How do I tell if the guy I work with likes me or not?

[RevolutionaryActs]

And by like I mean in a more then friendly way. I know he likes me in friendly way. But does he like me more then that?


Is this the start of boy troubles? :o

[JohnKleeb]

1. watch his eyes

duh.

[RevolutionaryActs]

2. Um... and?

:shrug:

[JohnKleeb]

3. watch them

thats all, if he cant keep his eyes off of you and etc, then I think its fair to say he likes you. At least thats how I act around girls I like.

[Maraya1969]

25. I'm old and I never thought of that............

But since I'm single again maybe when I ever get out of the house I'll start looking at male eyeballs.


It's been so long now I don't even know what to do or where to do it.

[JohnKleeb]

30. I would if I were ya

Maybe its just me but I would think its common, I remember one time when I was around a girl I liked and I just could not take my eyes off of her.

[Rabrrrrrr]

4. Wait a few years, and if you ended up marrying him and having

children, then it's a pretty good bet that he likes you.

[RevolutionaryActs]

5. Gee.... ya think?

:P

[Rabrrrrrr]

6. Hey, I'm just brainstorming here

tossin' out ideas.....

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

[RevolutionaryActs]

7. LOL! Well thanks for the help.

:crazy:

[Geek_Girl]

8. If you like him

Ask him out. If he says yes then he likes you. That's how I use to tell before I was married.

[Rabrrrrrr]

9. And how do you find out from guys now that you are married?

Did the technique change?

:P

[Geek_Girl]

31. I'm pretty oblivious to flirtations

It must mean I'm getting old

[Rabrrrrrr]

36. geek girls are never old!

they're always fresh and wondrous!!

[RevolutionaryActs]

10. Or not.

HAHAHA.


I work with him, if he didn't like me and I did that it would be awkward. Of course he could be thinking the same thing.....


Yup, this is the start of boy troubles. :o

[shugah]

42. well then, punch him on the arm

if he punches you back - you have a relationship! ;-)

[shugah]

okay, really

if you don't have a sense that he kind of sparks with you, then in the workplace you should leave it alone.

do you think he might like you, or do you really know he does? there are indications...

[RevolutionaryActs]

50. We already do that!

Plus rubber band wars.

[shugah]

68. sounds like true love

[ifyouknewsushi]

11. Believe me you will be able to tell. n/t

[RevolutionaryActs]

13. So then my weird feeling that he does like me is right?

:o



Welcome to DU! :hi:

[cestpaspossible]

17. chances are

yes

[ifyouknewsushi]

18. Thanks for the welcome and probably yes.

If you feel it inside it is probably correct. I wish you luck and happy hunting...lol.

Suzi.

[JimmyJazz]

12. Unless he is blind, he like likes you.

On edit: and even if he is, there is still a really good chance he like likes you. :D

[RevolutionaryActs]

15. Awwwwwww

:blush:



This is weird. I've never had boy like me before. Erm wait, I've never had a boy like me before that I might like back. Yeah that's it.

[cestpaspossible]

14. Ask him out.

[RevolutionaryActs]

16. Eeeeeek! No.

Nonononono. :o

[ifyouknewsushi]

19. Ask him in then...Kidding. :)

[RevolutionaryActs]

20. LOL!

:P

I think I'll just do nothing and call it good. :D

[Maraya1969]

29. Welcome to DU ... and Great Name!

:hi:

[JVS]

21. Have sex with him and see if he calls you afterwards.

Give him a few days to call.
This is a sure fire way to find out if he likes you. I guarantee!

[RevolutionaryActs]

22. .....

:rofl:

[Maraya1969]

28. Oh let me guess........you're male right?

[JVS]

32. Yes I am, and that's how I know that my scheme will work.

If he likes her, he'll take the sex as a good sign to begin a relationship.

If he doesn't like her, he'll just think "well that was fun, but I have other stuff to do" and go on his merry way.

[BeFree]

23. Go sit on his lap...

...and see if something comes up between you.

[RevolutionaryActs]

24. OMG!

:spray:


This thread better not get locked. :o

[ifyouknewsushi]

26. Speaking of locked. Is your chastity belt secure?

:P

[RevolutionaryActs]

34. LOL!

Extremely. :P

[Left Is Write]

27. You mean "Like like"?

;)

[RevolutionaryActs]

33. Yes, "like like"

:P

[Floogeldy]

35. It depends how mature/confident he is.

Or if he is shy. He may act nervous or awkwardly if he likes you.

If he is mature and confident, he will let you know that he likes you.

B-)

[RevolutionaryActs]

37. He's really shy.

But we talk a lot at work.

And joke around too, we have rubber band wars and stuff. :D

[ifyouknewsushi]

39. The Great Condom War of 2005!!!!

Block em with a spoonge...lol.

[RevolutionaryActs]

40. Oh good gawd

:o

[Floogeldy]

If you want him to know that you like him . . .

. . . pick the right moment, touch him on his arms, and give him a good kiss on the cheek.

He'll get the idea. ;)

B-)

[bettyellen]

56. rubber band wars? you are soo there.

go git em!

[Floogeldy]

58. You could put someone's eye out

:silly:

[bettyellen]

67. LOL, you have to aim low.....

go snap his little tushie.
c'mon, you know you want to.......

[Floogeldy]

75. Of course I want to snap it.

But what does that have to do with a-a-a-a-a-nything?

[RevolutionaryActs]

64. LOL!

:rofl:

[tjdee]

38. If you have to wonder, it's probably no.

That's what my sister, the man magnet, says. "Gross guys find a way to let you know they like you, why wouldn't normal guys?" Her only exceptions are obviously shy men, or oblivious men.

:shrug:
I don't meet many men anymore, so I ain't got a clue. Trying to analyze men's feelings...oh, LOL. Can feel the headache coming on!
I'd agree with Kleeb about the eyes though. They don't lie. If every time you're looking at him he's looking at you, I'm thinking he digs ya.

[RevolutionaryActs]

41. Yeah....

I think he likes me.


:wow:

[tjdee]

43. Rev has a boyfriend...Rev has a boyfriend....

Rev and her boyfriend

Sitting in a tree

K I S S I N G

First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes Rev with a baby carriage!

:silly:

[RevolutionaryActs]

45. Um.... aren't you suppose to be an adult?

:P

[tjdee]

49. Yeah... I decided being an adult sucks.

I am now practicing regression.

:headbang:

[RevolutionaryActs]

53. Sweet! Sounds like fun!

:D

[JohnKleeb]

46. then comes grandchildren?

[tjdee]

54. I don't know, the song didn't tell me.

And THANK YOU, now that question will bother me all night!

Do they have grandchildren or not!

[JohnKleeb]

57. it doesnt

I could be even more silly and say then comes great grandchildren, hey my late nana was a great great grandmother at 90, it can happen :shrug:.

[ifyouknewsushi]

59. wouldn't it be nice to skip that in between?

:P

[JohnKleeb]

61. I just want a date

Damned being shy and not having a sense of being crushed on.

[ifyouknewsushi]

44. Go for it Girlfreind.

I have been messin with you but my 1st post was what I feel. If you feel it it is probably right.(Left), right...I get so confused. :evilgrin:

[swag]

47. He told me he doesn't like you.

[RevolutionaryActs]

48. LOL! Well glad to have that settled.

:P

[swag]

52. I bet he likes you.

I do.

[RevolutionaryActs]

60. Awww!

:blush:


I like you too. :pals:

[RagingInMiami]

51. Does he undress you with his eyes?

Does he lick his lips when you walk into a room?
Does he check your ass out when you walk on by (you need friends to confirm this)?

Or ...

Does he get nervous around you?

Does he make excuses to talk to you, or to run into you at the workplace?

Does he focus only on you, and nobody else, during a group work setting?

[RevolutionaryActs]

62. LOL! Um lets see...

No.
No.
I have no clue.

Not so much.
Yes.
Not really much group work going on.

[JohnKleeb]

55. Is Constantine gonna get jealous

:P

[RevolutionaryActs]

63. Sadly I know I will most likely never meet Constantine...

:cry:

[JohnKleeb]

65. Yeah and I'll never go out with Natalie Portman

Sigh, and there are too many other girls I will never go out with because of me being a wuss or being way out of that league.

[ifyouknewsushi]

69. Oh John Kleeb. You are such a Drama Queen.

I know women would bow down to you if you asserted yourself, or used your eyes as you prescibe...:D

[JohnKleeb]

70. hah just the truth

Painfull shyness sucks.

[Lydia Leftcoast]

66. Flirt a bit more obviously

See if he has wicked glints in his eyes or whether he raises his eyebrows or winks when he sees you.

If he's shy, he may get all blushy and stammery around you and now around other women. If you're the sole object of his blushing and stammering, then you've hit the jackpot.

If you're not normally touchy-feely, try touching him casually. You're a smart women. You'll think up some excuse. ("Let me read your palm" or something like this.) If he doesn't start avoiding you, that's a sign.

If he does start avoiding you, that's also a sign, but not the kind you're hoping for.

[Zuni]

71. does he put his hand in his pants and stare at you?

that might be a clue :P

[RevolutionaryActs]

72. Zuni...

You're so subtle. :eyes:

[Zuni]

76. that is my best quality

[Rabrrrrrr]

73. Kill his family, say it was an accident. If he says "Don't feel bad,

accidents can happen to anyone...here, stop crying...." then he likes you.

[RevolutionaryActs]

74. LOL! Or not. his mom seems nice.