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BeliQueen

(504 posts)
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 06:30 AM Sep 2012

Calling someone a "stench" is not about governing.

It's just mean and hurtful. And no matter how much I disagree with Mitt Romney's politics, I still think he has feelings.

And just because it is an alleged Ryan quote does not mean that we have to repeat. We're better people than that.

With so many of these personal attacks, I fear that we are beginning to look like bullies; and it's never good to kick someone when they're down.

We need to squash the name calling and just continue to focus on his policies and his deeds. They pretty much speak for themselves.

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Calling someone a "stench" is not about governing. (Original Post) BeliQueen Sep 2012 OP
Pffffft. Itchinjim Sep 2012 #1
+1 Pbs1914 Sep 2012 #55
It isn't DUers launching personal attacks when we discuss Ryan's use of this term towards Romney... hlthe2b Sep 2012 #2
I disagree. noamnety Sep 2012 #3
That "stench" is emanating from the Romney Campaign..not DU. Historic NY Sep 2012 #4
Yes, it's gutter politics. NCLefty Sep 2012 #5
Give me a freakin' break lillypaddle Sep 2012 #36
Neither was calling Dan Quayle Mr Potatoehead eridani Sep 2012 #6
That needs to be a band name theKed Sep 2012 #38
When Romney apologizes to the service personnel in Stan whom he implied take no responsibilities, sarge43 Sep 2012 #7
Democrats have been bullied since 2000 teenagebambam Sep 2012 #8
Democrats have been bullied since Carter... n/t LovePeacock Sep 2012 #10
Democrats have been bullied way longer than that groundloop Sep 2012 #11
They've started to do that already. LovePeacock Sep 2012 #13
He doesn't have feelings Atman Sep 2012 #9
It's sweet you care so much about Romney's feelings, really, it is. Avalux Sep 2012 #12
OP, I agree it's not something Obama or the DNC should call Romney TroyD Sep 2012 #14
Losing strategy WallaceRitchie Sep 2012 #15
"The Stench of Old, Unearned Money" Myrina Sep 2012 #24
So, the VP candidate continues to insult the Pres. candidate, but we can't repeat that here? livetohike Sep 2012 #16
The only reason Ryan was ever considered a policy wonk LovePeacock Sep 2012 #17
Definitely. This "stench" story is more than just about Romney/Ryan. It's the story livetohike Sep 2012 #20
Thanks for the welcome n/t LovePeacock Sep 2012 #25
BINGO Cosmocat Sep 2012 #42
I don't feel sorry for Romney. Jennicut Sep 2012 #18
Roger Simon just trolling? WallaceRitchie Sep 2012 #19
By all means I think you should follow your own advice lunatica Sep 2012 #21
that's generally good advice about advice Voice for Peace Sep 2012 #34
Any other current events we shouldn't discuss, for fear of hurting the feelings of gkhouston Sep 2012 #22
I think it's because Rmoney only has 1 pair of magic undies ... Myrina Sep 2012 #23
LOL.. DCBob Sep 2012 #26
The Repubicans are self-destructing. liberalmuse Sep 2012 #27
You mean the guy who tripped his daughter in law to win a family race has feelings? tularetom Sep 2012 #28
Is hate a feeling? n/t LovePeacock Sep 2012 #29
only to a reptile DBoon Sep 2012 #30
The label "stench" is reflective of Rmoney's character, which does SDjack Sep 2012 #31
Rmoney. I like it n/t LovePeacock Sep 2012 #32
Stink is much better. Lint Head Sep 2012 #33
Aw, you're worried about the Douchebag's feelings. TwilightGardener Sep 2012 #35
Romney and Ryan both name-calls the President on a daily basis......by bodly lying about Pres. Obama FrenchieCat Sep 2012 #37
Boo hoo hoo, let me take out my little violin and play a little sad song for Mitty-boy. Waiting For Everyman Sep 2012 #39
Fuck 'em - they earned it. backscatter712 Sep 2012 #40
You may be better than that, and if so, I congratulate you. Bake Sep 2012 #41
it is not an "alledged quote" Cosmocat Sep 2012 #43
Actually the original reference to "stench" IS a quote... beac Sep 2012 #57
Right, but the "quote" about Ryan calling him stench Cosmocat Sep 2012 #61
Yes. beac Sep 2012 #62
OK Cosmocat Sep 2012 #63
We're governing?! Indpndnt Sep 2012 #44
I agree. It crosses a line. I don't think we want to attack Romney for applegrove Sep 2012 #45
The StenchDroid has feelings? aint_no_life_nowhere Sep 2012 #46
The Stench Connection WallaceRitchie Sep 2012 #47
Omg, that's funny! Waiting For Everyman Sep 2012 #56
It was not a Ryan quote. former9thward Sep 2012 #48
They're turning on each other-- is that Dems' fault? ailsagirl Sep 2012 #49
Ryan has the stench of someone who thinks he'd be someone if not for "Stench"! flamingdem Sep 2012 #50
ROFL liberal N proud Sep 2012 #51
Where was your outrage when the tea baggers Hutzpa Sep 2012 #52
Rmoney has destroyed countless lives. Fuck him. He has NO FEELINGS. valerief Sep 2012 #53
We're not governing. We Obama supporters are all just "victims," according to Romney. n/t pnwmom Sep 2012 #54
When narcissists are insulted they lash out in ugly ways alittlelark Sep 2012 #58
The "stench" quote was not real Generic Brad Sep 2012 #59
I just listened to a lengthy report from Rachel Maddow--- Grammy23 Sep 2012 #60

hlthe2b

(102,376 posts)
2. It isn't DUers launching personal attacks when we discuss Ryan's use of this term towards Romney...
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 06:34 AM
Sep 2012

The story, as related by POLITICO, gives insight into the opposition's campaign and is thus highly relevant.

Your concern is noted, however.

 

noamnety

(20,234 posts)
3. I disagree.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 06:42 AM
Sep 2012

I don't think he has feelings. I'm basing this on his outrage that poor people want to have food.

Historic NY

(37,453 posts)
4. That "stench" is emanating from the Romney Campaign..not DU.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 06:46 AM
Sep 2012

Though Ryan had already decided to distance himself from the floundering Romney campaign, he now feels totally uninhibited. Reportedly, he has been marching around his campaign bus, saying things like, “If Stench calls, take a message” and “Tell Stench I’m having finger sandwiches with Peggy Noonan and will text him later.”

Read more: http://www.politico.com/news/stories/0912/81618.html#ixzz27ZUw3Kos

NCLefty

(3,678 posts)
5. Yes, it's gutter politics.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 07:03 AM
Sep 2012

But if you notice how tabloids are still mega-profitable, apparently a lot of people like that sort of thing :p

EDIT: I would send Politico some feedback. That's the constructive course

eridani

(51,907 posts)
6. Neither was calling Dan Quayle Mr Potatoehead
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 07:22 AM
Sep 2012

Remember Al Gore and the earth tones? Stuff like this influences campaigns a hell of a lot, and being too noble to use that means losing.

sarge43

(28,945 posts)
7. When Romney apologizes to the service personnel in Stan whom he implied take no responsibilities,
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:06 AM
Sep 2012

(they pay no income tax during a tour in combat zone), I'll stop calling him worse things than stench.

Freakin' boo-hoo about his feelings. He doesn't give a rat's patoot about other people's feelings.

And yeah, it is good to kick a bully when he's down. It reinforces the learning process; he'll probably think twice before he bullies again.

If Romney, Ryan and the rest of the Repubs had a speaking acquaintance with empathy and compassion, I'd agree with you, but they don't, so game on.

You're right; this isn't about governing. It's about winning. Romney et al are going to do anything to win; we better do the same. We can mea culpa after the election.

groundloop

(11,523 posts)
11. Democrats have been bullied way longer than that
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:20 AM
Sep 2012

I can see the OP's point, I'm not comfortable calling people names like that either. But on the other hand the right wing speaks with total disdain about "liberals", the "Democrat Party", etc., etc., and have done it so convincingly for so many years that in many places people are shy about admitting they're Democrats. So yes, I think in this case turnabout is fair play and if we can make it uncomfortable for people to admit they're republicans all the better.

 

LovePeacock

(225 posts)
13. They've started to do that already.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:23 AM
Sep 2012

Now some of them try to call themselves "libertarians."

It makes me giggle.

Avalux

(35,015 posts)
12. It's sweet you care so much about Romney's feelings, really, it is.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:21 AM
Sep 2012

He's such a sensitive, caring man....he might get his feelings hurt if we call him Stench.

TroyD

(4,551 posts)
14. OP, I agree it's not something Obama or the DNC should call Romney
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:26 AM
Sep 2012

But there's nothing wrong with us discussing it here. We didn't come up with the term anyway. We are just reporting it.

WallaceRitchie

(242 posts)
15. Losing strategy
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:30 AM
Sep 2012

Because the right won't stop labeling the President and "liberals".

Liberal is a GOOD word but we ceded the semantic fight and allowed them to make it a virtual four-letter word in the minds of the populace. Screw that.

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livetohike

(22,163 posts)
16. So, the VP candidate continues to insult the Pres. candidate, but we can't repeat that here?
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:45 AM
Sep 2012

I think it says much about the state of the GOP campaign. I think it exposes Ryan for the immature, empty suit he is and I also think we should blast that information far and wide.

 

LovePeacock

(225 posts)
17. The only reason Ryan was ever considered a policy wonk
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:48 AM
Sep 2012

was because his policies were never discussed as much as they're being debated now.

In the light of day, Ryan is being seen for what he is: a fraud with no ideas just like the rest of 'em.

livetohike

(22,163 posts)
20. Definitely. This "stench" story is more than just about Romney/Ryan. It's the story
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 09:06 AM
Sep 2012

of the GOP and they are mortified with this exposure. They can't get by with "drill, baby drill" and cute little soundbites anymore.

A belated welcome to DU!

Cosmocat

(14,574 posts)
42. BINGO
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 03:39 PM
Sep 2012

I have been calling him a fraud for years now.

his god darned budget INCREASES the debt over the next 10 years and does not balance until 2040 something.

How on gods green earth that qualifies him as the SERIOUS guy is beyond any reason.

and, he, and his budget, and his now well earned nickname of LYIN RYAN are part of the Romney stench.

Just because the right and their "liberal' media counterparts get wet in the britches over the clown does not mean to the other folks in the country who don't get misty over the blue eyes do.

Jennicut

(25,415 posts)
18. I don't feel sorry for Romney.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:54 AM
Sep 2012

He is a complete and utter asshole who thinks the little people are below him. He is worse the John McCain who at least was an actual war hero, or Bob Dole who was a war hero. He is as bad as W. and Cheney. He may be worse since he believes in nothing except a love of money. He is an empty soulless man. There are certain people in politics that are just beyond human and he is one of them.

And Repubs are the biggest bullies of them all. You do not win when you let yourself just sit and take the attacks. Kerry learned that the hard way. You have to be aggressive with these Republicans. They don't play fair. If they were Republicans of a different era then perhaps the Democrats would not have to attack so relentlessly. But I hope we all learned since the 1990's how ruthless these people are. The party of Karl Rove won elections by playing dirty even against other Republicans (look at the South Carolina primaries in 2000 for reference).

WallaceRitchie

(242 posts)
19. Roger Simon just trolling?
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:57 AM
Sep 2012

The whole Politico article from Roger Simon is just political trolling. Seriously? Powerpoint? Stench? Gilligan?

Just too much.

The original "stench" comment by Craig Robinson was published in the NY Times on Sept 23

"If the Republican ticket loses in November, the rush by Mr. Ryan and other 2016 hopefuls to position themselves for the Iowa caucuses “is going to look like Best Buy the night after Thanksgiving,” said Craig Robinson, a former political director of the Republican Party of Iowa. “I hate to say this, but if Ryan wants to run for national office again, he’ll probably have to wash the stench of Romney off of him.” "

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
21. By all means I think you should follow your own advice
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 09:20 AM
Sep 2012

But don't expect to have anyone else follow it.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
34. that's generally good advice about advice
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 11:04 AM
Sep 2012

in general.
follow your own advice but don't expect to have anyone else follow it.

gkhouston

(21,642 posts)
22. Any other current events we shouldn't discuss, for fear of hurting the feelings of
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 09:20 AM
Sep 2012

someone who would chuckle while we starve?

Myrina

(12,296 posts)
23. I think it's because Rmoney only has 1 pair of magic undies ...
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 09:23 AM
Sep 2012

... and doesn't refresh them very often. He seems too uptight to go commando while they're being laundered, too.


liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
27. The Repubicans are self-destructing.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 09:34 AM
Sep 2012

Their selfishness and all around meanness is starting to come back and bite them in the ass. This sums up the kind of people many of them are - it's all about "MEEEEEEE". Instead of humbly supporting Romney and being grateful for this opportunity, Ryan is behaving like a spoiled child who thinks the throne is his due.

I'm still having doubts about this story. It's rather unbelievable, and way over the top, even knowing how bad some conservatives are.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
28. You mean the guy who tripped his daughter in law to win a family race has feelings?
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 09:37 AM
Sep 2012

The guy who got a gang of kids to hold a gay kid down while he cut his hair off has feelings?

The guy who caged his dog on top of his car for nine hours?

Paul Ryan is indeed a repulsive piece of shit but I'm not going to lose any sleep worrying about Romney's feelings.

SDjack

(1,448 posts)
31. The label "stench" is reflective of Rmoney's character, which does
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 10:00 AM
Sep 2012

relate to governing. So, it's fair.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
35. Aw, you're worried about the Douchebag's feelings.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 11:16 AM
Sep 2012

Me too. I won't call the Douchebag "Stench"... that's just so mean.

FrenchieCat

(68,867 posts)
37. Romney and Ryan both name-calls the President on a daily basis......by bodly lying about Pres. Obama
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 01:58 PM
Sep 2012

Last edited Wed Sep 26, 2012, 02:57 PM - Edit history (1)

and Pres. Obama's record, but we are the ones who need to be quiet about what Ryan calls Romney?
Are you serious??????

Perhaps Romney needs to take personal responsibility just this once,
considering that he is the one who selected the name calling Lyin' Ryan
as his running mate!

Waiting For Everyman

(9,385 posts)
39. Boo hoo hoo, let me take out my little violin and play a little sad song for Mitty-boy.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 02:45 PM
Sep 2012

Tell that to the girls who work in his Chinese factories, or the workers here who lost their jobs. When a Stench like that is down you finish him off. You don't let him get up and do it all again.



And that goes for his condescending wifey-poo too, who saw fit to insert herself into this campaign, and then throw rude tantrums when she comes off as the dolt that she is.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
40. Fuck 'em - they earned it.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 02:57 PM
Sep 2012

rMoney and rAyn (or should I say Stinker and Slinker) are sociopathic bullies who have given us nothing but deception and meanness.

And if there's one thing I've learned, it's that mom's advice to "ignore bullies and they'll go away" is just completely wrong.

We absolutely must hit back when they try to dominate us.

John Kerry tried being "better than them" in 2004 - look where that got him.

I don't care if it's "sinking to their level." I'm perfectly fine with being nasty to them.

Besides, rMoney doesn't have feelings. He's a psychopath. He doesn't have an empathic response that enables him to have truly hurt feelings. He only regards us as obstacles and objects, and the most emotion he'll show when he's attacked is that of minor irritation.

Politics is a full-contact sport. Deal with it.

Bake

(21,977 posts)
41. You may be better than that, and if so, I congratulate you.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 03:27 PM
Sep 2012

I, however, am not. Screw Stench's feelings. They NEED to be hurt. If he's that thin-skinned, he has no business in the Oval Office.

Bake

Cosmocat

(14,574 posts)
43. it is not an "alledged quote"
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 03:43 PM
Sep 2012

it is a tongue in cheek article.

I think that is pretty clear if you read the whole thing and the closing exert.

beac

(9,992 posts)
57. Actually the original reference to "stench" IS a quote...
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:57 PM
Sep 2012

from an Iowa Republican leader:

“I hate to say this, but if Ryan wants to run for national office again, he’ll probably have to wash the stench of Romney off of him,” Craig Robinson, a former political director of the Republican Party of Iowa, told The New York Times on Sunday.
http://www.politico.com/news/stories/0912/81618.html


A quote that Craig Robinson has confirmed is accurate:
When pressed about Ryan’s future, I admitted that he would be a serious contender, and then I added, “I hate to say this, but if Ryan wants to run for national office again, he’ll probably have to wash the stench of Romney off of him.” For the record, I was quoted accurately.
http://theiowarepublican.com/2012/the-stench-of-romney/




*edited to fix HTML*

beac

(9,992 posts)
62. Yes.
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 09:03 AM
Sep 2012

I probably should have made my point directly to the OP (as I wasn't really disagreeing w/you).

Hope he/she now realizes "the stench" came from Romeny's own team, even if Gilligan isn't saying it (yet.)

Indpndnt

(2,391 posts)
44. We're governing?!
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 05:36 PM
Sep 2012

Wow! Who knew?!

As for Willard's "policies and his deeds"... They stink. If he's down, it's because his policies and deeds stink.

This thread is hilarious! Ludicrous, but hilarious!

applegrove

(118,793 posts)
45. I agree. It crosses a line. I don't think we want to attack Romney for
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 06:40 PM
Sep 2012

more than his awful policies and priviledged world view. I don't think we learn anything important when we cross over to being vicious.

aint_no_life_nowhere

(21,925 posts)
46. The StenchDroid has feelings?
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 06:59 PM
Sep 2012

What about the feelings of the families the destroyed by laying off workers? If this fucking piece of shit has feelings at all I hope they're badly hurt and he spends the rest of his miserable life contemplating the wasted life he's led after we kick him to the curb.

ailsagirl

(22,899 posts)
49. They're turning on each other-- is that Dems' fault?
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 07:52 PM
Sep 2012

IMO Rmoney deserves everything he gets.
Repukes are the party of INCIVILITY

Hutzpa

(11,461 posts)
52. Where was your outrage when the tea baggers
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:24 PM
Sep 2012

were calling the president names? I can't stand these self righteous threads.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
53. Rmoney has destroyed countless lives. Fuck him. He has NO FEELINGS.
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 08:25 PM
Sep 2012

And if he did, who the hell gives a shit about them? Do all the people he fired care? Do all the people whose pensions he stole care?

Grammy23

(5,813 posts)
60. I just listened to a lengthy report from Rachel Maddow---
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 10:37 PM
Sep 2012

Listing all of the lies the Romney campaign has put up in the form of ads that, even when called out on the lie, refuse to take down the ads. They are still up on Romney's website without correction of acknowledgment that they are lies. The biggest whopper on that list is about Obama supposedly taking the work requirement out of welfare. They were informed that it is simply not true but they still have the ad up on the site and refuse to admit it is false. In fact, Romney very recently repeated that lie, even as he was claiming they always take down their ads if there are "mistakes" in them.

She also discussed the strategy that Romney apparently has been using for some time that involves Romney himself making statements that are refuted shortly afterward by the campaign. So he says whatever he apparently thinks his listeners want to hear and then quietly has his campaign spokespeople take it all back. This has happened over and over for months. One example was when he was interviewed by David Gregory a few weeks ago claiming he was going to keep parts of "Obamacare"...not holding pre-existing conditions against people who apply for insurance. His campaign quickly took that back later that day saying that he intends to abolish all of Obamacare. Another example was when he said he supported abortion if the life of the mother was at risk. A few hours later his campaign released a statement saying he did not support abortion under any circumstances.

Given the dishonest nature of Romney's campaign, I think "stench" is not the worst thing we on this board could say about him. He is deserving of all the criticism he is receiving and if some characterize him as having a stench about him, too bad. He has brought this on himself and thank goodness, many of the voters seem to be catching on to the truth about Mitt.

Soon enough Mitt and Paul will just be a bad memory of this year's campaign for President. Sadly, Romney (and Ryan, too, if there is any justice!) will slink off into infamy. I hope we never have to hear from either of these two assholes again. And yes, there is a stench to that part of the anatomy, too. And the stench associated with it reminds me of a guy named Mitt Romney. If that offends or hurts his feelings he should have given honesty and truthfulness a try.

If you want to know what mean is, study what Mitt and Paul would do to the disabled, the sick, the poor, the elderly, the unemployed and anyone that doesn't run in their circle.
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