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Aristus

(66,446 posts)
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 12:22 AM Sep 2012

As Bill Watterson's Calvin once said: "What a stupid world".



My friend, the Iranian musician I've known since 2008, with whom I've shared e-mails, Skype, etc, whose music I enjoy, and whom I've come to love as a brother, has stomach cancer. He is facing the possibility of a radical gastrectomy, for which the prospect of recovery is equivocal, but without which is a death sentence.

I've got the jewel box from the CD of his debut album on the desk in front of me. I wonder if I'll ever get the chance to meet him. I hope he will recover. He says it doesn't look good.

My friend and my brother...

What a stupid world...
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As Bill Watterson's Calvin once said: "What a stupid world". (Original Post) Aristus Sep 2012 OP
Yes, Aristus Tobin S. Sep 2012 #1
How appropriate that you should respond, Tobin. Aristus Sep 2012 #2
I've been thinking about that sig line Tobin S. Sep 2012 #3
that really sucks, Aristus Flaxbee Sep 2012 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author littlemissmartypants Sep 2012 #5
Damn that is sad. Denninmi Sep 2012 #6
Vibes and good thoughts for your friend, Aristus. And you stay positive, too. sarge43 Sep 2012 #7
Send him some Lounge vibes for me. HopeHoops Sep 2012 #8

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
1. Yes, Aristus
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 12:28 AM
Sep 2012

It sure looks that way sometimes. We had a pretty bitter taste of it here recently. But we will go on, your friend may not. Yes indeed, that hurts.

Aristus

(66,446 posts)
2. How appropriate that you should respond, Tobin.
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 12:31 AM
Sep 2012

Your sig line says it all...

Nothing in this bitter time can equal the joy I have in being his friend.

Thank you, too, for being a friend...

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
3. I've been thinking about that sig line
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 12:39 AM
Sep 2012

Nothing truer about joy has ever been said. The more people you have to share it with the greater it becomes.

But sadness or grief, maybe a lot of the time it does take care of itself. It was certainly true for me a lot of times in my life. But I think there are times when we need to reach out when we are feeling intense sadness as well, just as you have done tonight. So maybe I will modify my sig line.

Response to Aristus (Original post)

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
6. Damn that is sad.
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 07:41 AM
Sep 2012

I have seen some pretty serious shit these past two weeks which makes my problems seem small. This is now among them

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