Primary Sexual Identification/Orientation

[JohnLocke]

Poll question: Primary Sexual Identification/Orientation

[Deja Q]

1. I am a homosexual!!

Want me to prove it? :evilgrin:

[dsc]

2. Wouldn't that be orientation?

Isn't identification your gender?

[JohnLocke]

3. Maybe.

A. Sexual Identification/Orientation.
B. Gender Identification/Orientation.

[Feanorcurufinwe]

4. What about 'Not Sure' 'Other' and 'None' ?

[Philosophy]

6. Yeah, I need a None choice

I never get any.

[Endangered Specie]

5. 100% straight here.

[vajraroshana]

59. 99.9% gay here

Congratulations on your 100%.

As for my .1%, I'd have to make an exception for Angelina Jolie in that early (1995) movie she did "Hackers". Hot! Of course I'm old (39) and semi-wretched looking; she wouldn't want anyone like that, would she? Ooops (BBT).

[LondonAmerican]

7. Queer as a three dollar bill here ;)

[pagerbear]

19. Always wondered just how queer that was

[LondonAmerican]

37. In my case

I guess it means: very

[vajraroshana]

58. I'm queer as a football bat, myself.

[JohnLocke]

8. Kick (nt).

[starroute]

9. Sexually hetero but psychologically fairly androgynous

I'm not gay, I'm not transsexual, I'm just a woman with no interest whatever in chick stuff. I've never understood why, but I think it may have something to do with being a geek.

There are plenty of times I've envied gays because at least they know why they're different. I don't have a clue. All I know is that I'm wired weird.

[last_texas_dem]

53. I feel like I identify with you

I am a 100-percent straight male, but have no inclination towards stereotypically more "masculine" interests (sports, cars, guns, strip clubs, drinking, acting like an insensitive jackass when with my friends, etc.). I'm not effeminate, though, and not into stereotypically female interests either, and if I've ever been mistaken for being gay it's only been because my extreme shyness means I've only had one girlfriend (albeit a very serious one) in the twenty years of my life so that some have assumed I have no interest in the opposite sex and am, therefore, gay. Lack of success does not translate into lack of interest, though. haha Perhaps my problem comes more from living in the Deep South and its cultural norms and I'd fit in much better in a different area, but feeling this different way has caused me a good deal of frustration since the time I hit puberty. I'm not sure what makes me different; I like the way that I am, though, even if it complicates my life sometimes.

FWIW, I'm pretty much a geek, too, and it's good to see someone else who feels similarly to the way I do.

[GirlinContempt]

10. The cursed bisexual

Lesbians wont hit it, and guys just want to see you bang another chick.

[Lizz612]

16. Oh girl you nailed it

*sigh* Flirting a guy, mention that I'm bi, "Ooo ooo, would you make out with my girlfriend and let me watch?" No, fuck off ass.
And no good lesbians here.... *sigh*

[GirlinContempt]

18. So typical

I have met a lot of lesbians who really, really dislike bisexual women. It sucks. My sisters girlfriend was like that, until she met my sister that is.

[Lizz612]

20. Lucky sister

*sigh* :( I havn't met enough lesbians to have gotten that yet. I really need to meet more. The few lesbians I know, I knew before they came out, so they like me anyway.

[GirlinContempt]

21. Well...

I've met a lot... Though, hopefully I'll meet more that aren't so prejudiced against bi's.
Good luck finding more... I found the best place to meet cute girls was University campus.

[foreigncorrespondent]

49. Sigh!

Is this turning into a let's bash the lesbo's day today or something?

You are lumping lesbians all together. Some aren't biphobic ya know?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

47. please it 'sreally not THAT bad

far as i remember being bi was great! maybe you are in the wrong city love

[ncrainbowgrrl]

11. Not sure how to answer this.

I self identify as bi, but if you're looking for a 'primary' sexual identification/orientation, I would say "not hetero."

[terrya]

12. A 6 on the Kinsey scale.Gay as the proverbial goose.

[corporatewhore]

30. do you have a link to the kinsey scale

do they have a test i can take on the internet? have always wanted to take it

[Raster]

55. love that goose...

[JohnLocke]

13. Kick (nt).

[Ladyhawk]

14. Where's the "Asexual" category? n/t

[Failure]

15. What about just "sexual" ? (nt)

[SarahB]

17. I'm a very strait, super-femme, feminist woman.

:)

[Maestro]

24. Straight

But I've been hit on by more gay guys than straight women. So what does that say?

[SarahB]

25. Probably means

You're better groomed than the average strait guy (which is generally a good thing).

I only had one serious lesbian type pass from a friend that was bi. She actually ended the friendship because she liked me and it was hard for her because I didn't return the feelings.

[Maestro]

26. Well I do have a nose hair clipper

and I can actually dress myself in matching coordinations.

[jonnyblitz]

28. that is funny.

I am a gay guy who actually needs the "queer eye for straight guy" people to get me in order more than most straight guys do!

[vajraroshana]

57. LOL, me too and my huzbear is even worse...

We take walks in the early evening and my huzbear always wears dark-colored socks with short pants.

And don't even get me started about his coffe-cup collection in the living room...oy vey! But he's my sweety (18 years and counting!)

But I'm not much better. I love Chinese tchotchkes.

[Guy_Montag]

31. I have the same problem,

& no-one can say I'm well groomed. Mind you it's been a while since anyone hit one me - I must buy some new clothes sometime.

[Gildor Inglorion]

40. Probably...

a) You're cute as hell, or
b) You're kinda grungy (lots of gays like that look for a straight guy)

[vajraroshana]

61. lucky

ooh, maybe that's not funny

[LDS Jock]

22. homosexual

I ain't no breeder

[jmowreader]

54. I'm no breeder either...

and I'm definitely hetero.

What do they call it, androgynous, when you would feel comfortable as either a man or a woman? I could dig that.

[Parrcrow]

23. hetero

[BiggJawn]

27. What? No "Been so long I forget" catagory?

Really. I seem to have some vague memories of being Hetero, but I've been having "Divorce flashbacks" or something which makes me think I've regained my virginity...

Let's just call it "Involuntarily Asexual"...

[LostInAnomie]

29. Straight, or am I.....

Yep, Im straight.

[Angelus]

32. I'm about as straight as they come.

:)

[BlondieK143]

33. Straight and frustrated!

:evilfrown:

[Angelus]

34. Heh...

you too? :evilfrown:

[BlondieK143]

35. Unfortunately!

:(

[Angelus]

36. :(

[Bill of Rights]

38. I'm a lovely lesbian

xx!!

[indigo32]

46. Hi

from another lesbian from the Twin Cities
:hi:

[Gildor Inglorion]

39. Gay as a Chinese typewriter...

which is, by the way, an implement of endeavor I've always longed to see. ;)

[Canuckistanian]

45. LOL! have no idea what it means, but LOL!

[Misunderestimator]

41. 99% gay here...

...the 1% is subjective... only there because I firmly believe that MOST people are bisexual, and if homeosexuality were an accepted norm in our society, you'd see a lot more of it.

[geniph]

42. I'm an opportunist

I'm attracted to individuals, not genders. I guess that makes me bisexual. I'm not quite as bisexual as my husband is, but I'm not entirely comfortable around people who self-define as super-straight. It always seems kind of defensive to me. I guess I just don't empathize with anyone that doesn't find both genders attractive in certain individuals.

[bloodyjack]

43. celibate (read: SCREW U)

actually . . . wait. :shrug:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

44. queer

[Canuckistanian]

48. Straight as a Saskatchewan concession road...

[achtung_circus]

50. I'm either a straight male

or a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

[vajraroshana]

60. I know you're joking, but

I've actually met someone who was a lesbian trapped inside a man's body.

He (now she) had the surgery and is now a happy lesbian...believe it or not!!

[name not needed]

51. whatever i can get n/t

[SanFranciscoDemocrat]

52. Bisexual

My motto used to be "anything that moves" until I realized how restrictive that was.

[FrankBooth]

56. Straight, but not narrow

And normally I hate cliches.

[guitar man]

62. "buy-sexual"

hell, I'll buy it if I can't get it any other way! :)

But seriously, I'm straight as straight can be. I respect everyone regardless of whatever their sexual preference is. Life is too short to go around obsessing about what other people do in regards to their sex life. I just wish everyone could do the same.