Reply #4: no shit

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my wife and I work equally and share equally (or try to - there are some things we're each better at or do more, but try to maintain balance). When she was looking for work, I supported her and when i was looking she supported me. During that time, I tried to do as much as possible to accommodate and show her how appreciative I was.

As I said in the other thread, this should not be a gender thing - all people need to know how to balance work and personal life, and communicate it to their S.O.