Reply #92: I couldn't call myself a "Fag Hag" just because I have a great, deep

[KoKo]

friendship. It would be a label. If I have a deep friendship with anyone why would I call myself a "Fag Hag" just because the person happens to be gay. It sort of sounds like some kind of "stereotype to me."

I would classify "Fag Hag" with "Groupie." In that there are females who seek out gay men just as their are "Groupie Females" who seek out and actually "stalk" rock stars or other clebrities just to say they were close to them or "bedded them."

I cherish my relationships more than to ever want to be called a "Fag Hag" but if I behaved that way, then I would accept that the terms "Whores, Groupie, Fag Hag" would all apply to me. I just wouldn't want to look at myself that way. That's all I'm trying to say. People can be close as friends no matter the sexuality, but I wouldn't want to ask more than one can give just so I could call myself "a Fag Hag, or whatever." :shrug: It's sort of a demeaning term to me...sorry.. it is. :-(