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Onlooker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 02:52 PM
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Poll question: How many good friends do you have?
Let's say a good friend is one you'd invite to an event that's important to you, e.g., marriage, graduation, a holiday party, etc.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 06:40 PM
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1. If they're local, I have
0. If you mean anybody in the US I've been close friends with and who would invite... 1.



:Kick:

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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 06:42 PM
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2. 3-5...
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Placebo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 06:46 PM
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3. 3
We always joke that we're very much like SEINFELD. It's three guys and one girl (she jokes that she's a "man's woman" just like Elaine) and none of us can or wants to handle any more friends, hah.
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Neoma Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 06:47 PM
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4. Zero!
I don't get out much.
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 06:53 PM
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9. Oh...I'm sorry to hear that...
everyone should have a friend or two. :pals:
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Neoma Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 06:57 PM
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10. Meh.
I'm anti-social in my own ways.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 07:03 PM
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14. Non-social.
Anti-social implies violence. There's a considerable difference.
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Neoma Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 07:08 PM
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15. Never knew that.
Huh.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 07:02 PM
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12. Even I have a friend!!
And trust me, that's damn hard to come by.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 06:48 PM
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5. good friends, like people you know you can always count on...?
I picked 6-10, but it's probably more like 12. I am incredibly lucky in that regard.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 06:49 PM
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6. People I'd want to invite is a big number
People I'd really hate to have miss something important: 3

People I'd reschedule for to be sure they could make it: 1
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 06:59 PM
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11. So exclusive.
Can I call you LeftyMomBrAngelina?
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 07:03 PM
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13. Shut up.
:P
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 07:17 PM
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18. Ahem
Tom Cruise is on line 1. He wants to know if he and the tribe can come out for margaritas and discussion?
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 07:20 PM
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20. uh oh
/me erects Prozac Forcefield
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 06:50 PM
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7. How many DUers are there? Half that number. The other half,
I haven't met yet.

Redstone
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 06:53 PM
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8. 3-5 of whom I really feel I have confidence in
and can confide in, be myself, and know we have that type of reciprocal relationship.
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Fox Mulder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 07:11 PM
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16. Many casual acquaintances, but only one close friend.
Edited on Sun Jun-25-06 07:12 PM by Fox Mulder
My twin brother.

Sad, eh?
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Nicole Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 07:12 PM
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17. 6-10 good friends n/t
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-25-06 07:20 PM
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19. A lot more than I thought, apparently.
So far 15 of my neighbors have brought us dinner and or breakfast with more to come. Amazing folks, these people.
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clyrc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-26-06 01:43 AM
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21. Three
and two of them are relatives far away across the ocean.
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-26-06 02:05 AM
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22. 8 or 9 I consider very close....20ish I'd invite to a holiday party.....
Only one is a truly intimate friend.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-26-06 02:09 AM
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23. I have many friends....
Many.....

Only a couple of really intimate friends though....people that I can say anything to....and they hear and respect me...

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RoyGBiv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-26-06 04:12 AM
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24. Definition ...
A friend will help you hide.

A real friend will help you hide bodies.

I have one, and that's really all I need.

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fujiyama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-26-06 05:03 AM
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25. For me
I'd say I have three really close friends - two are local and I see them regularly. We hang out, talk , drink, and enjoy each others' company. The other has been a best friend for some 15 years but lives across the country. It's amazing to think you'll keep in touch with people that long. But ultimately, when I had problems, he's the one I talked to...My guess is, I'll keep in touch with some of these people until I die...

I think everyone needs atleast one person to confide in at times - whether it be a relative, friend, companian, etc.

As for those I would invite for a party, it'd be quite a bit larger. I have an extended network of friends and that numbers quite a bit larger. Some of them are close, and I'd definetely invite them to a function but I don't have regular contact with them.

The funny thing is, in my case, my three sets of friends don't interact with each other...But they each share very different interests - one group is more intellectual, one is a mix, and the other is less informed and interested in discussing things like politics - which is good because sometimes I need a break.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-26-06 05:19 AM
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26. good friends 6-10
best friends 3-5
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