Reply #42: Get yourself together

[Liberal Christian]

Until you like who you are enough to project a positive spirit into the world, you'll be a magnet for needy, co-dependent women.

Here's what most of my women friends have told me they'd love to see in a male:
1. Enough self-confidence to be a distinct self in the midst of a mutually fulfilling relationship.

2. A willingness to stop talking about himself and his interests long enough to ask questions that tell a woman her life and experience are probably just as fascinating as his.

3. A sense of humor that takes the world lightly without being excessively crude.

4. No whining.

5. A sense that he knows who he is and what he wants and has the ability to put that to work in the world for positive things.