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dolo amber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:17 PM Original message |
I have a terrible confession....and I need advice. |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
1. Is there something in your past (maybe family members) |
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dolo amber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:23 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Oh yes |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:28 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. I think you are being influenced alittle about what your family |
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skooooo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:49 PM Response to Reply #3 |
16. Counseling might help... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:21 PM Response to Original message |
2. It's real simple |
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dolo amber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:25 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. I don't know about that |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:22 PM Response to Reply #5 |
21. OK then building on SOteric's advice |
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salinen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
4. Spend more time with this group |
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Guaranteed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:34 PM Response to Reply #4 |
11. Yes. nt |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 10:57 PM Response to Reply #4 |
46. Yes. I'd suggest seeking out the assistance of a trustworthy ... |
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NightTrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:27 PM Response to Original message |
6. I have the same problem. |
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dolo amber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:43 PM Response to Reply #6 |
14. The weird thing is |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:49 PM Response to Reply #6 |
32. YOU, bigoted in any way, Dean? |
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NightTrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:57 PM Response to Reply #32 |
40. I call myself a "recovering racist." |
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SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:29 PM Response to Original message |
8. Do any of those who number amoung your friends |
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dolo amber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:39 PM Response to Reply #8 |
13. Unfortuantely, no. |
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SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:32 PM Response to Reply #13 |
29. Well...and yet... |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
9. Is it a perceived safety issue? |
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dolo amber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:37 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. I don't think so |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:51 PM Response to Reply #12 |
17. I agree with those that stress you need to really get to know someone |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:52 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. or attend a church with a high percentage of "them" |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:57 PM Response to Reply #12 |
41. It does make sense, in a way, |
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Guaranteed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
10. Is it white guys? |
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dolo amber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 10:17 PM Response to Reply #10 |
43. Your humor is not lost on me |
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camero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
15. Face your fears and strike up a friendship with |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
19. is there someone in that group whom you like or admire? |
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AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
20. I had a problem like that |
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everythingsxen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:24 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. I still have that problem, to an extent... |
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AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:26 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. Yeah, but yours is 180 degrees from mine |
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everythingsxen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:27 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Love makes strange bedfellows. |
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AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:28 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. Then strange bedfellows make love |
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everythingsxen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:31 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. Well of course... |
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AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:36 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. That might not work for everyone!! |
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everythingsxen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:41 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. Noone would accuse my target group of being slutty |
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AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:50 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. You sure? |
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everythingsxen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:52 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Pretty sure... |
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AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:53 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. Well, OK |
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everythingsxen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:54 PM Response to Reply #35 |
36. I will agree on the icky food... |
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AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:55 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. Let's go for falafels! |
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everythingsxen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:56 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. Absolutely! |
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dolo amber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:28 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. I've made the effort |
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AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:30 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. He might not know *why* you were uncomfortable |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
39. While I agree that you need to... |
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dolo amber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 10:15 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. Oh Velma... |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 10:22 PM Response to Original message |
44. I grew up in a nearly completely white community. |
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SheilaT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
45. I have had the same problem. |
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Hell Hath No Fury (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-04 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
47. Exposure, exposure, exposure... |
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