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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWalt Disney's "The Story of Menstruation" (1946)
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CaliforniaPeggy
(149,648 posts)I think it's actually pretty good.
It's quite factual. I think I saw it in the fifth grade. The boys had their own film at the same time.
bluesbassman
(19,376 posts)BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)What do they do for the boys' special lecture?
I've never known and always wondered.
Frank Cannon
(7,570 posts)Wacky comedy with Tom Tryon as an astronaut who falls in love with an alien woman.
Never understood why the girls didn't want to talk about their movie.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)I'm not sure exactly what it is that's weird--can't quite put it into words, but....the girls going off to a secret movie about the entrance to womanhood (and sexuality, though the movie sidesteps that, of course), while the boys are shuttled off to watch ......
a romantic (i.e. sex) farce?
hmmmmmm............
eppur_se_muova
(36,272 posts)"Didn't you read our 'Simple Science for Senators'"?
Frank Cannon
(7,570 posts)I remember that movie being rather amusing, but I was just a fifth-grader at the time. I've tried to find it on video, but I don't think Disney ever put it out on DVD.
Anyway, it was a good tactic for the school to show that to us guys at the same time the girls were getting their movie. The few of us who asked the girls what their movie was about just thought it sounded incredibly boring.
Kaleva
(36,315 posts)SCantiGOP
(13,871 posts)I was in Catholic school until the 7th grade; they gave us a booklet titled "What every Catholic boy should know about sex." It basically said boys were monsters who had to do everything possible to keep from acting on their Satanic impulses. Girls, while they of course didn't enjoy sex, could find it tolerable, perhaps even slightly pleasurable, in the context of a loving, Catholic marriage.
It took one girl in particular in high school to destroy that mind-set for me (thank you Vickie, wherever you are).
Kaleva
(36,315 posts)It said that when a husband and his wife love each other very much, the husband will sometimes insert his penis into his wife's vagina.
That's pretty much all it said about sex.
But it also did say that it's very important for a husband to bring home gifts to his wife to let her know that he is always thinking of her. Even, and this is no joke, if it's just a bag of peanuts.
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spiderpig
(10,419 posts)Fifth grade they herded all us girls to the school gym where we watched the film and were given the referenced booklet along with one called "Growing Up and Liking It". They were handed out in plain brown envelopes!
Our very good-looking male gym teacher came in to lower the window shades and we just cringed with embarrassment. I remember one of my friends whispering "Do you think he KNOWS?"
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,648 posts)Oh yeah...........he knew!
Hey, you lucked out........you got TWO booklets! We just got the one that went with the video. I might still have it around here someplace, LOL!
I remember my daughters not wanting me to tell their father when it happened to them...
They were horrified that he knew about me!
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RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)We did see a movie, but I don't think it was this one. The booklet had flowers all over it. Shit, I knew enough just by reading Judy Blume.
That brought back some memories I thought were permanently buried.
Thanks heaps Bucky
noel711
(2,185 posts)Sheesh, I am soooo old!
Grades 6,7,8 were hushedly ushered to the auditorium,
and in serious tones we were told to listen and if we
had any questions, we could ask Miss Grant (assistant principal)-
Of course no one did. WE all all embarrassed.
We've come a long way, Baby!
LynneSin
(95,337 posts)Yup.
I'm glad I missed the Disney Princess Period film.
yellerpup
(12,253 posts)slip for me to see this one. The other girls didn't talk about it, so I didn't know. Charming little film with just the facts! Sorry I missed it waaaay back when.
trof
(54,256 posts)surrealAmerican
(11,362 posts)I seem to remember the one they showed us (in the mid 70's) focusing more on selling us various menstrual products.
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)Kaleva
(36,315 posts)sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)ship of shame!
Kaleva
(36,315 posts)Bucky
(54,027 posts)Best advice ever.
sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)trof
(54,256 posts)He's shown twice as a member of the audience.
Has a mustache.
AnneD
(15,774 posts)leave this to the professionals.....Our school district is very large in a conservative area.
I separate boys and girls in separate groups. Girls are more mature but shy and they have to deal with periods. Boys are immature, shy and sometimes act silly. I have had them together but separate works best for the short time I have to do this. I was lucky to have the art teacher-a guy in with me to help with the boys. He was great and a great sport. Kids really liked him. We co-taught the boys.
We would watch the movie (it has girls, boys, and coed section). For the girls we talk calendar, body changes, hygiene, and what to do. For boys we talk about body changes, mental attitude, and hygiene.
I do not cover birth control or sex-like I said it is conservative. But I do have a question and answer session and I have had some kids try so shock me (boys). I always encourage them to talk to their parents, older siblings, or trusted adult.
All elementary kids had to have a signed permission slip, and I assured the parent that they could preview the tape but that that the class was for the kids only. I frequently had meddling parents , but one time I actually got a single mom call me up and thank me for the sensitivity that I had in talking to her son. She said he actually came home and talked to her (like I mentioned) and told her what he had learned. That validated what I was trying to do.
When I got into middle school, I have found I need to real talk to the girls again. This is more hygiene oriented and I do not have to get a permission slip. I just reiterate the calendar, how to 'pack', how to camouflage, how many pads to pack and I emphasise responsibility and hygiene. I am contemplating talking to the boys next year, again hygiene.
I wish I could talk about relationships, but there is no time.
I believe that kids need information and that information does not make them sex crazy. My daughter developed a healthy attitude and was not sexually active until she was 21 (and she called me before-as I had asked her). We talked in depth about birth control, relationships, and and sex before she had sex. Now THAT was an uncomfortable conversation for me only because I never had one with my Mom or done that with any kids in school. But it was a really good talk and one that I am glad my daughter had with me. Hopefully she will pass her healthey attitude down to her kids.
Art_from_Ark
(27,247 posts)there was never anything even remotely resembling this sort of thing at my elementary or junior high school. There might have been a blurb about it in my 4th grade health book, but we never discussed it in class if there was. The only time in my entire 12-year experience in primary and secondary schools when this subject was even approached was in high school PE class once, when the coach showed a film about VD (what's now called STD), and ended the class by saying, "If you don't want to get the clap, wear a condom."
Iggo
(47,561 posts)crunch60
(1,412 posts)Mom put a little booklet on my bed, it was titled, "Your a Young Lady Now". I was in eighth grade. But I had already learned all about these subjects from my slightly older friends at the horse stables, where I used to ride almost every day after school.
This was in the mid 50's.
Arkansas Granny
(31,519 posts)Unbelievable, I know, but I grew up in an area that was so "repressed", for lack of a better word, that we didn't even have school dances. We had a senior banquet instead of a senior prom.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,761 posts)that mostly had to do with what to do with Kotex. There was also a booklet that was vague but nevertheless embarrassing (this was about 1959). The boys were herded into another room, and I never did find out what they did.
I'm sure I never saw this movie. I think that if we had heard the words rectum or vagina spoken out loud we all would have swooned on the spot.