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pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 05:59 PM Dec 2015

If Hillary were to make an "if men could get pregnant" statement,

like Bernie recently did, and Obama did before him, she wouldn't be applauded for it, as if she were a hero.

She'd be accused of "playing the gender card."

Every progressive woman has probably made a similar statement. Several decades ago Gloria Steinem said, "If men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament."

But it's only men who think "if men could get pregnant" statements are insightful and new.

Women say, "duh."

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If Hillary were to make an "if men could get pregnant" statement, (Original Post) pnwmom Dec 2015 OP
Yuuuup. Agschmid Dec 2015 #1
You may be right. One reason I will be happily endorsing and working for Hillary IF IF IF Bernie randys1 Dec 2015 #2
It's weird that he didn't give her credit for the quote. JaneyVee Dec 2015 #3
because he did not quote her -- other than "if men could get pregnant" nt karynnj Dec 2015 #31
This doesn't look like applause to me. Kalidurga Dec 2015 #4
Doesn't THIS look like applause? pnwmom Dec 2015 #5
No it looks factually incorrect. Kalidurga Dec 2015 #7
Is there nothing that Hillary supporters won't criticize Bernie for? HerbChestnut Dec 2015 #6
Where did I criticize Bernie? I'm just pointing out that there's good reason pnwmom Dec 2015 #8
LOL - as if Bernie was better on woman's issues than Hillary MaggieD Dec 2015 #15
He's our hero, dontcha know? n/t pnwmom Dec 2015 #17
It's the same thing they've ALWAYS criticized Sanders for. Warren DeMontague Dec 2015 #27
Has she made such a statement so this theory could be tested? Scootaloo Dec 2015 #9
She can't. Elizabeth Warren has spoken about how women are constrained pnwmom Dec 2015 #10
So you're dreaming stuff up, and then blaming Sanders for it. Scootaloo Dec 2015 #13
I'm not blaming Sanders at all. Just the people who want to set him up on a pedestal pnwmom Dec 2015 #16
You're trying to attack Sanders and his supporters over saying something you agree with Scootaloo Dec 2015 #20
No, I'm replying to the idea that it is special that Bernie said this and no one else did. pnwmom Dec 2015 #21
But that isn't what you said Scootaloo Dec 2015 #23
Hillary gets accused here on DU of playing the gender card pnwmom Dec 2015 #24
And why was she accused of that, pnwmom, do you remember? Scootaloo Dec 2015 #25
"This is sort of like how FOX news claims ..." beam me up scottie Dec 2015 #22
WTF? ljm2002 Dec 2015 #11
I'm not complaining about his statement. I'm pointing out that it's unfair pnwmom Dec 2015 #14
Fair point... ljm2002 Dec 2015 #18
Thank you for listening while I explained! pnwmom Dec 2015 #19
Bernie does that a lot on social media MaggieD Dec 2015 #12
Was she accused of playing the gender card for talking about women's issues? n/t JonLeibowitz Dec 2015 #35
The original Gloria Steinem quote has appeared on DU repeatedly, for years. arcane1 Dec 2015 #26
The OP is a response to the idea that Bernie is better than the other Dem candidates because pnwmom Dec 2015 #28
And it's based on a false, invented claim n/t arcane1 Dec 2015 #32
"I can't find anything to criticize Bernie for today so I'm going to make something up." beam me up scottie Dec 2015 #29
Oh bullshit. His statement is a twist on an old quote - in_cog_ni_to Dec 2015 #30
Of course it was an old quote. But the OP said that he was the ONLY ONE who had said it. pnwmom Dec 2015 #33
"Women say, "duh." "? beam me up scottie Dec 2015 #34

randys1

(16,286 posts)
2. You may be right. One reason I will be happily endorsing and working for Hillary IF IF IF Bernie
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 06:02 PM
Dec 2015

loses, is the impact it will have on Women's rights.

She will not take certain things for granted.

Men do, not always because they are assholes, it is just that we have been in charge for so long, etc.

 

HerbChestnut

(3,649 posts)
6. Is there nothing that Hillary supporters won't criticize Bernie for?
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 06:44 PM
Dec 2015

He says something you agree with and yet you still criticize. WTF??

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
8. Where did I criticize Bernie? I'm just pointing out that there's good reason
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 06:47 PM
Dec 2015

Hillary hasn't made a similar statement in her campaign. She can't make a statement like this without being criticized. Men like Obama and Bernie can, and they get applauded for it.

I would have replied to this OP but I'm blocked there, so I posted my own OP.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/128080960

"Bernie once again says something NO OTHER candidate is saying..."

 

MaggieD

(7,393 posts)
15. LOL - as if Bernie was better on woman's issues than Hillary
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 06:59 PM
Dec 2015

Good lord, that's the best chuckle I have had all day.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
27. It's the same thing they've ALWAYS criticized Sanders for.
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:40 PM
Dec 2015

He's not Hillary Clinton, therefore its not his turn and he shouldnt be running.

That is, I am convinced, 99.99999% of the objection to the guy. It's not ideological, it's not his statements, his "attitude" or his "tone deafness" or anything else.

It's that he is a potential roadblock on the inevitability highway. Full stop.

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
10. She can't. Elizabeth Warren has spoken about how women are constrained
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 06:52 PM
Dec 2015

in politics compared to men. They have a very fine line to walk.

So Hillary can't say things like that or she'll be accused of playing the gender card. Men can and people think they're heroes.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
13. So you're dreaming stuff up, and then blaming Sanders for it.
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 06:57 PM
Dec 2015

Don't you have like a hobby or something, pnwmom?

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
16. I'm not blaming Sanders at all. Just the people who want to set him up on a pedestal
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:01 PM
Dec 2015

for saying things that every Democratic woman has probably said at some time in her life.

"Bernie once again says something NO OTHER candidate is saying..."

I'm sure Hillary would say it if she could. But a Democratic woman saying what Bernie said would be accused, even on DU, of playing the gender card.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
20. You're trying to attack Sanders and his supporters over saying something you agree with
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:13 PM
Dec 2015

You claim that if Clinton were to say it, we would attack her over it, accuse her of playing the "gender card," etc., but you have absolutely no basis of fact for this claim. She has not said it, and so you are assuming, out of your own biases and imaginings, that we would do what you describe.

This is sort of like how FOX news claims "Well if a liberal said what right-winger X said, the media would love it!!!" Of course, they never have an example of this, and it's just FOX falsely claiming victimhood status for their views.

You are trying to spin a positive (if stale, I'll grant) statement from Sanders into a negative against him and people who support him.

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
21. No, I'm replying to the idea that it is special that Bernie said this and no one else did.
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:16 PM
Dec 2015

Obama has said it. Martin has probably also. It's a common statement.

But a woman doesn't have the same freedom a man does to say it without being criticized.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
23. But that isn't what you said
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:20 PM
Dec 2015
I'm sure Hillary would say it if she could. But a Democratic woman saying what Bernie said would be accused, even on DU, of playing the gender card.


Now if you want to say I dunno, that FOX would accuse her of that, okay. It's still an assumption, but it's not an unreasonable assumption. But your target is clearly democrats, especially other people posting here. And you are absolutely trying to spin a positive statement into a negative.

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
24. Hillary gets accused here on DU of playing the gender card
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:24 PM
Dec 2015

and it would happen more often if she brought up women's issues more often.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1251674802

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
25. And why was she accused of that, pnwmom, do you remember?
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:30 PM
Dec 2015

It wasn't because she was talking about women's issues.

ljm2002

(10,751 posts)
11. WTF?
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 06:55 PM
Dec 2015

Bernie makes a good statement on reproductive rights and you complain about it?

I am glad that progressive women have been making this point for lo, these many years -- and I'm glad Bernie is echoing the sentiment. Even if it is true that Hillary would receive more flak from making the same statement -- and it probably is -- that doesn't mean that Bernie should not say it. If he chooses to use his male privilege in a way that promotes an important women's issue I'm all for it.

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
14. I'm not complaining about his statement. I'm pointing out that it's unfair
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 06:58 PM
Dec 2015

to criticize Hillary for NOT saying it. i'm sure she'd love to say that. But as a female political figure, she faces constraints the men don't face.

"Bernie once again says something NO OTHER candidate is saying..." is the subject line of an OP about Bernie's statement that I can't reply to in the thread. So I did it here.

ljm2002

(10,751 posts)
18. Fair point...
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:02 PM
Dec 2015

...thank you for clarifying. Yes you are right, it is unfair to ding her for not saying it in that way, as you correctly point out she would be subject to much more criticism for using such a turn of phrase, even though it has been part of feminist thought for a good long time. Or maybe because of that!

There is no doubting her positions on women's issues, this is one area where she has not wavered.

Sorry I misunderstood your point.

 

MaggieD

(7,393 posts)
12. Bernie does that a lot on social media
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 06:56 PM
Dec 2015

He loves to take well known quips and tweak them a little to feign originality. I find it irritating, but maybe that's because I don't care for him to start with.

But to your point, yes. And I believe she HAS been accused of playing the gender card many times. Apparently women are not permitted to speak about issues that solely impact women. Similar to how Obama is not permitted to talk about race without being accused of playing the race card.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
26. The original Gloria Steinem quote has appeared on DU repeatedly, for years.
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:36 PM
Dec 2015

Nobody ever complained about it then.

This OP is a made-up fantasy used to hide the absence of substantive criticism.

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
28. The OP is a response to the idea that Bernie is better than the other Dem candidates because
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:42 PM
Dec 2015

he made that statement. He isn't.

As another poster here put it, it is unfair to "ding" Hillary for not having made the statement herself, as another OP today tries to do.

I couldn't respond directly in that thread so I did here.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
29. "I can't find anything to criticize Bernie for today so I'm going to make something up."
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:43 PM
Dec 2015

So transparent.

Bernie's damned if he does and damned if he doesn't.

in_cog_ni_to

(41,600 posts)
30. Oh bullshit. His statement is a twist on an old quote -
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 07:58 PM
Dec 2015

"If men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament." ~Said to Florynce Kennedy and Gloria Steinem by an elderly Irish woman taxi driver in Boston, popularized by Kennedy and Steinem in 1971 speeches

That quote has existed since then. It's a well known quote from when women were fighting for abortion rights and it's TRUE. No one would give that quote a second thought if HRH said it. You're trying to create an issue where none exists. Every True Progressive I know has been trying to save abortion rights.

PEACE
LOVE
BERNIE

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
33. Of course it was an old quote. But the OP said that he was the ONLY ONE who had said it.
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 10:53 PM
Dec 2015

As if there was something wrong with Hillary for not having said it.

But if Hillary HAD said it, it would have had an entirely different effect. When a man says that sentence, it has an entirely different response than when a female politician says it.

He would be considered supportive and insightful -- she would be accused of playing the gender card.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
34. "Women say, "duh." "?
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 10:57 PM
Dec 2015

No this woman says right fucking on, Bernie!

And thank you for being our ally - a true feminist who has fiercely and consistently supported our rights for decades!

Only a transparent Hillary supporter would find fault with that comment.

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