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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:06 AM Original message |
The myth of some "nice guys" |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:11 AM Response to Original message |
1. You mean like a nice guy who doesn't see you? |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:18 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. My experiences consistently sour my hope for finding genuine |
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Cruzan (806 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:36 AM Response to Reply #4 |
34. Well, let's think a little about what it is you're looking for |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 11:00 AM Response to Reply #34 |
50. Excellent Post nt |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 12:23 PM Response to Reply #34 |
55. SPOT ON!!! |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 12:39 PM Response to Reply #55 |
56. She was truly grieved over a man she thought was a friend... |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 12:52 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. bullshit... |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 01:03 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. Okay, B-S- is the word of the day... |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 01:28 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. you aren't privy to any of the actual details... |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 01:33 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. Was it YOU? I just read her posting about being upset... |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 01:42 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. and you KNOW that this particular man was turned down "gracefully", how? |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 01:33 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. Delete Dup |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:44 AM Response to Reply #55 |
85. As I only post things in pursuit of constructive dialect |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:41 AM Response to Reply #34 |
84. The point is not that I'm looking for straight male friends... |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:48 AM Response to Reply #84 |
86. It sounds like |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:17 AM Response to Reply #86 |
93. So you think it's normal for a guy not to be able to psychologically |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:30 AM Response to Reply #93 |
95. Some people |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:33 AM Response to Reply #95 |
98. The "creation of walls" of which you speak forms the core of Ladder Theory |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:41 AM Response to Reply #98 |
99. This is hilarious |
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anarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 12:21 PM Response to Reply #98 |
163. haha |
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Cruzan (806 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 03:53 AM Response to Reply #84 |
100. Well then you're changing the meaning of what |
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gordontron (701 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:31 AM Response to Reply #34 |
97. nicely done |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 03:49 PM Response to Reply #34 |
181. What the hell is "leading them on," Cruzan?????" |
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Random_Australian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:48 AM Response to Reply #4 |
36. Well, something you are doing is telling them you are interested is the |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:49 AM Response to Reply #36 |
87. I'm examining my part in this and similar past scenarios |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:19 PM Response to Reply #4 |
65. that seems like an odd thing to hope for |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:54 AM Response to Reply #65 |
88. "No guy, no matter how nice he is, unless he is getting regular sex... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:59 AM Response to Reply #88 |
89. Believe it already! |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:04 AM Response to Reply #89 |
91. Of course friendship and sex can coexist |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:13 AM Response to Reply #91 |
92. They don't coexist they are one entity. |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 05:41 PM Response to Reply #91 |
131. Trust me... |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 05:15 PM Response to Reply #88 |
129. who is the cynic here? |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:51 AM Response to Reply #129 |
160. Life ain't sweet at all right now |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 02:46 PM Response to Reply #160 |
167. that does not sound very nice or appropriate |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 08:05 AM Response to Reply #167 |
168. Kudos on the not helping with the lawnmower |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 10:31 PM Response to Reply #4 |
77. Guys are wired to want sex.....It is the mature one's... |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:31 AM Response to Reply #77 |
80. lol |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:31 AM Response to Reply #77 |
81. dupe |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:01 AM Response to Reply #77 |
90. Exactly... |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 05:28 PM Response to Reply #4 |
130. All I can say is.. |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:52 AM Response to Reply #130 |
142. "Rest of us are not capable of it"... |
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RagingInMiami (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 09:22 PM Response to Reply #4 |
187. Post a photo of yourself |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:14 AM Response to Original message |
2. Deleted message |
Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:23 AM Response to Reply #2 |
7. It certainly can go both ways |
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IChing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:02 AM Response to Reply #7 |
23. Was Bill Clinton, mister nice guy, treating Hillary wrong again? |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:19 AM Response to Reply #23 |
28. Uh, I like Bill and Hillary's politics and don't get your segue... |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:17 AM Response to Original message |
3. Then he wasn't _really_ a nice guy, was he? |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:26 AM Response to Reply #3 |
9. Thanks. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:29 AM Response to Reply #9 |
10. I don't think that wanting a sexual relationship makes a person, |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:35 AM Response to Reply #10 |
13. No, not bad at all |
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regnaD kciN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 04:33 AM Response to Reply #13 |
101. Well, here's a idea... |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 09:35 AM Response to Reply #10 |
42. I think it's more of the ulterior motive thing |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 11:18 AM Response to Reply #42 |
52. And females in platonic relationships don't have ulterior motives? |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 07:16 AM Response to Reply #52 |
104. That itsn't what I said, or inferred |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:16 AM Response to Reply #52 |
150. i have done every single one of those things for my platonic male best |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:42 AM Response to Reply #52 |
157. They're Possible If One or Both Have "Issues" |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 12:08 PM Response to Reply #42 |
54. I don't disagree with you, Millie. |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:28 AM Response to Reply #42 |
94. Exactly, exactly, exactly! |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:19 AM Response to Original message |
5. Way less common my arse |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:22 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. ... |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:29 AM Response to Reply #5 |
11. What "everything" blame? |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:05 AM Response to Reply #11 |
25. Please ignore me - I'm just an idiot who went off half-cocked |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:22 AM Response to Reply #25 |
30. No, a real idiot would never admit as much |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 04:21 AM Response to Reply #5 |
38. ... |
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edwin (263 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:23 AM Response to Original message |
8. Feel sorry for you |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:44 AM Response to Reply #8 |
17. Absolutely, there are the genuine ones out there |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:19 AM Response to Reply #17 |
152. And I say "able" in a theoretical way |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:32 AM Response to Original message |
12. AS former nice guy - let me say - give nice guys a chance |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:41 AM Response to Reply #12 |
15. I hear 'ya, but... |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:01 AM Response to Reply #15 |
22. Yeah. We're all responsible for our own behavior and no one "creates" |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 09:18 AM Response to Reply #22 |
40. Do assholes really choose to be assholes, could it not be predestined? |
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ridgerunner (368 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 11:10 AM Response to Reply #40 |
51. ever listen to the I-95 song? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:36 AM Response to Reply #22 |
135. Love this post! |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:52 AM Response to Reply #12 |
19. I'm not sure whether I am agreeing or disagreeing with you HEyHEY |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:10 AM Response to Reply #19 |
26. Show me a woman still living with an insensitive man |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:31 AM Response to Reply #26 |
33. Ok you are on the sensitive side. For the life of me I don't know .... |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:29 AM Response to Reply #33 |
78. Sorry, I'm having trouble keeping up with all the pronouns |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 09:48 AM Response to Reply #19 |
44. I have lousy asshole radar |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:31 AM Response to Reply #44 |
79. I was 25 before I got into nice guys |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:37 AM Response to Reply #79 |
136. I've always been into nice guys |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:39 AM Response to Reply #79 |
138. YES! There's a LOT who do a good job of pretending to be nice. |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 01:22 PM Response to Reply #19 |
59. My experience is |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:38 AM Response to Reply #19 |
137. I am! |
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Spaceman Spiff (176 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:38 AM Response to Original message |
14. I used to be a "nice guy" |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:42 AM Response to Reply #14 |
16. Don't sound like the women you should be wanting to date... |
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Spaceman Spiff (176 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:47 AM Response to Reply #16 |
18. Yes, I absolutely see your point |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:54 AM Response to Reply #18 |
21. Sorry to hear you're a "former" |
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Spaceman Spiff (176 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 12:02 PM Response to Reply #21 |
53. Actually |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:32 AM Response to Reply #53 |
82. Whew! |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:52 AM Response to Original message |
20. Any man who would label you an "ungrateful bitch" isn't a "nice guy." |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:02 AM Response to Reply #20 |
24. Thanks for getting my point |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:13 AM Response to Reply #24 |
27. It makes sense, and if he meets your criteria for a "nice guy" and can |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:21 AM Response to Original message |
29. Deleted message |
BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:30 AM Response to Reply #29 |
32. Charming. |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:55 AM Response to Reply #32 |
37. I know you're being sarcastic, but it is! |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:23 PM Response to Reply #37 |
70. We all have baggage. |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 04:59 AM Response to Reply #37 |
103. So just lower your your standards?!? |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 04:52 AM Response to Reply #32 |
102. I have always wondered the same thing |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:25 AM Response to Original message |
31. Speaking as one who's tried to be a Nice Guy all his life |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 09:32 AM Response to Reply #31 |
41. Guess what? |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 09:44 AM Response to Reply #31 |
43. Will you marry me? |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 09:53 AM Response to Reply #31 |
45. AMEN! You have learned the secret! |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 09:54 AM Response to Reply #31 |
46. Thanks, O.Rex. You express “trying” to be a Nice Guy very well. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 09:58 AM Response to Reply #46 |
47. I know what you mean about the visuals |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 10:06 AM Response to Reply #47 |
48. Could you relate to this guy?? |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 10:23 PM Response to Reply #48 |
76. Uh....pass! |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 10:11 AM Response to Reply #31 |
49. good point! |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:09 PM Response to Reply #31 |
67. You need to write an advice column for men. |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:24 PM Response to Reply #67 |
71. Good on ya |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:43 PM Response to Reply #71 |
74. I know. |
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StellaBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:16 PM Response to Reply #31 |
69. Yep. That's the secret. |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 02:10 PM Response to Reply #31 |
122. If I could nominate a post for 'greatest,' this would take it |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:42 AM Response to Reply #31 |
139. Please WRITE A FUCKING BOOK! |
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Random_Australian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:45 AM Response to Original message |
35. Awwww! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 09:15 AM Response to Original message |
39. This is boring without the juicy details of what happened and why you're.. |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:33 AM Response to Reply #39 |
83. Fat chance |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
64. . |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:31 AM Response to Reply #64 |
96. What's so effing funny!?!? |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 08:34 AM Response to Reply #96 |
105. I don't think I could really post it. |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:28 PM Response to Reply #105 |
109. The dialogue here has been pretty fascinating |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:00 PM Response to Reply #109 |
116. I guess I'll just say it. |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:59 AM Response to Reply #116 |
144. Damn... |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:56 AM Response to Reply #144 |
161. Not really. |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 08:10 AM Response to Reply #109 |
133. So like, what do you think? n/t |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:45 AM Response to Reply #133 |
140. Dunno about Tallison... |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:00 AM Response to Reply #133 |
145. See above under "Damn..." |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
66. Nice isn't always nice |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:42 PM Response to Reply #66 |
113. "People pleasing is the subtlest form of manipulation" |
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StellaBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:15 PM Response to Original message |
68. 26, one cat, lots of male friends, 50/50 straight/gay |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:30 PM Response to Original message |
72. All pretend sensitive guys must die. No I'm not faux sympathizing in order |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 08:38 AM Response to Reply #72 |
106. Deleted message |
Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:39 PM Response to Reply #106 |
112. Sounds like you've had some bad experiences, yourself |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:52 PM Response to Reply #112 |
115. not really... |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:59 PM Response to Reply #115 |
119. The term "cock-teasing bitches" belies |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 02:23 PM Response to Reply #119 |
179. i calls'em like i sees 'em....it doesn't mean i've been taken in- |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
73. Hmm... |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:46 PM Response to Reply #73 |
114. Thanks |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 03:18 PM Response to Reply #114 |
126. I've been in places like that. |
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Mikimouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
75. Practicing celibacy can be a real enlightening experience... |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:32 PM Response to Reply #75 |
110. Spectre of expectation... |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 08:47 AM Response to Original message |
107. Men are scum. |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 12:35 PM Response to Reply #107 |
111. Come on now... |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
108. as least one consolation is |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:17 PM Response to Original message |
117. I have lots of platonic friends... |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 07:46 PM Response to Reply #117 |
183. I have zero confidence in my ability to read people. |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 01:29 PM Response to Original message |
118. quit whining. go find some abusive neanderthal bad boy |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 02:04 PM Response to Reply #118 |
120. Shhhh!!! Don't tell!!!! You'll ruin it for all of us ladies!!! |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 02:07 PM Response to Reply #118 |
121. Somebody call for me? |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 02:36 PM Response to Reply #121 |
124. Fucking hell |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 02:16 PM Response to Reply #118 |
123. She should check Yahoo Personals, there is a Cro-Magnon... |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 02:46 PM Response to Reply #118 |
125. Sarcastic |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
127. Well, for me, personally, I believe in the 'myth'. |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:03 AM Response to Reply #127 |
146. Keep it up |
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mikeytherat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:12 AM Response to Reply #127 |
147. Well, Midlo, I'm one of the "nice guys" and I've been that way forever |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 02:05 PM Response to Reply #147 |
176. Time out here. |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
128. Sorry for you if you feel that way. Some people are really kind. All sorts |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-11-06 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
132. A final thought.. |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:12 AM Response to Reply #132 |
134. I like it! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:49 AM Response to Reply #132 |
141. What does that mean? |
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mikeytherat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:19 AM Response to Reply #141 |
153. I assume a "Nerdy Call" is the equivalent of a "Handyman Call." |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:22 AM Response to Reply #153 |
154. In Winchester, VA, there's "Rent a husband" handyman service |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:38 AM Response to Reply #153 |
156. Ah... |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:48 AM Response to Reply #141 |
159. In the context.. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 12:00 PM Response to Reply #159 |
162. Yeah, but I'm kinda slow sometimes... |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 12:23 PM Response to Reply #162 |
164. Naw... |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 09:11 PM Response to Reply #164 |
186. A platonic friendship is a "waste"? |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:25 AM Response to Reply #132 |
155. Having been on the receiving end of some booty calls... |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:58 AM Response to Original message |
143. try turning down a female friend. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:12 AM Response to Reply #143 |
148. Do tell! |
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Tallison (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:15 AM Response to Reply #148 |
149. Move over |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:17 AM Response to Reply #149 |
151. Plenty of room on the couch |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 12:28 PM Response to Reply #151 |
166. ahhh, you two are bad. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
158. If You Want a Platonic Relationship With a Man |
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Indy_Dem_Defender (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
165. Since I'm supposedly one of those "Nice Guys" |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 02:10 PM Response to Reply #165 |
177. Sounds more like you're not picking up the right signals. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 12:20 PM Response to Original message |
169. So is everyone done here? |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 12:22 PM Response to Reply #169 |
170. Nice guys ~ |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
171. I haven't read most of the responses to this, but... |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 02:12 PM Response to Reply #171 |
178. A-fucking-men to that |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
172. Stay away from "nice guys" |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
173. Counterpoint: |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 01:27 PM Response to Reply #173 |
174. Gal A |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
175. Perhaps you're just inexperienced in determine who nice guys are. |
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Crotalus (1 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 02:34 PM Response to Original message |
180. A few points to add |
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martymar64 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
182. Two cents from another "nice guy" |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 09:03 PM Response to Reply #182 |
185. If you're really as wonderful as you say... |
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Easy (52 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 08:21 PM Response to Original message |
184. There's another kind of nice guys |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-14-06 09:43 PM Response to Original message |
188. How about this angle |
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