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Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
Wed Nov 19, 2014, 02:35 PM Nov 2014

Does/did your Thanksgiving day food include a relish tray?

My mother always (well, when she was coherent enough to assemble a Thanksgiving meal) prepared a relish tray, little things to snack on while the meal was being prepared. Hers included olives, sweet gherkins, and radishes. There was more but I can't remember what.

Yours?

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Does/did your Thanksgiving day food include a relish tray? (Original Post) Bertha Venation Nov 2014 OP
Ours did. geardaddy Nov 2014 #1
not a relish tray, be we do snacks fizzgig Nov 2014 #2
We just pick. In_The_Wind Nov 2014 #3
Yes, my aunt always had one. rug Nov 2014 #4
my mom would have orleans Nov 2014 #5
I've got a couple of really great recipes Le Taz Hot Nov 2014 #22
if you want to take the time to share it with me that would be great. thanks! n/t orleans Nov 2014 #26
me, too, please post the recipe blackcrowflies Nov 2014 #41
Always! The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2014 #6
Yes, I still make one. femmocrat Nov 2014 #7
I don't remember any, ever sakabatou Nov 2014 #8
Not a relish tray but appetizers for sure! riderinthestorm Nov 2014 #9
yes to relish tray but it was not an appetizer Kali Nov 2014 #10
Our celery sticks had pimento cheese. trof Nov 2014 #16
our celery sticks had cream cheese and paprika blackcrowflies Nov 2014 #42
Always during my childhood LiberalElite Nov 2014 #11
'pickled watermelon'? You mean watermelon rind pickles? trof Nov 2014 #17
yes that's it the watermelon rind - LiberalElite Nov 2014 #19
Yes blogslut Nov 2014 #12
Always hibbing Nov 2014 #13
Black olives were for kids to put on their fingers! vanlassie Nov 2014 #14
Something we relish Iwillnevergiveup Nov 2014 #15
We have an antipasto (nt) bigwillq Nov 2014 #18
Hi, Will - pardon my ignorance . . . Bertha Venation Nov 2014 #20
It is the greatest sald.......... mrmpa Nov 2014 #28
It's so good!!! bigwillq Nov 2014 #30
Will Bertha Venation Nov 2014 #33
Wow Bertha Venation Nov 2014 #32
Yes it can be.......... mrmpa Nov 2014 #36
I am 2nd Generation Italian, from the Alps north of Torino Drahthaardogs Nov 2014 #38
Always Le Taz Hot Nov 2014 #21
This message was self-deleted by its author Iggo Nov 2014 #23
LOL. Iggo Nov 2014 #24
My dad always had olives - green & black mackerel Nov 2014 #25
My husband's gramma always put up pickles. yewberry Nov 2014 #27
Growing up we had lefse and "roll-ups" Odin2005 Nov 2014 #29
Yes, and as part of the meal... love_katz Nov 2014 #31
Yes, it's tradition in my family. herding cats Nov 2014 #34
yes indeed, when I was growing up yellowdogintexas Nov 2014 #35
Texans don't like deviled eggs? blackcrowflies Nov 2014 #43
editing goof: I did not make the deviled eggs on that occasion yellowdogintexas Nov 2014 #44
Yes olives, green, black and those little Italian ones with the pits, dilly pickles and celery and lonestarnot Nov 2014 #37
Oh yeah.... justamama83 Nov 2014 #39
my mother and I were always appalled NJCher Nov 2014 #40

geardaddy

(24,931 posts)
1. Ours did.
Wed Nov 19, 2014, 02:38 PM
Nov 2014

We sometime still do it.

Carrot and celery sticks and radishes. Also, we had those apple rings and pickled peaches.

orleans

(34,057 posts)
5. my mom would have
Wed Nov 19, 2014, 07:11 PM
Nov 2014

black olives stuffed with cream cheese! (they are so good!)

and small celery sticks with cream cheese & onion homemade dip (that was real good too)

sometimes corn relish (i can't find it at the store any more--it was aunt nellies i think)

sometimes cold shrimp

and sweet gherkins!

--damn, i miss those years!

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
22. I've got a couple of really great recipes
Fri Nov 21, 2014, 09:31 PM
Nov 2014

for corn relish. I was thinking about entering one into the fair next year. It's actually pretty easy to make. I can give you the recipe if you want it.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
7. Yes, I still make one.
Wed Nov 19, 2014, 07:16 PM
Nov 2014

My mom always did. Hers was usually a work of art! LOL

My kids love to snack on celery sticks with cheese spread, cubed cheese and crackers. I also put on a relish dish: black olives, cherry tomatoes with sliced green onions and olive oil and those tiny sweet pickles. (I don't make a salad, though.)

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
9. Not a relish tray but appetizers for sure!
Wed Nov 19, 2014, 10:20 PM
Nov 2014

Everyone arrives a couple hours before the turkey is finished. Laughs, games, jokes, too many cooks in the kitchen - a lot of madness so appetizers are a planned part of the affair as we snack our way til the feast.

Every year we plan different appetizers although fresh homemade shrimp cocktail is always a part of it. Bacon wrapped dates usually make an appearance. Puff pastry crab snacks, scampi, prosciutto wrapped fontina smeared on fresh homemade bread...think tapas sized servings so nobody gets too stuffed.

The appetizers are a huge part of the feast and come out in waves.

Thanksgiving feast at our house usually lasts 7+ hours start to finish including an hour break to do pm barn chores which most of the family helps with, good exercise and some fresh air after a ton of rich food.

Did I mention my sister's a caterer and my husband spent several years cooking at a 5 star restaurant?

Kali

(55,013 posts)
10. yes to relish tray but it was not an appetizer
Wed Nov 19, 2014, 10:30 PM
Nov 2014

it was on the table with the other food. sweet and dill baby pickles, black and pimento-stuffed green olives. my grandmother on my father's side added stuffed celery sticks (cream cheese).

LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
11. Always during my childhood
Wed Nov 19, 2014, 10:33 PM
Nov 2014

green olives stuffed with pimiento, celery, pickled veggies and pickled watermelon.

blogslut

(38,002 posts)
12. Yes
Thu Nov 20, 2014, 12:30 AM
Nov 2014

Bread and Butter pickle chips, gherkins, black olives and the greatest thing to come out of the Texas - PICKLED OKRA:

hibbing

(10,098 posts)
13. Always
Thu Nov 20, 2014, 12:44 AM
Nov 2014

Black and green olives, some mini sweet pickles, baby carrots and celery. Gosh I think I always ate half the olives.

Peace

mrmpa

(4,033 posts)
28. It is the greatest sald..........
Sat Nov 22, 2014, 05:22 AM
Nov 2014

Antipasto (plural antipasti) means "before the meal" and is the traditional first course of a formal Italian meal. Traditional antipasto includes cured meats, olives, peperoncini, mushrooms, anchovies, artichoke hearts, various cheeses (such as provolone or mozzarella), pickled meats, and vegetables in oil or vinegar.

When we make it (not often, in this Polish & Irish household) we make "grandma's" dressing for it. The dressing consists of oil, vinegar and garlic salt. I grew up in an Italian neighborhood and my friends often had this at diner.

mrmpa

(4,033 posts)
36. Yes it can be..........
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 01:25 AM
Nov 2014

last night I made one for my 84 year old mother and me. I added some nice great garlic bread with it, it was filling & delicious.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
38. I am 2nd Generation Italian, from the Alps north of Torino
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 09:47 AM
Nov 2014

Both Mom's family and my dad's mother were from there. We have antipasti, but we have traditional dish called bagna cauda - it is a traditional holiday/fall treat.

It is essentially a fondue made with butter (this is the north), anchovies, and garlic all simmered slowly. You finish it with a splash of heavy cream. It is eaten with bread, a cavolo sotto la neve (Savoy Cabbage), and cardoons if you can find them. This is a very piemontese dish.

Then onto homemade salumi and cheeses. My favorite is a hot cured sausage made with wine and cayenne.

Meal comes out in courses. The prima is usually the pasta dish. Homemade pork and cabbage agnolotti in a meat ragu or sometimes potato gnocchi.

The secondo is what most people would think of as their Thanksgiving meal. Now comes out the turkey, stuffing, etc.

Salad is eaten last, before dessert.

I keep the traditions alive for my kids. It is lots of fun.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
21. Always
Fri Nov 21, 2014, 09:25 PM
Nov 2014

It takes the place of a salad and not just for Thanksgiving. You can put pretty much anything into them: carrot sticks, celery sticks, pickled beats or pickled okra, bread and butter pickles, black olives, green stuffed olives, fresh broccoli or fresh cauliflower, pretty much anything you can think of.

Response to Bertha Venation (Original post)

yewberry

(6,530 posts)
27. My husband's gramma always put up pickles.
Sat Nov 22, 2014, 05:02 AM
Nov 2014

She pickled cukes, garlic, green beans and asparagus and they were always part of Thanksgiving. She died this summer and boy, we're all missing her. She was 96 and she was amazing.

My family always had nuts for pre-dinner snacks on holidays.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
29. Growing up we had lefse and "roll-ups"
Sat Nov 22, 2014, 06:14 AM
Nov 2014

The latter were tortillas wrapped up with lunch meat, cream cheese, and salsa. We also sometimes had "pickle wraps", pickles wrapped in cream cheese and lunch meat.

love_katz

(2,580 posts)
31. Yes, and as part of the meal...
Sun Nov 23, 2014, 08:15 PM
Nov 2014

though everyone picks at the relish tray before dinner. ;0

Ours usually has carrot sticks, celery (stuffed with cream cheese or just plain), black olives, green olives stuffed with pimento, radishes, and any number of fresh veggies: cherry tomatoes, raw broccoli and cauliflower, sweet green or red pepper, etc. And dill pickles, preferably my mom's homemade. Yum!

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
34. Yes, it's tradition in my family.
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 12:16 AM
Nov 2014

I know it goes back to my great grandmother at least. I'm the one who does it now, but I was raised with it. Various stuffed olives, pickled mushrooms, homemade baby pickles, green onions, radishes and picked baby beets this year. It's expected of whoever is hosting the family holiday. Full disclosure. I didn't pickle the beets myself this year. I purchased them at the local farmers market because my beets were attacked by some kind of bug and had holes all in them. It was bad, really bad!

I think it's pretty cool it's not just in my family. I never knew that before!

yellowdogintexas

(22,264 posts)
35. yes indeed, when I was growing up
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 12:41 AM
Nov 2014

celery sticks, carrot sticks, olives, deviled eggs, sweet gherkins, pickled peaches, and radishes. We had this for every big family meal in my dad's family.

So the first Thanksgiving we were here in Texas, I whipped up a relish tray to take to my mother in law's for the Big Family Dinner. 21 people in that house and I was the only one who partook of the relish tray. I don't take that any more.

I also don't bother with cranberry orange relish. Only my husband will eat it.

 

blackcrowflies

(207 posts)
43. Texans don't like deviled eggs?
Sat Nov 29, 2014, 11:27 AM
Nov 2014

They must be the only people in the whole country. Whenever I take deviled eggs to a potluck, everyone inhales them.

yellowdogintexas

(22,264 posts)
44. editing goof: I did not make the deviled eggs on that occasion
Sun Nov 30, 2014, 11:53 AM
Nov 2014

they would have been eaten, and quickly. Texans are huge deviled egg eaters. Sorry for the misunderstanding

 

lonestarnot

(77,097 posts)
37. Yes olives, green, black and those little Italian ones with the pits, dilly pickles and celery and
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 01:45 AM
Nov 2014

raw carrots, radishes and nuts.

justamama83

(87 posts)
39. Oh yeah....
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 10:09 AM
Nov 2014

Mom always had one. Never ate from it we had black olives, radishes, some sort of pickle. These days she still puts out the black olives. My husband, daughter and brother fight over them. The main competition is to see who can get olives on all 10 fingers first.

NJCher

(35,685 posts)
40. my mother and I were always appalled
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 10:59 PM
Nov 2014

The relish tray was out as an appetizer in my family. When the contents of the tray was thinning, my dad and brothers would try to "help," except instead of putting the olives in the tray, they would just stick a fork in a fresh can of olives and pass it around.



No class. None whatsoever.

When my mother and I would express disgust, they responded with expressions that clearly showed they had no appreciation for fine crystal relish trays.



Cher

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