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Solly Mack

(90,775 posts)
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 06:27 PM Dec 2014

Hey Everyone! Sorry!

I'm OK. I have had a lot of doctor visits lately with more to go. If that wasn't enough we've recently learned that my husband needs surgery.

Seems some Iraq vets have developed tumors on their backs and my husband is one of them. He had one removed when we lived in Germany (non-cancerous) and now he has 6 more. The doctors don't believe they are cancerous but they do want them removed. Of course I'm still worried about the tumors being cancer. We'll know soon enough. Surgery is next week.

Over Thanksgiving my brother-in-law was hospitalized with a serious condition, so I was busy with that. His meds (cholesterol) were destroying the muscles in his legs. It's a possible side-effect. He couldn't walk at all. He is now better and getting stronger. His meds have been changed.

On top of all of that, we are preparing to retire and move. Lots of work, classes, paperwork & housecleaning involved.

It's been a crazy time. Very busy and very stressful.


I am sorry for not letting you guys know sooner. I didn't mean for anyone to worry.

You all mean the world to me and I should have made the effort to let you all know.

Again, I'm sorry!


Love you all!!

Solly





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Hey Everyone! Sorry! (Original Post) Solly Mack Dec 2014 OP
My dear Solly Mack! CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2014 #1
Hi, CaliforniaPeggy! Solly Mack Dec 2014 #2
No worries, sweetie.............we know you're OK now! CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2014 #3
So happy to hear from you! Crewleader Dec 2014 #4
Thanks, Crewleader. Solly Mack Dec 2014 #5
when it rains it pours! Celebration Dec 2014 #6
Thanks! I'll tell him that! Solly Mack Dec 2014 #8
.... handmade34 Dec 2014 #7
Hey! Solly Mack Dec 2014 #9
Good to know that you are doing ok. Curmudgeoness Dec 2014 #10
Thanks, Curmudgeoness! Solly Mack Dec 2014 #11
Glad to see you NV Whino Dec 2014 #12
Thanks, NV Whino! Solly Mack Dec 2014 #13
Very good to know that you're okay. Blue_In_AK Dec 2014 #14
Thank you, Blue Solly Mack Dec 2014 #23
No apologies needed! Adsos Letter Dec 2014 #15
Thanks, Adsos Letter. Solly Mack Dec 2014 #22
So happy you surfaced and are in one piece and continue to be well. Mira Dec 2014 #16
Thanks, Mira. Solly Mack Dec 2014 #21
You are loved and we missed you! n/t Mira Dec 2014 #24
So glad you checked in! mnhtnbb Dec 2014 #17
Hey! Thanks! Solly Mack Dec 2014 #20
Oh, moving. Ugh! It's hard enough just to downsize or move across town, mnhtnbb Dec 2014 #36
Has he signed up at the VA? If not, do it ASAP. alfredo Dec 2014 #18
He's in their evaluation process. Solly Mack Dec 2014 #19
Sounds like you're doing the right things. alfredo Dec 2014 #25
Thank goodness! elleng Dec 2014 #26
Thanks, elleng! Solly Mack Dec 2014 #30
Glad you are ok. Good vibes your family's way ! Laura PourMeADrink Dec 2014 #27
Thanks, Laura PourMeADrink. Solly Mack Dec 2014 #31
Thanks for checking in. Mz Pip Dec 2014 #28
Hey, Mz Pip! Solly Mack Dec 2014 #32
Good to see you posting CC Dec 2014 #29
Thanks, CC! Solly Mack Dec 2014 #33
So good to hear from you, Solly! CrispyQ Dec 2014 #34
Thanks,CrispyQ! Solly Mack Dec 2014 #38
Best of wishes. JohnnyRingo Dec 2014 #35
Thanks, JohnnyRingo Solly Mack Dec 2014 #39
Thanks for the update! bluesbassman Dec 2014 #37
Thanks, bluesbassman! Solly Mack Dec 2014 #40

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,642 posts)
1. My dear Solly Mack!
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 06:31 PM
Dec 2014

Wow, you sure have been through the wringer lately!

I am so glad to hear you're doing well, and sorry about everyone else. Thanks for letting us know!

Solly Mack

(90,775 posts)
2. Hi, CaliforniaPeggy!
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 06:35 PM
Dec 2014

:hugs:

Everything just hit at once, or so it seemed.

I feel awful for not letting everyone know sooner.

Crewleader

(17,005 posts)
4. So happy to hear from you!
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 06:48 PM
Dec 2014

You have had a lot on your plate and we all certainly understand and truly are relieved you're OK.

Hubby will be in my prayers and stay in touch when you can. Best of everything on your move and

we love you too!

Celebration

(15,812 posts)
6. when it rains it pours!
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 07:12 PM
Dec 2014

But the sun will come out tomorrow!

Tell your brother in law to look into Coenzyme Q10. Everyone who is on or has been on statin drugs should be taking it.

Mainly though, try to take it easy, and take advantage of your latitude and get some more woodpecker photos!!

Sending vibes to hubby!!

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
10. Good to know that you are doing ok.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 07:20 PM
Dec 2014

Things sound hectic, and too many problems, but at least it sounds like all will resolve itself. We all understand that there are times when we are too busy to worry about DU and the computer. I guess that it is worrying about your health that makes it matter.


Solly Mack

(90,775 posts)
22. Thanks, Adsos Letter.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 09:35 PM
Dec 2014

Still, it was wrong of me and I do feel bad about it.


It was all I could do to focus on what was in front of me. I got some help with that and feel better.


Mira

(22,380 posts)
16. So happy you surfaced and are in one piece and continue to be well.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 08:37 PM
Dec 2014

I'm wishing the same to come for your husband and brother in law. You have your hands full. All we needed is to know you are OK after what you personally have suffered.
A big communal hug goes out to you.

Solly Mack

(90,775 posts)
21. Thanks, Mira.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 09:33 PM
Dec 2014

I'm OK. The peg tube needs to come out and I'll know when in January 2015. I'm not gaining weight but I am now holding steady. My blood work is good. I have another scan in January and that will let me know if I'm still cancer free.

I am sorry I worried everyone.




mnhtnbb

(31,395 posts)
17. So glad you checked in!
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 08:38 PM
Dec 2014

Sorry to hear about your husband's and BIL's difficulties; sounds like 2014 can't be over soon enough for your family. Hope 2015 brings better health all around!

When you retire and move, will you stay in your area?

Solly Mack

(90,775 posts)
20. Hey! Thanks!
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 09:30 PM
Dec 2014

2014 was memorable, if nothing else.

We're staying in the state until my current cancer doctors release me. They will set up appointments with doctors in the state we're moving to later. My doctors were worried about my moving too soon and without referrals.

mnhtnbb

(31,395 posts)
36. Oh, moving. Ugh! It's hard enough just to downsize or move across town,
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 09:37 AM
Dec 2014

but to move to another state is a BIG change. All new everything!

Have you identified exactly where you are going? Family nearby?

alfredo

(60,074 posts)
18. Has he signed up at the VA? If not, do it ASAP.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 09:05 PM
Dec 2014

If this is service related, they have to take care of him and all costs related to the illness.

Solly Mack

(90,775 posts)
19. He's in their evaluation process.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 09:27 PM
Dec 2014

We're doing it by the book and hitting every page along the way. He has to be officially retired to be officially signed up though. His evals are for both the VA and his active duty, soon to be retired status.

We've kept our own records to make sure every little ache and pain was documented.

Thanks!

alfredo

(60,074 posts)
25. Sounds like you're doing the right things.
Thu Dec 4, 2014, 10:12 PM
Dec 2014

What helped me was I was the third person in a row that went down with injury from this one mail route. If there is a history for the same illness, and those sufferers got the service related designation, your case gets stronger.

Get in touch with his Iraq comrades and see if they have the same ailments. That's what helped me with the VA. I got 10%, but that's what I expected. I get $130 a month for bilateral tinnitus and hearing loss. The letters sent from my Army buddies attesting to the same issues, and acting as character witnesses helped a whole lot. There's a lot of deaf O5h20's out there. Morse Intercept - 05h20

Mz Pip

(27,451 posts)
28. Thanks for checking in.
Fri Dec 5, 2014, 01:28 AM
Dec 2014

Missed you but it sounds like you have more thane nought to deal with.

Hang in there and know that we are all sending good thoughts your way.

CC

(8,039 posts)
29. Good to see you posting
Fri Dec 5, 2014, 03:42 AM
Dec 2014

and wow no wonder you haven't been. Sending well wishes to all in your family. Edits out the VA stuff as it seems you are on it.

CrispyQ

(36,482 posts)
34. So good to hear from you, Solly!
Fri Dec 5, 2014, 12:31 PM
Dec 2014

Although I'm sorry to hear about your husband's troubles. Sending positive vibes your way!

JohnnyRingo

(18,636 posts)
35. Best of wishes.
Fri Dec 5, 2014, 11:14 PM
Dec 2014

Ever the optimist, I'm hopeful that your ordeal will have a positive conclusion.

I'm very sorry that you and yours have to suffer through this health setback, but know I'm (we're) thinking of you. Good luck!

bluesbassman

(19,376 posts)
37. Thanks for the update!
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 12:57 PM
Dec 2014

Best wishes to your husband, hoping all turns out benign. Also to your BIL that the med change is successful. And of course to you for continued good news!

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