Let me say this simply.

[Lyric]

At the gay bar that doesn't allow bachelorette parties:

Straight, non-party-group women? ALLOWED.
Lesbian, non-party-group women? ALLOWED.
Straight individuals of any gender? ALLOWED.
Gay individuals of any gender? ALLOWED.
Groups of men or women, of any sexual orientation, who DON'T intend to throw a risque, raucous party? ALLOWED.

Bachelorette parties for straight women? NOT ALLOWED.
Bachelorette parties for lesbian women? NOT ALLOWED.
Bachelorette parties for drag queens and transgender men/women? NOT ALLOWED.

It is not PEOPLE who are being forbidden. The only thing forbidden is a certain type of event. Period.

Please stop the ridiculous "Reverse discrimination!" paranoid bullshit. It just makes you look ignorant.