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In reply to the discussion: Of bears and men: How big does a risk have to be before you "have to" walk around scared? [View all]meadowlander
(4,413 posts)There is no actual situation where you are walking in the woods and get to pick what you encounter. Therefore, it's an absurd hypothetical.
If you are using it to illustrate a wider point that women shouldn't feel afraid because it is statistically unlikely that any given man they encounter will attack them, I'd say a number of people have already answered that for you and so have I above.
It only takes one.
There is no way to know if the stranger in front of you is that one.
It is not a statistically insignificant chance that it is (unlike being mauled by a bear).
Women should not hesitate to act accordingly or be made to feel like they are overreacting, being hysterical or being inherently unfair to the "nice" guys.
Don't like it? Well I guess life sucks for you then. I don't like having to look over my shoulder instead of enjoying a nice walk in the woods but there we are. Don't blame me. Blame the flasher that was arrested a few weeks ago at my favorite beach and the rapist arrested a few months ago terrorising the girls at the local college by breaking into their apartments and molesting them in their sleep and the guy who raped and killed a real estate agent a month or two before that and the guy that tried to grab an 11 year old walking home from school a few weeks before that.