Is it OK for a Hetro Guy to flirt with a Lesbian?

[trumad]

I love Lesbians.... Some of my best friends are Lesbians... And NO it's not the woman on woman thing that floats my boat, I just think they're great fun. AND I love flirting with them... Is there a possibility that my mind and soul is half female? I think that if that's true, it makes me a better man.....MHOP

[jukes]

1. trumad

wd like to see some lizzie feedback here. i've had some good friendships w/ lesbian couples; there's little of the competition & territoriality of male/male friendships, + no need to be concerned w/ the sexual tension of a male/female friendship.

i think flirtation is acceptable someXs, but requires a delicate touch so as not to cross the line.

[YellowRubberDuckie]

2. Flirting means nothing...

But if it also includes fondling, I'm going to have to say it's not ok. But if it's just your run of the mill flirting, it's ok. It's just like my insatiable flirting with gay men. It means nothing, and it's fun.
Duckie

[Downtown Hound]

3. All of us guys are half female bro...

We have the X chromosome in us. We simply at some point in time while we were being formed had an extra hormone pumped into us to make us male. Yes, I think it's okay to flirt with lesbians, just don't get your hopes up. Ha!

[matcom]

4. well, I Want to have NSMA's baby

ask her :D

[Misunderestimator]

7. You too?

:D

[floridaguy]

5. Why not?

Not to be cliche, but some of MY best friends are lesbians. Unfortunatley, many of them are moving away, because I live in a Bush-loving ultraconservative rich asshole kind of town.

I was roommates with a couple, and we used to have a blast. We'd sometimes be scoping the same girl and compare notes. Just having fun. I even took one of them to Amsterdam for Pride. Over the top.

Now, as far as your struggle. If you start thinking Ellen is stylish, I think you better get checked out by someone, maybe a psychic or a Reiki master or something. I love Ellen, but do you think she dresses that way as a protest or something? Now that I think of it, one of my friends refuses to wear a dress, and she is very attractive. Oh yeah, there's the visor thing. What's up with that? I used to call it her dyke badge! (Please- no offense intended-just having some fun):grouphug:

[nickgutierrez]

29. Naples, Florida: Where the North goes to die

Saw the city name in your sig line, couldn't resist. :)

[Misunderestimator]

6. Oh, it definitely makes you a better man to admit to your feminine side...

and flirting (just flirting) is cool whoever the object is... as long as it's welcome.

(end of "lizzie" contribution) ;)

[trumad]

9. Like I said... If you have a female side

you're more able to understand what er..said females want... Although I must admit, it's still sometimes as baffling as Quantum Science.

[Forkboy]

14. Ever see the episode of Red Green where they ask

"What does a woman really want?"

After many painful guesses they decide on world peace and a vcr :)

[jukes]

30. Misunderestimator

my gom jabbar is the only true test!

[Misunderestimator]

32. Ok, I give... what the heck is "gom jabbar" ?

I googled it and came up with a video game...? :shrug:

[jukes]

46. from herbert's "Dune" novels

a high tech needle-like device to test fortitude; if you flinched you died. ref to my "lizzie" jab.

i hope it's clear i'm a male feminist & wd walk arm-in-arm w/my sisters into the firehose cannons. no offense meant by the vulgar vernacular, just jerking you guys off.

:pals:

[Misunderestimator]

47. LOL.... I've read the Dune series... just been a while.

:pals:

[curse10]

8. I flirt with gay guys

I've been flirted with by lesbians, and I'm straight. I think flirting is complimentary, no matter who it's coming from.

[sundog]

10. I think there are certain

relationships which transcend gender. Sometimes you can connect with someone on a spiritual level & the rest is irrelevant. Doesn't mean you have to hop in the sack, but there is a mutual attraction.

If someone makes you feel good, that's just the way it is. It's natural. No big deal...

[Forkboy]

11. Ok by me

Hell,I want to be noiretblu's new girlfriend ;-)

[Endangered Specie]

12. What could be wrong with flirting?

[m-jean03]

13. Only if...

He knows it's going absolutely nowhere. :D

[jukes]

31. m-jean03

AND knows when to apply the brakes!

[m-jean03]

40. Yeah, that too!

I would rather NOT get hit with a moving man-vehicle. :D

(Although friendly hugs are ALWAYS appreciated from friends. :pals:)

[Parrcrow]

15. Sure, but if she puts up the stop sign in any way...

STOP.





and not just lesbians.

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

16. Come to California

I'll grab your ass and make you feel like a big ole piece of meat :D

WE can talk about girl shit....like scoring :evilgrin:

[Forkboy]

17. I thought girls talked about things like freshness

and that not quite so clean feeling.

Sheesh,I gotta get out more :shrug:

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

18. I never talk about it

(freshness that is) it's a given :evilgrin:

[ForrestGump]

19. No. It's unnatural. It's just wrong. Don't do it. You twisted sicko.

[Misunderestimator]

20. LMAO.... which one are you?

that is just SICK man... I know that NSMA is not a blonde. Nice pecs on ya though!
:bounce:

[ForrestGump]

21. Go ahead...laugh! I happen to know that NSMAs a MILF...

Militant International Lesbian Feminist, that'd be.

:P

You're right about the hair...um...dye...yeah...it was dyed.

Here's my favorite picture of her, by the way; NSMA and her beloved Dildo:

[Misunderestimator]

23. She doesn't look that militant to me...

I mean, maybe if she was wearing camouflage AND a dildo, then...

[ForrestGump]

26. JUst because you can't see it, doesn't mean

....um...no, scratch that...NSMA will come get me. :D


...no, NSMA! please! No! Please don't punish me!

[achtung_circus]

22. I do it all the time with the couple at work

They started it, so I assume they're OK with it. It's just fun, and no harm done.

[arwalden]

24. Lesbian.

[Misunderestimator]

25. LOL.... I bet you spend a fair amount of time on the "L" when you say

that word... you are a strange man. ;)

[arwalden]

27. Yep... It sounds a bit more like...

LLLLLLLesbian.

Kinda like the way Blanche DuBois pronounced it on "Golden Girls" when she was struggling to remember what it meant.

Blanche: "Lesbian. Llllesbian. Isn't Danny Thomas a Lesbian?"

Dorothy: "Blanche! That's Lebanese, Blanche! Lebanese!!"

-- Allen

[ncrainbowgrrl]

35. That's one of my favorite Golden Girls Episodes

"And she used to live on a farm, with cows! Just like me!"- Rose

[Misunderestimator]

37. Thank you for being a friend...

travelled down the road and back again.... Love the Golden Girls!!

[solinvictus]

28. Completely situational....

When I was 19, I worked for a lesbian boss. We hung out after work at her apartment and shenanigans o'plenty went on. It was fun at work to check out the girls renting videos with her. It was a weird mutual attraction/friendship thing that went on with her.

[LynneSin]

33. I'm a hetero chick that flirts with Lesbians & Gays

I flirt with everyone - it's my nature to do so!

[Misunderestimator]

34. No... Say it ain't so... You?

:)

[LynneSin]

36. I'm an equal opportunity flirter

That's me!!!

[Misunderestimator]

39. me too... except that I won't flirt with conservatives...

...those I squash.

[m-jean03]

41. I just try to avoid them

They are bad for my health. :puke: :hangover:

[LynneSin]

42. ditto here - one of my major turnoffs

I wouldn't date anyone who supports repukes and especially Bush. I'm also turned off by men who pierce their pee-pees. I just don't want to go there!!

[Zolok]

38. I flirt occasionally with a lesbian

who works down the hall...no harm in it as nuthin' will ever come of it.
Besides she has a sweet girlish giggle...so I always trot out the "A List" material for her.
:)

[La Lioness Priyanka]

43. ofcourse it is

just dont me obnoxious ;)

[Bertha Venation]

44. IMO it's up to the lesbian being flirted with. If it were me,

it would depend upon who is flirting with me. From some men, it wouldn't bother me. From others, it would.

Unfortunately, trumad, it's a pretty subjective thing. :shrug:

edit: FTR, if I allow a straight guy to flirt with me, I'm probably flirting right back. So it really has to be someone who knows I'm gay and won't change, and who knows his flirting won't get him anywhere near my bedroom -- hell, he knows that I know he's not even trying for that, that he's just playing.

The flirter, IOW, has to be extremely secure in himself.

[Misunderestimator]

45. Ssshhhh.....

with that explanation, trumad will think I have been flirting with him... :)