't hear. "Stop resisting, Snotcicles Oct 2014 #37
This story is one that I file asiliveandbreathe Oct 2014 #46
There is video JonLP24 Oct 2014 #131
Labor is not a valid reason to drive like a psychopath. Xithras Oct 2014 #47
+100! KT2000 Oct 2014 #81
They'll probably vote for the pro-life pig... GeorgeGist Oct 2014 #48
Well that kid isn't going to have to worry about paying for college. Initech Oct 2014 #49
Actually the police department probably wont have to worry about a lawsuit or atleast losing one cstanleytech Oct 2014 #80
She wasn't forced to the ground at gunpoint "for speeding on the way to the hospital".... George II Oct 2014 #53
The police went overboard on this one but crim son Oct 2014 #57
If the officer knew there was a pregnant women in the vehicle and they were just cstanleytech Oct 2014 #76
How is this possible? KamaAina Oct 2014 #59
And the family was not slaughtered! NOLALady Oct 2014 #103
Husband should have pulled over, explained situation. Takes 5 minutes max. yellowcanine Oct 2014 #77
We've seen that happen dozens of times over the years. George II Oct 2014 #82
I'm just shocker the mother is white AngryAmish Oct 2014 #78
I just did the math - if they were 10 miles from the hospital (a guess), then.... George II Oct 2014 #84
Getting to the hospital that late, she probably delivered that almost 10 lb baby without drugs... Lars39 Oct 2014 #85
That is a good thing! vanlassie Oct 2014 #94
Not necessarily. Lars39 Oct 2014 #97
Well drugs would not have done much for this lady and her baby is better off. vanlassie Oct 2014 #102
A pregnant woman arrived at a hospital just in time to give birth in the lobby rocktivity Oct 2014 #90
Fact of the matter tabasco Oct 2014 #129
I saw this on the news there is an important fact to consider JonLP24 Oct 2014 #130
i remember when these type of stories centered around whether or not the cop gave the people a dionysus Oct 2014 #133
 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
14. 85 in a 55
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:33 AM
Oct 2014

This has happened since driving started. I would imagine that the road was pretty clear at the time. Still dangerous but probably only 5 miles over what a typical driver drives during the day especially on a highway. The cops probably has the motto nothing good happens after midnight.

Ilsa

(61,690 posts)
3. Holding them at gunpoint was ridiculous.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 08:10 AM
Oct 2014

So was recklessly speeding to the hospital. Simply pull over and explain so the police can provide an escort.

 

Hoppy

(3,595 posts)
4. The cops were not out of order in this case.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 08:19 AM
Oct 2014

She called 911 but the dispatcher was not able to understand her.

30 miles over the speed limit and refusing to stop...

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
16. Wonder why the dispatcher could not understand her? Language barriers? The police man was not
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:44 AM
Oct 2014

out of line except using the gun. But I assume that in the middle of the night with a car that has not obeyed the siren he had to be careful.

aggiesal

(8,907 posts)
68. That actually is a good reason ...
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 01:59 PM
Oct 2014

I'm told that at high speeds (80+), that in some locations,
cell towers have a hard time switching calls, because the cell
phone is moving too fast for the cell towers to keep up.

Maybe someone with more knowledge on this, could enlighten us.

Might come in handy.

cstanleytech

(26,224 posts)
74. Not just that either as some carriers have spotty to no coverage in some areas
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 02:46 PM
Oct 2014

and if your in a spotty one the call quality can be truly horrid.

Stargazer09

(2,132 posts)
24. No, she was in labor
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:17 AM
Oct 2014

Trying to talk to 911 in between contractions is not easy.

She was very close to having the baby when they were pulled over.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
63. He was driving 85 miles per hour and that is not a good time to take the phone. However, he could
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 01:01 PM
Oct 2014

have slowed down or stopped to make the call. I think a lot of people do not think at a time like this.

Fla Dem

(23,585 posts)
70. No, It was the mother calling, husband driving, said she was screaming so much the 911 dispatcher
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 02:19 PM
Oct 2014

couldn't understand her.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
44. The cop was blind? Unable to see the woman was pregnant and in labor?
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 11:16 AM
Oct 2014

Someone *always* shows up in threads like this to justify bad police behavior. Might as well be you.

George II

(67,782 posts)
51. When did the police acquire x-ray vision?
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:16 PM
Oct 2014

Look at the specifics of the situation objectively - 4 O'clock in the morning, a car traveling 30 MPH over the speed limit, the driver refused to stop. If you were a police officer, what would you do?

 

Taitertots

(7,745 posts)
95. None of those actions indicate a threat to my life
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 05:06 PM
Oct 2014

So there is no reason to do anything other than write a citation.

And I'm not a psychopath, so I'd listen to her and ensure she gets proper medical care.

jonno99

(2,620 posts)
96. +1
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 05:33 PM
Oct 2014

This is the most important (missing) aspect of the story.

I mean, it's not like cops never see this...

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
104. Yeah, how about between the time the woman got out of the car and when she was ordered to the ground
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 08:17 PM
Oct 2014

Seems obvious. But keep making excuses. It's entertaining.


George II

(67,782 posts)
105. Obviously you didn't the entire article or other accounts, but....
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:02 PM
Oct 2014

....after an 85 MPH chase at 4AM when the driver refused to stop, no "excuses" necessary.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
125. I'm sure you'd be thinking SO much clearer than this man
Sun Oct 19, 2014, 01:42 PM
Oct 2014

if your wife was next to you giving birth in the car at 4am. And it was all on you to get her to the hospital before it's too late.

You act as if going 85 MPH at 4am is some kind of high crime or moral failing for which the only logical response is police abuse

George II

(67,782 posts)
128. A couple of points....
Sun Oct 19, 2014, 02:13 PM
Oct 2014

First, in the rare instance that I was going 85 MPH for whatever reason, I wouldn't be stupid enough to lead the police on a high-speed chase.

Second, (and I think I've said this elsewhere here, too) the so-called "police abuse" wasn't because he was driving 85 MPH at 4 AM, it was because he refused to stop.

This whole thing could have been avoided if the driver stopped when told to stop. In fact, he may have gotten to the hospital QUICKER if he stopped, simply explained the situation, and was escorted to the hospital by the police.

This knee-jerk reaction that any time a police officer stops anyone for whatever reason it's "abuse" only distracts the attention away from TRUE instances of police abuse.

jonno99

(2,620 posts)
114. I would rely on my training and experience.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:56 PM
Oct 2014

It's not like it's unusual to see people speeding to the hospital - EVERY SINGLE DAY!

Cop #1 to cop #2: do you think theres a chance they might be headed to to the hospital??!!

(Of course, I didn't notice in the story any mention of the couple running the emergency flashers on their car - that might have helped... )

George II

(67,782 posts)
116. Of course this would be more likely (if one isn't jumping to a biased anti-police conclusion):
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 11:03 PM
Oct 2014

Cop #1 to Cop #2 "do you think they're running from a robbery?"

or

Cop #1 to Cop #2 "do you think they just made a drug deal?"

or

Cop #1 to Cop #2 "do you think they're running from a murder?"

By the way, it IS "unusual to see people speeding to the hospital"!

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
79. This is how authoritarianism reveals itself.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 02:55 PM
Oct 2014

The behavior of an Authority Figure, regardless of how egregious it may be, is always to be defended because of The Rules, regardless of how inappropriate they may be.

In this particular case it should have been immediately obvious to the police officer that the woman was pregnant and in labor. Recognizing that - regardless of all other factors - the woman should NOT have been forced to the ground, for her safety and that of the child. But, the Authoritarian rationalizes, the officer might have felt threatened, and since he is the Authority Figure his decisions must be held to be sacrosanct.

jen63

(813 posts)
111. You really can't make this shit up,
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:10 PM
Oct 2014

can you? On a democratic board, no less. My head wants to explode.....

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
113. I have most of the howler monkeys on ignore, so I don't really see the simpering authority-worship
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:42 PM
Oct 2014

anymore. But I know it's there. When I browse DU from my phone, I get to see what I'm ignoring. Ugly, hateful, small-minded people.

Systematic Chaos

(8,601 posts)
126. Are you aware that you just wrote this out...
Sun Oct 19, 2014, 01:59 PM
Oct 2014

...in the same sort of narrative style that Stephen King used when going into the mind of the rabid dog in "Cujo?"

Makes it a thousand times more fitting, somehow.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
5. In the Movies ...
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 08:22 AM
Oct 2014

police would have formed a motorcade and escorted the soon to be parents to the hospital and waited in the waiting room, with cigar in hand, for the delivery ... and the child would have been named after one of the cops.

karynnj

(59,498 posts)
10. Yes, but in the movies that would happen AFTER they pulled over - and explained the obvious reason
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:23 AM
Oct 2014

Here, had they pulled over, that very likely would have happened - not because it was like the movies, but because a police escort would make it safer.

dembotoz

(16,785 posts)
6. our youngest was about that size and also showed up rather quickly
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 08:54 AM
Oct 2014

on the way to the hospital
kid practically crawling out of her
no painkillers taken at all

my wife would have ripped out the cops throat had they stopped us on the way to the hospital

Cha

(296,805 posts)
7. I hear that! Just thinking it's a good thing they didn't stop me and my husband back then.. I was
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:01 AM
Oct 2014

Last edited Thu Oct 16, 2014, 07:05 PM - Edit history (1)

not in the mood.

Edit: changed did to didn't

nolabear

(41,932 posts)
34. Yup. My first took an hour and a half. We blew through the last stop light at the hospital.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:39 AM
Oct 2014

There was a cop car parked right there. Mr. Bear says he saw him, (wee hours, no traffic) and ran it anyway, and the cop barely looked up. I expect we weren't the first. And the times were different.

proReality

(1,628 posts)
12. Uh, when they dragged her out of the car and made her lay face down
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:29 AM
Oct 2014

they couldn't tell the woman was extremely pregnant and about to deliver with all her screaming? The couple were darned lucky they were born white or she might have been shot for writhing in pain and making it look like she was resisting arrest.

In all honesty, the couple were insane for driving that fast, especially without a white flag waving to alert the police to a medical emergency.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
13. America really needs to get a handle on this cop situation
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:29 AM
Oct 2014

our county sheriffs are running around our county running red. Never before in all the years I've live here (66 years) have I seen our county sheriff's department so 'energized,' for the lack of a better word right now. Its just a matter of time before I fear there will be an incident that could have been avoided by cooler heads

It's like we the citizens are enemies or something.

 

PeoViejo

(2,178 posts)
26. DHS and Blackwater style training has got them pumped-up for a Race War
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:24 AM
Oct 2014

under the pretext of Terrorism. Training as an MP does not qualify them any more than a Fighter Pilot for an Airliner.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
32. As a kid, I saw a wailing cop/sheriff car tearing down the
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:36 AM
Oct 2014

street with a civilian car following closely, honking & flashing high beams. Everybody knew what that meant, and folks would murmur "Hope they get there (hospital) on time."

Fuck, that was almost 60 yrs ago and no cell phones. And it wasn't Hollywood.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
33. I've seen that too
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:38 AM
Oct 2014

years ago. Today we have a very good ambulance system here where in cases like these the women can call and get professional help within minutes

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
38. Damn sight better than a funeral home hearse with oxygen.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:45 AM
Oct 2014

But even so, living in a rural area, one may be best served by self-transport.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
42. LOL
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 11:04 AM
Oct 2014

the fight put up by the funeral homes when we went to this system was fierce. they fought it tooth and nail.
Kinda like in my hometown they proposed building a new 4 lane hiway that skirted the town and the town folks were beside themselves saying all kinds of things like it will kill our town if you take the traffic out. The traffic was for the most part a lot of walmart trucks that made it next to impossible to navigate the streets. Not many of the cars coming through were stopping anyway. Now the 4 lane is there, traffic is over on it and the town is growing in leaps and bounds. You can actually park on main street and get back out on the hiway without it being a hassle fighting the traffic. Sometimes people protest too much

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
62. In Texas, a lot of the small towns with their old
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:57 PM
Oct 2014

courthouse square buildings are thriving. Perhaps people should learn to pull off the Big Roads & their franchise fast food, and eat a nice chicken-fried steak at a local cafe that cares about what they are doing.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
65. true
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 01:14 PM
Oct 2014

In the case I was talking about it was hard to get around town because of all the traffic. Traffic that wasn't going to be stopping anyway so why bother. All they were doing was clogging up the streets. Sometimes there would be a line of 18 wheelers half a mile long coming through town and the only stop light just slowed them down to the point most locals were taking their business else where. Where they didn't have to worry with all that traffic. Once the traffic was redirected the town found out that the locals were more than enough to keep the town thriving. The road I'm talking about is the main hiway from northwest Arkansas to Tulsa ok. Lots of people live in northwest Arkansas that work in Tulsa ok. Which is absurd to me because of the hour and a half to two hour drive each way. Makes for a long day. Sure its pretty over in Arkansas but not that pretty. From 5 am to 9am going west toward Tulsa and from 3 pm to 6 pm going back east the hiway is full of Arkansas tagged autos. Most of them will only have one person in it too.

I live a block right off the same hiway a few miles west of my hometown and when the traffic was on this hiway it was dangerous to pull out on the road from our street. Now its a breeze and we thank our lucky stars every time we go somewhere. Bow down to the traffic gods

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
61. Your welcome. Some horrendous/funny tales about
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:50 PM
Oct 2014

old ambulance service. In the 50s, a funeral home job had to tote a dirt track racer to Gainesville, doing 100+. They made it, and the race car driver recovered from injuries sustained after falling trough his floorless race car when jostled off his factory-made toilet seat, and getting rolled up Ben-Hur-style. The ambulance driver won the real race.

damnedifIknow

(3,183 posts)
15. "No charges have been filed against the couple at this time, Ritts said."
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:37 AM
Oct 2014

But at some point these menaces to society may be charged with felony fleeing. Baby? Just an excuse.

sendero

(28,552 posts)
20. The cops could not..
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:57 AM
Oct 2014

... have been expected to read the minds of the drivers. Treating a story like this as analogous to other cops' real misdeeds is a disservice to those seeking justice for the real wrongs cops have committed.

mopinko

(69,990 posts)
30. then cops should stop "reading minds" and finding them full of murder and mayhem.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:30 AM
Oct 2014

they need to keep their minds open.

sendero

(28,552 posts)
41. The story makes it pretty..
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:51 AM
Oct 2014

... clear that she though the baby was going to pop out any second and she wanted to be at the hospital. I think she made a mistake but it was an understandable one.

And the cops only knew that someone was speeding and would not pull over. What the hell were they supposed to do?

rocktivity

(44,572 posts)
60. “I think I was screaming, 'Oh dear God, we can’t have the baby in the car'...”
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:47 PM
Oct 2014

Last edited Thu Oct 16, 2014, 06:30 PM - Edit history (1)

When the alternatives are killing yourselves or another motorist with reckless driving and risking being killed by cops who believe you're not complying, you most certainly CAN have a baby in a car.


rocktivity

sendero

(28,552 posts)
64. Hey..
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 01:03 PM
Oct 2014

... I'm not defending the driver at all. Technically, you do no have a right to speed regardless of the situation.

In midst of a continuing stream of stories about the idiocy and brutality of cops, this is not one of them and should not be so construed.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
106. and yet they did
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:16 PM
Oct 2014

they certainly imputed criminal intent on the couple... either that or they are mere sadists.

sendero

(28,552 posts)
107. Dip dong..
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:19 PM
Oct 2014

.. the mere act of refusing to pull over is a crime so BY FUCKING DEFINITION they were criminals. Feeble minded douche.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
118. and yet any sensible person knows
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 11:11 PM
Oct 2014

that speeding in the case of a pregnant woman in labor going to the hospital is often well-justified and far more important than a traffic citation in terms of what is actually important here.

Why is there no allowance by the police for the possibility of this common occurrence? Why does it have to go to physical violence against anyone, pregnant women included? What kind of person does this? None that you'd want holding a badge!

sendero

(28,552 posts)
119. No sensible person..
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 07:25 AM
Oct 2014

... knows any such thing.

How were the cops supposed to know that was the situation? I am not condoning the physical part, but the cops were absolutely justified in pulling over the car. Once they knew the situation they handled it properly.

This is not Tee Vee this is real life. Nobody gets to careen down the public streets at high speed under any circumstance. Typically, if the driver had pulled over and apprised the officer of the situation, the officer would have either given them a lights and siren ride to the hospital or would have given them a lights and siren escort.

Comparing this in any way to the totally unjustified brutal acts of police in the news lately is daft and counterproductive.

SmittynMo

(3,544 posts)
23. Handled all wrong
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:16 AM
Oct 2014

Last edited Thu Oct 16, 2014, 11:07 AM - Edit history (1)

A few years back, my wife called me at work, complaining that she had severe abdominal pains, and unable to get out of bed. You should have heard her on the phone.I told her I would be home immediately. I was doing 90 in a 65 to get there, on a major interstate with light traffic, with my flashers on. People were quite polite to move over to let me pass, probably because I had my flashers on. Fortunately, I was not pulled over. If I would have been, I would have explained the situation to them, and hopefully they would have given me an escort. When I got home, it took everything I could do to get her in the car, so I could get her to a nearby hospital. She had an emergency operation for her busted appendix.

Was I stupid for speeding. Absolutely. The adrenaline rush was extreme, thinking she was going to die. Should I have called 911 while on my way home? Probably, but the thought process was my wife was going to die, and I had to save her. OMG, the things that went through my head!!!

We do stupid shit when we are in a panic situation. It's a thought process I've never experienced before. After it was all over, I realized I handled it wrong. Very wrong. Would I do it again. Probably not now that I have learned a lesson. But its a lesson I wish on no one.

I'm sure the whole thing would have been resolved if they would have pulled over. Even though they were breaking the law, when caught, do the smart thing and pull over.


Response to LiberalElite (Original post)

Paka

(2,760 posts)
39. But for one word...
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:48 AM
Oct 2014

an otherwise thoughtful post gets hidden? I wasn't on that jury. Had I been, it would still be hidden, but 6-2.

I'm on the eve of 74 years on Planet Earth and I'd never heard the expression before, and yes it's discusting, but I don't have to be offended. I can just read on and forget that it's there.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
40. Yeah..... no.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:50 AM
Oct 2014

Some things go too far. That one did.

I would take the poster's ideas more seriously if he didn't use such terms.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
58. If you have to use offensive language, you aren't being thoughtful.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:29 PM
Oct 2014

It's really quite possible to make a thoughtful post without resorting to offensive language.

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
87. Yes, Shakespeare, Chaucer,
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 03:54 PM
Oct 2014
et al, would have been highly offended. See my post #86.

They'd never resort to such "thoughtless" language, would they?

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
89. It's a good thing you can speak to the dead and know exactly what they think.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 04:08 PM
Oct 2014

Alternatively, you could realize that there's no reason to stick "crotchfruit" in that post except to offend. Whereas the authors you cite used at-the-time offensive language for more.

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
92. I don't have to speak to the dead.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 04:29 PM
Oct 2014

I can read.

So, you think Shakespeare didn't try to offend anyone in his plays? What is the "more" that the great writers were striving for? Please explain yourself in detail, I want to know what you mean by "more".

I don't think you paid attention in high school. I think you have an amorphous, vague notion of what the classics are about, but understand them like I grok the Higgs boson.

I think you're over your head, thrashing about trying to justify your puritanical wish to silence anyone that "talks nasty".

You see, when you use "offensive language" people pay attention to what you're saying. Shakespeare did it. Dante. Chaucer. And "SpankMe" did.



 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
109. THANK YOU GOOD SIR!!!!
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:47 PM
Oct 2014

Thank you for making me see the light!

How could I have not seen the musical iambic pentameter of "crotchfruit?"

How did I miss the subtle satire that evokes Chaucer's criticism of late-14th-century clergy?

Indeed, sir, you have convinced me that we have in our midst a true master of the language! An icon of prose!

I will be forever grateful.

Using a disgusting pejorative term to describe children = classics. Got it.

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
120. About as harmless as scatalogical humor.
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:18 PM
Oct 2014

Chaucer was mighty fond of a fart joke. (Quoting a WIKI article fails to convince that you are an erudite scholar of medieval literature. It just makes you look pretentious.)

The point you're too thick and self-absorbed to get is that "shock" language has firmly affixed a foothold in social discourse. Some sanctimonious folk are all to eager to decry eloquence if it fails to meet their moral tidemark, but the world keeps spinning, whether you're outraged or appreciative.


I believe you'd already dismissed me, I'd certainly appreciate it if you'd honor your final salutation.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
122. One last serious note...
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 04:56 PM
Oct 2014

No... I'm not thick and I understand the use of "shock" language as a part of persuasive rhetoric. I did not look up a wiki article. I am quite the fan of Shakespeare, and am serious fan of Chaucer too, having read most of his works in Middle English. My wife in a PhD professor in English Lit, so I am surrounded by these great writers (though she focuses on Victorian writers). I'm an engineer, personally, but I do know how to crack a book.

This has nothing to do with sanctimonious morality. I asked the poster in quest, rather politely in my estimation, to not use a term I find very offensive. I did not demand it. I did not alert the message. The poster could not know I was offended if I did not tell him/her. I did not insult the poster, or otherwise insist that they meet my "moral tidemark." I MERELY let them know I found that word offensive and asked them not to use it.

Now, I will NOT stop requesting that posters not use terms I find offensive. That is a part of civil discourse. Although I do not agree with the poster's post overall, I do think his post would have been more engaging without such a deliberately dismissive and vulgar term. Clearly, at least some folks agree with me. While you may see that post as "shock language" used in social commentary, I frankly saw a rather clumsy, dominant discourse rant with a disgusting, and unfounded insult. I am willing to tolerate bad ideas.... we're surrounded by them. But I maintain my right to politely request that posters refrain from insults.

Yes, both Shakespeare and Chaucer can resort to crass humor. But your posts seem to indicate that the fact that they do it, on occasion, means that therefore, nothing can be considered vulgar or inappropriate. Perhaps you even think that. Perhaps you don't, but I didn't see any effective argument in there, either way. I didn't really break out the sarcasm until the Shakespeare and Chaucer reference which I just found laughable.

So let's end it here... both of use feeling intellectually superior and secure in the knowledge that we each think we know Chaucer better than the other (that was a joke, btw). But I did learn what the word sweven from Chaucer and I'm trying to reintroduce into everyday usage.

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
123. I think we'll probably disagree often.
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 05:30 PM
Oct 2014

I do thank you for your courteous explanation of your stance, a much better way to close a heated discussion than I usually find here.

I'm quite impressed by your spouse's achievement. My Bachelor was in Medieval Lit. I actually had a note-length article published in my sophomore year, a comment on Beowulf. That was the high point of my achievements in the field unfortunately. I've a restless soul and went adventuring instead of continuing my education.


I saw the metaphor SpankMe used as an effective emphasis of his theme that some parents are so elitist about their children that they'll put others at dire risk without a hint of shame.

You didn't see it that way, as is your right. Critique is highly personal and subjective. I'll admit I lashed out at you in frustration at the Alerter and you were the only target I could get a bead on, the Alerter remaining obscured by anonymity. I do wish Admin would publish Alerter's nicks along with the findings, it would cut down on the climate of Alert Skirmishing we have.



I'll bid you adieu then and leave the field. We took it as far as it could go without fisticuffs, honor intact.

ncjustice80

(948 posts)
101. Then I take it you don t like the rude pundit?
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 07:25 PM
Oct 2014

Im not defending the pig in this case, but I would think people would be mode upset about the poster defending police brutality then using a humourous analogy for children.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
72. Yeah, it's so funny to use a disgusting term to refer to children!
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 02:35 PM
Oct 2014

Just so funny!

Hey, why not refer to black people as Darkies! That's funny too!

And that Cleveland Indians mascot? Fucking HILARIOUS.

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
69. Are we "Puritan Underground"?
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 02:08 PM
Oct 2014

Some of us need to grow up.

Not sure why it's "MASSIVELY offensive", rather than a little gross, but do we have to update DU's "Forbidden Word" list until nothing's left but vanilla pudding?

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
71. I consider it a direct insult to my child. She isn't a "crotchfruit."
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 02:34 PM
Oct 2014

And yeah, I think some of us here DO need to grow up. The use of that term is completely juvenile.

And for the record, I did not alert this message. I asked the poster to not use that term.

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
86. I did not accuse you of "alerting".
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 03:41 PM
Oct 2014

I did accuse you of complaining.

As for the rest of your post, I certainly can't fix your ego problem.

I seriously doubt the poster was thinking about your very special progeny when he spoke. Good bet he wasn't aware that you or your descendant existed before you chastised him. I know I wasn't.


Shakespeare would have been pissed that he didn't think of "crotchfruit&quot and would have only waited a year or two before he plagiarized it), Chaucer would have thought it a hoot. Faulkner would have nodded, Hemingway would have chuckled and stroked a polydactyl cat whilst downing his Cuba Libre'.


Ask your daughter what she thinks of the mockingly-pejorative term "crotchfruit". I'd be interested in hearing her response.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
88. Yeah asking that the poster not use a disgusting term...
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 04:07 PM
Oct 2014

... to refer to children he doesn't even know is clearly just PC gone mad.

I'm obviously unreasonable to ask he not use a term I find offensive.

Or perhaps not.

Good Day.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
93. Oh, I agree... I being completely unreasonable.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 04:40 PM
Oct 2014

Nothing wrong with using such a derogatory term for children.

I'm out of control! I must be stopped!

Or not.

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
99. This rhetoric is beginning to sound familiar.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 06:47 PM
Oct 2014

Anyway, I'm off. Time to feed the kennel-fruit. ( My dog isn't overly sensitive.)

SoapBox

(18,791 posts)
52. And the cops could have called 911 but...
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:21 PM
Oct 2014

I want to say the cops were wrong (the gun, yes) but the couple should have stopped.

Lots of blame in the whole story.

p.s...I too just re-read that article...there are some weirdly missing details and has a lot of gray.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
28. That article is incomplete....
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:27 AM
Oct 2014

I saw another interview with them where they said that as soon as the cops realized she was pregnant and in labor, they immediately altered their behavior and got them on their way.

Let's not completely over-react. Years ago, my Dad severely injured himself in an accident and was bleeding badly. My mom didn't think he'd survive waiting fro an ambulance, so she put him in the car and raced him to the hospital. She broke the speed limit by a LOT and picked up some pursuing cops. She did not stop until she reached the emergency room. Even though she pulled right up to the ER entrance, one cop actually jumped out and drew his gun. But he stopped when he saw my Dad all bloody and unconscious.

Response to Adrahil (Reply #28)

 

Snotcicles

(9,089 posts)
37. At least we didn't hear. "Stop resisting,
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 10:43 AM
Oct 2014

stop resisting" ( punch in the head, kick in the stomach) "I'm not resisting I'm birthing" "stop resisting, stop resisting" this time.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
131. There is video
Sun Oct 19, 2014, 03:29 PM
Oct 2014

I don't know where it is since I saw it on the TV but it is out there -- she was literally screaming at the top of her lungs "I'm having a baby" as they are yelling at her "down to your knees!" at gunpoint.

Then when they were hauling the SO away in cuffs she's yelling & crying "you (or don't) can't take him to jail, I'm having a baby." Then they put her in the Lieutenants SUV and haul her to the hospital.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
47. Labor is not a valid reason to drive like a psychopath.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 11:49 AM
Oct 2014

If you can't make it to the hospital without endangering everyone around you, call a fucking ambulance

A couple of years ago a young woman went into labor a few miles from my home. She jumped into her car with her young husband, and they went tearing down a local expressway at more than 80mph on the way to the hospital. Two blocks from the hospital, another car turned onto the expressway in front of them...not realizing that they were driving like insane people.

The young woman, only minutes away from becoming a mother for the first time, was killed on impact. So was her unborn child. The other car was driven by another young mother who had her children in the backseat. The mother died at the scene. Her four year old daughter made it all the way to the hospital before she died. Only her baby in the car seat survived.

The husband in the first car, who thought that driving fast was "OK" when you were going to a hospital to have a baby (he actually said that he thought that flashers made it OK to speed in an emergency), was sentenced to 12 years in prison recently. A light sentence really, when you think about the fact that he killed four people.

If you can't drive safely, then DON'T DRIVE. That's what ambulances are for.

cstanleytech

(26,224 posts)
80. Actually the police department probably wont have to worry about a lawsuit or atleast losing one
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 02:56 PM
Oct 2014

I bet unless they can prove the officer knew that the reason they were speeding 30 miles over the speed limit was because they were trying to get to the hospital as she was in labor.

George II

(67,782 posts)
53. She wasn't forced to the ground at gunpoint "for speeding on the way to the hospital"....
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:22 PM
Oct 2014

...she was forced to the ground at gunpoint FOR SPEEDING and refusing to stop.

Gunpoint may have been extreme, but before they got her out of the car they didn't know she was pregnant and they didn't know why the driver didn't stop. All they knew is that a driver was going 30 MPH over the speed limit and refused to stop. I'd guess that in 99.9% of such situations there isn't an "innocent" reason for not stopping.

As the police chief said, "Normally when you get somebody clocked like that and they fail to pull over, the first thought in my mind is we've got somebody drunk or on drugs."

crim son

(27,464 posts)
57. The police went overboard on this one but
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:26 PM
Oct 2014

if the father had stopped immediately the couple would have probably been on their way in under five minutes. There are far too many bad cops out there but these ones probably truly believed they were doing their job.

cstanleytech

(26,224 posts)
76. If the officer knew there was a pregnant women in the vehicle and they were just
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 02:52 PM
Oct 2014

trying toget to the hospital I would agree that the officer went overboard but I havent read anything to indicate that the officer was telepathic and knew that nor that he was informed of the circumstances during the car chase via radio.

yellowcanine

(35,693 posts)
77. Husband should have pulled over, explained situation. Takes 5 minutes max.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 02:53 PM
Oct 2014

Cops would have escorted the car there.

George II

(67,782 posts)
84. I just did the math - if they were 10 miles from the hospital (a guess), then....
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 03:37 PM
Oct 2014

...the time to the hospital at 85 MPH would have been NINE minutes, the time at 55 MPH would have been FOURTEEN minutes.

Endangering others' lives would have saved them a mere 5 minutes. Small consolation if they hit someone or another car.

vanlassie

(5,663 posts)
102. Well drugs would not have done much for this lady and her baby is better off.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 07:37 PM
Oct 2014

Doesn't sound like it was her top priority!

rocktivity

(44,572 posts)
90. A pregnant woman arrived at a hospital just in time to give birth in the lobby
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 04:09 PM
Oct 2014

A nurse told her, "Don't feel bad -- about four years ago, a woman gave birth right on the hospital's front lawn."

The woman replied, "I know -- that was me, too!"


rocktivity

 

tabasco

(22,974 posts)
129. Fact of the matter
Sun Oct 19, 2014, 02:48 PM
Oct 2014

Law enforcement has very low standards and the occupation attracts stupid people.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
130. I saw this on the news there is an important fact to consider
Sun Oct 19, 2014, 03:21 PM
Oct 2014

They explained they felt they didn't have time for a ticket so they called 911 dispatch but word didn't get to the cops so you can see how confusion & expectations played a role for both sides.

dionysus

(26,467 posts)
133. i remember when these type of stories centered around whether or not the cop gave the people a
Sun Oct 19, 2014, 04:35 PM
Oct 2014

ticket. now it centers around whether or not they get pulled out of the car at gunpoint.

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