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TexasBushwhacker

(20,215 posts)
Wed Apr 24, 2024, 08:34 PM Apr 24

Hiring someone to take over executor duties?

Does anyone have experience doing this? I have a friend who is the heir to her mother's estate, as well as executor. Her younger brother is also an heir. Her mother died 2 years ago and my friend still hasn't done the things necessary to probate the will, sell the house and split the proceeds. She's just not up to the task. Now the house is uninsurable and they are a fire or flood away from being homeless.

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Hiring someone to take over executor duties? (Original Post) TexasBushwhacker Apr 24 OP
Your friend could have some real problems if she fails to fulfill her duties as executor. Ocelot II Apr 24 #1
A judge stepped in KT2000 Apr 24 #2
To make matters worse TexasBushwhacker Apr 24 #3

Ocelot II

(115,858 posts)
1. Your friend could have some real problems if she fails to fulfill her duties as executor.
Wed Apr 24, 2024, 08:46 PM
Apr 24

The specifics would depend on the law of the state where the mother lived, but the brother could ask the probate court to remove her as executor so the estate can be probated, distributed and closed. If she doesn't take care of this or get someone else to do it she could be personally liable for all expenses the estate incurs, and the brother could even sue her for his inheritance that he didn't get because she failed to file the probate documents. She should immediately consult a lawyer who handles probate matters who could advise her and help her either take care of the estate or hire someone else to do it before things get even worse.

KT2000

(20,588 posts)
2. A judge stepped in
Wed Apr 24, 2024, 09:02 PM
Apr 24

and appointed my brother to take over when our cousin did not do anything for 4 years. I believe it came to the attention of the IRS when no taxes were filed. About half of the estate went to paying back taxes, interest and penalties. She will waste everything is she doesn't do something.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,215 posts)
3. To make matters worse
Wed Apr 24, 2024, 09:14 PM
Apr 24

They are living in the house together as it decays around them. They have no money for upkeep or repairs. They have no credit cards and 2 very old cars. Hers rarely runs. They live on Social Security totalling about $3500 a month. Granted, they have a roof over their heads, but they would probably be better off selling the home ($200K) splitting the proceeds and getting on with the rest of their lives. At least each would have a small nest egg. She is 66 and he is 62.

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