“Nice Guys” Contribute to Rape Culture
http://msmagazine.com/blog/blog/2012/07/17/nice-guys-contribute-to-rape-culture/
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Are men going to run out and rape women, having listened to Tosh? Probably not. But those who do rape are let off the hook by a culture that treats rape as a joke.
Rape culture allows those who do rape to escape arrest, prosecution, jail time and social sanction.
Actually, men accused of rape and abuse are often vigorously defended. He was the coach of the teamhe was a pillar of the community too often dominates media coverage of sexual and domestic violence. As if pillars of the community dont rape and abuse.
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The stereotype of men who perpetuate and benefit from rape culture hurts victims, too. Joe Paterno did not report Jerry Sanduskys
sexual abuse, yet media coverage often focused on Paternos legacy and his coaching accomplishments. Daniel Tosh told jokes that trivialize rape, yet his defenders focus on him being one of the nicest people in the world. (Although the media tide is turning,
particularly on Paterno).
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Once the nice guy defense is eliminated, we can look at how all men are socialized in a culture of sexism. Jay Smooth and other anti-racist activists have already urged us to look at someones racist
behavior, instead of focusing on is someone a racist or not. The conversation should be about the behavior, not the person.
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