Life sucks...

[dorktv]

So my best friend was just telling me that he apparently blew it with another woman and that he does not want to move on because he just does not want to be alone.

Now he has made ME depressed since I am also alone and would not mind having someone to date.

argh!

[Shine]

1. Shake off the negativity, buddy, and think about all you have to be

GRATEFUL for. That always helps me get out of my funky moods. Seriously, we take soooo much for granted in our lives, it's worth remembering how much we are blessed with.

Love will come to you, have no doubt. In the meantime, be happy with and LOVE YOURSELF, first. :hug:

[dorktv]

4. nah, I just need to stop spending 90% of time outside of work at home.

[rockymountaindem]

2. Why don't you date him?

This might sound like a stupid question, but I have no idea how to handle these things either.

[dorktv]

3. You know...

everyone on the planet thinks we should be. We do have similar tastes in everything, he compliments my negatives with his positives and visa versa, and we both are kind of outcasts. Yet he refuses to even consider it and frankly after all of the nonsense he pulls, not sure if I want to date him again.

We dated for a few months three years ago and since then we have both dated other people but I am still the one woman constantly in his life outside of family, and that he tells literally everything to. I wonder if that may be his problem...sometimes other women do not like a rival like me.