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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:22 PM Original message |
Recently, an old girlfriend from college got in touch with me |
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Fenris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
1. Depends on if you consider emotional cheating to be cheating. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
2. You are courting trouble. |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
3. It's cheating if it falls outside of the boundaries of your relationship |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:28 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. If you honestly answer GirlinContempt's questions... |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:32 PM Response to Reply #8 |
47. Thanks |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:43 PM Response to Reply #3 |
18. You are exactly right!! I should have figured this out myself. |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:32 PM Response to Reply #18 |
48. Anytime |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:26 PM Response to Original message |
4. Sounds dangerous. |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:26 PM Response to Original message |
5. The one important question |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
6. If it feels like cheating to you, then it is. |
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ContraBass Black (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:01 PM Response to Reply #6 |
36. Seconded. |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 09:01 AM Response to Reply #6 |
78. Ditto. n/t |
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ComerPerro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 09:56 AM Response to Reply #6 |
86. Exactly |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
7. No good can come of this |
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yvr girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
9. It's dangerous ground. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:30 PM Response to Original message |
10. You're human. A coworker chick, of which we have mutual attraction for, |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:45 PM Response to Reply #10 |
20. I think that's it. It was (is) an ego boost to know that someone |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:30 PM Response to Original message |
11. No. Flirting is innocent. |
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flamingyouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
12. If you feel like you're cheating on your wife |
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zone (376 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
13. Funny |
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zone (376 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 10:43 PM Response to Reply #13 |
31. Actually, I Googled her |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:09 AM Response to Reply #31 |
71. Is there a Biblical sense to Googling? |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
14. Doesn't matter what WE think. If it makes YOU uncomfortable, |
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mac56 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
15. If you can't tell your wife about it, it's probably not okay. |
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justabob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
16. Does your wife know you are talking to your ex? |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:50 PM Response to Reply #16 |
21. She does know that we have been e-mailing. My wife also |
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justabob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:57 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. I think you are fine then |
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zone (376 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:00 PM Response to Reply #21 |
35. Then don't |
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boston bean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:42 PM Response to Original message |
17. Flirting with another woman and having those feelings is being |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:45 PM Response to Original message |
19. Just don't do it. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:54 PM Response to Original message |
22. Sounds like playing with fire to me. |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:55 PM Response to Original message |
23. Thank you everyone!! Lots of great advice and suggestions |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:07 PM Response to Reply #23 |
41. dont tell her if you dont take this any further |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:34 PM Response to Reply #41 |
50. Excellent advice, LP. I hope he listens to you. |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:49 PM Response to Reply #50 |
58. Believe me -- I am taking that advice!!! n/t |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 09:56 PM Response to Original message |
24. No offense, but I think you should run away. |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 10:23 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. Wow. |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 10:33 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Oh sure...throw common sense and reason in my face, why dontcha? |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 10:58 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. He he... |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:20 PM Response to Reply #24 |
91. You're probably thinking of Nancy Kalish |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
26. I always flirt in public. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
28. flirting: attention without intention |
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Dash_Pennystone (14 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
30. YEP |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 10:59 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. WHY IS IT.... |
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Thtwudbeme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:00 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. That happens to me when the cat walks on the keyboard |
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Dash_Pennystone (14 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:13 PM Response to Reply #33 |
43. WHY DID BARRY WHITE SING DISCO? |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:40 PM Response to Reply #43 |
54. WELL WHO YOU ARE IS NOT ALWAYS ALL ITS CRACKED UP TO BE |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 09:17 AM Response to Reply #54 |
82. Yep. He's pizza now. |
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no name no slogan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 10:38 AM Response to Reply #43 |
89. That was Samuel L. Jackson as... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
37. if your wife did this, would it upset you? |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
38. depends what comes next |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:05 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. That is where it is headed, I'm sure. It will become a "periodic" |
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zone (376 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:08 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. smiles |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
40. here's what i think |
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friesianrider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:23 PM Response to Original message |
44. If you wouldn't do it with your wife right there watching/listening... |
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Thtwudbeme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:25 PM Response to Original message |
45. Well, here's a question....does her HUSBAND know? |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:31 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. He knows we have been chatting...yes. Does he know that we've |
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Thtwudbeme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:35 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. Then, dearie, there is your answer. Cut it out. |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:52 PM Response to Reply #51 |
60. Nope -- grass isn't greener. I have such an amazing wife...she |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
49. Thanks to all who took the time to post -- I appreciate it. |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:39 PM Response to Reply #49 |
53. I did not read through all the posts, but applaud your decision |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
52. Fuck her and get it over with. |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:40 PM Response to Reply #52 |
55. Is that YOUR policy? |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:42 PM Response to Reply #55 |
56. My policy is not the issue here. |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:43 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. I think it is |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:51 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. Is that the Carmen Miranda smiley? |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:52 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. No, primate1 |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:55 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. Whoever it is, |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:57 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. Tell 'her' |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:04 AM Response to Reply #65 |
68. Oh, that guy. |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:05 AM Response to Reply #68 |
70. Naw |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:10 AM Response to Reply #70 |
72. In that case, I'll see you some time around the year 2525. |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:18 AM Response to Reply #72 |
74. I could probably work you up the list if I start reading in the mirror |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:05 AM Response to Reply #65 |
69. Hahaha... |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:12 AM Response to Reply #69 |
73. How I long for my own epicene days. |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:23 AM Response to Reply #73 |
75. Shit, does that mean I don't get out alive? |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:30 AM Response to Reply #75 |
76. I don't know about you, |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 09:59 AM Response to Reply #76 |
87. lessee |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:28 PM Response to Reply #87 |
92. No, sorry. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:55 PM Response to Original message |
63. The question isn't whether I would be offended |
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peekaloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:55 PM Response to Original message |
64. driver8...take a break ........ |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-31-06 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
66. If you can't talk to your wife about what is ihappening, and if |
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likesmountains 52 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:02 AM Response to Original message |
67. close to home.. |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 01:56 AM Response to Original message |
77. You feel bad. You feel like you are cheating, so stop doing it.... unless |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
79. Where is your heart? |
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mikeytherat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 09:07 AM Response to Original message |
80. I defer to the wisdom of Paul Simon on this one (from "Kodachrome"): |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 09:09 AM Response to Original message |
81. If you were my husband I would be deeply hurt |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 09:28 AM Response to Original message |
83. Am I the only one? |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 09:49 AM Response to Reply #83 |
85. It sounds as though he hadn't seen the old GF in a while.... |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 10:12 AM Response to Reply #85 |
88. blushing, unless my sarcasm meter isn't working :) |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
84. You already know the answer. |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-01-06 12:15 PM Response to Original message |
90. A warning from one who knows |
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