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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:05 PM
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I'm leaving soon to see my Mom.
I love her dearly, most of the time. But I love her best from 500 miles away. Please wish me luck and patience...

Have a happy long weekend everyone. Enjoy your Independence Day (while it still has any meaning left).
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:07 PM
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1. I hope it goes well!
:hug: Hubby has a mother that's best from 500 miles away, but she's only 15 miles away. :scared: Good luck and patience! Maybe it'll turn out to be a lot of fun! :hi:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:14 PM
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4. Oh, I hope so.
:hug:

She invited my sister-in-law to come over with my neice. I don't particularly like my sister-in-law, and anything you say to her gets repeated and "interpreted" to everyone else in the family within a few hours. She's not someone I want to spend any time with.

My neice is 3 years old and has no idea who I am. She freaks out around strangers, so I'm not sure why they want me to spend the day with her.

I'm already grinding my teeth anticipating this weekend. Family... :eyes:
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swag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:10 PM
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2. Best to you.
Check in on the flipside.
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:36 PM
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11. 5 days is only going to feel like a month.
:)
See you when I get back.
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kiraboo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:13 PM
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3. Good luck ThomCat, and may your patience hold out
for the duration of the visit. It can be a trial making these visits even though we love Mom & Dad, no? I have a friend who made a trip to see the family last week... he's returning a day early! It's just too much.
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:23 PM
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5. Dad, thankfully, isn't in the picture.
He disowned me 18 years ago, and he's no longer married to my Mom, so he's not a problem.
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kiraboo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:30 PM
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8. It does sound like the absence of Dad might be a good thing.
Sorry to hear it. Some people don't understand what living is for.
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 08:53 PM
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18. Ouch. Well, thank God for silver linings.
:-(

Good luck.
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:26 PM
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6. ThomCat
Edited on Thu Jun-29-06 03:27 PM by malta blue
I know exactly how you feel. My mom is currently visiting me from her home in the Dominican Republic, and things can get trying at times.

Good luck!
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:37 PM
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12. Good luck to you too!
:hi:
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:27 PM
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7. I miss my Mom. I should call her more often.
:(
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:30 PM
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9. If you get along with your mom,
then yes, you should. :)
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 04:31 PM
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14. I just did.
I told her that I called because I read a DU thread. She said "What's DU? One of those chat rooms?" :D
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 04:35 PM
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15. I guess you don't talk to her about politics?
:)
I hope the call went well and she appreciated hearing from you.
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tjwmason Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:32 PM
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10. Have a great time.
I dearly love my mother until I spend time with her - so I think I know what you mean about luck and patience.
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 03:39 PM
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13. Thank you.
:hug:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 04:49 PM
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16. Have fun!
:hi:
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July Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 07:18 PM
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17. I think I know what you're dealing with . . . going to see my mom, too.
You love 'em, you wish you could have more fun when you're with 'em.

Let us know how it goes.
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swimboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 08:55 PM
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19. Hey, BigCat!
I'll be thinking about you daily until you return. That's quite a challenge you've taken on. I hope all goes well. Your niece ought to fall in love with you, I think.

:hug:
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-29-06 09:16 PM
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20. Ohhh, I empathize with the Mom thing.
I hope you have a great trip, nonetheless! See ya' on the flip side!
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