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panader0

(25,816 posts)
Wed Nov 25, 2015, 07:08 PM Nov 2015

I just had the phone call every dad wants.

My daughter just got accepted to her first job (except waiting tables in college). She interned last summer
at the Federal Reserve bank in Richmond, Va. and applied for a permanent position upon her April graduation.
(Math major). Starting pay is 53,500 a year. This girl was raised on the end of a dirt road by an ignorant
bricklayer, a single dad. She is a devout Democrat, and a Bernie supporter. I'm very happy.

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I just had the phone call every dad wants. (Original Post) panader0 Nov 2015 OP
Good for her! Ya done good, panader0. And of course she deserves credit. aidbo Nov 2015 #1
How wonderful for you both! CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2015 #2
Good on both of you! Scuba Nov 2015 #3
Yay! redwitch Nov 2015 #4
Congratulations to you and her Vincardog Nov 2015 #5
Good for her. denbot Nov 2015 #6
Double cool !! My hat's off to her BlueJazz Nov 2015 #7
"ignorant bricklayer"? Come on. trof Nov 2015 #8
What you said. n/t JimDandy Nov 2015 #18
My thoughts too. Duppers Nov 2015 #19
What you said! n/t OneGrassRoot Nov 2015 #21
Actually, I've been well educated. panader0 Nov 2015 #24
I was also pretty well educated, but the Air Force gave me my career. trof Nov 2015 #59
Congrats to both of you. WOW oldandhappy Nov 2015 #9
Congratulation to both of you lovemydog Nov 2015 #10
That's wonderful! Your support helped make LibDemAlways Nov 2015 #11
Congratulations, sir Blus4u Nov 2015 #12
You raised her as a single parent. Half-Century Man Nov 2015 #13
Big congrats!! madamvlb Nov 2015 #14
Clearly, your son is not a DUer. I don't think anyone here is undecided. ;-) n/t JonLeibowitz Nov 2015 #33
Good job! Congratulations! mnhtnbb Nov 2015 #15
Congratulations! cheapdate Nov 2015 #16
Wonderful! LiberalElite Nov 2015 #17
Congrats MaggieD Nov 2015 #20
Wonderful. jwirr Nov 2015 #22
Congratulations! JDPriestly Nov 2015 #23
Nice job, Pops!!!!!!! Hassin Bin Sober Nov 2015 #25
Congratulations Jack Rabbit Nov 2015 #26
The weird thing Jack--I sort of stood back and watched it happen. panader0 Nov 2015 #29
I, too, was a single father Jack Rabbit Nov 2015 #32
Beautiful news for the holidays! Congrats! flygal Nov 2015 #27
Congratulation... Paka Nov 2015 #28
Sounds like the ignorant bricklayer is overly modest. Congratulations, Dad! pnwmom Nov 2015 #30
Heck, I'm very happy ornotna Nov 2015 #31
EXCELLENT! Triana Nov 2015 #34
Congrats! Gives me hope for one of my three :) mackerel Nov 2015 #35
Congratulations and Season's Greetings. n/t Admiral Loinpresser Nov 2015 #36
Nice work! cui bono Nov 2015 #37
congrats. I thought you were going to say that she Doctor_J Nov 2015 #38
Single Dads Piasladic Nov 2015 #39
Congratulations! crim son Nov 2015 #40
You raised a great human being nradisic Nov 2015 #41
My youngest daughter is a twin to my youngest son. panader0 Nov 2015 #42
Go Aggies shadowmayor Nov 2015 #52
Nice job dad! GitRDun Nov 2015 #43
WOW Iwillnevergiveup Nov 2015 #44
Congratulations! SoapBox Nov 2015 #45
Congratulations sir for a job well done mazzarro Nov 2015 #46
Wonderful news. You must be so proud of her. yardwork Nov 2015 #47
Happy Thanksgiving. n/t eggplant Nov 2015 #48
That's awesome, congratulations! mahina Nov 2015 #49
Congratulations to all. Enthusiast Nov 2015 #50
Your pride is **beaming** through your post! CoffeeCat Nov 2015 #51
Congrats to both of you and thanks for the warm fuzzies! nt sunnystarr Nov 2015 #53
much congrats to you and your daughter! (nm) paleotn Nov 2015 #54
HUGE K & R !!! - Thank You !!! WillyT Nov 2015 #55
Ignorant bricklayer? You didn't raise any stupid children Warpy Nov 2015 #56
That is awesome news! bench scientist Nov 2015 #57
Congrats! What great news to get right before this day! n/t. Ken Burch Nov 2015 #58

trof

(54,256 posts)
8. "ignorant bricklayer"? Come on.
Wed Nov 25, 2015, 07:49 PM
Nov 2015

The ability to accurately lay up a brick wall indicates intelligence.
It takes math and knowledge of spatial relationships.
The fact that you post on DU further indicates at least a modicum of intelligence.

Don't sell yourself short.
And congrats on your daughter's good fortune.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
24. Actually, I've been well educated.
Wed Nov 25, 2015, 09:23 PM
Nov 2015

Grandfather and mother were both teachers. I was an honors student in college, but dropped out to be a bricklayer.
Therein lies the ignorance. I've never regretted it. It's a good life if you don't weaken.
I bought land, built my house, paid it off, and now can live on the cheap.

trof

(54,256 posts)
59. I was also pretty well educated, but the Air Force gave me my career.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 07:47 PM
Nov 2015

I was an English and journalism major.
Fancied myself s pretty good writer.
Made a living at one time or another, in school and after, as a newspaper reporter.
That really hones your chops.
You learn to be clear and concise.
More information in fewer words.
Planned to write The Great American Novel and become rich and famous.


And then I joined the air guard, went to USAF pilot training and all that went out the window.
I found that I REALLY liked flying.
So that's what I did for 30+ years.
I would have paid them to let me do it.

Trans World Airlines until they became comatose in the late 80s.
Then Nippon Cargo Airlines for my last ten years of gainful employment.
On a scale on 1 to 10, flying passengers came in at around 7.
Flying cargo was a solid 10.


Doing what you actually like to do makes for a happy life.

Blus4u

(608 posts)
12. Congratulations, sir
Wed Nov 25, 2015, 08:41 PM
Nov 2015

You should be very happy and extremely proud. All of your hard work and support has certainly paid off.

Peace

Half-Century Man

(5,279 posts)
13. You raised her as a single parent.
Wed Nov 25, 2015, 08:49 PM
Nov 2015

She is a politically aware progressive Democrat with a college degree in mathematics starting work at an employer who is the base on the national economy; I find myself reluctant to accept your self description as "ignorant".
If nothing else you gave her the tools she used to achieve what she did so in such a short time.

Congratulations to the both of you.

madamvlb

(495 posts)
14. Big congrats!!
Wed Nov 25, 2015, 08:53 PM
Nov 2015

My son was just promoted to a supervisor position.....he is still torn between Hillary and Bernie.

mnhtnbb

(31,405 posts)
15. Good job! Congratulations!
Wed Nov 25, 2015, 08:56 PM
Nov 2015

Panader0, you have every right to be pleased. But I'm going to take
exception with you calling yourself "ignorant". You might not be formally
educated--with advanced degrees--but that doesn't mean you are ignorant.

Happy Thanksgiving!

panader0

(25,816 posts)
29. The weird thing Jack--I sort of stood back and watched it happen.
Wed Nov 25, 2015, 09:54 PM
Nov 2015

Yeah, I read to her (and her three sibs) and coached her softball team etc., but I was amazed how natural growing up is.
I gave love, food, shelter and a bit of instruction, but growing up is natural.

Jack Rabbit

(45,984 posts)
32. I, too, was a single father
Wed Nov 25, 2015, 10:42 PM
Nov 2015

My son was nearly expelled from high school at the end of his freshman year. Fortunately, the community in which were lived had a excellent alternative education and we were able to take advantage of it. He knew he was getting as second chance and that only the children of filthy rich and well-connected families get more than that. At that time, he was teetering around with a 0.8 GPA and smoking dope with his "friends" when he should have been in class. When he graduated, he was cited for academic excellence I couldn't have been prouder.

I can point to one particular thing I did right. At the end of his sophomore year, he was named student of the month. The next morning, he had to go to class and approached me with the framed certificate he received in a ceremony the evening before. He tried to give it me. I asked him why he thought I should have it.. "Isn't this what you waned?" I told it thought it very mice, but "I didn't do anything to earn this, you did. It's yours." It was like a light went on over his head. He realized that any bad time I gave him about getting his school work done was for his benefit, not my personal aggrandizement. I don't know where he ranks that in his personal experiences, but it was the single most satisfying moment of life.

He graduated from San Jose State a couple of years ago, but things being as they are he's been taking classes to become a computer technician. He will persevere.

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
30. Sounds like the ignorant bricklayer is overly modest. Congratulations, Dad!
Wed Nov 25, 2015, 10:02 PM
Nov 2015

Your daughter is on her way -- after the great start you gave her, on the end of that dirt road.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
38. congrats. I thought you were going to say that she
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 09:15 AM
Nov 2015

got engaged to a democrat, but this is almost as good. Math majors get hired to do everything, and usually can.



Eta I know great dads who are ceos, prison guards, and everything in between. You obviously love your daughter and did great

Piasladic

(1,160 posts)
39. Single Dads
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 10:32 AM
Nov 2015

Single Dads Rule!

Congrats on your kid's smarts and your kid's opportunity! While I doubt your professed ignorance, I say well done!

I was raised by my dad alone, and I'd like to say I turned out OK. Good luck you two!

nradisic

(1,362 posts)
41. You raised a great human being
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 11:30 AM
Nov 2015

As the Dad of triplet daughters, I can only wish and pray I can be as proud of my girls.

Talk about something to be thankful for!

panader0

(25,816 posts)
42. My youngest daughter is a twin to my youngest son.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 11:48 AM
Nov 2015

She graduates on Dec 12 from New Mexico State with a degree in Photography. I am sure you can be
proud of all of your daughters--in different ways. And yes, I am very thankful. Here she is 4 years ago:

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shadowmayor

(1,325 posts)
52. Go Aggies
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:02 PM
Nov 2015

Happy Thanksgiving from a Miner fan just down the road. The Aggies are my second favorite team.

CoffeeCat

(24,411 posts)
51. Your pride is **beaming** through your post!
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 02:57 PM
Nov 2015

Happy for you, and your daughter.

You have a lot to be thankful for this Thanksgiving. Enjoy the day and this terrific news!

Warpy

(111,354 posts)
56. Ignorant bricklayer? You didn't raise any stupid children
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 05:08 PM
Nov 2015

You did it right. Pat yourself on the back.

I worked for the Fed. It's a nice place to work. As long as her boss isn't a wanker, she'll like it there.

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