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Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 05:50 AM Sep 2012

Lounge, help quick. 12 days of beard. Keep it or shave it off?

Decided to see how I would look. Never did this before, well i guess at 47 now or never.

Well, it's pretty thick and full. But mostly gray and looks like hell.

So, decision time. Keep going with this or shave it off? I look pretty bad in the mirror.


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Lounge, help quick. 12 days of beard. Keep it or shave it off? (Original Post) Denninmi Sep 2012 OP
Um... Fridays Child Sep 2012 #1
Sorry, I am way too ugly for that. I hate having my picture taken. Denninmi Sep 2012 #3
Niles was too skinny. Fridays Child Sep 2012 #6
Have it trimmed and shaped by a professional, then decide. n/t sarge43 Sep 2012 #2
Ok, well, I have to get around for my day and work. Denninmi Sep 2012 #4
Shave? what's that? I quit shaving on Oct. 2 ,1973. hobbit709 Sep 2012 #5
A day that will live in infamy. Fridays Child Sep 2012 #7
I was already infamous before that. hobbit709 Sep 2012 #8
"looks like hell" caraher Sep 2012 #9
True but Denninmi Sep 2012 #10
On the other hand... caraher Sep 2012 #22
don't destroy it.Give it to your wife and see how it looks on her. rurallib Sep 2012 #11
Single, sorry Denninmi Sep 2012 #13
I tried that once sharp_stick Sep 2012 #12
Think I should dye it? Denninmi Sep 2012 #14
You could try that sharp_stick Sep 2012 #21
You could use that dye for beards if your head hair isn't as gray as your beard '-) marzipanni Sep 2012 #15
Well if i do that Denninmi Sep 2012 #18
12 days would probably not be enough time for George Michael to grow good-looking stubble. MiddleFingerMom Sep 2012 #16
Keep it. Get a face hair trimmer set from K-Mart to keep it sharp if you want. HopeHoops Sep 2012 #17
If I keep it Denninmi Sep 2012 #19
The trimmer kit is essential then. It's not very expensive, and certainly cheaper in the long run. HopeHoops Sep 2012 #24
Yeah, the barber I used to go to retired. Denninmi Sep 2012 #25
ZZ Top it lame54 Sep 2012 #20
Sorry not me Denninmi Sep 2012 #23
I don't shave anything. hunter Sep 2012 #26
Ding, Ding, Ding, We Have A Winner. Denninmi Sep 2012 #27
If it covers up a multitude of chins, keep it. lastlib Sep 2012 #28
I've had mine since I was 18. DFW Sep 2012 #29
Actually, I have the same skin issues. Denninmi Sep 2012 #30
Hey, lounge, I did it. Denninmi Sep 2012 #31

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
3. Sorry, I am way too ugly for that. I hate having my picture taken.
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 06:52 AM
Sep 2012

But I'll say this much , I look like David Hyde Pierce quite a bit - imagine an older Niles Crane 40 lbs overweight with gray hair and a scruffy beard about half an inch long.

and now you know my shame and disgrace!

Fridays Child

(23,998 posts)
6. Niles was too skinny.
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 07:09 AM
Sep 2012

IMHO, anyway.

So, without photos, I'm going to have to say shave the beard but that's just my personal aversion to facial hair.

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
4. Ok, well, I have to get around for my day and work.
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 06:54 AM
Sep 2012

That's one non-vote and one keep it, so it's safe for the next 12-13 hours.

more comments welcome.

caraher

(6,279 posts)
9. "looks like hell"
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 07:43 AM
Sep 2012

Unless the convenience of not shaving is more important to you, I think you've answered your own question...

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
10. True but
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 09:02 AM
Sep 2012

12 days that's probably expected.

Right now leaning towards putting it on a probationary period.

caraher

(6,279 posts)
22. On the other hand...
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 10:45 AM
Sep 2012

if you're still thinking about it the last thing you want to to is end the experiment prematurely!

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
12. I tried that once
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 09:28 AM
Sep 2012

when I was 42, as soon as I figured out it had so much grey in it I shaved it the hell off and never tried it again.

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
21. You could try that
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 10:22 AM
Sep 2012

I know a co-worker here uses that Just For Men Beard thing and it seems to work well for him. He has black hair and his beard started to go grey well before his head did so he had no problems.

I didn't try it because I was afraid of it looking different from my regular hair, then I'd have to dye that too and pretty soon it would all go to hell and I would wind up with green hair.

marzipanni

(6,011 posts)
15. You could use that dye for beards if your head hair isn't as gray as your beard '-)
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 10:11 AM
Sep 2012

If you do decide to shave, you could subscribe to razor blades by mail club- (heard about it on All Things Considered on NPR) unless you have an electric shaver.
Save lots o' $...

http://www.dollarshaveclub.com/

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
16. 12 days would probably not be enough time for George Michael to grow good-looking stubble.
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 10:14 AM
Sep 2012

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Give it up to a month, ESPECIALLY if it's a first time. Make sure you condition it well in
the shower -- beard hair is usually coarser and stiffer than head hair.
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One of the most fun things I've found about beards is that when I've decided to take
it off (not in a LONG time now), I've taken it off a little area at at time. I'd have ten
different beards in ten days -- and sometimes found that "partial beard" to be cool
enough to keep for awhile.
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My big brother, MiddleFingerMomTom, had a 10-year-old (or older) beard that was
shaped but almost down to his navel (he also had BEAUTIFUL silky hair down to his
butt). One time when I went to visit him, this guy answered the door and I started
to ask him where my brother was. It was him, clean-shaven -- and if I hadn't been at
his front door, I never would have known who the hell he was.
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My BIL was in advertising and the two of them looked for an agency that would use
him as a model when he shaved ("If our razor can handle THIS, just think what it
could do for you&quot , but they didn't find any takers. He did it anyway.
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HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
17. Keep it. Get a face hair trimmer set from K-Mart to keep it sharp if you want.
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 10:17 AM
Sep 2012

I haven't shaved or cut my hair in years and I look like Tommy Chong, but I like my beard and mustache long, as well as my hair, and my wife likes it too. I've tried the short trim beard and always found it itchy and coarse. It's really soft when long.

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
19. If I keep it
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 10:21 AM
Sep 2012

Going to be on the short to very short side. I think that would be the best look for me,

 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
24. The trimmer kit is essential then. It's not very expensive, and certainly cheaper in the long run.
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 10:57 AM
Sep 2012

It's got a bunch of attachments. I've got one, but I don't use it now. I just use sewing scissors to trim the cookie duster every once in a while. Otherwise it gets covered in beer foam.

You don't want to be running to a barber every time you become a "scruffy-looking nerf herder". The kit is cheaper.

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
27. Ding, Ding, Ding, We Have A Winner.
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 06:08 PM
Sep 2012

Gonna try dyeing it. Stopped and bought "Just For Men" blond/brown for facial hair.

If THAT looks like hell, well, I have a Gillette Fusion ready to go.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
29. I've had mine since I was 18.
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 07:58 PM
Sep 2012

The high school I was graduating from begged me to shave it off, but they harassed me with gestapo like raids into my dorm room, so I didn't. But that wasn't the original reason I stopped shaving. I have REALLY sensitive skin, and if I shave every morning, my face looks redder than a boiled lobster and itches like crazy. Since at age 18, I already looked like a finalist in the casting for Revenge of the Nerds, I decided that the only way my social life could only get any worse than it already was, would be if I looked like a poster child for skin cancer research.

I just turned 60, and I still have it. Now there's no choice. If I shave it off, my wife would call the cops about the prowler who had somehow managed to steal my car and my house key, and imitate my voice with perfect pitch.

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
30. Actually, I have the same skin issues.
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 11:46 PM
Sep 2012

I tend to break out in big red patches that then develop into scales after using a blade, and only slightly less with an electric razor.


Anyway, it's done. I dyed it, and it came out pretty well if I do say so myself. Of course, I ignored the allergy test warning and just jumped in, LOL, so if my face falls off in 2 days I only have myself to blame. But I doubt an issue.

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
31. Hey, lounge, I did it.
Thu Sep 13, 2012, 08:50 AM
Sep 2012

Used the Just For Men. Big difference not being gray. I like the look, it's a keeper for now.

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