Reply #21: I had one once

[Caoimhe]

lazy good for nothing, wanted to sponge off me. I wouldn't mind having a househusband, if I had kids and a house.. but this POS would laze around the apartment all day eating and watching television, then stay up all night watching movies while I struggled to sleep. Needless to say.. he was catapulted out of my life long ago. From what I hear he's not changed. Never again. I married someone who has a career of his own, and when he gets time off that I don't.. he cleans the house, does dishes, laundry and cooks. I do the same when I have time. We share responsibilities. THAT is what makes a healthy marriage, IMHO.