Reply #5: On one level, I completely understand that.

[Pale Blue Dot]

And I certainly don't want to hurt anyone.

On another level, I went through many, many years in a loveless marriage feeling pretty sorry for myself. But I never, ever begrudged anyone else their happiness. I never made anyone feel like they couldn't talk about it.

So while I understand the concept on an intellectual level, on an emotional level I guess I don't. :shrug:

Anyhow, I'll keep it to a minimum.