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bobbobbins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 02:53 PM
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Help me become more intimidating!!!
grrrrr...im preparing for a role as a mass murderer in a play, and i need to make people fear me...its a new type of part for me, usually i play an idiot of some sort...so tell me what would scare ya.
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 02:55 PM
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1. Learn to stare
and make sure to lean forward when you do it
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bobbobbins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 02:57 PM
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5. i was working on the stare...hadn't though of leaning forward
i'll probably wear some kind of lifts to make myself seem a bit taller
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kick-ass-bob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 02:55 PM
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2. that avatar is a good start...
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 02:56 PM
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3. Did you get your Elton John ticks?
I got two

CB
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bobbobbins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 02:57 PM
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6. crap....
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tsakshaug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 02:57 PM
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4. Become taller?
worked for me.
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Darknyte7 Donating Member (687 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 02:57 PM
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7. Start with this...
While you're standing in a crowd of people, abruptly yell "Get your hand outta my pocket!!" to the person standing next to you, and look at them menacingly.
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 02:58 PM
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8. were a bush mask
he is a mass mueder

CB
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bobbobbins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 02:59 PM
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9. I've been listening to some Tool
I think it'll help me get into the mentality i need...start out fairly calm, then i snap on people
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Darknyte7 Donating Member (687 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:01 PM
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There you go... eom
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yellowcanine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:01 PM
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10. Animals try to make themselves look larger. Can you make the hair
stand up on your head?
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bobbobbins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:02 PM
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11. i might poof it up like kramer
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ET Awful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:02 PM
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12. Quit bathing. That'll make you very intimidating.
:)
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kick-ass-bob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:02 PM
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13. do you have any facial hair?
Hiding ones face can be more menacing, especially if you have a baby face.
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bobbobbins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:04 PM
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14. Yeah, i might do that, but im supposed to look like frankenstein sorta
so i might not be allowed to have the facial hair
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ckramer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:06 PM
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15. Easy. Pretending you are Bush
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MostlyLurks Donating Member (738 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:11 PM
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16. Maybe not intimidating but...
Edited on Tue Jan-25-05 03:13 PM by MostlyLurks
I have a bad habit of looking at things (i.e. any object that isn't the person I'm talking to) while I am talking to people, then when the conversation "turns" (i.e. gets interesting, confrontational, whatever) I then focus on them very intently. I've had people tell me it's a bit off-putting - maybe you could incorporate something like that into a larger repertoir of mannerisms.

Mostly

Added on edit:
Also, a lot of mass/serial/spree killers are very affable and friendly in the same way Joe Pesci was in "GoodFellas". Sometimes being nice in odd situations can be very intimidating.
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bobbobbins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:14 PM
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19. very interesting...that sounds like one of the best suggestions yet
I'm going to try both methods during rehearsals and see what works...thanks
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TlalocW Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:12 PM
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17. When riding an elevator...
Edited on Tue Jan-25-05 03:12 PM by TlalocW
Stand in the front right up against the door and face the "wrong" way looking at the other passengers.

TlalocW
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mahina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:14 PM
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18. I learned this in mediation, look betweeen the eyes, not into the eyes.
They can't tell the difference and you don't get caught up in them.
Easier to keep looking without laughing on stage! (that's me, I crack up a lot...)
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bobbobbins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:15 PM
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21. good suggestion, thanks
i laugh alot, so that might help when i go to give people the stare down
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MemphisTiger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:15 PM
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20. If you have a few months, put on some muscle
That can be indimidating. I mean do a dirty bulk by putting on a little fat with the muscle. When the play is done, you can lose the fat and have lots of muscle. However, this will take time.
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bobbobbins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:16 PM
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22. Yeah, i only have a month, but im trying to eat more and work out a little
I'm a real thin guy, so I need all the help i can get
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:28 PM
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23. maintain eye contact for an uncomfortably long time
with no hint of a smile
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mongo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:33 PM
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24. shave your head down to stubble and start wearing a leather
vest. People tend to think you are carrying a weapon.

Being a clerk in a bad neighborhood. I've had to deal with confrontations inside and outside my store.

Now, I may be 6' and 230lbs, but I have heart and kidney conditions and am in poor physical shape.

I've been threatened with physical harm on a few occasions, and I never respond to that, I just keep up with my original request, like to leave the property, or that in fact we do not give cash refunds or accept returns on sex toys. I can be very apoligetic while being firm, but I never show fear.

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bobbobbins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:37 PM
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25. i think im too skinny for that to work
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:40 PM
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26. a mass murderer or a serial killer?
i think of a mass murderer as being someone in political power...
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bobbobbins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:43 PM
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28. well the guy knew the people he killed, so thats not serial, right?
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Butterflies Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 03:43 PM
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27. Try the Charles Manson stare. A creepy smile would help too.
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achtung_circus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:17 PM
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29. I usually work alone, I have to play both good cop and bad cop
so I have developed personas.

For the bad cop part, I stand tall, not stretching, you understand, just maximizing what height I have. I ensure my shoulders are square, my stomach tense, my head erect. I don't smile, I don't frown. I wear a neutral expression. I maintain apparent eye contact, that tip about looking at the bridge of the nose rather then eyes is a good one. I stay light on my feet. I keep my distance most of the time, a safety issue, but it also sets a tone. When I do move closer to make a point that closeness comes as a definite change from the pre-established social distance.

I do a pretty good job at this. I'm possibly the nicest guy I know but this persona has been known to make people cry. Nothing violent, just a very sure knowlege that I'm in control.

I have a good cop persona too, that more accurately reflects the real me.
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jswordy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:29 PM
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30. Hang around here and read the posts...
...on all the forums. You'll get the hang of it!

ROFLMAO
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mr_hat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:35 PM
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31. "Smell the fart." It's kind of an all-purpose pose.
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mcscajun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 05:44 PM
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32. Two thoughts…
Try smiling with Just your mouth; don't let your eyes get into the game.

Try and control your blinking; it really is creepy when someone doesn't blink a lot.

Understating the menace is better than overstating.
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