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My mother always (well, when she was coherent enough to assemble a Thanksgiving meal) prepared a relish tray, little things to snack on while the meal was being prepared. Hers included olives, sweet gherkins, and radishes. There was more but I can't remember what.
Yours?
geardaddy
(24,931 posts)We sometime still do it.
Carrot and celery sticks and radishes. Also, we had those apple rings and pickled peaches.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)usually nuts and onion dip with chips and veggies.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)No tray. My family never did that.
rug
(82,333 posts)Now we put out deviled eggs, cheese and some vegs with dips.
orleans
(34,057 posts)black olives stuffed with cream cheese! (they are so good!)
and small celery sticks with cream cheese & onion homemade dip (that was real good too)
sometimes corn relish (i can't find it at the store any more--it was aunt nellies i think)
sometimes cold shrimp
and sweet gherkins!
--damn, i miss those years!
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)for corn relish. I was thinking about entering one into the fair next year. It's actually pretty easy to make. I can give you the recipe if you want it.
orleans
(34,057 posts)blackcrowflies
(207 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,732 posts)Pickles, olives, other vegs and dip, cheese, crackers, smoked oysters, deviled eggs, all kinds of stuff.
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)My mom always did. Hers was usually a work of art! LOL
My kids love to snack on celery sticks with cheese spread, cubed cheese and crackers. I also put on a relish dish: black olives, cherry tomatoes with sliced green onions and olive oil and those tiny sweet pickles. (I don't make a salad, though.)
sakabatou
(42,152 posts)riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)Everyone arrives a couple hours before the turkey is finished. Laughs, games, jokes, too many cooks in the kitchen - a lot of madness so appetizers are a planned part of the affair as we snack our way til the feast.
Every year we plan different appetizers although fresh homemade shrimp cocktail is always a part of it. Bacon wrapped dates usually make an appearance. Puff pastry crab snacks, scampi, prosciutto wrapped fontina smeared on fresh homemade bread...think tapas sized servings so nobody gets too stuffed.
The appetizers are a huge part of the feast and come out in waves.
Thanksgiving feast at our house usually lasts 7+ hours start to finish including an hour break to do pm barn chores which most of the family helps with, good exercise and some fresh air after a ton of rich food.
Did I mention my sister's a caterer and my husband spent several years cooking at a 5 star restaurant?
Kali
(55,013 posts)it was on the table with the other food. sweet and dill baby pickles, black and pimento-stuffed green olives. my grandmother on my father's side added stuffed celery sticks (cream cheese).
trof
(54,256 posts)blackcrowflies
(207 posts)LiberalElite
(14,691 posts)green olives stuffed with pimiento, celery, pickled veggies and pickled watermelon.
trof
(54,256 posts)Great aunt Helen made those.
Good.
LiberalElite
(14,691 posts)I didn't eat that though
blogslut
(38,002 posts)Bread and Butter pickle chips, gherkins, black olives and the greatest thing to come out of the Texas - PICKLED OKRA:
hibbing
(10,098 posts)Black and green olives, some mini sweet pickles, baby carrots and celery. Gosh I think I always ate half the olives.
Peace
vanlassie
(5,675 posts)Iwillnevergiveup
(9,298 posts)is a good, stiff Bloody Mary with celery sticks. I forget what else.
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)What is an antipasto?
mrmpa
(4,033 posts)Antipasto (plural antipasti) means "before the meal" and is the traditional first course of a formal Italian meal. Traditional antipasto includes cured meats, olives, peperoncini, mushrooms, anchovies, artichoke hearts, various cheeses (such as provolone or mozzarella), pickled meats, and vegetables in oil or vinegar.
When we make it (not often, in this Polish & Irish household) we make "grandma's" dressing for it. The dressing consists of oil, vinegar and garlic salt. I grew up in an Italian neighborhood and my friends often had this at diner.
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)Thanks for explaining it!
Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)Sounds amazing. Also sounds filing. Is it ever served as its own meal?
mrmpa
(4,033 posts)last night I made one for my 84 year old mother and me. I added some nice great garlic bread with it, it was filling & delicious.
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)Both Mom's family and my dad's mother were from there. We have antipasti, but we have traditional dish called bagna cauda - it is a traditional holiday/fall treat.
It is essentially a fondue made with butter (this is the north), anchovies, and garlic all simmered slowly. You finish it with a splash of heavy cream. It is eaten with bread, a cavolo sotto la neve (Savoy Cabbage), and cardoons if you can find them. This is a very piemontese dish.
Then onto homemade salumi and cheeses. My favorite is a hot cured sausage made with wine and cayenne.
Meal comes out in courses. The prima is usually the pasta dish. Homemade pork and cabbage agnolotti in a meat ragu or sometimes potato gnocchi.
The secondo is what most people would think of as their Thanksgiving meal. Now comes out the turkey, stuffing, etc.
Salad is eaten last, before dessert.
I keep the traditions alive for my kids. It is lots of fun.
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)It takes the place of a salad and not just for Thanksgiving. You can put pretty much anything into them: carrot sticks, celery sticks, pickled beats or pickled okra, bread and butter pickles, black olives, green stuffed olives, fresh broccoli or fresh cauliflower, pretty much anything you can think of.
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Iggo
(47,558 posts)Wrong thread.
mackerel
(4,412 posts)and celery with cream cheese and paprika sprinkled over it.
yewberry
(6,530 posts)She pickled cukes, garlic, green beans and asparagus and they were always part of Thanksgiving. She died this summer and boy, we're all missing her. She was 96 and she was amazing.
My family always had nuts for pre-dinner snacks on holidays.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)The latter were tortillas wrapped up with lunch meat, cream cheese, and salsa. We also sometimes had "pickle wraps", pickles wrapped in cream cheese and lunch meat.
love_katz
(2,580 posts)though everyone picks at the relish tray before dinner. ;0
Ours usually has carrot sticks, celery (stuffed with cream cheese or just plain), black olives, green olives stuffed with pimento, radishes, and any number of fresh veggies: cherry tomatoes, raw broccoli and cauliflower, sweet green or red pepper, etc. And dill pickles, preferably my mom's homemade. Yum!
herding cats
(19,565 posts)I know it goes back to my great grandmother at least. I'm the one who does it now, but I was raised with it. Various stuffed olives, pickled mushrooms, homemade baby pickles, green onions, radishes and picked baby beets this year. It's expected of whoever is hosting the family holiday. Full disclosure. I didn't pickle the beets myself this year. I purchased them at the local farmers market because my beets were attacked by some kind of bug and had holes all in them. It was bad, really bad!
I think it's pretty cool it's not just in my family. I never knew that before!
yellowdogintexas
(22,264 posts)celery sticks, carrot sticks, olives, deviled eggs, sweet gherkins, pickled peaches, and radishes. We had this for every big family meal in my dad's family.
So the first Thanksgiving we were here in Texas, I whipped up a relish tray to take to my mother in law's for the Big Family Dinner. 21 people in that house and I was the only one who partook of the relish tray. I don't take that any more.
I also don't bother with cranberry orange relish. Only my husband will eat it.
blackcrowflies
(207 posts)They must be the only people in the whole country. Whenever I take deviled eggs to a potluck, everyone inhales them.
yellowdogintexas
(22,264 posts)they would have been eaten, and quickly. Texans are huge deviled egg eaters. Sorry for the misunderstanding
lonestarnot
(77,097 posts)raw carrots, radishes and nuts.
justamama83
(87 posts)Mom always had one. Never ate from it we had black olives, radishes, some sort of pickle. These days she still puts out the black olives. My husband, daughter and brother fight over them. The main competition is to see who can get olives on all 10 fingers first.
NJCher
(35,685 posts)The relish tray was out as an appetizer in my family. When the contents of the tray was thinning, my dad and brothers would try to "help," except instead of putting the olives in the tray, they would just stick a fork in a fresh can of olives and pass it around.
No class. None whatsoever.
When my mother and I would express disgust, they responded with expressions that clearly showed they had no appreciation for fine crystal relish trays.
Cher