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I have a winner.
Homesman.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Saw it years ago and wish I didn't.
Baitball Blogger
(46,720 posts)I wonder if it's more than a coinky dinky that Meryl Streep was in both of them.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Nothing else about it.
I hated that and never forgot it.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)Grave of the Fireflies. That one is top most depressing ever, made more depressing by being animation by Miyazaki who did Totoro and so many others.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)I did try. Never got through it.
Baitball Blogger
(46,720 posts)But, they fall short of entertaining in my book.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)The boy tries so hard, then they both die. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0095327/?ref_=nv_sr_1
Baitball Blogger
(46,720 posts)Pan's Labryinth I barely got through, but only because I spotted the strong martyr theme that was a popular concept in Spanish literature. My daughter, however, hated it.
yellowdogintexas
(22,256 posts)Here I am going through the new Myazaki collection we had just acquired and that thing just bombed me out. This is not 'Kiki's Delivery Service' that's for sure
Xyzse
(8,217 posts)I was hating the world for about a week.
Xipe Totec
(43,890 posts)I can't possibly see that movie again.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,719 posts)It's an old one (1964) - I saw it when I was in college and it depressed me for days afterwards. It's a very good movie but a huge downer. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Pawnbroker_%28film%29
orleans
(34,053 posts)vanlassie
(5,675 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)However, I did find it to be depressing overall.
lame54
(35,292 posts)it is billed as a comedy
i found it to be quite serious and depressing
it was a good movie though - but once is enough
hollysmom
(5,946 posts)I heard it was funny, left very depressed
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088846/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1
hunter
(38,316 posts)Very prescient.
My frequent nightmares are always worse than Brazil, so maybe I'm used to it.
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)angel823
(409 posts)and "Requiem for a Dream"
Angel in TExasperated
Beaverhausen
(24,470 posts)misterhighwasted
(9,148 posts)A really depressing movie.
tjwash
(8,219 posts)Pretty much any Steinbeck or Williams novel put in movie form will depress the living hell out of you.
olddots
(10,237 posts)Step Up # 18 and alot of musicals with shitty music .
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)mainer
(12,022 posts)Also, On The Beach. Everybody on earth dies.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)That counts for something.
applegrove
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hunter
(38,316 posts)I enjoyed Seeking a Friend for the End of the World
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1307068
Melancholia appealed to me somewhat, but I was unable to achieve "willing suspension of disbelief" for the bad physics.
On the other hand, as someone who experiences the deepest darkest sorts of depression "off my meds" the idea that people who are naturally depressed will be the last sane people as the world ends amused me.
countryjake
(8,554 posts)both films about young lost boys who seek companionship with a feathered friend, only to soon learn the lesson on how fragile life actually is.
I saw them both quite some time ago but I can still be moved to tears if I think on each of those stories for too long.
My dear old Dove is named after Teeka, the Goose.
hedgehog
(36,286 posts)livetohike
(22,144 posts)Never want to see even a minute of it again.
NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)That was a truly downer of a movie.
Baitball Blogger
(46,720 posts)"If you can finish that movie without killing yourself, you're going to be fine"
Your future as a movie reviewer will be a promising one.
Ahpook
(2,750 posts)Bizarre as hell and very depressing to me.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)The black and white photography is spectacularly beautiful, though.
hunter
(38,316 posts)My girlfriend at the time had a very, very dark side, well beyond what we might call "goth" today.
Eraserhead was her idea of a "fun" date.
She'd also bring home these skinny self-destructive drug addicted street waifs, one of whom later tried to kill herself in my bathtub.
If I ever wanted to make a depressing and surrealistic movie about that period of my life, I have plenty of material...
sendero
(28,552 posts).... I'm a big Lynch fan, but I couldn't even get half done with this one. Wow, straight for the gut.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)Breaker Morant, too.
Newest Reality
(12,712 posts)Directed by Lars von Trier, staring Bjork.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)I was gonna mention the one with Nicole Kidman. It takes place on a stage and it's a metaphor for U.S. barbarism. Can't recall the name. Holy crap that was depressing. But I haven't stopped thinking about it. Depressing doesn't mean I didn't like it. I like most Bergman movies. Laugh riots they're not.
mikeargo
(675 posts)No way could I watch that again.
Jenoch
(7,720 posts)based on the novel by Cormac McCarthy.
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)Jesus, that was fucking depressing...but I watched it to the end.
liberalhistorian
(20,818 posts)anything written by Cormac McCarthy, the bleakest, most depressing author I've ever known. And that's even among often-depressing Irish authors (and yes, I'm Irish, so I can say shit like that, lol!).
No Country for Old Men and All the Pretty Horses also come to mind in addition to The Road and Child of God. The books are even bleaker than the movie. I can only take so much of his soul-sucking bleakness at a time. He must be a real picnic at a party, or to live with, lemme tell ya.
It's a good thing they never made a movie of Suttree, one of his earlier ones. It'd make any of the movies of his we've just discussed look like a trip to Disneyland. I was really disgusted, though, when No Country for Old Men won movie of the year. That's one of those inexplicable choices, like Terms of Endearment or American Beauty or Slumdog Millionaire (HATED HATED HATED that movie).
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)but when I researched it and found out, I was not surprised. My head lives inside a deep dark hole like that most of the time, (1/3 Irish, 1/3 Polish, 1/3 Italian) but I guess the Italian in me prevents me from blowing my head off.
I hate mainstream movies--the ones that win Oscars. I've found some excellent movies and series on Netflix, mostly British or Irish. In Bruges, The Fall, The Wind That Shakes the Barley, Jack Taylor, the Aussie version of Rake, Exile, and Peaky Blinders. Recently, I watched Magic City which was decent but I tend more toward Irish/British stuff.
FrodosPet
(5,169 posts)graywarrior
(59,440 posts)csziggy
(34,136 posts)I keep thinking the movie was made in black and white, but it was just grey and depressing.
For a whole different genre, Miracle Mile (1988) is really depressing. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miracle_Mile_%28film%29
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)I've seen it a few times and I laugh more.
Oh well, to each their own.
csziggy
(34,136 posts)I haven't been able to make myself do it since the first time I saw it. I was just left with such depression from the first time but maybe that's because of where I was in my life.
The other reason could be that the life and issues involved in the movie are so alien to me that I didn't understand much of what it showed.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)I could not watch the entire movie because it was very depressing.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Pianist_%282002_film%29
hopemountain
(3,919 posts)anything that makes my daughter so sad she is sobbing makes me sad.
First Speaker
(4,858 posts)...World War One. Everyone is insane, except maybe Kirk Douglas, or a victim. I don't think any film quite touches the depths of human lunacy like this one...a super-depressing film...
Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)ailsagirl
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(as well it should be)
I saw it at the theatre and actually was sick to my stomach afterwards.
pamela
(3,469 posts)That's really an amazing movie. They filmed it in all of the real locations-not just the real house but every place, the hardware store, bus station, etc. Even many of the real people played themselves like the lady in the diner, the jurors etc.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)Texasgal
(17,045 posts)Two words: Red Dress.
mythology
(9,527 posts)It shows how even in the face of hell itself, there are people who will choose to do the right thing. The movie is actually #3 on AFI's list of most inspiring movies.
My pick for a depressing movie is The Matrix. Any world that has Keanu Reeves as the world's savior is just too horrible to think about.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)The circumstances are obviously depressing. Chekov said I don't write tragedies to make people feel bad, I write them to inspire people to see another way. I think Spielberg succeeded with that picture. Not an easy task. But still, I can see why others might not feel the same. It's really heavy subject matter.
Earth Bound Misfit
(3,554 posts)Best Actor for Nick Cage & nominations for Elizabeth Shue - Actress, lost to S. Sarandon Dead Man Walking & Director Mike Figgis - lost to Mel Gibson Braveheart. Fun is not to be found in this film.
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)I thought the "love story" between Cage and Shue's characters was beautiful.
Earth Bound Misfit
(3,554 posts)The film is extremely well written, directed and acted...the chemistry between Cage and Shue is electric, Cage in particular was phenomenal. However, overall I found it a sad, dark and deeply upsetting film.
Tribalceltic
(1,000 posts)What can you say about a twenty-five-year-old girl who died? That she was beautiful and brilliant? That she loved Mozart and Bach, the Beatles, and me?
distantearlywarning
(4,475 posts)Trailer here:
It looked interesting and had good reviews, so we loaded it up on the big screen and popped some popcorn, thinking we were about to see an interesting, enjoyable drama. Yeah...not so much. Can't say much about it without spoiling some plot twists, but man, was it a downer. I watched it with my husband and we both sort of sat there deflated and horrified after it ended. It was not a fun movie night.
Baitball Blogger
(46,720 posts)and plug them into wiki to read the plots. Because I can't see myself spending two hours of my time to see a downer.
Lydia Leftcoast
(48,217 posts)A very good film, but definitely on the heavy side.
Initech
(100,079 posts)Baitball Blogger
(46,720 posts)Too depressing to look it up, though.
Laffy Kat
(16,382 posts)The book depressed me so much I didn't want to see the movie but accidentally started watching it on TV. Wished I hadn't.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)but it drew me in. I feel like the movie couldn't have made as much sense if you hadn't read the book first.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)Depressing and hopeless
maryellen99
(3,789 posts)CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)Threads made The Day After look like a picnic.
Another grim one on the same theme is Testament.
PassingFair
(22,434 posts)I have never been able to forget the scene where the mother sews a shroud for her first born.
roamer65
(36,745 posts)So realistic and depressing, it is almost the prequel to "1984".
The book, too. I bawled like a baby when I read it.
mainer
(12,022 posts)My parents should never have let me see it.
newcriminal
(2,190 posts)LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)Sancho
(9,070 posts)Adsos Letter
(19,459 posts)vanlassie
(5,675 posts)Marie Marie
(9,999 posts)IcyPeas
(21,884 posts)Exhibit A
(318 posts)Horrible, horrible movie I wish I'd never seen:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0417658/
The moral of the story seemed to be something like, "Yes, I'm miserable and don't really want to live, but somehow that is good for my writing." BLECH!
sendero
(28,552 posts)... I kinda like it. To each his own
cemaphonic
(4,138 posts)I know they were going for a black comedy tone, and I'm pretty tolerant of unsympathetic characters in fiction, but that movie was pretty relentless about shoving horrible people in your face for hours.
Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)they were unmoved during the fantasy mass slaughter in the park, but the later scene of Hoffman's jism hitting the wall brought forth lots of gasps and groans.
People are funny.
I love Happiness.
HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)Leviathan - Russia. Filmed in a cold, dank fishing village in northern Russia. Everyone drank all the time. Very depressing people.
AND
Ida - Poland. Shot in several shades of grey. Main character was a very somber, depressed nun. Very slow movie with a hint of a plot somewhere near the end.
And while I also thought Meloncholia was nearly wrist-slitting depressing, the one that haunted me for the longest time was Never Let Me Go, about children who were conceived and used as organ donors.
Lydia Leftcoast
(48,217 posts)It's about an ISIS-like organization occupying that African city and how it affects a family of Tuareg tribespeople. (I saw it in a sneak preview.)
Lydia Leftcoast
(48,217 posts)Three sisters in a house, one is dying in agony of cancer, the other two are going through the kind of drama that actresses in Ingmar Bergman films go through.
HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)and I thought it a shocking portrayal of what happens to a tribe of non-political people. Although it was disgusting, it didn't leave me with the heavy, grey, barren feeling of the other two. Oh, yes, I did just see that Ida won as best foreign film -- they must all be on drugs to make a choice like that.
SiobhanClancy
(2,955 posts)The ending was so horribly depressing that I wish I had never seen it Whatever parts of the film were perhaps less depressing were blown out of my mind.
Monk06
(7,675 posts)CanSocDem
(3,286 posts)Don't believe me....??? See for yourself.
NewJeffCT
(56,828 posts)I saw it in the theater and just felt drained afterwards. Great movie, but a real downer.
Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)Mopar151
(9,983 posts)Starts out creepy, gets worse.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Albert Knobbs
kwassa
(23,340 posts)the movie was just so .... wrong.
Scuba
(53,475 posts)Awful. Depressing. Awful depressing.
Smarmie Doofus
(14,498 posts)But great ensemble acting and superb script. One of my faves of the last three years.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)the secrets. The secrets some already know. The secrets some think the others already know but don't. The way nobody wants to get together unless someones dies and then they are grumpy about it...
It gave me much to think about.
underahedgerow
(1,232 posts)Terribly depressing.
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,182 posts)No spoilers (although it was spoiled for me), but yeah. The Mist.
I always found Blood Diamond to be depressing, although slightly optimistic at the very end.
Dead Man Walking is quite grim.
Baitball Blogger
(46,720 posts)I couldn't help thinking about the recrimination he would get from everyone once the mist cleared.
Stuart G
(38,428 posts)Read the first 10 viewer reviews of this film. It is the most horrific, depressing film ever made. From beginning to end, and it gets worse as it goes on.. And it is real, it happened, those people died. If you haven't seen it, you are warned. and ..one of those reviews is mine. It is depressing beyond anything you can imagine.
Toward the bottom of the review below, there is a link. It says, "See all 80 user reviews » " Hit that link, and read the first 10.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0048434/
Adsos Letter
(19,459 posts)I can still picture the bulldozer scenes, and hear the narrator pronouncing Ohrdruf.
That was almost 50 years ago.
Number9Dream
(1,562 posts)The couple is despicable from the beginning. You're rooting for them to just die.
I wonder if Jim Caviezel regrets that one.
Raine1967
(11,589 posts)That movie bothers to me to no end.
hunter
(38,316 posts)In 1968, a Czech doctor with an active sex life meets a woman who wants monogamy, and then the Soviet invasion further disrupts their lives.
It's downhill all the way.
El Supremo
(20,365 posts)Miserable.
cyberswede
(26,117 posts)I actually wish I could unsee that movie.
truegrit44
(332 posts)The one that still haunts me tho is "Of Mice and Men" the movie, never read the book.........thank Dog
Paladin
(28,262 posts)Jane Alexander and William Devane in a rollicking tale of a California community after a nuclear war, with agonizing deaths of family members and friends by radiation sickness or starvation an absolute certainty. Far and away the most depressing flick I've ever experienced; frankly, it makes some of the movies listed on this thread---"The Pianist," "Love Story," "The Deer Hunter"---look like "The Sound of Music" in comparison. Way too grim for me to recommend it to anybody.
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)Just a brutal sad movie.
Paladin
(28,262 posts)Nope, that's one movie I'll never, ever watch again. Kind of sorry I even brought it up.....
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)Not a great movie, but damn if it wasn't just depressing.
sakabatou
(42,152 posts)aint_no_life_nowhere
(21,925 posts)About an old man dying of cancer whose son doesn't care and who questions his meaningless life, when he finally finds meaning in a fight to keep a local kid's park open and then dies. After his death, life goes on as before, and where he once worked, clerks continue stamping meaningless forms. Depressing but one of the most powerful movies ever made and so beautifully directed. The comments on IMDB in their high, high praise must be read to be appreciated. I rank it among the five greatest films.
Grammy23
(5,810 posts)I didn't actually see this one but my husband went with a friend while I was out of town. He said it was the most depressing thing he'd ever seen and, Based on that, I've never been curious enough to see for myself if his assessment was accurate. His description of it was enough.
kairos12
(12,862 posts)LynneSin
(95,337 posts)Afterwards I was so depressed I didn't want to get out of bed all the next day.
I do not recommended it. One I could handle and I had seen both in the movie theater on big screen. But to watch both of them back to back can take the happiness of person and put them in the most depressed of states.
And it wasn't just that people were dying of AIDs or being treated like shit as Slaves. (although that in itself is pretty damn depressing to watch).
It's that Americans in power held the control over these people who were dying of AIDs and being treated like shit as Slaves and choose to do nothing about it and thus even more people died of AIDs and were treated like shit as Slaves.
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)DFW
(54,397 posts)My parents were amazed when I told them I sat through the whole thing. Twenty years before me, they had walked out about two thirds through. I figured SOMETHING had to happen in this film. It didn't.
petronius
(26,602 posts)ohheckyeah
(9,314 posts)A 1973 Steve McQueen movie. The desperation in the movie depressed me for days.
a la izquierda
(11,795 posts)It about killed me.
La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)(shudders)
sarge43
(28,941 posts)mucifer
(23,547 posts)TrogL
(32,822 posts)GoCubsGo
(32,084 posts)Depressing, despite a relatively good ending.
Lil Missy
(17,865 posts)Ugh
liberalhistorian
(20,818 posts)a Cormac McCarthy work, I'd also include American Beauty. Not only was it a completely shitty piece of shit for a movie with no redeeming features whatsoever, it was also unbelievably bleak and depressing with an unbelievably bleak and depressing ending. I'll never get back the two hours spent watching it and I never want to watch one second of it again. Same with the Cormac McCarthy movies, especially No Country for Old Men and The Road.
jmowreader
(50,559 posts)My Good Babushka
(2,710 posts)I was going to say Dancer in the Dark first, but I saw that was taken.
Taxidermia is pretty dark, too.
Burma Jones
(11,760 posts)Very well acted and directed.....
LeftishBrit
(41,205 posts)Very good, but depressing because of the subject matter.
I will not watch films about (a) the Holocaust or (b) predicted aftermath of nuclear war, because I know those would get me more depressed than I can cope with. I will read and learn about such things, but not actually watch.
marmar
(77,081 posts)Ace Rothstein
(3,163 posts)Really good movie though.
nilesobek
(1,423 posts)Its slow. Its cold and dark. "Laura!"
Paladin
(28,262 posts)Honestly. I saw an ad for it in this morning's NY Times. There's forthcoming musical of "An American In Paris" as well. Frankly, I'm surprised that musicals of both movies haven't been done before now.
hopemountain
(3,919 posts)ugh. there is one more but i cannot remember the name of it. i think i blocked it - it was traumatically depressing.
RandySF
(58,884 posts)ailsagirl
(22,897 posts)Never saw it but a friend did and it sounded sickening and depressing
Baitball Blogger
(46,720 posts)Never saw it coming.
PassingFair
(22,434 posts)Unrelentingly depressing.
Stays with you forever, if you can stay with it until the end.
pamela
(3,469 posts)Love Ellen Page so watching her be abused for two hours made my stomach hurt. Actually, that would have been depressing with any actress.
avebury
(10,952 posts)While there is some humorous moments, the movie shows the impact of the Civil War on one Virginia family.
LostOne4Ever
(9,289 posts)LWolf
(46,179 posts)Lydia Leftcoast
(48,217 posts)One of the few movies that Sondra Locke made before she took up with Clint Eastwood.