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pamela

(3,469 posts)
Tue Jul 26, 2016, 06:10 PM Jul 2016

I wanted to be President when I grew up.

I was born a political junkie. My parents said that, when I was a baby, I would crawl to the TV screen and kiss it whenever President Kennedy was on. I've collected political buttons since I was old enough to walk into campaign offices and ask for them. Whenever people asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up, I always answered "President."

That usually got a laugh.

They weren't mean laughs, just the laughs of people who, even in the '60's, couldn't imagine a woman as President. By the 70's, some people, mostly women, would say "well maybe there will be a woman president when you grow up." There was never any real encouragement though and, perhaps more importantly, there was no one I could look to as a role model for that ambition. No one talked to me about the importance of good grades or getting into a good college. When I did go to college, a not terribly impressive state college, my mother couldn't understand why I didn't want to be a stewardess. She would honestly say-"But, you're so pretty, you could be a stewardess!"-like that was the highest complement you could give a young woman.

So, yes, there are tears here today. Happy tears. I hope somewhere in America today, some little political junkie girl is watching this who WILL grow up to be President-our fourth or fifth woman president-and will never know that there was a time when that was unthinkable, even laughable.

This, today? This is a big fucking deal.

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I wanted to be President when I grew up. (Original Post) pamela Jul 2016 OP
I wanted to be a running back in the NFL... they laughed at me too, until I laughed about it too. Bill USA Jul 2016 #1
This is a huge breakthrough! Haveadream Jul 2016 #2
Wonderful post. auntpurl Jul 2016 #3
Same here. I remember thinking... Pacifist Patriot Jul 2016 #5
God forbid, right?? auntpurl Jul 2016 #6
I honestly don't know... Pacifist Patriot Jul 2016 #10
a great song about dreams and aspirations jtunes Jul 2016 #4
Well, at least let's prove to the next generation... Wounded Bear Jul 2016 #7
"hard work and a little bit of luck" pamela Jul 2016 #8
No shit... Wounded Bear Jul 2016 #9

auntpurl

(4,311 posts)
3. Wonderful post.
Tue Jul 26, 2016, 06:19 PM
Jul 2016

Even when I was in high school in the late 80s, they still said things like "Women are too emotional to be president".

NOPE. THIS IS HAPPENING!!!

Pacifist Patriot

(24,654 posts)
5. Same here. I remember thinking...
Tue Jul 26, 2016, 06:32 PM
Jul 2016

Maybe more emotions like compassion are what are called for in a president.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,654 posts)
10. I honestly don't know...
Tue Jul 26, 2016, 08:29 PM
Jul 2016

if I am going to cry more on November 08, 2016 for a female president than the tears I shed November 04, 2008 for the first African American president. For this to happen in my lifetime is more than I ever thought possible as a high school senior in 1986 being ridiculed for thinking either of those possible.

Wounded Bear

(58,713 posts)
7. Well, at least let's prove to the next generation...
Tue Jul 26, 2016, 06:36 PM
Jul 2016

that young women like you can dream, and have those dreams come true through hard work and a little bit of luck.

pamela

(3,469 posts)
8. "hard work and a little bit of luck"
Tue Jul 26, 2016, 06:54 PM
Jul 2016

And toughness! That's where Hillary just kills me. I would have crawled under the covers for a week the first time someone directed the kind of vitriol at me that Hillary has been getting for the past thirty years.

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