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JayhawkSD

(3,163 posts)
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 02:12 AM Mar 2017

Chemotherapy dinners

I do the cooking in our house, and my wife is starting chemotherapy next week. (That's a whole other subject, don't get me started. She is my hero.) We met with the nurse practitioner as to procedures today.

Anyway, they say the second and maybe third days after the session are when nausea is likely, so I'm looking for meals or things to eat that I can fix that will appeal and be appetizing but will be easy on her stomach. Any suggestions?

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Chemotherapy dinners (Original Post) JayhawkSD Mar 2017 OP
Pasta Potatoes Rice? Standard food for nausea cpamomfromtexas Mar 2017 #1
I should have mentioned she's gluten-free JayhawkSD Mar 2017 #4
Miso soup. You can get ingredients online. Do not boil miso, stir in warm water cpamomfromtexas Mar 2017 #9
I remember my mother-in-law really enjoyed a custard type drink a neighbor Hoyt Mar 2017 #2
My husband liked Flan (or custard). Egg, milk, sweet, smooth. SharonAnn Mar 2017 #3
Awesome. I can do something along that line. nt JayhawkSD Mar 2017 #5
I made white meat chicken in white sauce over rice for a coworkers wife irisblue Mar 2017 #6
When I was taking chemo soft, bland food worked best for me Solly Mack Mar 2017 #7
Here's some ideas for nausea. Buckeye_Democrat Mar 2017 #8
My neighbor enjoyed potato soup yellerpup Mar 2017 #10
She might like sweet potatoes with butter, cinnamon and other spices. japple Mar 2017 #11
Good stuff all, thanks JayhawkSD Mar 2017 #12
My father's oncologist told him to avoid foods that he liked a lot after chemo.. Yonnie3 Mar 2017 #13
Be aware of two things PennyK Mar 2017 #14
I was prescribed Zofran for nausea after I had hernia repair surgery. japple Mar 2017 #20
OT, I know, but NJCher Mar 2017 #15
Eating Hints for Cancer Patients.... Lars39 Mar 2017 #16
Yogurt fruit smoothies? trof Mar 2017 #17
Mango smoothies dem in texas Mar 2017 #18
I see you're in California MagickMuffin Mar 2017 #19
My sister said food had a metallic taste.. Dalai_1 Mar 2017 #21
 

JayhawkSD

(3,163 posts)
4. I should have mentioned she's gluten-free
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 02:38 AM
Mar 2017

But she has a gluten-free pasta she likes, so I'll work with that. Potatoes, too; I have a roasting method she likes. Rice can be constipating, which is a problem with chemo, so maybe not. But pasta and potatoes is great. Thanks.

cpamomfromtexas

(1,245 posts)
9. Miso soup. You can get ingredients online. Do not boil miso, stir in warm water
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 09:05 AM
Mar 2017

You don't want to kill probiotics.

It also helps with nausea.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
2. I remember my mother-in-law really enjoyed a custard type drink a neighbor
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 02:22 AM
Mar 2017

would make. Not much help, but really just wanted to hope things go well. Take care and keep us posted.

SharonAnn

(13,771 posts)
3. My husband liked Flan (or custard). Egg, milk, sweet, smooth.
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 02:36 AM
Mar 2017

Protein and carbohydrates and it goes down easy.

irisblue

(32,928 posts)
6. I made white meat chicken in white sauce over rice for a coworkers wife
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 02:59 AM
Mar 2017

She was getting chemo for a breast cancer, I don't recall what kind of chemo. White sauce 1T melted butter, 1Flour, low slow heat 1c milk slowly poured into pan, stir till no lumps, add cooked chicken, shrimp will work too. Serve over hot rice. Very mild and easy to make.
I also made chicken soup w/ minced carrot and celery in no salt no spice broth.

Solly Mack

(90,758 posts)
7. When I was taking chemo soft, bland food worked best for me
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 03:13 AM
Mar 2017

after a few weeks. The thing is, the taste of food changed and something I would enjoy one day I didn't like a few days later.

I was also getting radiation.

The one thing that always made me sick was the smell of sausage cooking. Any kind of sausage. Couldn't be around it.

I could eat pasta but couldn't take the sauce. A little butter and garlic worked for me.

Best of luck to you both!!

yellerpup

(12,252 posts)
10. My neighbor enjoyed potato soup
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 09:46 AM
Mar 2017

and asked for it more often when she was having chemo. That, and fresh home-made bread (for the smell of it, mostly) Of course, I would make GF cornbread for your wife.

japple

(9,808 posts)
11. She might like sweet potatoes with butter, cinnamon and other spices.
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 10:24 AM
Mar 2017

Apple sauce. Mac & cheese made with the gluten-free pasta or scalloped potatoes. Chicken soup.

 

JayhawkSD

(3,163 posts)
12. Good stuff all, thanks
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 11:40 AM
Mar 2017

Some of it I knew, but some new info too. There is a gluten-free frozen mac and cheese that she likes, and I'll stock up on that. The link from Buckeye is great, too. It all gives me some good directions to go.

Yonnie3

(17,420 posts)
13. My father's oncologist told him to avoid foods that he liked a lot after chemo..
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 06:26 PM
Mar 2017

I thought that this was strange, but he explained to my dad that it might permanently ruin his liking for those foods if he ate them when he was in the midst of a reaction to the chemo.

My father acquired a liking for some foods he had not liked before. Yogurt, something he had never liked before, comes to mind.

Immediately after the chemo, he had an appetite and no nausea. He insisted on going to a restaurant immediately following a session and did well with that food. The dose of anti-nausea medication that was included in the treatment enabled this according to his doctors.

When he was feeling bad, I would make chicken or turkey broth with well cooked vegetables and/or a starch. Stewed apples with some cinnamon or mashed sweet potato with a touch of maple syrup would often whet his appetite. Sometimes he said things were tasteless and we spiced up baked fish with lemon, garlic and pepper and it became palatable. We could never make beef taste good during these bad times. We also kept a variety of nutritional beverages on hand, Ensure is one brand, and he found some flavors OK.

I often had trouble with wanting him to eat and him not wanting to. There was a fine line between me being helpful and a pain in the butt. We learned to communicate a lot better during those times.

I talked with other caregivers when I waited for his chemo session to be over and their experiences with food varied widely.

PennyK

(2,301 posts)
14. Be aware of two things
Wed Mar 1, 2017, 07:57 PM
Mar 2017

1 -- there are great drugs that can help with nausea. One is Emend, which is expensive but worked for me. The other is Zofran, which is very good too.

2 -- Chemo very often destroys your taste buds, and makes almost everything taste awful...and this is the bigger problem. Almost everything tasted bitter to me, so I suggest the shakes (like Ensure), applesauce, and ice cream and popsicles. I also made and ate a vast amount of chicken soup. I finished my chemo last July and I just this week was able to eat and enjoy Chinese food for the first time!

My best to you and your wife in getting through this challenge!

japple

(9,808 posts)
20. I was prescribed Zofran for nausea after I had hernia repair surgery.
Wed Mar 8, 2017, 06:45 PM
Mar 2017

I think I only took it one time and it plugged me up something awful. There was probably some of it in the post-surgical IV, too. Since I have always been regular as clockwork and NEVER had constipation (if anything, I've had the opposite issue), I thought I was going to die from the cramping.

A dear friend, who recently had to go thru chemo following surgery to remove cancerous lesions from her lungs, said the same thing. She said that no one told her that the nausea meds could cause such a problem. She said the cramping was worse than the nausea and post surgical pain. We both agreed that we would never take it again.

It's something that needs to be discussed with patients, but there is so much going on that sometimes caregivers forget about things such as this. Just a heads up to others who might be going thru similar situations. It might not have the same effect on everyone. Hoping that others will chime in with possible solutions for this side effect.

NJCher

(35,619 posts)
15. OT, I know, but
Thu Mar 2, 2017, 04:41 PM
Mar 2017

I read today where Roche Pharmaceuticals has a drug that will make chemo a thing of the past.

I used to work for them. As far a pharmaceutical companies go, they're pretty good.


Cher

dem in texas

(2,673 posts)
18. Mango smoothies
Sat Mar 4, 2017, 10:53 PM
Mar 2017

When I was on chemo in 2015, I lived on LaLa Mango Smoothies and peanut butter and crackers, Here is my advice - whatever she eats, make sure she gets plenty of protein.

MagickMuffin

(15,933 posts)
19. I see you're in California
Tue Mar 7, 2017, 02:58 PM
Mar 2017

Proceed to the nearest MM shop and get some good cannabis. This has been known forever that it is a good source for combating nausea.

You can cook with it, make some cannabis butter. YUM!

I wish you and your wife the best of luck!!!

Dalai_1

(1,301 posts)
21. My sister said food had a metallic taste..
Wed Mar 8, 2017, 11:28 PM
Mar 2017

I read not to cook food in metal containers or use metal flatware..
It helped her to follow this guideline a lot..

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