I finally found the audio for the NPR commentary I have spoken about a few times. The one with the young Air Force officer defending his anti-war friend. As I've said before to many of my conservative friends, adn here on DU, she has all the freedom in the world to voice her opinion about the military and the war, but I'll guarentee you that Lt. Harbaugh had to ask permission to defend her on NPR.
http://www.npr.org/programs/atc/commentaries/2003/mar/Go to the commentary "Small Voices Talk About war". It's about halfway down on the list.
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The debate over possible military action against Iraq has taken place in big, international forums like the United Nations and NATO. But these kinds of discussions also are going on between individuals, like commentator and Navy pilot Ken Harbaugh and his friend Rebecca. Rebecca hates the military and recently protested outside of a Navy recruiting office. Ken thinks it's important for him to talk to Rebecca every once in a while, because in his military world people like Rebecca are scorned as part of the "civilian elite," and he wants her to know that not all members of the military are bloodthirsty ogres.<snip>